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Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by noblesteve(m): 6:51am On May 25, 2018 |
Bro. Listen to me. Having taken a look at this issue. The truth is you are not financially stable to run your own family affairs and thus your inlaw is the one supporting you. If you intend to stop this and feel secure running your own family, I will advise you approach your inlaw with maybe a bottle of English gin (if he is not too religious) and explain to him you need a job since you are doing nothing for now. Trust me he would be glad to assist you get one as I believe with all these millions he should also have connections in millions and getting a job for you will be quite easy Make a move 1 Like |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by Nobody: 6:58am On May 25, 2018 |
winningwinner: The Question is " Are you a REAL man? " LMAO You are even lucky. If I hv to feed my jobless daughter and her jobless, broke ass husband year in year out, he will be my gate man, maid, security and driver. Woman told you to leave your job and you did without finding something else 1st. NONSENSE. You are enjoying being fed from hand to mouth and you are looking for respect. Wait, let me help you look for it. Bye Felicia. 5 Likes 1 Share
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Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by ashjay001(m): 7:02am On May 25, 2018 |
marvelli: No mind d ingredient! Dey find respect, wey him Don sell, for a mess of porridge @op, U better sit back n continue ur all expense paid trip in life. D way, u even jumped all over ur in-law in d beginning, shows u tot u had hit d jackpot! Ur stomach Don full now, u dey find respect 1 Like |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by Tozara(m): 7:03am On May 25, 2018 |
Just imagine this scenario....... a poor lady marries a senator's son, and the father foots their bills because he is rich, then the husband starts treating his wife with contempt and disdain, regarding her as worthless and not worthy of his respect, all the ladies on this thread who have no grouse with what the OP's wife did would be saying something else; inhumane idiot, he never loved her, misogynistic bastard..... But, a man resigns from his job at his wife's behest, and because her father is rich, he becomes responsible for their finance, the man becomes a worthless human being, deserving of no regard from his wife, and shouldn't complain about whatever he gets, because in this case she owns him, and he should be her slave. Now you get it. GENDER EQUALITY. I know the kind of fume this would have generated from feminists on here if it were the first scenario that played out and is being reported. Fücking useless hypocrites. OP, I hope next time, you will never choose to be this foolish in the name of love. 2 Likes |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by BAVOSKI(m): 7:05am On May 25, 2018 |
vikkimimi:Instead of you telling her father to find you job,think is more better But what kill many marriage now, per time money.....when he give you money,the firstday you collected the money from him,that that day you become fool,becuz you will be happy with the money,you will forget that their is no job,but no matter you keep money,it wil surely finish,becuz no money is coming from somewhere else Also you mention that yourwife gives you money before married,why don't you invest with the money? I think you cause this insult to your self....but you are still te head of the ouse,think we'll and adjust yourself..... This kind thing almost happen to me,but thank God for giving me knowledge,to play my roles...I rejected the offer the day I want to pay her dowry. Becuz my inlaw tell my parent that they will assist me,and I tell them NO,no matter what will happen,we will face it....I remember that Day I told my family not becuz of today,but becuz of our future....which it has happened, and I have my full right to defend myself,which make me to Become HUSBAND and MAN,despite my AGE under 30 1 Like |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by NairaMaster1(m): 7:15am On May 25, 2018 |
Valentine025: This is your nature. Why won't you be tormented. You don't even have manners why won't your wife disrespect you I guess this is how you treat her. |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by BAVOSKI(m): 7:17am On May 25, 2018 |
winningwinner:Forget about money Now,Money can't be this kind usual Love again for now,all you need is to.1 Be prayerful 2.Stand as if you are still the Husband:you should call her, wake her up during midnight, let her know that is it proper for us to be collecting money from your dad,tell her the first mistake you made is for you to agree that they shld handle all your wedding expences.Get your apartment is not the cuz of this, but handling your wedding expences..is bad(becuz) they can take it away from you anytime,tell her this let her know the fact...if she's angry with it,let her know the true and fact...if she tell her parent,is good and better,atleast they will have it in mind that you are husband to your their daughter,and for you to say this out, you have something in your mind, Lastly,you need wisdom.. 1 Like |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by perrol(m): 7:20am On May 25, 2018 |
winningwinner:... Sir,I didn't blame you .firstly did you seek advice from your parents before venturing into it? If not go back to them tell them everything ,ask for their advice and prayer..secondly sir ,are you a greedy type to accept offer without thinking twice ? If yes return back to God and pray your out..I perceive that you don't fear God am sorry oo, just seek for him stop depending on your strength as a First class graduate..... Go out and look for job no matter the amount, start doing it a least you be at home 24/7 looking at your wife's eye and your father in-law complain tell him you're tired of sitting down and gradually begin to keep your secret away from him, I will tell you the truth if you listen to what you parent say about it and you followed God truthfuly, your dignity will be restore. |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by MrFly(m): 7:21am On May 25, 2018 |
U dont have a home so ur inlaw is right to meddle in the affairs of ur so called home, from a sponsored wedding to a 3 year rent payment, food and raising of ur child. U aint man enough, how dare u resign just because of a woman? In my local dialect, ur are a complete 'afuneren' meaning woman wrapper! |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by Kboyvic(m): 7:21am On May 25, 2018 |
U have to man up, sit ur wife down and talk sense into her skull, remains her the way u guys start. They should only give u fish to eat rather teach u how to fish......with the millions in her account!! Why not convince them to set up a business for u while u pay back later. |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by Nobody: 7:23am On May 25, 2018 |
I hate free things. Even if its coming from a good heart, there is a way it makes me feel. Only my immediate nuclear family can give me something without me feeling that way. |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by Nobody: 7:28am On May 25, 2018 |
winningwinner:Oh my God! does this kind of thing still exist, bro how could you go this far with her when you dont have a job yet? Well the did is done divorcing her right now may not be the best option. I think you should sit up now and tell your father inlaw to assist you in getting a job if he has the connection. If you feel he may plan to lay you off when you stop submitting to him and his daughter, forget telling him about job but if you can do business, be wise to take some money from the ones he sents to you guys and set up a business that intrests you. But pls do all you can to be in charge of your home, and that can only happen when you become the bread winner of the family. Is rare to get respect from a woman when she or her family takes care of all the needs in the house. You can only see that on movies. |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by Nobody: 7:28am On May 25, 2018 |
braimeddy: thats the correct answer so far, both the father and daughter wanted someone they can control and you made it happen. now ur in a cage, the only way out is to start afresh, they just want a baby from you after that they will dump you. |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by Nobody: 7:34am On May 25, 2018 |
vicaro7: This is harsh, and right at the same time |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by Melian(f): 7:36am On May 25, 2018 |
winningwinner: Guy, this is the biggest mistake of your life. Why did you do this? A man should love is job more than he loves his wife/gf and I'm saying this as a woman. This is the order of life when it comes to love: God, job, family. You will love your job first before you love your father or mother let alone love interest. Don't let anyone or what you see in movies delude you. The greatest instinct of Man is survival. |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by smokeyupu(m): 7:37am On May 25, 2018 |
Why you go let yourself go live there? .......Love fades after a while even btw siblings |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by middlebelter(m): 7:41am On May 25, 2018 |
Here is my advice. Look for a job outside Abuja, probably Lagos, move to your work Location, let her miss you for a while but continue to fulfill your obligations by sending her money no matter how small with evidence. Let the parents know you got a job outside Abuja and you will only be visiting at months end or: Seek for a Master degree outside the country with scholarship do not disclose untill everything is perfected , let her know to be able to fulfill your obligations as a man, you need extra qualifications since the job is not there, at least when you return, you can be a lecturer. At least you can have a temporary peace . 1 Like |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by kullozone(m): 7:42am On May 25, 2018 |
You better appreciate your father inlaw's help, because you were the one who fumbled in the first place. You don't expect him to let his daugher suffer. Go get a job, you ungrateful fvcktard 1 Like |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by miltonchux(m): 7:42am On May 25, 2018 |
Bro you married a daddy and mummy girl, you just need to sit your wife down and make her understand you married to her and not her parents. Decisions on how you run your home should only be between you both and no third parties. Also try and get a job or start a business, while you encourage your wife also to do same, so that you both can be financially responsible to run your home. Your inlaw's are not your problem, they are acting Base on your weakness to handle your home and they feel you both are young and needs guidance. Don't fight your inlaw's, just take charge of your home with love, and please don't use authority in doing this, so you don't destroy your home. 1 Like |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by Sammiejo: 7:47am On May 25, 2018 |
That your first class is questionable. Please return it to the school. 1 Like |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by AUTOCRATIC(m): 7:49am On May 25, 2018 |
If anyone has blamed you or insulted you here, don't be angry with their opinion.... You left your job to satisfy Her and show you love her, that is one of the best risk one can take for her partner but in your own case it turn out to be something else. Call your wife and bring back the memory of love you have shared in the past, let her know how much you love her and how much you will like to make her happy for the rest of your life. Let her know the reasons you and her have to leave your life without external influence.. In other words, try and study the kind of person her father and mother is, try and know who she is closer to among them, and who she takes order from,try and know who she is closer with among her siblings. You can talk to anyone of them that is of more rational opinion but before that, speak to her one on one before going for second plan,.best of luck bro 1 Like |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by Nobody: 7:49am On May 25, 2018 |
Wealthycharles: @bolded This is the best thing I've read on this thread so far! 1 Like |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by Empiree: 7:55am On May 25, 2018 |
winningwinner:You can not repay and they dont even need it by the way. Radical Solution: Take it or leave it, she never gonna respect you EVER until you are making more than enough to be able to shut her father up (no disrespect). Solution is by adding more problems Get a job no matter how small Marry or get a lady of poor background pregnant somewhere while you work hard. Keep taking your first wife's father-in law's money to help the other woman. Do this secretly all through Far as i am concerned they wanna take advantage of you even though you made mistake. Anyone can make mistake. I am serious about this even though it sounds funny. You have nothing to lose. But if you stick to the rich family only, they will make your child disrespect you. So maybe 2 to 3 yrs down, you are well enough and show up with your second wife. That's a rude shock to your first father in law. He will realize you are man enough and not a simp |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by Bianda24: 7:57am On May 25, 2018 |
You actually messed up big time, but never worry, no need crying over a split milk. You need to gather your ass together and get a job. No matter the amount, just start doing something to earn back your respect from your wife. Qed |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by Asuokaa: 8:08am On May 25, 2018 |
Stop collecting money from the both of them Move to your own rented apartment, if you are based in Lagos, there is a job at my workplace Call me on 081-758-467-63 winningwinner: |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by aduni20(f): 8:11am On May 25, 2018 |
braimeddy: Sincerely he should have ask for a job before marriage, he play himself as a gold digger, he has no adviser, he is lazy and so cheap. Well good luck to him. U better look for a job Oga free lunch 2 Likes |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by Ikpongiton: 8:14am On May 25, 2018 |
EliteBiz:he who pays the piper dictates the tune. 1 Like |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by Nobody: 8:15am On May 25, 2018 |
Like say your head dey pain you CeeManCollins:
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Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by Eajike: 8:16am On May 25, 2018 |
Its very unfortunate that people from your maternal village are dancing shaku shaku with your brain abi!! Stay hia and be waiting for advice.. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by Ikpongiton: 8:25am On May 25, 2018 |
it is either your are a first class material, or a first class manure. |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by Sam0405: 8:26am On May 25, 2018 |
antidisestablis: "When it comes to marriage, love is not enough" That's right..... love this statement 2 Likes |
Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by Ikpongiton: 8:31am On May 25, 2018 |
noblesteve:he suppose to be the one advising you. |
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