Amy008: I am a woman searching for a friendship that would lead to marriage. Men age between 41-52 only. Reply here if you are interested, no games please. Much love!
Freshtruth: Omo today happen to be one of the worse day in my life omo conjii hold me na I say make I go this ashawo quater very far from my hands my class mates dey hawk food unknown to me as I enter d place na so she just called my name kelvin chai I no feel reply shame wear me coat conji die I run back home in tears. I think today will be my last day going to that place for life
All is well bro. There's nothing to gain from going to Ashawo Quarters. Even when you do it self, your eyes go clear
There are some single mothers that are not common, if you meet them once, your life has changed for better for ever. They're not after your money or anything. All they want is to have someone to protect them, be their companion and be there for them whenever she needs his attention. Some of them became single mothers cos of the demise of their husbands. Some fell victim of being a single mother while some are real single mothers (I won't say much about this one). The one I met has money. I mean money. She has her house, she has her business, we're childhood friend. So, if you jam a person like this, your life has changed forever. And when they love you like this, you don enter am. They will love you will there whole heart. This is not a mere say, I've witnessed it
Glimpsetv: On the night of December 22, 2025, Lagos’ Eko Convention Centre came alive as Flavour and Prophet Chukwuemeka Odumeje, popularly known as the Indaboski, took the stage together at Flytime Fest.
The duo delivered a high-octane performance of their hit collaboration, “Powers,” captivating the audience with every beat. Fans couldn’t stop talking about their striking “War Ready” outfits, which combined bold and designer fashion choices, making their stage presence even more unforgettable. This performance further cements the rising partnership between Flavour and Odumeje, following the earlier success of their single “Power,” which dominated multiple streaming charts this year.
Pharmtj: e nor easy at all,this monthgo make am 2yrs on the road. What I bargain for is not what am getting now.
I'm sorry to say this, most parties (man or woman) disguise before getting married. Afterwards, the true picture comes in. The either party will be so loving and caring before getting married, afterwards, things change and you will see the true colour of your partner. Marriage is a black market. And some are highly favoured with good partners.
Orlandoo: Made up stories just to get unmerited attention.
This story may be real oooo. A friend of mine's husband died early this year (with three children), she's getting married soon as well. She's in her early forties too
Bitterkola100: As an avid traveller that has been to 12 african countries:
Benin rep, togo, ghana, ivory coast, cameroon, niger rep, Libya, tazania, kenya, zambia, egypt and rwanda. I have spent at least two weeks in all these countries except kenya where i only spend two days at most but on swveral occasions because i normally transit in kenya when going to tazania because the tazania immigration started profiling me unnecessarily.
I have been to eight european countries: poland, my fiancee is polish, Germany, belarus, Bulgaria, italy, russia, uk, malta.
I have spent at least one month in these countries except uk, Manchester, where i have spent a week twice.
In asia i have been to South korea and Phillipines.
Been to USA, my first time been just before the covid, canada and argetina.
In Nigeria i have been to at least 20 states.
I am currently in kenya though and plan staying for at least six months this time.
I can authoritatively say that south korean women are the most beautiful women in the world. i dont know how God created south korea to be different from other asian countries in terms of looks and and height, south korea women are always so very tall unlike their fellow Asians The women are so always classy, elegant.
russian women and fellow eatern Europe women like Bulgaria, belarus, poland to a large extent are the second most beautiful women in the world, they are tall, slim with always perfect nose and face structure, in fact russian women are so fine that the fat ones i met are always also beautiful.
The country with the ugliest women i have seen so far is Germany.
In Nigeria, due to my love for tall and slim women i would say the fulanis are the most beautiful in Nigeria and among the most beautiful in the world too.
Togolese women have the biggest bum bum in all the nations i have been to, i don't know why oir musicians don't sing about togo women bum bum the way they do about ghanians.
The most respectful women i have met in my life are ghanian women, ghanian woman would offer to help you if you are handful, they can abadon whatever they are doing just to make you comfortable and ok, infact the word "please" was made specifically cor ghanian women, an average ghana woman would say "please" before or after any sentence.
The most hardworking, Godly, respectful women in the world are polish women. Polish women are complete package, an average polish woman is the original way God made women until devil started wearing skirt and heels.
The most mannerless, insultive, nasty amd loose women i have come across are black Americans, damn. Apart from the vibes, carefree attitude, God forbid.
The most intelligent set of women in the world are Bulgarians, surprisingly. I met three Bulgarians with higher than normal iq, two learnt english by themselves without ever spending time with English speakers.
The laziest, most entitled, most annoying, criminally minded women i have met in my life are Nigerian women.
The best dressed women i have met are koreans, mostly the ones in city, the upper class.
My first encounter with a libya woman, despite not being close to her she covered her nose, as a sign that me and my aruba, my fellow naija man are smelling.
A togolese woman cursed me for playing with her little child, she called me ritualist without knowing me or haven't met me prior, just because i am a nigerian.
Rwanda women are heavenly, never seen a smile so fine as that of keza, tazania women are fine as well, i stayed in a university area in tazania and a female tz student nearly killed me with their sweet rice.
*Some ghanian men nearly killed me for holding the waist of a Ghanaian girl, so therefore ghana men are the most jealous and YEYE men in the world.
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What's your experience with our beautiful women around the world?
Yes, he's correct.. Russia women are also fantastic. Have you been to Iran before, their women are also very very good.
There's no correlation between what I just read. A paragraph pointes out that the man is d**d and another paragraph said he's receiving treatment in the hospital. Which one should we believe now.
I can't and won't beg a woman for s*x. Not to talk of begging a woman for a year. Na she go beg me at last. I will first abandon her. All the money for upkeep, I will withdraw it. I won't stay at home again. Maybe once in 5 months. Na she go beg me. The man doesn't have good job with good pay ni, me wey dey run for women na one woman go dey make yanga for, it may be in the next world o, but for this one, she dare not.
Pls, don't let us speak negativity against our women; like calling them names. They are God's creature like you and me. One day, most of us will have children, and surprisingly, female gender will be there. They are very good and most things that happened/happens to them depends on their upbringing, the friends they make, their respective beliefs and other things. We are to encourage them and not saying otherwise. I've not seen a lady's comment on this topic.
I have known her for years. But we just got in relationship early this year. It happens that she asked for data sub from me and I couldn't assist.
I was really broke then.
She was already doubting if I loved her. I actually do love
But I couldn't assist her.
Now the relationship has ended.
I am thinking I made a mistake
I need to make my finances better.
I am happy for you that she left you. She doesn't deserve you. If a lady understands the man she's dating, it would be okay. You didn't make any mistake. A Rome wasn't built in a day. Success starts as a gradual process. Move on Bro and God will give you your own better half
funkmrflexx: I always heard that women were manipulative but I didn’t experience it until I got married. My wife isn’t a bad person, in fact she’s a wonderful woman but I noticed that she develops this cold attitude towards me anytime I don’t dance to her tune most time
Recently she told me I’ve changed because I refused to go and pray with her and her mom and siblings. I told them I wasn’t interested in their prayers, it was new year eve. I told her I wasn’t going to cross over with her and her siblings , she was very angry. She claims I’m too stubborn that I don’t listen to her , even when I try to tell her something new about my business , sometimes she will try to kill the idea and want me to do it her own way , so I stopped telling her about my business.
Another instance was when I told her that as a man I needed some time alone with my friends, because anytime I go out , she’s always calling me even when I’m in meetings. I got angry about and we quarreled about the issue . I work from home so I don’t go out a lot . I only go out maybe once throughout the week to either play football , hangout with friends but she’s always calling me , so after the quarrel she became very cold towards me .
There are other instances I can’t mention here where she has tried to label me bad because I didn’t agree to what she wants.
I now see that men who women label as good men are those that listen and act on their every whim but if you are a man who doesn’t like to listen to her and try do your own thing sometimes , you’ll become a bad person.
I Think this is how women are in general
From what I just read here, your wife is not manipulative. She loves you, calling you is to check up on you. With the prayer stuff and the likes, she's only doing what she likes but involving you with her family isn't okay by me too. i will advise you too to be manipulative as well. She will now adjust when two manipulative people manipulate each other. But ensure your own manipulation dominates her.
Ajalalomo: We don’t know those who are saying the truth from those that are lying because everyone is now rushing to go buy data so they can write or post anything online.
What I know is that Nigerians can come up with any plot to scam innocent people.
Flowertabs: I'm tired. I want to end it all. This suffering is too much for me. My baby has not eaten since morning. I don't have money to buy her nutribom. What more do I have to live for? I can't do this anymore. Please help me if you can. 814 94 768 31 Palmpay. my name is Mary Bassey
I've seen this post on different write-ups for the past few days. Pls you need to find something better to do than to be begging for money. Some people out there are passing through thesame and they didn't say such words you're saying. God help us.
sEGXY2: Madam stop making hasty generalization and constructing misguided opinions. The level of promiscuity in Benue state is higher than most states however Girls do not pay or beg guys for sexual gratification, Sex is mutually consented by both parties just that the demand for sex here is extremely high which is prevalent in most rural areas.
Benue girls na top-notch in sexcology. Some will visit you without wearing pants, some with wrapper without bra, some go come charge for your house if u're the type that has generator in your village, they will give you free of charge. I'm a living witness and I ran for my dear life
Gerrard59: Even though I've conversed with men whose wives weaponised sex, I never realised it was that serious or women INTENTIONALLY do it until I read through their responses to Veekee James about allowing the man just to put the head inside. The outrage was surprising. Like, they believe it's a favour to the man and can decide to put a time on it. I believe if the man does his part as a husband and father, the least he deserves is constant access when he dire needs it. But with wetin I don read (Nairaland, Twitter and Facebook), I don't envy married men o when it comes to sex.
It's true and not true. Some women hate sex. Before they got married, you will think they have it all but at the end, the man regrets marrying her. He gives her anything she wants and after all pestering and nothing changed, the man as well withdrew his generosity to the wife.
Whiteshield: So, I've dated a couple and I think billing comes in different ways.
I once dated an investment banker. Billing came in the form of flight tickets, weekend getaways. Then, I got shoes, suits and stuff whenever I travelled. She gave me insight on investment opportunities not announced everywhere. Taught me how to evaluate companies with opportunities.
Dated a female engineer. She was a top shot in an Engineering company, had an official car, chauffeur and all. Her billing was in the form of cash loans from time to time. She could just call that she needs USD for an urgent deal. She always paid back. Then, she introduced me to good deals. We made good money together.
Ladies always bill. The idea is to ensure that you're getting commensurate value in return.
Wakatumbit: I've made some previous posts about how my wife threatens me with leaving our marriage everytime we have small issues (I didn't post it with this account). She always threaten to leave anytime we have misunderstandings, not even only misunderstandings, even when we are having normal conversations and someone refers to maybe a bad marriage experience, she always says if it's her she will leave. I've spoken to her about it several times, I have even spoken to her family about the issue but it keeps repeating itself.
She has this kind of mentality that she can leave the marriage at any time I do something to her and she repeats it every time, the last one was during an outing when we had a misunderstanding, even before hearing my own side of the story, she said she already tired of the marriage and wants to leave, so I told her to go if she wants. The next morning, she came to wake me up and told me she doesn't want to do again that she wants to leave, she said she'll call her people and I should call my people. I said fine.
I told my family about it, and they supported me because a woman can't threaten me with marriage after one child.
Another thing my wife does is that she constantly compares me to other men, telling people I don't provide for my family, I don't take care of her, to the extent her friends are telling her that if a man doesn't provide for his woman, then he's pushing her out to meet other men.
In regards to the issue of providing, when we met, things were going very well, it was just the two of us and I had money at the time, I took her on vacation, booked flights for her, bought her hairs, a new phone and all. But now we have a child, added responsibilities, and money isn't as it used to be before but one thing I never do is to starve my family.
Last year I made close to 20m but I didn't see the money, not because I'm an extravagant spender but because of family expenses, I can't even explained what happened to the money aside the fact that I bought a car.
I opened a business for her with almost 3 million, the business crumbled, she doesn't want to do anything, she stays home all day just pressing phone. If I don't have any money at all she can't support me, she calls me for everything, even to as little as salt in the house.
She started comparing our marriage to when she was single, that she used to wear the lastest clothes and buy the lastest hair, and now she's married she doesn't get those things forgetting those where the thing I used to do for her when there was enough money.
This whole thing has made me tired of the marriage and I don't feel like continuing it any more, I've told her to call her people since she doesn't want to continue the marriage so they can return the bride price. I just want to focus on my life
To cut the long story short, let her leave. She's determined to leave. You don't beg a woman to stay in a marriage. She will learn her lesson wherever she goes.
mysticwarrior: For the next three weeks be nice to her, use a well planned deceptive strategy to coax her into thinking she is getting the best treatment from her dad. then tell her you are takimg her to Nigeria to attend a music concert in Nigeria.
Make her believe she would personally meet wiz kid, davido, tems, rema, burna boy and her favorites nigerian artists. You may choose to do this when it's close to her birthday period and make it appear as if you want to give her a good birthday present.
When she is finally in Nigeria take her to a village school where she won't have access to a phone and Internet, that way she won't be able to communicate with her former class mates in obodo oyibo to help her contact the British or American embassy for rescue operation.
You're correct. I want to buttress your point. If the lady in question is a UK citizen (by birth), it won't be as easy as that. It will be a very difficult decision to take. I remember sometimes ago when my brother brought her daughter to Nigeria from UK, he was told to sign some documents that nothing will happen to her and he must bring her back to the UK. Also, I only blame the father. If he's either a Christian or Muslim, he should have taught her the principles or doctrine of Islam before she grew to that age. And on the other hand, what they teach or tell her in the school matters. All what the father needs is divine direction. If the girl is not born in the UK, it will be very easy to lure her back to the country. But if not, it will be difficult. For me personally, I don't buy the idea of bringing children at a tender age to the UK. It's better they're matured and know what life is.
nifemi25: Life is unpredictable.No matter how the situation maybe.. Moving your properties to your inlaws house if as If you moved your properties to a waste bin site... This is where see finish will start from..
One advice for men is, never sleep above a night at your in-laws house. That's even when there's an event that made you to visit then or your children are on holidays. Your wife and children can stay with them. This will earn you more respect from them. Go out and hustle.
immortalcrown: 1. What is your pastor's reason for going against the planned marriage?
2. Now that you want to pay her bride price, is your pastor in support of the idea?
The last time we met, she ultered a statement that she supposed to be enjoying now with me cos she has seen what I have, where I work (with good pay). She's no more herself. I just pitied her which made me to conclude and pay her dowry. My parents most not hear that she's now a single mother because they won't be happy as a result of not marrying her and her parents pushing her to marry by all means cos she's approaching 40 as at then
immortalcrown: 1. What is your pastor's reason for going against the planned marriage?
2. Now that you want to pay her bride price, is your pastor in support of the idea?
Thanks for the question. 1. Till date, he didn't tell me the reason. 2. I won't let him know. Cos if she didn't meet me in the first instance, she won't be in this mess now. I surely believe if it's another person she met in 2006, she will be happily married now with children and will be doing fine. The action has destabilized her career and things are not that easy for her. She only takes care of the child and the man has abandoned her.
This story is personal to me and want others to learn from it. I met my first love during my 3rd year as an undergraduate in 2006. We dated for 5 years. Between the five years, I went for my youth service in the far-North. I came back in January , 2010 after my nysc. My relationship with this lady waxed stronger until one day in 2011, my Pastor told me I will not marry this lady. Pls note that this lady is my first love and I'm also her first love. I was told to inform this lady that my Pastor will not permit me to marry her. Afterwards, I informed her and she thought it was a prank. It wasn't easy for me. I have to move on. This lady waited for me for eight good years, not married that I will come back for her. After sometimes, all the men this lady met, she didn't like them except me. In the long run, her parents and family members started abusing her and she left her family house for Lagos. She met a single father, far older than her because she's almost clocking 40 years as of that time. She got pregnant for him, thinking the man will go and pay her dowry and marry her. The lady gave birth and the man abandoned her with her child. In 2023, we reconnected back and she didn't tell me until I persuaded her. Now, she's a single mother, staying with her parents. I felt so bad that I wished I never met her before. If I didn't have any relationship with her, she should be happily married now cos I waisted the most important years of her life. I informed her to let me pay her dowry, and get her back into my life. This is how some ladies got into single motherhood. That's why I blame some and I don't blame some. The story is too sketchy. I will continue another day.
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Soulmate Connection by Kelvin247Gold: 8:36pm On Apr 20
