₦airaland Forum

Before Carissa Sharon became popular, during her parents divorce mess, She always lived in the United kingdom with her Mother. A larger number of her friends and family live in the UK.

So what if a special wedding reception was held in the UK after the Christ Embassy wedding in Lagos.

Pastor Anita has proved time and time again that she's not interested in our paparazzi and keeping up with the appearances. And all the toxic energy and hate she walked away from.

Those who know, know the LABOURS of that woman in BLW. But if she counted the cost and still walked away, the least any reasonable person can do is keep quiet.

Maestro21:
Thank you. The difference between 1991 and 1992 brings a paradigm shift to your narrative.

I did however concede she was not in the wedding as new evidence filtered through (my posts right after evince that). Grateful to God that I laid my claims on posts here and not that I saw anything first hand.

I am happy that the word of God has documented teachings of Paul on certain issues including marriage so that newage beliefs, hearsay and bitterness will not supplant it.

Lol �

Okay

I don't know o.
it seems there are things best left unsaid.

Maestro21:
You are supporting divorce papers here not the word. She did not make any argument that wives of genuine MOG have not made before. She was married since 1992 and nothing changed (at least going by what people who have been there since then said). As for open marriages etc that one is another sweet speculation to spice up your narrative. In marriages where both members are Pastors..they usually had different assignments and it is still the same. God's word does not change to accommodate time.

In all of these, we are still commenting on speculations. There are at least 2 CEC members on this thread who said she was there with her second daughter. But since this story suits clickbaits..this one will subsist.

Not everyone here is ignorant.
Rev Chris and Anita got married in 1991.

Pastor Anita was clearly not in this wedding.

Charlene, the bride's sister however was there (her chief bridesmaid).

About the divorce papers or the events that surrounded the break up, let's just leave out petty matters.

All I'll say is, everyone is learning.

Scripture is clear on the roles of husbands to their wives & wives to their husbands.

Thank God the body of Christ has many examples of couples in the ministry who have modelled Christ's love for the church, and the church's submission to Christ.

If Pastor Anita wanted a pity party, then She knew what to do since 2015.

But She quietly walked away.

She knew the many efforts she had made, her reputation and image, yet she counted the cost & still WALKED AWAY.

People should respect that & leave her alone!

Her both daughters are still very close to her.
And spend a lot of time with her in London.

Pastor Anita was the 1st to announce this wedding on social media.
The couple already spent enough time with her months ago.

And they all knew she wasn't coming to Nigeria.

They perfectly understand why.

So you guys should chill biko.

Maestro21:
Because there is a difference between being a man of God and being a preacher.

Do you know Paul taught that Christians in marriage should act as they are not married? And then conceded that not everyone has the grace to live that way. To the world, they may say he is abandoning his wife, but to God he is fulfilling his mission to the tee. There are just somethings we are not qualified to know yet. I have followed this man's life for years. Pastor Anita never accused him of adultery. Stop swallowing poison from bloggers who are known to spew fake news. I thought the accusation she made agaisnt him that caused the divorce was that he lived like she was just a pastor not a wife and how she only got to know about his decisions through church protocol and not through deliberation like "most married people do". That is why he is laying emphasis on him only doing what God asked him to do.

When Benny Hinn had issues with his wife it was for the same reason. When they came back..Benny took ill and almost died. When he got himself back..he reverted to the word and told his wife that ministry and not family comes first to a MOG. Many don't understand this deep Christian truth.

I have said enough.

Every believer's first allegiance is to the word.

We do not justify evil or wickedness.

The details of her divorce papers are too sad for a Christian marriage. Let alone ministers of the gospel.

I bet you, if Pastor could go back in time. He would either

1) Marry a different woman(whom he'll truly love and cherish).

or

2) he'll rather treat Anita, his wife, differently.

Wise people can tell from body movements in the ministry. The marital crisis brought many couples in CE together. Since the separation, we've seen less separation of couple pastors to different locations.
More open celebration of marriages.

It's clear Pastor doesn't approve of those previous wrongs.

And neither should we justify it.

HigherEd:
It is sad that once again a Nigerian who ought to be a responsible mentor for Nigerian youths has towed the unfortunate path of Ignorance. In his recent music video, Fahlz called out Nigerian Churches for building universities with money of the poor yet made it unavailable for the poor due to "expensive" tuition.

This is one of the numerous emotional blackmail that churches in Nigeria are being subjected to. It is sad because one wonders if much of these accusers even realise what it takes to fund a mediocre university not to talk of a good one. In much of these debates and attacks against churches, most seem to abandon the facts rather they go feed on the lies and propaganda against the church which is an easy target because most churches rightly do not have PR teams or many individuals knowledgeable enough to defend them.

How Much Does It Cost To Run A Nigerian University
We would be using federal and state universities as a guide here due to the unavailability of data from mission universities.
In their underfunded states, the University of Ibadan's annual wage bill stands at 800 million naira/month translating to 10 billion naira/annum. Capital allocation to the university also stands at 1 billion naira/annum. While Tetfund's annual allocation stands at 2 billion naira per annum. Therefore all FG induced funding stands at 13 billion naira for a total number of 29,783 students which put total FG subsidy of UI at N437,000.00 per annum. This is excluding the IGR made by the university.
State universities on the other hand have a typical wage bill profile of about 5 billion a year. Example would be the likes of Lautech and EkSu with 390> million naira and 450 million naira as wage bill respectively.

If Governments are finding it hard to fund universities how would fahlz expect churches to do so exclusively?
Until recently Lautech was enmeshed in a serie of Industrial actions which was a result of the two owner state's inability to pay subvention for the university. Adekunle Ajasin on the other hand witnessed an internal crisis when state government had to hike the fees students where paying. All these are testament to the fact that university education is severely expensive to fund. So the intelligent questions that Fahlz should be asking is how state governments funded with Oil revenue, Compulsory Tax and a predictable income regime are finding it nearly impossible to properly fund single universities across their various states. Not why should churches who are funded by Voluntary donations and a nonconsistent income regime must fund free education.

There Are No Free Church Universities Anywhere In The World.
While most of the advocates of free church university education are quick to cite old missionaries as the reason why today's church must give free education it is curious as to why they refuse to cite free church universities in adavanced nations of the world today which currently practices free education. They cunningly make it sound as though tuition fees was invented by Nigerian pastors. But it is indeed far from the truth. The fact is that majority of the conventional churches across the globe funded or founded by churches charge way higher than their counterparts in Nigerian universities. Exceptions would be made of university cum seminaries which are usually also funded by churches.

"Church Universities Are Funded By The Poor" - A lie invented by Mischievous individuals
Half truths are equal to lies, to say that church universities are funded by the poor is to insinuate that they are exclusively funded by them. But that would be a lie because the obvious truth is that they are equally funded by the rich and middle class who in some cases don't even bother applying. Much of these self appointed advocates of the poor are in the reality hypocrites using poor people as a pawn in a dirty war game against the church.
University education is expensive everywhere and where it is free someone must be paying for it. Many of the hyocritic advocates of the poor make it seem as though poor people sell off their inheritances to gift to churches so as to build schools "that are for the rich". But in reality what most church members give to churches or university donations are negligible funds such as 50 - 500 naira. How many 50/100 naira notes are you going to pull together to replace one 800,000 required to educate one kid?


Nigerian Churches Should Continue Their Good works In The Higher Education Sector And Ignore Detractors.
The fact of the matter is that Nigerian churches provided over 30 universities which has given thousands of Nigerian youths the opportunity to study in a country with one of the lowest university per populations in the world. They've done that and have equally saved Nigeria millions in foreign exchange which erstwhile was lost to education tourism. They've funded researches in millions, owned research institutes which helped in curbing infectious disease and now even one now has a startup laboratory.


https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=228551741245276&id=226796954754088

Thank you so much @HigherEd

The mental laziness in the country is much. People are not thinking. And this narrative of church universities bla bla bla is simply a product of mischief & frustration.

This Shiit is real.
And thesw people need all the understanding and help they can get.

There are young men who have been attracted to ONLY boys from childhood.

Some even hate the feeling ?
others have embraced it.
Many have tried fighting and are still fighting this "inordinate affection".
Whichever way, there is no denying what one feels deep inside.

Even Jesus was asked the questions many ask Adeboye. Why do you dine with sinners ?!
The politicians are ALWAYS the ones attending his meetings & he has never chased them.

Why does he not tell them the truth ?
He has severally done this behind the screens. Pastor Adeboye is highly revered as a man of God. However he cannot force these men to do right. But he sure does speak up.

The real problem is see with the masses is their constant craving to be "impressed".
Human pride is very disgusting.
No man called of God was called to impress you.

Adeboye is clearly on a mission for souls & world evangelization.
Not philantropy or politics or poverty alleviation or whatever may impress you.
You dont like it ? MIND YOUR BUSINESS .
Cos they wont stop because of you.
The ecclesia (the church of Jesus Christ) is NOT the government of the people by the people.
You dont agree, get out!
Lucifer has rooms for more rebels.

People often wonder at the commitment of millions of people to anointed ministers. They say we are gullible, deluded......
We who are insiders know whats up.
We know the many sacrifices of these men.
What is beyond you is beyond you!

A Man of God is not your mate. He may be flesh & blood like you. But he ministers for God. Honour God & just mind your business.
Let them serve God the best they can.
You too live your life.

They were not anointed to impress you.

KINGROLAND1:
Adeboye The Offering And Tithe Eater.
He Can Not Cure A Simple Malaria. He Can Not Speak For Dying Poor Christains.
He Loves To Be Called Daddy G.O Or Daddy Worldwide.
I Can Bet You That GOD ALMIGHTY Do Not Know This Man.
I Just Pity For People Who Worships This Man.

Oga just listen to yourself....
Can people be this blinded & daft ?
What do you know about the man of God apart from petty social media gossip.

People amaze me.

claremont:
The Pastor erred fantastically on this occasion. He is lucky he lives in Nigeria, he wouldn't make that kind of comment in any western country. Did I read somewhere that he was an academic prior to being a Pastor?! It's a shame really.

He erred how?
Someone had a meeting with young ministers in his church. Not just members. Ministers!
And shared his ideas with them.

Few years later, media digs up his message with the crafty ploy to get you all talking.
Fools fall hook, line & sinker. Sharing their daft opinions.

Cant you see how stupid you are ?

When your family & friends tried to stop you from going to london, you refused. In obedience to your man of God you went to launch the international office & oversee Europe as instructed.

Ministry flourished.

Soon enough certain anointed female pastors stepped into your home in Lagos as staff members.
Other domestic affairs they handled in your absence.

Seeing your husband about 4 times a year became the norm.
(Sometimes on stage).
Ministry off the stage became torture for you as you really were a single mother living in Docklands, Uk.
Everyone you cried out to made it clear to you that this is the cross you must bear for the "gospel sake".

Many think you were TOO quiet & taken for granted.

You alone know what you saw in the white house, December 2013, after the moGs birthday celebration, that left you heart broken with no choice but to finally demand for your honour & place as a wife.
If not, divorce.

If the moG felt humiliating you was the best action, who am i to blame you?

You indeed had enough for 16years!

God who loves you & knows all you have gone through emotionally will fill the rest of your days with joy & peace in Jesus name.

When your family & friends tried to stop you from going to london, you refused. In obedience to your man of God you went to launch the international office & oversee Europe as instructed.

Ministry flourished.

Soon enough certain anointed female pastors stepped into your home in Lagos as staff members.
Other domestic affairs they handled in your absence.
The likes of Yemisi Kudehinbu, were seen driving him around sometimes.

Seeing your husband about 4 times a year became the norm.
(Sometimes on stage).
Ministry off the stage became torture for you as you really were a single mother living in Docklands, Uk.
Everyone you cried out to made it clear to you that this is the cross you must bear for the "gospel sake".

Many think you were TOO quiet & taken for granted.

You alone know what you saw in the white house, December 2013, after the moGs birthday celebration, that left you broken with no choice but to demand for your honour & place as a wife.
If not, divorce.

If the moG felt humiliating you was the best action, who am i to blame you?

You indeed had enough 16years!

God who loves you & knows all you have gone through emotionally will fill the rest of your days with joy & peace in Jesus name.

SCHAFER is her maternal family name in Switzerland. And She is at liberty to fully identify with her family there.

muzari:
Adeboye can be bribed with anything, the difference between Adeboye and house of rep member is zero.
A greedy man doesn't care how little, he wants all no matter how small.

If only your opinion counted. It seems like after many like you have been scammed by "mushroom" churches & prayer houses, you take out you annoyance on ALL wealthy pastors. Talking trash about greed.
Pst Adeboye is not your mate!

How stupid can anyone be to suggest Adeboye is after your money.
A global pastor with several billionares as sons will need how much from Ekiti state?

Even if you dey vex, dont be foolish too nah!

jpphilips:
A goat want his opinion respected, News flash! I will only feed you grass, hope you are ready!!

Spend sometime listening to yourself & i hope you finally realize how stupid you really are.
The church is marching on. More wealth. More glory. More strides for the Kingdom.
And our leaders owe you no explanation at all.
Suck it up or rant all you want.
ADEBOYE'S JET was a joint project embarked upon by few billionaires in the ministry.
Thats what sons do for their father. They surprise them with gifts that advance their fathers vision.
There was absolutely no fundraising.
And to spend time explaining to you the ministry's transparence with church offerings may be a waste of time.
Do you know how much RCCG does for the poor?
Those who know know.
Satan must use pple. So like Jesus said to judas, i say to every accuser here "do what you must".
The story of the endtime will not be complete without those who vehemently attacked God's anointed because of lies, mistakes or misconceptions!

oloriooko:
And your info is acceptable abi? SMH
He should ask Benny Hinn how he successfully reconciled with his wife and do same!
Stop shielding his unacceptable actions

Lol.......
God bless Pastor Chris.
And God bless Anita Ebhodaghe!
As we observe the desperate manipulation of facts aimed at justifying "the anointed",
many unanswered questions abound.
It is well.
Yes, attacking "the anointed" however has never been scriptural.
But there are many unanswered questions!!!
My Advice : MOVE ON!
And refrain from talking about both PC & PA.
They have both moved on. In case you dont know.
The ministry is also growing.
Pray for PstAnita too. She gave up years of sacrifice wealth & glory. If we are not permitted to ask questions, at least take out time to pray for her. Thats if you hav any love in you.

davtosh:
And let it not surprise any one if you are named as one of the victims.

lolz...... nailed it!
the fool says in His heart there is no God!

wirinet:
Please show me where people were falling under anointing in the bible.

John 18 : 5 - 6
 They answered him, Jesus of Nazareth. Jesus saith unto them,I am he. And Judas also, which betrayed him, stood with them.

As soon then as he had said unto them, I am he, they went backward, and fell to the ground.

wirinet:
It is you that have no idea what christianity is. You people (pentecostals) impose your african traditional beliefs and practices into christianity. Falling down and rolling on the floor, barking like a dog, shouting in strange and intelligible voices were never part of christianity, these were spiritual practices of African and South American traditional religions.

Please show me any example of any of the above practices in the Bible. If anyone behaved the way you people do today in ancient palestine, they would be deemd mad and possessed by demons and be cast away from society.

The men were described as drunk men because people heard the desciples speaking and preaching in different languages early in the morning.



People could hear the desciples in their various languages, they were not shouting jibberish and barking like mad dogs.

Please tell me once again what is the benefits of shouting jibberish and barking like mad dogs.

Ok. You clearly dont agree with such manifestations. And there's notin wrong wit that.
We must not all believe and experience the same things.
Arrogance however is when a person cannot discern where to draw the line in expressing their opinions.
You might want to also note that all the "jibberish" you ascribed to Africa & South America is completely fallacious.
Such are being experienced in literally every continent on earth.
Ever heard of the AZUSA REVIVAL. Check it up!
There are matters that are beyond you. Be humble enough to move on.
No need to spite things you know little about.

wirinet:
Please can you explain to us how people falling down to the power of his glory help anybody? Will the falling down help the situations of those that are falling down? Those congregation that are falling down like dominos, will they from then forth all all their health, social, financial, and all other problems disappear?

And the person that asked this question will say he's a Christian!!!!!!!!!!!!
Nobody said falling under the power is the ultimate.
It is however a manifestation of the Spirit which may not occur all the time.
In acts 2, when the HolyGhost filled the disciples, they where described as "DRUNK MEN".
Its pretty annoying to see people bring their confusion to platforms like this with so much pride & arrogance.
If you dont agree with it, move on!
If your church does not see such supernatural effects of the HolyGhost, abeg move on!!!
Some matters are bigger than you, your confusion, your pride & your company of scoffers!

beautiful232:
the way some nairaland boys talk bout men of GOD ehh


their judgement still the do press up

Asin ehn. I've tried again and again to rationalize the way pple speak against preachers here. Even supposed revered ministers. I'm amazed.
No restrain what so ever!!!
Its a matter of time, and even the Lord Jesus & His words will be brought here scrutinized and possibly slandered too.
Freedom of expression has become a powerful tool in the hand of the deciever himself.
Be careful!

excel101:
You come to social media and conclude what you have no knowledge of. Do you know about the genesis of the divors?

nawao.....
How can something be so clear & pple still attack the truth ?
Is the word not clear enough for you? satan only takes advantage of doors that are open to him. and if we dont HUMBLE OURSELVES & make the NEEDED changes, then forget it!

there's no need to go over the details of the marriage again. they are just not pleasant & PC is a man of God!
Respect him but LEARN.
Honour him but to support evil is EVIL!

Page07:
The truth is when God calls a man the first thing he does is to back him up and bring people under him as we see in Matthew 28:20
But then the anointing upon a man of God depends on how much the man of God is able to operate the anointing, even if he sins God does not take away the anointing. This is because the anointing is not God for the man of God alone but God for the people.
Never talk against the anointing upon a man of God no matter what. You will end up activating spiritual entities to work against you.
The Anointing upon a man is very sensitive even more than the person carrying the anointing.
If men of God tell you what they face in ministry you be surprised.

Thank you!
Wisdom cant hide.
Without sentiments, any reasonable person will agree with you.

deborah777:
http://www.viva-naija.com/life-after-believers-bashing-pastor-anita-and-life-after-divorce-from-pastor-chris-oyakhilome/

Isn't this adorable?

donnie:
Look at you... Continue decieveing yourself. Were you there when God spoke to him? Did God also calll you and speak to you directly about this grace or calling? You want to rubbish the Man of God yet you talk about grace upon ministry. Will we be talking about that now if this man hadnt said YES to God? It is the grace that God gave Pastor Chris that myself and millions of others are partakers of so stop talking rubbish.

You are saying so because Satan sent you to come and make others tow your line of rebellion but you have been exposed.

Lolzzzz......
Relax bro.
I understand your greviances but they cant change the facts.
No matter hw much you guys wanto demonize Anita, it wont work.
That woman saw hell. And more and more lies are being peddled to justify the MoG's actions.
To make that clear on a platform like this is no assignment of satan at all!
She was first HIS daufhter befor pastor married her.
Stop that nonsense propaganda!
Wise pple are learning from all this anyway.
Continue.
The truth is bound to come out.

donnie:
You seem to enjoy the opportunity you have to mock yourself. I challenge you to bring up any of our teachings clearly for a discussion let me teach you bible. Not all this yeye talk.

Your inability to seperate the grace upon your ministry from the integrity of your moG is your undoing. Christ embassy is spreading everyday & nothing can stop it.
However we can see the UNSCRIPTURAL MANNER WITH WHICH HE DEALT WITH HIS WIFE FOR 16 YEARS.
How do it concern anybody?
It does. cos he is a model. pple look up to him.

donnie:
A close family member, living with Rev Chris or Rev Anita? And he/she installed ctv cameras in Pastor Chris' bedroom abi? Word from a bitter family member is what you are holding as absolute truth as though they are apostle Paul's words. IT ACTUALLY HAPPENED abi?
Ok, what happened to the 16 years or exile you've been singing about? Where did Pastor Chris see P. Anita to lock her in the bedroom? I now see why you were told to shut up.


And what's the big deal about that. Is it normal for a soldier to spend more time with his family than at the command or battle front? No wonder Dr Chris said Rev Anita kept the wrong friends, she needed to associate herself with people who will help her vision as the wife of a global pastor. Just imagine the market women gist you are celebrating. I know you are trying to garner sympathy from the world, but that is the world and you are not Dr. Chris' boss. You do not know his dealings with God.

And you speak about Pastor Yemisi's achievement as though it is a common feat. For your information, Rhapsody of Realities is the most translated book in the world (after the bible). Read in every nation and territory of the world in 672 languages (and still counting). An intelligent, annointed, seasonsed minister of God who has given all for the gospel is the one you deem fit to bring into this discussion? And you think the Lord Jesus and the angels that work with her will be smiling and congratulating you?

There are others like her whom Dr. Chris has raised and they are taking nations for Jesus. There is Pastor Deola Philips, a trained medical doctor who gave up her medical profession to serve the Lord in the ministry. She is the director of the world renowned healing school. There is none like it anywhere in the world. Ministers from almost every nation on earth visit and recieve impartation and fire for their ministries. She is also the director of the International School of ministry and the pastor of Lagos Zone5 one of the best performing zones in the ministry. This very annointed woman recently organized a crusade at the TBS that witnessed a very huge crowd and divers miracles in the open for all to see. There are several other giants of faith that the Man of God has raised. I just took time to mention a few of those who have been with him from the early days because someone may read your posts and begin to imagine one church down the road. No we are talking about a global movement. These are the people you want to go against? And you think the Lord will stand by and watch you?

And it doesnt matter whether you claim to be a member of the church, you are treading on dangerous path. I also hope you too have packed your bags and moved on from the church?

Rev. Anita left the Uk church and you all thought that was the end but were dissappointed. Now you come here to voice your frustrations. A young Pastor recently organized a crusade that filled the London Excel center with miracles everwhere. Wheelchairs, walking aids discarded.

So if you think that you are walking for God by suporting lies, then you are decieving yourself because He will resist you. God has given the internet to Dr. Chris and nothing you do or say here can destroy him.

Of course She was in Nigeria for the IPPC. The nature of their marriage was no secret. The number of times She had access to her husband in a year were limited to programmes. She did her best to change it, HE INSISTED IT MUST BE SO. A seed that has germinated now. Objective reasoning is what we lack in this country. Facts are facts. The ministry is moving foward. Yes!
But the marriage has failed!!!
It did nt just fail, he frustrated his wife out of the union.
THIS TREATMENT OF A WIFE HOWEVER IS NOT BIBLICAL IN ANYWAY AND SHOULD BE DISCOURAGED. ESP FOR INTENDING COUPLES IN THE MINISTRY.
So learn from it & move on!

donnie:
Fear God o. . . You have cooked up another one abi?

Why do you think the moG fought hard to stop this woman from speaking about their private lives
The information given to nigeriantimes was from an exclusive interview with a close family member.
IT WAS NT COOKED UP. IT ACTUALLY HAPPENED!
If you're in the ministry, you will know that it was exactly that period Rev Anita stopped pastoring CE Docklands.
Its more than speculation, Pastor Yemisi has lived & travelled with the moG probably longer than his own wife. And has done tremendiously well in the expansion of ROR & the ministry.
Love is a choice a man makes o.

Fear God You should tell us to fear man. or better still men of God.
No man of God has the exclusive right to abuse the marriage institution & scare pple with divine curses.
EGO WILL NOT ALLOW THE MOG MAKE PEACE. SO LET'S ALL PREPARE FOR DETAILS.
NO AMOUNT OF DENIAL CAN DENY THINGS THAT HAVE HAPPENED ALREADY!!!
Thats why there was emphasis in the early church on believers and ministers to be men of GOOD REPORT. Let persecution be for the gospel sake only.

eplanning:
Abeg shut up! So you know about the judgement seat of Christ? Mtcheew.

You too SHUT UP!!!
What arrogance!
All in a bid to defend the shameful manner our dear moG has handled his wife.
Abeg go sidan!
BLW is spreading and waxing stronger.
That does not change the fact that the moG has dealt wickedly & heartlessly wit his wife. IT IS CLEAR FOR ALL TO SEE!!!

However, the gifts & calling of God upon him are without repentance.

eplanning:
What I see here is just an active imagination. Did you not read that they are already done with the court? In fact that (the sharing of assets) is what delayed the matter. The Man of God declared a house in SA and about one hundred and twenty something thousand USD. Of course they were dissappointed since they expected more, hence their coming to NL to wail.

Has she not started writing? If she had any more aresenal left. She would have fired her biggest by now. Let her write more if she likes, it will only expose the kind of woman she is and further vindicate the MOG.

She might even loose the repect of her children who are still very much active in ministry at Christ Embassy due to their father's good influence and upbringing.

Lolzzzz......
You are very funny.
The children you are talkin about were raised by who ?
Who raised them?
Even till the end, She fulfilled her every duty.
THEY CAN NEVER LOOSE RESPECT FOR HER.
It may be wise for you to know that On this matter, there is no vindication. There are only lessons to be learnt.
Wise pple are learning. Fanatics like you are busy defending evil.
He "pushed" her away from himself to a place of frustration FOR 16 YEARS.
Do you know the emotional frustration involved, esp for a woman?
Why in the world did he marry her?
How can such a behaviour be defended in a Christian community?
Pastor is a man of God, but no man of God was given the right to make his wife miserable!
When love for your man of God leads you to tarnish & attack the image of the woman he married & abandoned, pls remember that WE MUST ALL APPEAR BEFORE THE JUDGEMENT SEAT OF CHRIST!