Shebi they say when you get money you will get the woman of your dreams, say Na Dem go Dey pursue you Abi no be so?? Now you get money to spend on her, she dey use the money feed another man... Chai!!!
hallarmy: I know you are all hating on Yahoo boys now like hell.... neither am I encouraging it.....but did you try to get a little knowledge about the biggest ever sin committed by mankind to mankind in the name of color difference/supremacy.....
It is called slave trade.......Not only did the whites trample on our forefather's fundamental human rights....they also put them through severe and inhumane pains just to feel superior.........
Fast forward to this day.....racism is the order of the day.... they still see the blacks as competitors/privileged slave...and here comes my fellow blacks... cursing and hating on their brothers in the name of the whites.....who are more or less of a partial enemy.....if you are not in position to change the world order.....then relax and watch life unfold for both the whites and black race......I come in peace...it's my first post on nairaland tho
what are you driving at?? Are these excuses good enough to soil the global reputation of Nigeria? Was Nigeria the only country involved in the slave Trade?
seanwilliam: the problem now is. where person go see virgins with correct yansh, correct boobs, bangable body, good career, fat bank account and so so so many values ...
As he dey now, belike say person go win some loose some niyen . U go trade something for something.
Jokes apart, it is very rare for a married-virgin-lady to cheat in marriage. Just like it is hard to choose new lifestyle you not used to
na God go help us o.. Make we no marry women wey go give us problems
seanwilliam: the bolded is trending rn on twitter.. u can see from will smith face that he was very hurt, he just couldn't let go of jada... I was very mad looking at the way jada was describing her relationship with August.. I just dey imagine how that guy would be handling the cherry-like breast a cheat can never change or be loyal.. men should not settle for a known second-hand product.. remember she don fhuck 2pac self..
that is why it's good to marry a virgin... A woman who can discipline herself to remain intact till her wedding day cant Bleep up like this... Marry virgin and have peace of mind.
seanwilliam: You are not getting my point... ok take someone like olamide ( musician) as example.. assuming he didnt have true girlfriend when he was struggling, now that he is a made and popular man, how would he hide his status to find true love ?
must you be popular like Olamide when you become a millionaire?? Celebrity lifestyle is such that as far as true love is concerned, if you don't find it when you were struggling, it's (almost) impossible to find it when you have arrived unless you want to go the extra mile by moving to a place where you are not known to look for it(its not everyone who will recognize Olamide on the streets).if it's popularity you are looking for, true love will be very hard to come by.
Westernlove: Nice one kecchy. But are you aware there Is nothing luke True Love among Humans. The only one who can show us true love Is GOD only. The highest you will find among Humans Is Just "Love Only "
True talk. Only God shows true love. But you should understand what I mean by finding true love when it comes to relationships
seanwilliam: lol, so let assume you have become a popular millionaire, how would you hide it from her??
who says I must be popular because I have become a millionaire?? that's why true love will be hard to find that time...a lady who would not give you a second glance when you are struggling will lick your feet when you have arrived..you become popular when you start showing off what you've got and the only reason for showing off is to draw attention to yourself. By showing off, you will only attract the wrong kind of women. I know there are so many silent billionaires we have not heard of in this country.they live a very simple life and you can never guess they are billionaires unless you are very close to them. I personally don't fancy show off. Chioma doesn't love Davido, she loves his money. I don't want that kind of love.
I believe that there is a woman for every man out there. You must see her. The issue is when? If you didn't see her when you are struggling, you will see her when you hammer. But what I will do if my case was the later is that I will make sure I hide my status from her till I win her over. That way, I can confirm if her love for me is genuine or not. I don't ever want any woman to be with me because of what I've got.
I understand you perfectly!!! This has always been my philosophy. If you can't love me now when I'm nobody, don't love me when I become somebody!!! All this talk about making money first then you can get any woman you want is all horseshit!! Fine, your money will get you any woman you want but what happens if the money is gone?? I know of a man whose wife left him and eloped with her lover after their marriage produced 3 children. She left him because he was financially down at that time. She said she never wanted to marry him from the beginning because he wasn't her spec. He was a short man and she didn't like short men but when he started showering her with money, she decided to play along. Immediately his business started dwindling and money wasn't coming again as usual, she dumped him straight!!! After 3 children o!!!
Nothing beats finding true love when you are nobody and you guys go through the process till you hit that jackpot.
It's just that we guys Bleep up a lot. You see a woman who loved you and supported you when you were nobody. She gave up herself completely to you.but the moment money starts coming in, that's when the guy knows she is no longer beautiful, she is not educated or she is not his type even after several abortions. They start to go after mammy water girls and that's why girls of these days don't bother loving a broke guy because you can't say his true nature until money comes his way.
If you find a woman who truly loves you now that you are still struggling, please Cherish her. If you don't love her let her know instead of using her for your sexual gratification, wasting her time and filling her head with promises you know you won't redeem when you hammer.
I'm lucky to find a woman who loves me so much now that I'm still struggling. I have vowed never to dissapoint her when the money starts coming.
Judeerons32: They still will link Asiwaju to any news. Sometimes I wonder those who shout bullion vans if they are not mischievous or just plain stupid. If u take Asiwaju to court. Did u see the contents of the vans? Do you know how much were in the vans assuming it was money? Is there a law against banks transporting 5million in bullion vans? Assuming he says that's what it was. Really how the bullion van and Asiwaju is tied to Magu travail just bests my imagination everytime I read it. Some people just don't get tired.
don't be foolish my friend!! Transporting 5million in two bullion vans say wetin happen ?? On the eve of elections? What happened to the money laundering prohibition act? Does it apply to only those in government agency as tinubu claimed he is not part of the government? He violated the law simple!!
FreeSpirited: Have you found the root cause of ya own problem despite being a saint that u are...Abi u no geh problem.
I'm not a saint o, but I'm not so stupid to sacrifice my destiny on the altar of pleasure. Everyone has got problems but I'm so sure my problems are not the ones Whose solution will require fasting/prayers and deliverance or spiritual cleansing from when I get into destiny wrecking things like sleeping with another man's wife.. Luckily for me the answers to my problems are not far fetched.
FreeSpirited: Most people hold this kind of logic in Nigeria... and it's a reason this country won't move forward...What problem are you insinuating? Life is full of up and down, either u fvck or u don't, problem will definitely surface, but how u face it......Many of u can't demand accountability from ya govt Believing with your stupid foolish logic that they will meet their Waterloo for pillaging your resources... Remain there. Apa
When your problems start, you know the root cause.
FreeSpirited: Are u an irresponsible husband with and hurt ego for realising there's a possibility of your wife being fvvcked free of charge by a random diixk? Or u are just some random dimwitted juvenile as exposed by your crayfish logic...Talking about my generation for fvvxking a Hot pvssy that gave mutual consent..You are dumb
Hahahahahahahahahaha... Time they say is a gentleman.time will tell. There is a way that seems right into a man, but at the end of that road is destruction...at least when your problem starts, you know the root cause.
FreeSpirited: Are you the one to preach to an adult about the consequences of anything and how to go about shits? You said u dint say someone will fvvck mine for fvcking another manst wife...But if know what's inference...you will realise that's what u mean by inference.
Oga you better change before you enter problem you won't be able to come out from. What ever excuse you give to bed another man's wife is invalid and lame.
This opinion of yours is not only preposterous, it is the wackest and dumbest opinion I have heard concerning married people who cheat. It also Shows that you are just trying to justify your sleeping with another man's wife. Most times, we are the architect of our downfall. You are taking pride in sleeping with another man's wife not knowing you are creating an avalanche of problems that you may not come out from. Problems that your children will partake in if caution is not taken. If the husband of the woman you are bedding finds out and decides to punish you by killing you or rendering you useless through diabolical means now people who will see you then will start to pity you, not knowing the reason behind the fate that befell you.
FreeSpirited: This is the stupidest logic I usually hear among Nigerians, cos their critical thinking skills is so poor or inexistent. So if I fvck people's wife means it will happen to my wife..? That also means those who don't fvck people's wife end up with their wives not fvcked? una no get sense. Who told you I cared about a woman's pvssy...a woman that will fvck will fvck..if u like be the best husband..pray like idiot, it doesn't matter. u people should think. Sex is water.. it's nothing when both of you are attracted to each other.
oga I am not saying they must Bleep your wife. I said EXPECT IT TO HAPPEN. EXPECT EVEN WORSE!! I'm not God to judge you but most times we don't know that problems that befall us in future is as a result of what we have done in the past. Even worse is that in most cases, it's your children who will suffer for the sins you commited. How can you be bedding another man's wife?? If her husband finds out and decides to take your life as an act of revenge, people will say he killed an innocent man but won't know that you brought death upon yourself.
Not all women are like that. There are still women of virtue. There are still women in this social media generation that are not materialistic. Since you are already sleeping with married women, expect worse from your wife
FreeSpirited: Nobody plans to be broke, sometimes life and circumstances unplanned just happen. . But for married men, the experience is not an easy one to manage as regard to being the breadwinner of the family and gaining the trust and respect of your wife. . Women generally respond better to a financially bouyant and responsible husband. When you struggle to meet up with family expenses, it's a matter of time before your wife reacts and start giving attitude. Some women are understanding and will help out, but a financially tight men easily stress an hardworking woman which can be overwhelming for her. . When the money is not coming from the main source, she may develop distrust, anger and depression, which in turn affects sex life and energy level at home. Little issue quickly leads to quarell and malice to the point that the wife might feel underappreciated or unloved.
Over time, the persistence of such situation will make her more vulnerable to advances from guys out there who are doing well and promising her some fun and passion she's lacking at home. This is reality. And even virtuous women do fall at this point just to find happiness away from home stress. . I've seen this countless time even as a bachelor and it makes me get scared of my future marriage. Talking from experience I've dated married women who happen to be in this situation, many of them feel bad, but they need that spark and passion from their man, which they eventually get outside. I'm keeping an open mind, even when I'll marry, I believe such thing can happen. Men should make money to cater for the family, otherwise have in mind your faithful wife may start fucking around when money is not there. It even get easier with social media where they get tonnes of attention from Hot men everyday. Even wives of rich husband do fall, let alone the one of broke men. . As I write, a very homely, beautiful, gentle and innocent looking housewife is having same issue that I'm now her emotional support. It's only time before we start fvcking cos we are already building sexual tension and preparing to meet. That's just life, there's nothing can be done about reality. Though it's sad.
AnonymousRebec: I balance on this table. My dear, you are not alone. We are many. Myself, my siblings, and my cousins. I mean all my cousins. I have like 25 cousins including my maternal and paternal cousins. All of us are on this table. The only cousins that can speak Igbo are the ones that grew up in the east. The rest of us grew up in Lagos. We all sit down and balance on this table. Me I am 23 oo and I have cousins who are in their early 30s and late 20s and cannot speak Igbo. So my dear, you are not alone.
But the Ironic thing is that I speak and write English and French at very professional levels. But my Igbo get K-leg. I don't even speak Yoruba too. I understand Yoruba and Igbo at the same basic level but I cannot speak either languages. One thing I have decided is that my husband must speak Igbo. That is one criteria my husband must have
My dear, I have made that resolution that my woman must be able to speak. If not, my mom will teach me children right from the time they start learning how to speak. I just want to focus now on securing the cash
HiFreda: I told my family members to blame my parents whose job it was to teach me the language and they failed. Am I expected to teach myself the language? They don't bother me anymore.
olawalepopoola: I am more interested in this topic. A family friend called my wife last week and spoke with her. Fortunately our first son was there, so he felt like talking to him. My wife handed the phone to the boy and he conversed with the person in Yoruba language. He did this because I had made a decree in my home that only Yoruba Language should be spoken while he is at home. He can speak English language outside if he likes. I told my wife that our culture is our life. Why must we lose our language to the white after losing our economy to them? This is a call to all parents especially those in this millennia. If we are not careful our children will only know if Hausa, Igbo, Yoruba, Kanuri, Igbira and other indigenous languages existed in the museum and in books. Let us demand that our children learn their indigenous languages. Speaking these languages isn't a crime but pride. You are not inferior if you know them.
if only my parents started speaking igbo to me when I was still young...but now, no matter how hard I try, it's challenging!! I have to process the whole thing before I speak out and it's quite frustrating atimes. But I will make sure my children start speaking from the time they start learning how to speak o
Edunews: I just came across a common statement on Nairaland few minutes ago, and it got me wondering, what is wrong with our people..
many persons make similar statements to this and it makes me worry about "What you think Nigeria is"
my dear, Nigeria is you & I.
Nigeria would not change, until you & I have a change of mindsets.
It seems the arrest of Ramon Abbas aka "Hushpuppi" seems to reawaken everyone to the existence of Internet Fraud, but the truth is that it has always been with us, and would always be here if we keep waiting for just EFCC to put a stop to it.
What have you done to combat crime in our society??
internet fraud (Yahoo-yahoo, G-boys), ponzi or other types of fraud have become a very common event in our daily lives. We tend to know or have heard of people that engage in these events, but we keep quiet about it, for one reason or the other, maybe because they are our friends or family.
How many of Our friends who are into Internet Fraud (G-boys), whether they have hit or not, have you reported to the Police or EFCC??
we tend to forget that, "It is these same individuals (G-boys), who engage in all these acts of fraud, & hit it big tomorrow that would use those money to contest for election with well-meaning individuals like yourself and win you, because you do not have enough money to spend like them, regardless of what your motives or plans are.
After they win and get there, they'd continue their G-boys on a political level, with their looting, and then you'd come on Nairaland or twitter to complain.
Just imagine Hushpuppi was to run for senate tomorrow, who would win Him with all the money he has to spend??
Also on other other side, most youths and young persons, students, etc that go onto cyber-crime is due to "Peer Pressure/Influence". if you see someone you know from Adam, who is just at your level or maybe you are even better than the person, all of a sudden, riding big cars, and buying houses for himself or his parents, you'd start thinking about why you cannot achieve the same, and then you'd be ready to do whatever it takes to do that, however legal or illegal. You will then encourage yourself with the fact that many people are doing it, and that there is corruption everywhere.
my dear, the problems of Nigeria are You & I.... let's not deviate it or run away from it!!!
this is & has always been my own Stand!!!
If you want our country to change, it begins from you and I. You can start by reporting those friends of yours who are into various kinds of frauds (from ponzi to large scale BEC) to the Police or EFCC, and let's worry about whether nothing was done or not....
start from the root & protect the future...
Until we are ready to do that, our country would remain the way it is, if not worse, because, the G-boys would continue to make money & run for various elective positions in government, and when that happens, they'd have the public funds, security & other elements of government at their disposals to do what they like..
Nigeria cannot be better until its Citizens decide to be better, because, we are the present & future government.
Oga forget that talk... EFCC has always been a willing tool in the hands of our politicians . What has EFCC done concerning the case of Tinubu who violated the law brazingly when he brought bullion vans into his compound on the eve of elections? What about Ganduje?? What have they done concerning his case?? What about mompha's case?? Corruption is happening right under their nose but they choose to look away. Hushpuppi's case would have been a forgotten issue if he was extradited to Nigeria. They claim to be fighting corruption but they are the epitome of corruption.
seanwilliam: brotherly fraud is bad and should be condemned.. but the bolded is pure hypocrisy
I rather eat 1kobo in peace than 1billion dollars that wont let me sleep with my two eyes closed. I rather be happily Riding a bicycle than crying in a private jet.
seanwilliam: Credit to DuBLINGreenb: Won't happen but las las hush done chop money, flex life, lived lavish, flown choppers, flown private, had the most exotic cars, mingled with celebs obtained connections, became a known international brand.
No jail can take that away from him, if he comes out of prison he will be better than most poor Nigerians because he has a platform, he has connections, he has experience, he is known and so on. He won't be starting from square 1
He can write a bestseller book, be a TV host, sing music people will buy, sell his story to American media companies, work for security organisations abroad etc
Most Nigerians live in houses worst than American prisons me typing this have not seen electricity in 42 hours straight, I paid aboki 50 bucks to charge my phone, American prisons have 24/7 electricity, gym, free TV, free laundry services, free phone calls and free food that is why black Americans even the celebs see jail as an achievement as street cred status bringer
how many haven't been to jail? you tell me as we speak many US celebs are in jail including Steven Spielberg's daughter, R Kelly, Da baby etc Even Robert Downey Jr, Lil Kim, tommy Lee, Mark Wahlberg have all been to U.S prison Their prison is not like our own many come out of jail looking better than they did before they went in.
Those quoting me will chose 10 - 15 years in American prison and a lifetime of living lavish for themselves and their family without thinking twice over being a poor Nigerian from birth to death.
Ask yourself what odds hushpuppi had of being as rich as he was without doing what he did? We all know majority of Nigerians will be born into poverty and will die in poverty but we all want to delude ourselves by thinking "I will be the one to make it" niggger that's what the other 100,000,000 dead Nigerians before you thought, you think every poor Nigerian chose to be poor? or they don't know your God or another one is "if he didn't do crime he would be enjoying by now!" Nigguh enjoying what exactly
Simple question please how many Nigerian lawyers do you know richer than or even half as rich as Hushpuppi? Even the celebs how many of them where as rich as hush? Only the very top 1%
Another quick question? Ask them how many years and how much suffering, and how much connections etc it took them to get that degree and then that position and if the pay for those without connection is adequate, do the same for every other profession except clergy and politicians
And decide for yourself what chance the vast majority of Nigerians have of becoming millionaires or even hundred thousandnaires ?
I'm not encouraging crime please don't do crime but let us be realistic in our thoughts and speech,
I thought if you go to school you must be rich until I was in a slum and a woman told me she did her youth service in taraba, I was surprised I was like wtf excuse me, she said yes she served in.... She didn't know I was thinking shocked thinking to myself "how did you go to school for 17+ years only to end up in this slum in this poverty" I assumed everyone in slums where uneducated never do wells, miscreants etc.
Imagine if she, like most young girls were compelled to sleep with lecturers for grades, or sorted to pass and all that thinking riches were ahead of them upon graduation only to end up in a slum without husband and children hey this isn't fiction this lady was quarrelling with another non educated woman the other day I recorded what the women were using to insult her. Her lack of husband and children she kept saying she sacrificed all that for school and her future but you decide if this is a future worth losing sleep for, worth losing meaningful relationships for
Don't worry out of respect and privacy I didn't show her face.
Extra fun fact did you know?? Nigeria made more money from Yahoo boys in 2019 than from Agriculture think about it.
Oga stop talking rubbish!!! Someone who might spend 20 years in jail will come out and still be better off?? Haba!!! Don't give him false hopes o. He might be dead even before then. You think all he has acquired will be waiting for him till he gets out or what?? No matter how you look at it, a free dog is always better than a caged Lion. What is his gain after enjoying so much wealth only to loose everything in a very short time? Which kind balling be dat? Flexing wey get expiry date. Nothing beats legit hustling. 1 kobo you make out of legit hustling is better than 1billion dollars made from crime because it will not end well.
Mariangeles: It's the same with my brother. He can understand the language clearly, but finds it difficult to speak it. I'll tell you what I told him: keep on trying even if they make jest of you. Practice makes perfect. The problem is not that you're unable to learn, but you're too afraid to try. You're afraid of failing and being laughed at. Nobody is perfect or above mistakes. You know what? Keep on trying, and when people laugh, you laugh with them. Before you know it, they'll get used to it and get over it.
At one time I tried reading igbo literature stories just to boost my igbo vocabulary. After sometime the thing just tire me. I feel they always laugh at me probably because I'm pronouncing the words in a funny way. Some will even think Im not speaking igbo
oceanized25: I have this issue too...it's the reason why I made a decision few years back to marry only from my place, so that the woman's influence...speaking the language and taking the kids home will make them fluent in it...but then again,I thought"me that don't know how to speak I am doing fine...no need to subject myself to marry from a community/clan just because of language".
Somehow I have made my peace with my inability to speak the language,I am fine with it now.
Whenever I remember those my big uncles that don't hear anything and yet still gather respect even in the midst of chiefs in the village I feel like say make I just bon the thing. Whenever they are in the midst of those chiefs Na so everybody go Dey speak English. Nobody dare mock them.
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