₦airaland Forum

@ treasureboy09.
The organisation is in lagos and they are recruiting for the state. You will not be shortlisted once they realise you don't know the environment you intend to work.

I just feel we ve people out there that needs a job. P.H.L limited is a new company in need of urgent relationship officer. It is an investment company in lagos. OND and HND holder on this forum seeking for job can please send your CV to this address olumide_olawale@yahoo.com. Who knows,you can be the next to be shortlisted. I was told initially that all application close today,but you can still send yours as the company urgently needs employee. You don't need to ve experience to apply, once you have a good communication skill, you can be the candidate. The interview starts next week. I am sending this because it was miraculously I got my job too through this medium.

I just think i should share with us. Recruitment is on going for sales/relationship officer in P.H.L Limited in lagos. thou,they need just few employees as it is a small organisation. The salary is not much i guess but it can just be a start for OND and HND holders that needs to work.
You can send your CV to olumide_olawale@yahoo.com. Applications closes 6pm today.
Regards

How will you react if u realise your boyfriend or girlfriend never complete the day without interaction with the Ex and does that only when you are not around.Is that man or woman worth having a relationship with?I feel it is better to let the man or woman stick to the Ex while u opt out since it is difficult making decision who they want. Your opinion please.

my fellow nairalanders,I need you to tell me if i am thinking straight.myself and my fiancee started dating 4years ago and we are taking each step one after the other as .Since i met the man in my life,i know i can never love anyone like i love him.I gave my all,sincerity,obedience,honesty,all that a man wants from a woman.my office is far from where my fiancee resides and for this reason i only go over to his house over the weekend and very recent i noticed his ex girlfriend has the key to the house that i dont ve. When i asked him he said she had it before they broke up 5years ago,i told him to get the key from her or change the locks but all i get is excuses. his ex has been a constant issue and he gives me excuses that she comes around because she does not have any relationship and she sees him as a best friend and mentor. I just feel i ve tried my best to condole this nonsense.It is bad to the stage that the girl sleeps over. I feel so sad writing this as i love my man so so much,but i want to take the step of walking away from the relationship.my sister advise me that if i walk way and he knows he loves me and he is not ready to end our relationship because of his ex he will put things right.please advise,i am so confused. I was looking forward to our wedding date but now all am looking at is walking away as coping is now a serious issue for me.

When your ex-s becomes your handbag.
You said he's your ex and you still meet for dinner dates and whatnot, no matter how much he trusted you, don't make him doubt you. Hence, you let go! It isn't an issue of insecurity but an issue of doing what's right. There is no reason for you seeing your ex. If it's somewhat official, demand a replacement, find someone else to have on those dates and discussions; just not your ex. You both could be friends but not regular meetings or phone calls. Save your relationship some drama and watch him propose to you in no time


I think rule 14 is a good reason for a woman to break off the relationship too. my fiancee is not ready to agree to this. His ex still comes around him and he tells me its just for few reasons and i think it is not worth it to still continue with the relationship. He should be able to choose between us.Is it that people do not understand what you call ex. if you truly claim to be done with a relationship then why unnecessary attachment. i am seeing my fiancee as a man that does not deserve me again and i think i am walking away.

[color=#006600]

ammyluv2002: Hmm!!!!! Well, I don't know what to say but its easier said than done. Being disrespectful to husbands isn't what most women do intentionally...once a man is rich, no matter what he does, the wife is likely to forgive him aside that women forgive easily in marriage. Most homes are going thru a lot(abuse, cheating,etc) yet the woman remains calm.. Now, in the case of that woman maybe the man has been lazy, refused to work, refused getting another job or just depends on the wife's money because some men are like that so the woman has been keeping & providing for the family probably for years, it takes the spirit of God for that woman not to disrespect the man...we are all human and have limits so let's also see it from this angle. We might not really understand because we are not in her shoes but believe me, I don't think is easy especially when the man is lazy. Some women on the other hand are just mean, once there's no money everything changes that's why, we really have to relay on God when choosing a life partner because it goes more than the Physical. Is not all about beauty please choose your partners from the inside and above all consult your creator.

[/color]
I agree totally to your post,this is just the simple illustration to the topic.Some men will not simply tell you the stories. lots of women are just the one acting as the man.as much as the bible says God hates divorce,it is the same bible that says a man that can not provide for his own household is worse than an infidel. If a man is working hard and straight forward in his dealings it will be weird of any woman to react disrespectful but if my man never bothers to work and leave me to responsibilities then i can never never never never respect the man cos laziness can never be tolerated with a man in marriage most especially when kids are involved.will you wait till a lazy man run you and your children into everlasting crisis.if my man is not working temporary due to few failure in somethings i will love him and because i know he is a man that knows what he is doing,i will stand by him and pray with him and i know God will make a way,but for a lazy man that feels the woman should do it all while he sleeps at home or no ambition then i will disrespect him while i think of my future with my inheritance from heaven(children) by facing my life most especially when the man is not ready to start something. i can never cope with a lazy man,God forbid

h

what nonsense is this man saying,how can you compare a man to a woman.why on earth will a girl cheat on her boyfriend.promiscuity in a woman is totally unacceptable .haba....resisting temptation is the strength of a woman.if a woman is a slut then let her be call a slut.why would my girlfriend sleep with close to 8 men in a year,if she sleeps with just one she is gone for good.i agree we are human and people make mistakes but when the act is more than once then it is already an habit and i can never never keep such woman,i will rather remain single for the rest of my life.the moment i take sole responsibility of a woman and she lacks nothing and i discover she is into another man then such woman should be killed before a snake.though some men are so frustrating that allow some women to face responsibilities and this can expose a woman but if that is not the case and you starts sleeping about possibly for money then you are just advanced prostitute and should not be called a wife. even if a woman sees her man cheating,that is not an encouragement to cheat.for God sake why would anyone sleep around when you have a man that is able,if you have a girl that cheat and you know yourself as a man that is responsible,u will kill that woman.the only reason why anyone will accept consistent promiscuity in a woman is just that the man is a total failure. if i have a good agreement with my babe and we share all together and she is into this act consistently then let me go get a prostitute on the road. you will realize that lot of those prostitute went into that unknowingly and possibly because of family challenges and they are never committed to any man ,but with a babe that presented herself to me as my girlfriend and claim she is committed to me now acting like that then" ko make sense at all". temptation is not any excuse at all. dont let us encourage such in a woman please.

I have been in this relationship for over 6years and i know my man loves me.In the first year of our relationship he got to know i was having an affair as i mistakenly called him the name of the other guy in the middle of a serious interaction and that arouse his suspicion,he got the facts in less than a week and i apologized which he accepted and forgave me after two weeks of crying.Two years ago my friend introduced me to her cousin in the uk and i felt since the guy will only come home once in a while i can run the relationship,3months ago my boyfriend saw a western union form flip off my wallet with all the details of the other guy and he got his fact again that i have been dating the guy for a while.The problem now is that he said he does not want to see me again till he goes to the grave,he changed his mobile number,last week i went to his apartment i was told he had moved out,i went to the parents house but i left with shame as the mother told me it is never possible for her son to marry me as i am insatiable. i took a step further to his office he told the security to send me out and that the next time he sees me around him i will be sent to early grave by him,he said i must feel he is a fool and that the very first time he caught me wth such act,he decided to forgive me because it was barely a year into the relationship then and that no serious commitment then but now that he introduced me to everyone and that i know all about him and i still have the guts to do it then never again will the relationship continue.He said except i can point out one thing that he had ever denied me of in the 6years of our relationship then he can forgive,and my people sincerely nothing to point to as i have never lacked anything. He further said he took up my responsibilities so as to make life easy and that if he ever marries me i will still not be satisfied,he said he would have accepted my plea if he was not capable. please my people,is this truly the end of the relationship as it is so glaring he is not interested again. do i just take the walk as he already claims that he sees nothing good in me again.i just need his forgiveness while i try to move on with my life because it is certain he does not love me again and since his mother is aware of my escapades including colleagues and friends,then i can never be respected again.but please how do i get him to just forgive me and move on in pain.please i need your response