Family › Re: Is My Wife Right To Ask This? by Kdon2: 5:57pm On Aug 13, 2025 |
Israel5: Please (even though I know my appeal with fall on deaf ears too numerous to count in this forum), approach this issue with logic and without prejudice to the people involved.
My wife and I are duly blessed with a son who is in his basic 5 now. Also, we decided to get the daughter of one of my cousin to stay with us. She is one of 7 children. So I wanted to help raise a CHIMAMANDA.
As my rule, every child of same age under my room attends the same school and calls us Dad & Mum. The school part didn't quite seat well with my wife, who had a different opinion, but I prevailed anyway. Because na me dey pay school fees.
The girl is a year older than my son, but due to the level of education at the village before she came over, we made her be in the same class as my son. She met my son in primary 2. Now they are both in basic 5.
A shocker happened: This girl keeps coming up in the class, while my son keeps running away from the top. We've tried extra lessons, even tried changing schools. Now it looks as if the girl is better suited for school than my boy. She reads, spells and memorizes things too marvellous. I bought a dictionary cos of that.
I even buy gifts for her (for coming top) more than I do for my boy, to make him sit up, but my pikin nor send me o. Guy use cry & Woman power make me buy am bicycle. 😁
I would think he's being a spoilt boy, who believes daddy & mommy is there, I don't really know. But I am hopeful.
Now, my major issue is my heavily pregnant wife. She wants the girl to be changed/enrolled at a different school. In her defence, she wants her to be available to help her take care of things. The kid's school close by 3pm. She suggest government school that close earlier. I see sense in what she said but I feel like I'll be unfair to this young girl.
When I tried to have a healthy debate on the idea. Na so madam start to dey talk plenty tins wey I nor fit type. I have accepted to do her wish from September for peace.
Please, do you see another way I could avoid problems?
Is she right to have asked that I changed the girl's school just because she needs help around the house & her business? Child abuse loading. |
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Romance › Re: You Can’t Call Urself A Real Man If U Can’t Forgive Ur Wife For Cheating. by Kdon2: 8:14pm On Aug 12, 2025 |
irumole1975: Many men are self absorbed especially Nigerian men. I read a post on Twitter yesterday about a man who find out his child isn’t his and the wife has been sleeping around with her ex. The man on knowing this stopped all responsibility on the woman and called the marriage quit. What a weak man.
Strong men forgive! They don’t resent and dwell on past mistakes. The children should not suffer because of the little mistake from the mother. Talk to ur wife, ask her why she cheated, apologise to her and let her know you still have her best interests at heart. Marriage is all about forgiveness.
Also, you can try talk to the man she cheated on u with and tell her to stop sleeping with ur wife. Thai way ur wife will know u truly love her and her respect for u will increase.
Nigerian men should learn to swallow their ego I suppose swear for you but I won't. May ogun judge your heart content accordingly. |
Travel › Re: We Never Released Viral Video Showing Passenger Stripped Naked – Ibom Air by Kdon2: 1:50pm On Aug 12, 2025 |
SeeWahala: The entire passengers on that plane had disembarked and gone into the terminal
It was only ibom air staff, airport ground crew and police officers that were on the scene of that woman being dragged down from that plane
So which individual among those three groups was the one responsible for taking that video and releasing it? 🤔
Let's scrutinize the videos online . . .
in the video, one lady (the one recording) was at a time pointing at the unfortunate lady and telling someone who was asking that, and I quote,
"she was the one, she was slapping matron so so and so anyhow left and right"
if that person who said that sentence knew the exact name of the air hostess who blocked the lady from disembarking then why would any sensible person say it isn't another one of the air hostess that recorded and released that video
Verdict:
IT WAS AN IBOM AIR HOSTESS THAT RECORDED AND RELEASED THE SAID VIDEO Don't mind the dull woman. She thought everyone is a fool |
Politics › Re: Former SGF Babachir Lawal Claims President Tinubu Did Not Win The 2023 Election by Kdon2: 10:09am On Aug 12, 2025 |
SolaOmoniyi: Babachir Lawal, the former Secretary to the Government of the Federation (SGF), has publicly stated that he does not believe President Bola Tinubu legitimately won the 2023 presidential election.
In an interview with Channels TV on Monday, August 11, Lawal expressed his doubts about the legitimacy of Tinubu’s victory, declaring that, based on the information available to him, Tinubu was not the rightful winner of the election that ushered him in as Nigeria’s 16th president.
Lawal also revealed that Tinubu was once his friend but that their relationship has since deteriorated. He accused the president of being overly arrogant and full of himself.
Read more... https://dailyobserver.ng/former-sgf-babachir-lawal-claims-president-tinubu-did-not-win-the-2023-election/ Head dey pain am. He needs to rest instead of the nauseating folly he decided to pursue. |
Politics › Re: Tinubu Offended Me, He’s Full Of Himself – Babachir Lawal by Kdon2: 9:13am On Aug 12, 2025 |
drLammy: Was it not this man that cut grass with 500m? Hxddh That's him o! Dem the!ves |
Politics › Re: Peter Obi Has Integrity, He Will Keep His One Term Promise - MBF by Kdon2: 9:10am On Aug 12, 2025 |
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Politics › Re: Reno Replies Peter Over "Justice Must Be Fair" ValueJet Comment by Kdon2: 8:55am On Aug 12, 2025 |
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Politics › Re: Ex- Lawmaker Urges Tinubu To Release Kanu For Apc’s 2027 Votes by Kdon2: 2:26am On Aug 11, 2025 |
dododawa1: A former lawmaker who represented Oshodi-Isolo from 2015 to 2023 in the Lagos Assembly, Jude Idimogu, has appealed to President Bola Tinubu to grant clemency to the detained leader of the Indigenous People of Biafra, Nnamdi Kanu.
The News Agency of Nigeria reports that Kanu, the leader of the self-determination movement, was arrested in Nairobi, Kenya, in 2021, brought to Nigeria, and had since been in custody facing trial.
Idimogu in an interview with NAN on Sunday in Lagos, said releasing Kanu would help the ruling APC in the South-East as the nation approaches the 2027 general elections.
“It will add to our votes in the South-East. If the President can look at this issue, the South-East will never forget him but forever be grateful,” he said.
Idimogu urged well-meaning Nigerians including Igbo leaders, South-East governors to speak with one voice by appealing to the President to grant Kanu pardon.
He said that such pardon if granted would not be forgotten and would aid the party’s fortune in South-East in 2027 general elections.
The ex-lawmaker said, “I want to plead with our President, Asiwaju Bola Tinubu, to kindly see the need to use political means to grant Nnamdi Kanu clemency.
I want to appeal to all well meaning Nigerians, not just those from Igbo extraction, to help plead with Mr President to use his good office to release Nnamdi Kanu.
If this is done, I believe the insecurity situation and tension in the South- East will reduce if not completely curbed and eradicated.”
According to him, a lot of miscreants have been using Kanu’s name to cause mayhem and atrocities in the region. Idimogu, who is the deputy leader of Ndigbo in Lagos APC, said that the release of Kanu has a lot of advantages both for the South-East and Nigeria. He said that it would de-escalate the tension and make the economy of the region to come alive again.
“Mr President, kindly look at the South-East case and bring back businesses and trading long stagnated in the region because of insecurity.
“An average Igbo man is a trader. We cannot overlook this situation and the contributions of these traders in the South-East to the economy.
“South-East used to be home to a lot of people before now, it just suddenly changed to be dens of insecurity and other vices. This can be arrested with Kanu’s release.
“Mr President, we know you to be a father with a compassionate heart, please, help us in the South-East, grant Kanu freedom to stabilise our region,” Idimogu stated. For kanu alone the north will have good weapon to vote against tinubu. So it's a no no. Kanu must rot in jail |
Politics › Re: Here Are Five Reasons Why Peter Obi Will Defeat Tinubu In 2027 Election by Kdon2: 2:24am On Aug 11, 2025 |
Mariangeles: If he has all that and lacks doggedness, onwehu ebe oji azu aga. I no get strength to support person wey no dey dogged.
Peter Obi should study and find out how David became king.
David didn't get to the throne by being a "goody goody" Even though he was already anointed to be king, he fought hard to ascend the throne. Dreamer, peter obi will never be president of a great country like Nigeria. Well may be in your dreams sha |
Celebrities › Re: Moment Davido Kissed Chioma Live At The Wedding by Kdon2: 2:19am On Aug 11, 2025 |
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Politics › Re: I Know Tinubu’s Weaknesses, I’ll Defeat Him If ADC Gives Me Ticket.– Amaechi by Kdon2: 8:41pm On Aug 09, 2025 |
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Politics › Re: Peter Obi Won Rivers State In 2023 – Rotimi Amaechi by Kdon2: 8:37pm On Aug 09, 2025 |
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Politics › Re: I Will End Corruption In One Month As President– Rotimi Ameachi by Kdon2: 7:05pm On Aug 09, 2025 |
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Politics › Re: People Were Jumping Into Lagoon In Tinubu's 1st Year, By Far The Worst - Amaechi by Kdon2: 7:04pm On Aug 09, 2025 |
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Romance › Re: Is She Into Hook-up? by Kdon2: 4:13pm On Aug 08, 2025 |
tgmservice: Not twerking just normal dance Dey play. Ifkyk. Otilo😜 |
Politics › Re: What Did Goodluck Jonathan Forget in Aso Rock That He Wants to Go Back and Get? by Kdon2: 4:09pm On Aug 08, 2025 |
Kushites: I’m sick of hearing about this man entering the race for the presidency.
Somebody needs to ask him what he forgot in Aso Rock that he wants to go back and collect.
The audacity of putting the country through another period of massive embezzlement with the likes of ‘Diamond Bra’ Diezani, Ibori, Dino ‘Lambhorgini’ Melaye, Atiku, and all these clowns feels one with great depression.
Jonathan needs to respect himself and continue enjoying his retirement. Not come and cause confusion in the country when we are still busy fixing the damage he caused!
Please stop. 🙏 I am fervently praying they give him the PDP ticket. It's automatic knock out🤭 |
Politics › Re: ADC Denounces ‘unfounded’ Leadership Claims, Affirms Nafiu As National Chairman by Kdon2: 4:02pm On Aug 08, 2025 |
Orabi: The African Democratic Congress (ADC), has dismissed recent claims to its leadership Good one Not enough original content Please take a moment to write a quality post with at least 40 characters. This will make the forum more interesting for everyone. |
Education › Re: Meet 72-year-old Dr Usman Hadi Who Invented Water Stove “no Kerosene, No Gas” by Kdon2: 3:59pm On Aug 08, 2025 |
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Politics › Re: Restructure Nigeria by Kdon2: 11:21am On Aug 08, 2025 |
IgboLandCountry: Nigeria only needs 7 regions. The current federal system only exists to steal as much money as possible. We need to return to a regional government. Azikuwe and ironsi got us all into this mess because of lack of foresight and greed. |
Politics › Re: How Azikiwe Advocated For The Protection Of Minorities by Kdon2: 11:19am On Aug 08, 2025 |
Bede2u: You have often heard enemies of Biafra say that while Awolowo and Bello wanted to put a 'secession clause' in our constitution, Zik refused. Well...that didn't happen, but you probably already know this since the British would have gone with the wish of the majority and hence added 'secession clause' to the constitution they drafted.
What happened was this.... The 1946 Richards Constitution Introduced by Sir Arthur Richards, then Governor of Nigeria, divided Nigeria into 3 regions: Northern Region, Western Region and Eastern Region It created regional legislatures and regional councils of chiefs. Strengthened indirect rule and gave more autonomy to traditional rulers. Introduced limited African representation in the legislative council.
It was aimed to reflect Nigeria’s "diverse cultures" — reinforcing the tripartite regional model.
Azikiwe (Eastern Nigeria) and Eyo Ita (Calabar area) opposed the regionalisation model. They feared it would deepen ethnic divisions and entrench colonial divide-and-rule policies. They argued that the 3-region model was artificial and would weaken national unity.
Azikiwe and Ita led a group that rejected the 3-region structure.
They proposed a federation of 8 states based on ethnolinguistic and cultural diversity, not colonial convenience.
1. Hausa/Fulani state (North-West)
2. Kanuri state (North-East)
3. Tiv/Benue state (Central North)
4. Yoruba state (West)
5. Edo/Delta state (Mid-West)
6. Igbo state (East)
7. Ibibio/Efik state (South-East coast)
8. Minority coastal state
Their report was rejected as a 'minority report' because NPC and AG backed the 3 regional agreement as an opportunity to dominate the unfortunate minorities of their region.
This is what happened. This is accurate history, not Lagos-Ibadan revision. Ipob version of history you mean to say. We know what you people did in abia, Delta and cross river before the war. Not to be aok of what you people did to edo people during the war |
Education › Re: Meet 72-year-old Dr Usman Hadi Who Invented Water Stove “no Kerosene, No Gas” by Kdon2: 7:26pm On Aug 07, 2025 |
papiSNEH: Which kind water? shay na the one Elijah pour for firewood No mind them, Dem too dey lie . Jjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjnjh |
Nairaland General › Re: Meet Captain Ranti Ogoyi, The Valuejet Female Pilot Who Tangoed With K1 by Kdon2: 7:22pm On Aug 07, 2025 |
Ademola2003: Oluranti Ogoyi, fondly called Rantilicious, by friends and colleagues is the daughter of Nigerian politician, Senator Felix Kola Ogunwale, who was the Senator representing Osun Central between 2003 and 2007.
A pilot of over 10 years, Captain Oluranti joined ValueJet a few years ago after flying with Arik Air for many years.
She became a full captain in September 2021 many years after flying as a first officer.
She was decorated by the management of Arik Air led by Chief Executive Officer; Captain Roy Ilegbodu, Director of Flight Operations; Captain Adetokunbo Adekunbi and Chief Pilot now NCAA Boss, Captain Chris Najomo.
She is married to a fellow pilot, Isaac Ogoyi Jr who like herself used to fly with Arik Air before moving to RwandAir and later Uganda Airlines where he currently works. Beauty without self control is a disaster waiting to happen... oops! Almost did |
Politics › Re: Gunmen Kill 2 Travellers, Abduct 3 In Kwara by Kdon2: 7:18pm On Aug 07, 2025 |
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Politics › Re: 2027: Jonathan Ready To Run Again, Close Ally Confirms by Kdon2: 12:35pm On Aug 07, 2025 |
kingbee90: Jonathan will defeat Tinubu before 2pm on the election day. Nigerians now know better. Dey play. If you know how many forces dey wait for Jonathan you won't say this thing you spew here. |
Politics › Re: 2027: Jonathan Ready To Run Again, Close Ally Confirms by Kdon2: 12:33pm On Aug 07, 2025 |
FreeStuffsNG: Awada keri keri unlimited.
PDP should please present HE GEJ against President Bola Ahmed Tinubu, GCFR in 2027 abeg. If Jonathan enter the race e don be for everybody. It's going to be more of tinubu versus Jonathan. Unfortunately Jonathan can not win. Atiku will have better show in the north though. |
Politics › Re: 2027: Jonathan Ready To Run Again, Close Ally Confirms by Kdon2: 12:30pm On Aug 07, 2025 |
LagosOrigin: Omo if Jonathan enter this race, Tinubu will be one term president.
If this is true , then tinubu is in a big trouble because Jonathan will destroy what is left of tinubu chances in the north which will pave way for atiku or Obi emergence as president .
This move could be atiku's game plan because it will favour him the most. This delusion keeps coming up everyday. E go shock una though 🤪 |
Politics › Re: BREAKING: Jonathan Agrees To Run For 2027 Presidency by Kdon2: 10:20am On Aug 07, 2025 |
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Politics › Re: BREAKING: Jonathan Agrees To Run For 2027 Presidency by Kdon2: 9:48am On Aug 07, 2025 |
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Politics › Re: BREAKING: Jonathan Agrees To Run For 2027 Presidency by Kdon2: 9:48am On Aug 07, 2025 |
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Politics › Re: BREAKING: Jonathan Agrees To Run For 2027 Presidency by Kdon2: 9:42am On Aug 07, 2025 |
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