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All women are the same, they having their dream wedding without funding this their dream wedding.

I had my wedding/ trad this past xmas. It was like the same issues of how she want her dream wedding.
I was still considering having both together to save cost with my sister.....my sister with her sharp mouth went and discuse that with her. My wife said NO then my sister ask her if she has billions to fund it.

Na so she come dey nagging telling so is my sister that is advising to do one day stuff, after quarrel comes agreement.

Just talk to her and make her see reasons for your decision.....she will listen to you

Arinze86:
business indeed

Yah

Yah

Toluwashe778:
Candid advice

Pls pray well about it especially if u are a Christian because there is more to living together than pregnancy (anyway the probability of that happening is high). What if she fall sick?
What if anything happens her.

Everything is not all about prayer ok

You need to let go all grudges against ur uncles family, be at peace with all men.

No matter what, your uncle and the family did their best, played a part in ur life to make u where u are today. U felt she never wanted u to be ahead of ur cousin but that motivated u to push hard in life to be where u are today. So be greatful.

Whether it was ur cousins that wanted u to come stay with then or it was ur mums idea.....she meant good for you gaining basic education at that early stage helped u, all things worketh out for good to you. Show love to ur mum now you still have her around and to ur uncle, cousin's. Then you will have inner peace not to see ur aunty speaking ill of u.

I need advise please , she is insisting on court marriage without giving me a good reason why she wants us to go for court marriage before our white wedding/traditional.


Her silly comments
Her first reason was incase something happen to me that my family will not push her out,

That cause we are not fro. The state.

Incase I leave her for another woman in future.

I talk to her what's the meaning of all the comment, u know I wouldn't do all this things ur saying, a lady have be in relationship with over 6years still have doubt. She cried all through out the night begging me I didn't accept.

In the morning we settled that and we are fine after giving her reason why I wouldn't do all that she mention.


Lately she came back telling me that her madam advise her to go for court marriage that it's very important, na here another problem come start again concerning the court marriage. If not for the lockdown our marriage is suppose to come by June.

Why am saying no to court marriage, am thinking she wants to act anyhow after we get married. I love her but she taking the court thing as claterial for u.

U have to man up, sit ur wife down and talk sense into her skull, remains her the way u guys start.

They should only give u fish to eat rather teach u how to fish......with the millions in her account!! Why not convince them to set up a business for u while u pay back later.

emeijeh:
African Messi

Sure

OBJ thinking deep but Baba go appoint retire but not tire old men without vision and brain

Let me come and be going