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Re: Before Calling Your Girlfriend A Slut, Read! by MANOSUB(m): 9:43pm On Mar 05, 2013 |
I beg to disagree with u in ur reasoning. You need to know who a slut is and who a lover is. A slut goes after material things, she does not care about feelings or love for the opposite sex while the lover cares, develop feelings and love for the guy who comes after her; sometimes it takes a long time and at times it is love at first sight. If the lover is deceived and goes after the another, a supposedly Mr right and then end up dating/sleeping with as much guys in her life time, she could be said to be a victim while the one who only care about what you can offer can continuosly be criticize and monk'* by guys. Such deserve the monkery in her life time because no guy is stupid! 1 Like |
Re: Before Calling Your Girlfriend A Slut, Read! by JEMMYP(f): 9:44pm On Mar 05, 2013 |
@ pleep: Nobody said you are a fool, I am only stating my opinion. Thats whats the topic is meant for. And i didn't say every woman is forced. influenced, lied to or whatever reason, there is always i first time. some had it early and some late but its no guarantee it will make u a much better person afterwards |
Re: Before Calling Your Girlfriend A Slut, Read! by kelechi6: 9:48pm On Mar 05, 2013 |
what nonsense is this man saying,how can you compare a man to a woman.why on earth will a girl cheat on her boyfriend.promiscuity in a woman is totally unacceptable .haba....resisting temptation is the strength of a woman.if a woman is a slut then let her be call a slut.why would my girlfriend sleep with close to 8 men in a year,if she sleeps with just one she is gone for good.i agree we are human and people make mistakes but when the act is more than once then it is already an habit and i can never never keep such woman,i will rather remain single for the rest of my life.the moment i take sole responsibility of a woman and she lacks nothing and i discover she is into another man then such woman should be killed before a snake.though some men are so frustrating that allow some women to face responsibilities and this can expose a woman but if that is not the case and you starts sleeping about possibly for money then you are just advanced prostitute and should not be called a wife. even if a woman sees her man cheating,that is not an encouragement to cheat.for God sake why would anyone sleep around when you have a man that is able,if you have a girl that cheat and you know yourself as a man that is responsible,u will kill that woman.the only reason why anyone will accept consistent promiscuity in a woman is just that the man is a total failure. if i have a good agreement with my babe and we share all together and she is into this act consistently then let me go get a prostitute on the road. you will realize that lot of those prostitute went into that unknowingly and possibly because of family challenges and they are never committed to any man ,but with a babe that presented herself to me as my girlfriend and claim she is committed to me now acting like that then" ko make sense at all". temptation is not any excuse at all. dont let us encourage such in a woman please. 2 Likes |
Re: Before Calling Your Girlfriend A Slut, Read! by MANOSUB(m): 9:56pm On Mar 05, 2013 |
masterpiecer:There is no truth in ur post but misplaced feelings |
Re: Before Calling Your Girlfriend A Slut, Read! by kelechi6: 9:58pm On Mar 05, 2013 |
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Re: Before Calling Your Girlfriend A Slut, Read! by pleep(m): 10:00pm On Mar 05, 2013 |
Most of yall ladies be sleeping around on a prostitutional scale anyway so i don't know what you want praise for. |
Re: Before Calling Your Girlfriend A Slut, Read! by Matthewbriggs(m): 10:01pm On Mar 05, 2013 |
Nice Analysis but very wrong premise, it's illogical therefore destroys your conclusion. Your analysis would have worked if Men and Women were wired equaly or have the same emotional and physical characteristics. Leme apply your logic in a different scenario and you can judge how it weighs in EG. Most of us are quick to judge Bankers who commit fraud: "That Guy na serious thief see as he embezzled 20billion from people who trust him with his their hard earned money!". "I still can't believe it, this guy should be jailed for life. But have we ever stopped to look at the world through their own eyes? The Average Bank cashier on a normal working day, comes in contact with average of 10million naira in a day. At just 5million in a day that is 365 x 5,000,000= appx. 1.9bilion naira in just ONE year. And then, there's the next year, and the next year and the next year... all this money are not his kai. And to add petrol to fire, standard of living keep rising and responsibilities keep piling, Rent's increasing, fuel, food etc. But that will not justify him if he is caught stealing even 100Naira, and if caught he might even end up been convicted as a criminal. Why because there are some control mechanisms the bank management put in place to prevent him from doing so, like paying him well, and creating a system that detect and prevent fraud on a fly therefore scaring him from doing so. Where I am getting at via this analogy. Nature has place in women some check and balances to help them overcome the billions or trillions of temptation the get every year, mechanisms like they get turned on by words not visual, Sex is more emotional and deeper not casual or trivial, i can go on and on to mention the mechanisms, i guess i've made my point. For Every 1,825 guys she meet every year nature has given her the power to resist them . Therefore if they fall for this temptation they are have failed and are prone to bear whatever names or consequence that comes with it. @Op There is no use trying to INDIRECTLY justifying what is wrong or demanding it should be seen from a new light. Call a spade a spade. A woman that sleeps around is a slut a man that does it above normal is a pig or a dog. The only point I agree with you is that Men should not be quick to judge women why because as you said , don't judge a man until you walk a mile in his moccasins 6 Likes |
Re: Before Calling Your Girlfriend A Slut, Read! by bugzylala(m): 10:02pm On Mar 05, 2013 |
if to say na babe post this topic now "dem" go call'am feminist!..say she dey defensive, buh now wey na man post'am some ppl still get issues with dat. why should it matter who is speaking the Facts.. |
Re: Before Calling Your Girlfriend A Slut, Read! by violent(m): 10:05pm On Mar 05, 2013 |
Richfella: What?? Kamari ni Pauli wi! |
Re: Before Calling Your Girlfriend A Slut, Read! by getukudo(m): 10:10pm On Mar 05, 2013 |
pleep: Dude, if you want to date sluts be my guest. Who cares? No ones asked you to stop. That girl who slept with 3 men in 1 year actually slept with 10, the girl who claims shes a virgin slept with 3. Your babe or wife fit be SLUT sha! ℓ☺ℓ stop 'acting' decent. When you dey f**k other people babe, you tag dem 'sluts'and you come here to say you are decent. Olodo! |
Re: Before Calling Your Girlfriend A Slut, Read! by freecocoa(f): 10:11pm On Mar 05, 2013 |
How people can compare stealing and intimate urges, yet make excuses for men indulging in what they claim is taboo for women beats me. 1 Like |
Re: Before Calling Your Girlfriend A Slut, Read! by loswhite(m): 10:11pm On Mar 05, 2013 |
Missy_B: If you're going to defend a thing as promiscuity, I expect you to have a thought-out and peachy justification for it rather than the flimsy excuse of proposal and enticement. I mean, even the excuse of personal right to sexu@l indulgence seems to be more plausible and hold water.coming frm a female thumps up. Poster 2 dull to realize wat u've js stated 1 Like |
Re: Before Calling Your Girlfriend A Slut, Read! by VolvoS60(m): 10:30pm On Mar 05, 2013 |
Richfella: ^^^^What if the 'piece of meat' isn't 'little'? And what do you do when you find out this is the only reason your partner 'ate' it in the first place? So many questions and not enough answers. 1 Like |
Re: Before Calling Your Girlfriend A Slut, Read! by Daresh(f): 10:33pm On Mar 05, 2013 |
Richfella: Thank you jare. As I always say, pus5y no get meter! |
Re: Before Calling Your Girlfriend A Slut, Read! by johnnyhandsom(m): 10:42pm On Mar 05, 2013 |
Bullcrap. Op why don't you tell your sisters and daughters and your mother to f-uck any man that asks them to f-uck with them . Id-iot. |
Re: Before Calling Your Girlfriend A Slut, Read! by getukudo(m): 10:47pm On Mar 05, 2013 |
johnny handsom: Bullcrap. Op why don't you tell your sisters and daughters and your mother to f-uck any man that asks them to f-uck with them . Id-iot. Who be dis one? Your own sense you leave am for pussy? Read again! |
Re: Before Calling Your Girlfriend A Slut, Read! by Blackgold09(f): 10:48pm On Mar 05, 2013 |
eduson002: Whatz d meaning of these?read am again or r u a learner? |
Re: Before Calling Your Girlfriend A Slut, Read! by johnnyhandsom(m): 10:52pm On Mar 05, 2013 |
getukudo: Otu gbawa nne gi there |
Re: Before Calling Your Girlfriend A Slut, Read! by ofeseluayakata(m): 10:54pm On Mar 05, 2013 |
To those calling men hypocrites for labeling women who sleep around as sluts while not using the same judgement on promiscuous men, you have to understand that most men do not consider women as their equals. That is the fundamental issue that engenders this types of discourses. If a man slaps a woman, he is called a woman beater, but if a woman slaps a man, she is not called a man beater. There are advantages and disadvantages of being belonging to either gender. If women want to be judged like men, then they must be prepared to lose all the advantages they have as women. 1 Like |
Re: Before Calling Your Girlfriend A Slut, Read! by greedie1(f): 11:14pm On Mar 05, 2013 |
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Re: Before Calling Your Girlfriend A Slut, Read! by greedie1(f): 11:14pm On Mar 05, 2013 |
ayobase:missed ya more!! been here and der, busy doing nothing im good, u? guess u ve been busy? welcome back, nl is boring without u. |
Re: Before Calling Your Girlfriend A Slut, Read! by Ivynwa(f): 11:16pm On Mar 05, 2013 |
Did he really say that? I mean I was reading on thinking that it's a woman defending the feminine gender and was surprised that it was a man after all. On a serious note, there is nothing good about sleeping with Harry, Herbert and all the men that comes along but some truth abound in the poster's post. Same thing I always think about, I mean men go about sleeping with all kinds of women and still find it in them to turn around and label the women they sleep with, impregnate and even abandon(Jeez!) as sluts. I once gave it back to a holier-than-thou male Nairalander that has dated and slept with a single mother, he announced that in the thread and was in the same thread telling another goodly man (that has an open mind towards single mothers and can date them) that single mothers are below people like him. I asked him in that thread "so single mothers are good for your booty call but below your self-righteous self to marry? Isn't that wicked of such men, they can use women and dump them and run after the ones they think are noble and pure. WTFr*ak! |
Re: Before Calling Your Girlfriend A Slut, Read! by viperman: 11:26pm On Mar 05, 2013 |
This is a very silly brownie-point-scoring post. This is also the problem with society...comparing male and female psychology and trying to establish equality between them when there can NEVER be equality. We were created to be different, and to handle societal and environmental issues differently. It takes a very high level of understanding to know how we are different yet complement eachother. |
Re: Before Calling Your Girlfriend A Slut, Read! by mckenzie125: 11:54pm On Mar 05, 2013 |
debosky:hmmmmmmm u talk about bin considerate and respect.......Dearie an IGBO man wit his 3quarter shots and his half cover shoe does not respect ladies...dis I konw frm d East cos I skooled der.Gbam! |
Re: Before Calling Your Girlfriend A Slut, Read! by dBard: 11:55pm On Mar 05, 2013 |
Richfella: Hey guys...am BACK! Went to do something about my 'developing' pot-belly. this is simply bull. if I sleep wit a girl cos of monetary inducement, then I deserve t b called a slut. 124 likes f dis crap. Ladies, respect yourselves n we will respect you all. it's dat simple |
Re: Before Calling Your Girlfriend A Slut, Read! by trolling(m): 11:58pm On Mar 05, 2013 |
two shall become one says the book...so if u sleep with a w.hore that makes u a w.hore too |
Re: Before Calling Your Girlfriend A Slut, Read! by ayobase(m): 12:01am On Mar 06, 2013 |
gree-die: I'm good here also sweet sister! Some other things are taking me away from NL though...missed the follow ups! I try as much as possible to atleast come in here within 11pm-1am everyday against all odds! |
Re: Before Calling Your Girlfriend A Slut, Read! by Nobody: 12:03am On Mar 06, 2013 |
u jst called urself a slut. |
Re: Before Calling Your Girlfriend A Slut, Read! by dBard: 12:06am On Mar 06, 2013 |
pleep: Most of yall be sleeping around on a prostitutional scale anyway so i don't know what you want praise for. dude, not every.biz goes around poking it into every mobile hole/crack. 3 dates, including sex in a year is too much f a girl by ANY standards. that girl is Easy.. |
Re: Before Calling Your Girlfriend A Slut, Read! by Nobody: 12:08am On Mar 06, 2013 |
Thank God that i'm not a girl. I can't resist such temptation. A guy can be on his own without encountering offer for intimate relationship but for a girl, thousands of houseflies follows her around begging for relationship/sex. Kudos to all single ladies in the house!!! Dancing atilo |
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