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God is Not Enough...when spirituality becomes a mask

A very long time ago, I had the privilege of working in a church-owned television station as a producer for children’s programmes.


For most of the staff, it was their first real experience in media. A few of us, however, had already spent years working in other media organisations. We were members of the same ministry, but somehow, coming from outside made some people consider us less spiritual.


I never quite conformed to some of the practices, especially the compulsory wearing of uniforms. But what irritated me more was the eye service—the constant performance of spirituality for the benefit of other people.


Some of the brothers and sisters were holier than the Pope.


Sometimes, I wondered if they looked at their own unclothedness while bathing, because their level of spirituality suggested that even that might be a sin.


You could say:


“Good afternoon, Sister Sharon.”


And instead of “Good afternoon,” you might hear:


“Raka-babaya-bonta!”


At some point, I stopped greeting some people.


Then one day, the toilet got blocked.


Not slightly blocked. Completely blocked.


A plumber was called in because flushing had become almost impossible.


What started as an ordinary plumbing problem eventually became a production-policy problem.


That evening, we received a circular informing us that the media team would no longer be allowed to work overnight.


The rumour was explosive.


The blockage had allegedly been caused by used condoms.


Apparently, some of our tongue-speaking brothers and sisters had been flushing condoms down the toilet until the sewage system finally gave up.

Ayibo!


But the real question wasn't the blocked toilet. It was:


WHO WAS USING THE CONDOMS?

And, more importantly:


WITH WHOM?

Was it Sister Sharon, the woman with the tongue of fire?


Or Sister Janet, the holiest of all sisters?


We never found out.

I eventually left the media arm of the ministry, and the mystery remained unsolved.


But that experience taught me something I have never forgotten:


Religious appearance is not the same as character.


And this becomes particularly important when relationships are involved.


Never let anyone bamboozle you in the name of God.


People have entered relationships because someone looked spiritual, spoke Scripture, prayed eloquently and appeared to have an impressive relationship with God.


Years later, they discovered that the person they married was nothing like the person they thought they knew. By then, the investment is gone, the emotions are shattered, the trust is damaged and sometimes, the person doesn't recover easily. Not everyone who calls His name fears Him.


I say this boldly as a Christian and as someone who has worked in a church environment: The church can be one of the most deceptive places to judge someone's character if all you are looking at is their spiritual performance.


I have spent many years in church, yet I have never dated anyone there


My relationship with God is personal because I know Him for me - not for us.


Perhaps I'm strange, but I can't spread a sister's leg on Saturday evening and lift my hands in worship on Sunday morning, and God forbid she is the one leading worship that Sunday. Jokes apart, how do some people even manage that? I can't.


I once found myself in a talking stage with a woman who became upset whenever I answered her questions without putting God first.


Every answer had to come through Scripture.


At some point, I wondered if I was dating her or interviewing for the position of pastor.


Let people speak, let them express themselves, let them disagree, let them reveal how they think.


You don't discover someone's character by forcing them to give the answers you want. You discover it by allowing them to be themselves.


If a man constantly invites you to clubs and places that contradict your values, he may simply not be the man for you.


If he wasn't a Christian before he met you, don't assume he will magically become one because he wants to date you.


He may simply learn how to perform Christianity long enough to get what he wants.


Then the performance ends,


The lady I was talking to disagreed with me.


She was also talking to two other guys at the time and compared me to one of them who didn't get upset when she mentioned God or demanded Bible-based answers.


Eventually, she blocked me on WhatsApp.


I found the irony interesting.


How can someone be so righteous and yet so quick to shut someone out simply because they disagree?


Two months later, she came back and asked for forgiveness.


The other man, the one who apparently ticked all the biblical boxes had disappointed her.


According to her, they separated because of his continued lies. He was.... (fill in the gap)


She told me she had realised her mistake.


We are often more interested in finding people who sound like what we want than discovering who they actually are.


If knowing the Word of God were enough to guarantee a successful relationship, why do pastors divorce? Is it always a lack of the Word? Or could it be the lack of proper relationship counselling?


The Word of God matters.


But quoting Scripture doesn't automatically make someone trustworthy.


Speaking in tongues doesn't automatically make someone faithful.


Wearing a church uniform doesn't automatically make someone righteous.


And looking spiritual doesn't automatically make someone spiritually mature.


So, when choosing a partner, know the person.


Let them speak.


Let them disagree with you.


Watch how they behave when they don't get their way.


Watch how they treat people who cannot benefit them.


Watch how they handle money, power, boundaries and truth.


Don't put someone in a box, force them to perform according to your expectations, and then fall in love with the character you created in your head.


Give people the freedom to reveal themselves.


Because sometimes, the greatest deception isn't that someone lied about who they are.


It's that you never gave them enough freedom to show you.



KD Oniyide
Social; kd.oniyide2

True talk

marlow1962:
Omo as a man you get many work to do before you marry o, to avoid "had I known"

Some men no dy try when e come to woman matter, na why at the end them dy too regret.

Na God go help us.

SHE’S NOT JUST INTO YOU

.. before you go down on one kneel

Every time I see a marriage proposal get rejected, I ask myself one question:

How did they get here?

Then I have another thought:

This can never be me.

Not because I think I'm better than anyone else. Not because I believe rejection cannot happen to me.

It is because I believe you should know long before the ring comes out whether the woman you're about to propose to actually wants you.

A rejected proposal is rarely the beginning of the rejection.

She probably rejected you months ago.

You just didn't hear it.

Or perhaps she never said it with words. Maybe she said it with her attitude, her silence, her inconsistency, her lack of excitement, her disappearing acts and her unwillingness to build anything meaningful with you.

You simply refused to read the signs.

And sometimes, a woman says yes to a proposal she doesn't really want simply because she doesn't want to embarrass the man in front of family and friends.

She smiles.

She cries.

She wears the ring.

Everybody celebrates.

Then reality begins.

Some of those engagements never make it to the altar. And the ones that somehow crawl there sometimes end before the marriage has even had a chance to breathe.

The problem was never the proposal. The problem was that the relationship was already broken.

GO FOR THE ONE WHO WANTS YOU

This is one thing I tell men:

Go for the woman who wants you.

Yes, women like to be pursued. But there is a huge difference between pursuing a woman who is interested and chasing a woman who isn't.

A man must know when to push and, more importantly, when to stop.

If she says no, respect it.

If she doesn't say no but everything about her behaviour screams "no," respect that too.

Don't turn yourself into a motivational speaker trying to convince someone to love you.

Love isn't a courtroom. You shouldn't have to argue your case.

If you have to constantly convince her that you're worthy of her attention, imagine what you'll have to do to keep her after she finally says yes.

You'll spend the relationship trying to maintain a position you were never naturally given.

That's exhausting.

And, eventually, it destroys a man's confidence.

I DON'T RUSH TO DATES

For me, it's different.

I don't rush to meet a woman.

Before I go on a date, I want us to have had a really good conversation over the phone.

I want to hear your thoughts.

Your humour.

Your fears.

Your ambitions.

Your worldview.

I want to know whether we can actually talk.

Because if we cannot create chemistry through conversation, why would I believe two hours across a restaurant table will suddenly create magic?

Some people, of course, are terrible on the phone but amazing in person.

If that's you, then don't rush the date.

Build the anticipation.

Create enough chemistry for her to look forward to seeing you.

That's the point.

By the time we meet, I don't want us still asking:

"What's your favourite colour?"

"What's your favourite food?"

"What do you do for fun?"

We've probably covered those already.

My dates are for deeper conversations—the things we couldn't comfortably discuss over the phone, perhaps because trust hasn't developed enough yet.

I take my time building chemistry.

And I've discovered something:

The dates where the chemistry wasn't established beforehand usually ended much faster.

READ THE ROOM

If you're talking to a woman and she looks completely uninterested in what you're saying, stop talking.

Seriously.

Stop.

Don't keep performing.

Don't start telling her about your car, your money, your connections, your achievements and the number of people who want you.

She may eventually agree to go on a date with you.

But don't confuse "yes to a date" with "yes to you."

She might simply want to wear that beautiful dress that's been sitting in her wardrobe for three years.

She might be bored.

She might want company.

She might simply want to get out of the house.

And yes, you could get lucky and spark a chemistry she didn't know existed.

But that's the exception, not the strategy.

There is also a possibility that while you're sitting across the table explaining your five-year plan, she's texting another man who isn't even giving her attention.

You may be fighting for a position she has already given to someone else.

PATIENCE IS ATTRACTIVE

One of the most underrated qualities in relationships is patience.

Take your time.

Don't rush.

Don't panic because she hasn't responded.

Don't chase because she cancelled.

Don't suddenly start buying expensive gifts because you think money will manufacture affection.

And don't assume that losing one woman means you've lost your last chance at love.

If she leaves, let her leave.

Another woman will come.

Unless, of course, you're not looking for love.

If you're only after the skirt, then that's another conversation entirely.

Interestingly, many women I've met online have been the ones who wanted to meet me.

They initiated the dates.

They were eager.

They looked forward to meeting.

That's why I'm always puzzled when men tell me stories about women constantly cancelling dates, postponing meetings and disappearing.

Women are not mysterious creatures.

They have eyes.

They have ears.

They can feel.

They can observe.

They know when they're attracted to someone.

You don't have to perform a miracle to make a woman want you.

Sometimes, she simply does.

SHE MAY SIMPLY NOT BE INTO YOU

If she never answers your calls...

If your messages remain unanswered...

If she takes forever to respond...

If you're always the one starting the conversation...

If every attempt to meet becomes another excuse...

Please stop calling it "mixed signals."

Sometimes, the signal isn't mixed.

You just don't like the message.

And if you somehow force the date to happen, you may spend the evening talking to yourself.

She may keep checking her phone.

She may leave early.

She may suddenly develop an "emergency."

And you will sit there wondering what went wrong.

Nothing went wrong.

She didn't want to be there in the first place.

KNOW WHEN YOU'RE OUT OF HER LEAGUE

Another uncomfortable truth is that sometimes a woman won't give you attention because you don't meet her standards.

Financially.

Academically.

Spiritually.

Intellectually.

Emotionally.

Physically.

Or simply in terms of lifestyle.

That doesn't make you a bad man.

It doesn't make her a bad woman.

It means you're probably not compatible.

And you need enough self-awareness to accept that.

Because endlessly pursuing someone who doesn't see you as her equal can slowly destroy your confidence.

Rejection isn't always an insult. Sometimes it's information.

Use it.

Improve yourself.

Move forward.

And find someone whose standards and expectations align with what you bring to the table.

I'm going to write another article later on how to land a six-figure woman.

But before that, men need to understand something much more important:

You cannot negotiate attraction.

THE RING DOESN'T CREATE LOVE

Many women want to get married.

But they want to marry the right man.

And sometimes, that man isn't necessarily the man they currently love the most.

You may be financially right for her.

You may be psychologically right for her.

You may fit the picture she has created in her head.

You may even be the man her family considers perfect.

So you save for the most expensive ring you can afford.

You plan the perfect proposal.

You kneel down.

You ask the question.

And she says yes.

But here's the uncomfortable question:

Does she actually want a life with you, or does she simply want the life you represent?

Because marriage today is not always purely about romance.

It can be transactional.

It can be practical.

It can be emotional.

It can be financial.

It can be social.

And sometimes, it is all of these things at once.

That's why before you propose, you need to have uncomfortable conversations.

Not just:

"Do you love me?"

Ask:

"What kind of life do you want?"

"Where do you want to live?"

"Do you want children?"

"How do you see finances working?"

"What does marriage mean to you?"

"What are your ambitions?"

"What are mine?"

"Do our lives actually fit?"

Because love without alignment can become a very expensive mistake.

DON'T PROPOSE TO A FANTASY

Look at your relationship in the months leading up to the proposal.

Not the relationship you wish you had.

The relationship you actually had.

What was she like?

Was she excited about your future?

Did she talk about building with you?

Did she ask questions about your plans?

Did she include you in hers?

When marriage came up, did her face light up?

Or did she suddenly become quiet?

Wedding excitement is difficult to fake.

When a woman genuinely sees a future with you, conversations about that future usually produce excitement.

If you're the only one dreaming about the wedding, you're not planning a wedding.

You're planning a fantasy.

So ask questions.

Not necessarily, "Will you marry me?"

Ask questions that reveal your position in her life.

Listen carefully.

Watch her actions.

Pay attention to the things she doesn't say.

Because assumptions are dangerous.

Never assume she loves you because she loved you yesterday.

She may have loved you a year ago.

She may have loved you last month.

She may have loved you last week.

But people change.

Feelings change.

Circumstances change.

And sometimes, love leaves quietly before the person finds the courage to announce its departure.

That's why I don't believe the proposal should be the moment you discover whether she wants you.

The proposal should be the confirmation of something you already know.

You shouldn't be kneeling in front of a woman hoping she says yes.

You should already know.

Because before the ring...

Before the flowers...

Before the photographer...

Before the family gathers...

Before you get down on one knee...

she has already answered you—with her words, her actions, her consistency, her excitement and the way she responds to the thought of a future with you.

The real question isn't:

"Will she say yes when I propose?"

The real question is:

"Why am I proposing to a woman whose answer I'm not already sure of?"

KD oniyide
Social; kd.oniyide2

In the wake of recent calls for undocumented migrants to leave South Africa, the Nigerian government has continued efforts to repatriate willing citizens. However, the number of those who have returned is only a drop in the ocean compared to the estimated number of Nigerians living in South Africa.

I believe that many of those who accepted the offer to return did not do so primarily out of fear of being attacked. We are known for our resilience and courage. (We no dey carry last) Rather, many had already been looking for an opportunity to leave and simply took advantage of the free flight home

While there is no accurate data to show the exact number of Nigerians living in South Africa, my interactions and visits to certain areas suggest that there are over 120,000 Nigerians living in South Africa, many of whom lack legal immigration documents. Similar situations exist among Nigerians living in other countries.

We have blamed the Nigerian government—and rightly so—for creating conditions that force many citizens to seek opportunities abroad. We shall continue to demand better governance until Nigeria becomes a country where its citizens can thrive. But while we hold our leaders accountable, we must also be honest with ourselves and call a spade it's true name.

Whether in Ghana, South Africa, Kenya, India, China, or the United States, concerns about Nigerians are often not limited to illegal immigration. In many places, the bigger issue is the criminality associated with us, after all, we are not the most travelled people in the world, so why do we so often make headlines in people's countries for the wrong reasons?

I can conveniently tell you that eight out of ten male Nigerian youths living in South Africa belong to one cult group or the other.
Not only that, they are majorly into illegal activities ranging from drugs, kidnapping, internet scams, and whatever illegality you can ever imagine.

Don't get me wrong, Nigerians are not the primary cause of crime in South Africa. SA media knows but is deliberately under-reporting it. The world is yet to know how dangerous that country is. According to the South African Police Service's 2023/24 annual crime statistics, 27,621 people were killed in homicides, more than six times the global average. If the official statistic puts it at about 72 people being killed every day, what do you think the actual death toll could be? 80, 90? Maybe even 100 lives in a population of roughly 70 million people, yet the world media is not making a fuss about it.

Children who do not know how to tie the laces of their own shoes are proficient in shooting.

Some of my experiences while in South Africa exposed me to realities that many people outside the country never see. I witnessed families with multiple members in prison for separate offences, including fathers and sons, brothers, and even mothers serving sentences on unrelated charges.

The bragging right in prison is how big your crime is, and to them, it is more honorable to kill someone than to steal. So if you accuse an inmate wrongly, they would proudly tell you they are murderers and not thieves.
I'll share more light on my experience there in subsequent articles.

Bringing the discussion back home, as a well-travelled Nigerian, I believe we contribute to the crime problem in some of our host countries than many of us are willing to admit.

Around the world, Nigerians are admired—sometimes openly, sometimes quietly—for our intelligence, resilience, determination, and entrepreneurial spirit. Unfortunately, some among us take the pursuit of success to dangerous extremes. The minority of us are spoiling the goodwill of the majority of us.
As painful as the stereotype may be, we cannot honestly claim to be entirely innocent. Until we confront these uncomfortable truths and begin to hold ourselves accountable alongside demanding accountability from our government, many countries will continue to tighten immigration policies and deport those who violate their laws.
Patriotism is not only about defending our country against criticism. It is also about having the courage to acknowledge our shortcomings and working together to correct them.


K.D. Oniyide
Socials: @kdoniyide2
Email; kd.oniyide@gmail.com

Social commentator and change advocate writing on issues that promote justice, accountability, and better living conditions for all.

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Sad but true. I wrote a piece on this. You can read it here;

https://www.nairaland.com/8719932/xenophobia-nigerians-south-africa-saints

In the wake of recent calls for undocumented migrants to leave South Africa, the Nigerian government has continued efforts to repatriate willing citizens. However, the number of those who have returned is only a drop in the ocean compared to the estimated number of Nigerians living in South Africa.

I believe that many of those who accepted the offer to return did not do so primarily out of fear of being attacked. We are known for our resilience and courage. (We no dey carry last) Rather, many had already been looking for an opportunity to leave and simply took advantage of the free flight home

While there is no accurate data to show the exact number of Nigerians living in South Africa, my interactions and visits to certain areas suggest that there are over 120,000 Nigerians living in South Africa, many of whom lack legal immigration documents. Similar situations exist among Nigerians living in other countries.

We have blamed the Nigerian government—and rightly so—for creating conditions that force many citizens to seek opportunities abroad. We shall continue to demand better governance until Nigeria becomes a country where its citizens can thrive. But while we hold our leaders accountable, we must also be honest with ourselves and call a spade it's true name.

Whether in Ghana, South Africa, Kenya, India, China, or the United States, concerns about Nigerians are often not limited to illegal immigration. In many places, the bigger issue is the criminality associated with us, after all, we are not the most travelled people in the world, so why do we so often make headlines in people's countries for the wrong reasons?

I can conveniently tell you that eight out of ten male Nigerian youths living in South Africa belong to one cult group or the other.
Not only that, they are majorly into illegal activities ranging from drugs, kidnapping, internet scams, and whatever illegality you can ever imagine.

Don't get me wrong, Nigerians are not the primary cause of crime in South Africa. SA media knows but is deliberately under-reporting it. The world is yet to know how dangerous that country is. According to the South African Police Service's 2023/24 annual crime statistics, 27,621 people were killed in homicides, more than six times the global average. If the official statistic puts it at about 72 people being killed every day, what do you think the actual death toll could be? 80, 90? Maybe even 100 lives in a population of roughly 70 million people, yet the world media is not making a fuss about it.

Children who do not know how to tie the laces of their own shoes are proficient in shooting.

Some of my experiences while in South Africa exposed me to realities that many people outside the country never see. I witnessed families with multiple members in prison for separate offences, including fathers and sons, brothers, and even mothers serving sentences on unrelated charges.

The bragging right in prison is how big your crime is, and to them, it is more honorable to kill someone than to steal. So if you accuse an inmate wrongly, they would proudly tell you they are murderers and not thieves.
I'll share more light on my experience there in subsequent articles.

Bringing the discussion back home, as a well-travelled Nigerian, I believe we contribute to the crime problem in some of our host countries than many of us are willing to admit.

Around the world, Nigerians are admired—sometimes openly, sometimes quietly—for our intelligence, resilience, determination, and entrepreneurial spirit. Unfortunately, some among us take the pursuit of success to dangerous extremes. The minority of us are spoiling the goodwill of the majority of us.
As painful as the stereotype may be, we cannot honestly claim to be entirely innocent. Until we confront these uncomfortable truths and begin to hold ourselves accountable alongside demanding accountability from our government, many countries will continue to tighten immigration policies and deport those who violate their laws.
Patriotism is not only about defending our country against criticism. It is also about having the courage to acknowledge our shortcomings and working together to correct them.


K.D. Oniyide
Socials: @kdoniyide2
Email; kd.oniyide@gmail.com

Social commentator and change advocate writing on issues that promote justice, accountability, and better living conditions for all.

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Please help a brother, send me links to watch this match.

Dem kill my mama

The atrocities committed by Nigerian soldiers, as highlighted in Fela Anikulapo-Kuti's 'Unknown Soldier,' are a painful reminder of Nigeria's dark past. The trigger-happy soldiers have indeed rendered many children orphans, and their actions have left deep scars. To add salt to injury, I watched in dismay as those who claim to be champions of democracy fraternized the most anti-democratic human being this nation has ever seen, General Ibrahim Babangida, at the launch of his book. This man perpetrated heinous crimes against the Nigerian people.

Are we to talk about the assasination of Dele Giwa? Or the execusion of Mamman Vasta? A former ally turned perceived enemy. The list is endless.

With all due respect to the Abiola family, June 12 was not just about MKO Abiola; it represented the collective aspirations of Nigerians seeking freedom from tyranny. It embodies the hopes and dreams of a generation yearning for democracy, justice, and a better life. It was about teenagers like me who weren't eligible to vote but saw the excitement on our parents' faces at the mention of hope 93.

Reducing the struggle to a single individual diminishes the sacrifices made by countless Nigerians. Furthermore, apologizing solely to the Abiola family ignores the widespread suffering endured by thousands of families across the country.

The aftermath of the annulment saw professional bodies, including doctors, go on strike, exacerbating the humanitarian crisis. This led to further loss of life, including many who, like my mother, were unable to access medical care.

My mother, Aduke, and many other Nigerian mothers, fathers, breadwinners, and loved ones died in the hospitals nationwide.

My young self and many other Nigerians took to the streets in protest, the soldiers faced us with live ammunition. My 'egbon adugbo', Brother Luku, was gunned down beside me. He had warned me to return home just minutes before his blood baptised me.

In the evening, my mother also passed away due to the lack of medical attention, we couldn't transfer her to a private hospital as all access roads to and from the general hospital were blocked by men in camouflage. Babangida owes me and millions of Nigerians an unreserved apology. What's the use of his library, which will be shut down the moment he answers the call of nature? I believe his well-meaning donors should put their money to better use by building stronger democratic institutions through leadership schools, human resources centers etc.

As for President Tinubu, I've always said that most so-called freedom fighters are only using you to achieve their own personal agendas. They don't mean well for you. Who would have thought that the same Tinubu who was a frontline campaigner against Babangida would sit at the same table with him and laugh like a newlywed virgin bride on her honeymoon? Adams Oshiomhole spent decades campaigning against bad governance, but when given the chance to govern Edo state, he couldn't implement the changes he had advocated for. Okorocha, the 'philanthropist,' was only a farmer who harvested everything he had given out in million folds and robbed Imo of its future.

In conclusion, true leadership requires acknowledging past wrongs and working towards genuine reconciliation. Babangida owes every Nigerian an unreserved apology. He should use his influence to billd a better Nigeria.

K.D Oniyide

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First half draw

How market? Is KDB still not working?

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Our attention has been drawn to recent publications both in some daily newspapers and online media outfits alleging that our company, Brickwall Global Investment Ltd., failed to allocate plots of land to subscribers who paid for our land scheme at Mayflower Garden Estate, Ikorodu, Lagos State and, by so doing, made insinuations of fraud against our company.

We wish to assure all our customers and members of the public that the allegations contained in the said publication are untrue, malicious and calculated to inflict reputational damages to our company. For the record, we state that our Mayflower Garden Estate at Ikorodu, Lagos is a reality and there is no fraud attached to scheme. We also make bold to state that no subscriber to any of our schemes, including the said Mayflower Garden Estate, has ever been defrauded by our company.

For the avoidance of doubt, we state that allocation plots of land to our numerous subscribers to the said scheme at Mayflower Garden Estate, Ikorodu has been ongoing and this is being done in phases. The first phase which consists of 15 allocations at the approach section of estate was completed between 2017 and 2018 and all the subscribers to this first phase have received their allocation papers. This fact is verifiable. The allocation of the second phase of the scheme is currently ongoing and it is expected to accommodate at least 50 subscribers and we assure all those who have completed their payments and are yet to receive their allocations that they will certainly get their physical allocations when the allotments in this second phase are completed.

We also recognize the fact that in the course of making these allocations, our company has met with some challenges arising from some subscribers who did not like the location of the plots at the scheme due to the unstable topography of their locations. This issue is been resolved by our company and we assure all affected subscribers to the scheme that they would have their allocations at the end of the day.

With regard to the legal action instituted by some aggrieved subscribers to the scheme as a result of the misunderstanding arising from the location of their plots at the scheme, our team of lawyers are currently responding to the law suit and being a matter that is currently in Court, and as a responsible organization, we shall not comment further on the matter, until the matter is disposed of. However, as one of the foremost real estate firms in the country, we re-assure all our clients, customers and the public that we shall continue to hold our customers and clients very dear and would never relent in making their dreams of being landlords, which is the cardinal objective of our organization, a reality.

Signed.



K.D. ONIYIDE
For Brickwall Global Investment Limited

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KopiteP:
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I know some people will come and read meaning into the style of handshake in the last photo.

Is this guy actually a SARS official?

This guy is going to treat the other housemates like his children very senseless human being.

They are all for the money...

Any mancity fan in the house? Gather here

This is an arranged marriage for visa. Receive sense guys.

Lol, them plenty, go to Christ embassy...

mechanics:
Those on election duty and those engaging BHTs won't vote but the ones not on election duty can vote.

inoki247:
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That asshole is just looking for a way to trend. Him for kukuma say na him invent yoruba language. Ewu!

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