₦airaland Forum

UceeGod:
I'm not an Obi fan but APC people are really daft. No responsible human would want fuel subsidy to continue but the problem is HOW it should be removed and how the proceeds are to be used to benefit the masses.

In the case of emilokan, no thought was put into it and the proceeds s of subsidy removal has only benefited the politicians instead of the masses

Nazgul:
No company in Nigeria can pay you such amount monthly unless your business is recording a tremendous amount of success or you're earning in USD.

That's the only way you can hit the 1m mark monthly.

Jovialjune1:
Lol all this DNA banter ends online, offline none of them dingos have the guts to do it, they see it as wastage of money and unnecessary headache, but then, most male comments here only mouth off online to feel among and get encouragement from their kind through likes and insults on females, more like noisemakers with no action 🥴

Zonefree:
" can’t force my wife to call my mom because she didn’t do no wrong."



This is where I confirmed you're not yet a Man. I'm very sure you didn't tell us the full story. You withheld some information just to glorify your wife and mother in-law. Your post is just to paint your mom as the bad person here.


Ask yourself, if you drop dead now(God forbid), what do you think will happen in the next 6 months?

I'll tell you.


Your mum will be shattered. She'll mourn you till the rest of her life. She may not recover from the shock as you're her only son.

But, your beloved wife and her mother in-law will move on. Within six months of your death, another man will be shinning your beloved wife's congo and there's nothing you can do from the grave. Your beloved wife will remarry after your memorial service, if you're a Christian.

Out of all your family members, it's only your wife that is not your relative. Be wise.

With all due respect sir, STFU...i am a yoruba man and i know how our mothers can be unnecessarily stubborn not to talk of a celestial woman , this dude is a soft guy you can tell...His mom preyed on that, Trust me... when they know the kind of son they have, they decide the kind of route to take.. I draw a thin line to which my wife n mom can never cross without my permission...


Shalom.

immanuelsize:
Nice move for him. At least he may win epl trophy and equally stand a chance to play champions league next season (top 4 assured) because chelsea is dead already. No hope of going to ordinary conference talk more of europa if he stays at that rented stadium.

intruder15:
I don't think they are employees of Dangote group. Some weeks back, some indians protested against their employer who deployed them to dangote refinery to work during lockdown without providing adequate safety measures. I guess their country saw the video and acted on it.

crackhaus:
Yes of course, I just needed you to type this yourself so it could reveal exactly what goes on in the minds of women like you who think it is perfectly okay to shout, yell, and raise their voices to show displeasure - anyway, borderline psychotic people don't know any other way to show displeasure, so I can't really blame you or your sisters here.

However, this is this exact behaviour that makes/will make some of you continue to get slapped by your husbands when he has gotten his earful of your vituperations. If you can't raise your voice to a random stranger on the street whom you have no regard for, what on God's earth makes you think it's somehow okay to do so with a husband you love, respect, and regard?
Are you seriously saying that a grown person like you knows no other way to make her displeasure known without getting in the face of another person, yelling, screaming?

Anyhow, just in case you didn't know, provocation is a good defense in law - not a legal defense though, but a defense that can give a lesser sentence. English law calls it loss of control.
If you're going to act like a crazy person, then you cannot control the response you receive in return.

No grown person likes being yelled or shouted at, not even you given the worst of situations...so I really don't know what you or anyone here (assuming you all were completely sane), are trying to make sense of.

soberdrunk:
My brother you have three options::::::

1) You can man up and tell your wife and her mother that you are not comfortable with the way things are and that you need your privacy.(this option is not easy because you will have to face the 'wrath' of your wife or her mother or 'both')

2) You can get a male elder in your wife's family that is 'understanding' to talk to your mother-in-law to respect you and your wife's privacy(this too is risky because it can backfire if ypur mother-in-law takes it the wrong way)

3) 'OPERATION FLUSH HER OUT"--- make your home very 'uncomfortable' for her! Old women are superstitious so you can take advantage of that, you can start by dropping strange objects in the room she sleeps whenever she visits, you can arrange for strange noises to be made close to her window in the middle of the night, if your wife travels you can even go hardcore Nollywood on her, like pretend you are carrying out strange rituals in the middle of the night or just wear all white and be dancing azonto at odd hours and make sure she sees you

GOODLUCK MAN! DONT FORGET TO COME BACK AND THANK ME WITH COLD BOTTLES OF GULDER

3rdlegxxx:
I hardly quote and reply peeps on here, reason being most Nigerians are htpocrites no offence, they lead a fake life, they all pray and call God for every single thing on every single thread yet they do the worse, we are the most corrupt, eye service is an infection which has eaten into most people's brain cells, a lot of people would say one thing on here and do the exact opposite in the real world, the OP made some points, she was blunt about it, probably went a bit extreme but i guess it worked and hit enough nerves, one funny guy said maybe she didn't grow up from around here, that's how messed up most people low iq mind set are in Nigeria, you think so low about yourselves that when someone makes a sensible observation, worse if that someone is a female, you find an excuse to define her, maybe she is an olosho, maybe she is not from around here, maybe this, maybe that, so you guys main points are that MOST NIGERIAN GIRLS SHOULD BE DUMB, NEVER REQUIRE HAPPINESS, NEVER WANT A GOOD LOOKING GUY TO STAY GOOD LOOKING, the way we guys love and lust after good looking girls even tho u all have have one girlfriend or wife so when she stops looking that good, your eyes turn outwards, a girl attempts to want same and everyone wants to eat her alive, true she took the cheating part a bit too far, there is more to love, marriage than good looks but i got her point and it makes perfect sense, guys world wide try to stay fit and good looking for their self, your mental state as it gives off confidence and fitness and also for their girlfriends and wives, nothing wrong with it at all. my piece and nice comment dear....

LuvU2:
Helo, its a man's world? wow i am just knowing. U mind showing me where it was stamped? That the world belongs to David Emeka and Kola?

Lol, honey i am free to have my say in this new world where women are becoming more assertive
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Its no one's world. If there are rules, everyone shd keep them. If there are none stay off my Vg.

If these rules are biased, someone has to straighten them. If feminism can, then well, it should.

But in my my world, i hve a choice. I have desires. If my man fails to meet all, i would peep to see who has the rest. If he doesnt want no peeping, he has to give me his best.

MrsBreezy:
Haha why would you have to pay for any of that. She has her own money. I but my boyfriends gifts all the time and they do the same. Lol my best friend bought her boyfriend an iPhone for his birthday and I got mine a Rolex. I honestly don't see the big deal. Money isn't that huge of a thing.

dinggle: I don't get it, he was in the police force posted to Maiduguri, he understood the wrath of BH, he had an alternative profession as a doctor. Yet common sense was lacking in him. Would you blame BH or would you blame his judgement??
I definitely would blame his judgement!...and this is to every professional and student in the hot regions, which would you rather loose
your bread or your life? Knowing that without life you can't eat your bread.
your education or your life? knowing that without life you can't have your certificate.
Why wasn't he practicing as a doc in the Southern region.....?
If GEJ is serious about security in the north, all the generals in the Nigerian Army should be relocated to Maiduguri and Yobe states!
You don't become a general to seat in the office signing contracts while your men and innocent citizens are slaughtered.

ogugua88: Frustrated pessimist. Because you aren't or haven't experienced it doesn't mean others don't, can't, or won't.

macjireh: 4get dat tin, willian a world class player
Eto is a free transfer so no regrets 4Mou

vivianc: Search no more, for i'm here. I just need you to go to the bathroom and scrub your kini very well with an iron sponge. After then, mix delto liquid with cameroun pepper and rub the mixture very well on it. We gotta get that kini disinfected so that I don't contract staph or gorrno. When you are done, ring me up.