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Re: How To Increase Intimacy In Marriages by jimmynauty: 9:10pm On Aug 10, 2021
blog4all:
HOW TO BOOST INTIMACY IN YOUR MARRIAGE

1. Know that intimacy is not just about having sexual intercourse but nurturing a warm, exclusive and strong connection between you two

2. Talk heart to heart. Talk about how you feel, how you are, notice each other's goodness. Talk more than just bills, the children and responsibilities

3. Maintain oral and body hygiene. Your spouse will struggle to get close to you when you smell

4. Make time to spend together. Intimacy is not rushed

5. When you two are far from each other, chat and talk warmly over the phone so that when you meet at home it is a continuation of the warmth

6. Kiss more than your spouse's lips. Kiss your spouse's forehead, cheeks, neck, fingers, arms, back, thighs... The skin has alot of room

7. Talk to each other with a tone that is not attacking, this will invite you both to each other's presence

8. Laugh together. Humour makes two people bond easier

9. Eat together often. Food is a unifier

10. Make out often. Making out involves lengthy deep kissing, handling, cuddling, massaging

11. Ask each other leading questions. These are questions that will require conversations and not a yes or no answer. Questions such as "How is your dream coming along?", "How did you get this mark on your arm?", "What do you love about us?"

12. Complain less, appreciate more. It is difficult to enjoy the company of someone who is constantly negative

13. Pray more as a couple. Prayers brings you two closer

14. Do activities together. Find something you both can do together such as cooking, playing a game, watching a movie, dancing; love is built on activity

15. Dress in a manner that excites and pulls your spouse to you. Confidently look appealing

16. Give each other eye contact more so that you focus on each other. Tame your phone, TV and gadget use

God bless every home

Re: How To Increase Intimacy In Marriages by labelle123(f): 9:29pm On Aug 10, 2021
That bad breath sucks
Re: How To Increase Intimacy In Marriages by labelle123(f): 9:33pm On Aug 10, 2021
humilitypays:
Married couple should have sex once a week or once in two weeks to avoid killing the fun.


Frequent sexing of same person bores men especially. sometimes make yourself unavoidable for him.


As a married lady, watch your tummy and boobs.


Big tummy and saggy boobs are the main reasons married men lose sexual fire for their one time hot wifey.


If you can afford it, after giving birth go for breast lifting to bring it back to shape it's not a bad thing.



Naturally men get bored sleeping with one woman over and over. the few men that manage to stay with one woman sexually are only doing it for the sake of their religious doctrines and to please their God not because its easy for them or because their wife is beautiful or perfect in bed. No sex style or beauty or hot body can stop a man from desiring to sleep with other girls he finds appealing.


Married ladies hate to hear this sad truth but the truth must be told, blame nature not men
. And you think women don't want the same too?

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Re: How To Increase Intimacy In Marriages by Lightorder: 10:07pm On Aug 10, 2021
OVA200:
Thank you so much boss for the hint.

welcome sir. I love family so much
Re: How To Increase Intimacy In Marriages by Lightorder: 10:09pm On Aug 10, 2021
Pharmtj:
e nor easy at all,this monthgo make am 2yrs on the road. What I bargain for is not what am getting now.
just try to enjoy to am. Na sacrifice. No forget say na your name o
Re: How To Increase Intimacy In Marriages by humilitypays(m): 10:16pm On Aug 10, 2021
labelle123:
. And you think women don't want the same too?
Maybe they do but they aren't open about it like guys. If they were, they should start accepting to fvck all the guys that asks them for sex, of which most guys would accept to fvck any girl that ask them for it, unless the girl is very ugly and shapeless undecided
Re: How To Increase Intimacy In Marriages by cutieme(m): 10:27pm On Aug 10, 2021
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Re: How To Increase Intimacy In Marriages by MATEX30: 10:43pm On Aug 10, 2021
This is beautiful and incredible, how'ever we must let the woman also know that they have a role to plate

Wife must be value adding to their home -

https://sportafriq.com/be-a-value-added-wife/
Re: How To Increase Intimacy In Marriages by Oyinlomobambam(m): 11:19pm On Aug 10, 2021
Get plenty money fez
Re: How To Increase Intimacy In Marriages by Gkemz: 11:46pm On Aug 10, 2021
BirtherOfKings:
grin grin Get my book and boost that marriage If ur woman cheat on u,.it's ur fault
Is this shit you wrote here what you packaged in your so called book?
Re: How To Increase Intimacy In Marriages by VickyRotex(f): 2:22am On Aug 11, 2021
Ahn ahn. Ogaju grin This is Apt!!!

Thanks for sharing OP.

Re: How To Increase Intimacy In Marriages by BirtherOfKings(f): 6:23am On Aug 11, 2021
Gkemz:


Is this shit you wrote here what you packaged in your so called book?
grin grin grin angry love u too baba
Re: How To Increase Intimacy In Marriages by MVLOX(m): 6:27am On Aug 11, 2021
blog4all:
HOW TO BOOST INTIMACY IN YOUR MARRIAGE

1. Know that intimacy is not just about having sexual intercourse but nurturing a warm, exclusive and strong connection between you two

2. Talk heart to heart. Talk about how you feel, how you are, notice each other's goodness. Talk more than just bills, the children and responsibilities

3. Maintain oral and body hygiene. Your spouse will struggle to get close to you when you smell

4. Make time to spend together. Intimacy is not rushed

5. When you two are far from each other, chat and talk warmly over the phone so that when you meet at home it is a continuation of the warmth

6. Kiss more than your spouse's lips. Kiss your spouse's forehead, cheeks, neck, fingers, arms, back, thighs... The skin has alot of room

7. Talk to each other with a tone that is not attacking, this will invite you both to each other's presence

8. Laugh together. Humour makes two people bond easier

9. Eat together often. Food is a unifier

10. Make out often. Making out involves lengthy deep kissing, handling, cuddling, massaging

11. Ask each other leading questions. These are questions that will require conversations and not a yes or no answer. Questions such as "How is your dream coming along?", "How did you get this mark on your arm?", "What do you love about us?"

12. Complain less, appreciate more. It is difficult to enjoy the company of someone who is constantly negative

13. Pray more as a couple. Prayers brings you two closer

14. Do activities together. Find something you both can do together such as cooking, playing a game, watching a movie, dancing; love is built on activity

15. Dress in a manner that excites and pulls your spouse to you. Confidently look appealing

16. Give each other eye contact more so that you focus on each other. Tame your phone, TV and gadget use

God bless every home


Nice tips ..... Good read
Re: How To Increase Intimacy In Marriages by Pharmtj: 5:49pm On Aug 11, 2021
Lightorder:
just try to enjoy to am. Na sacrifice. No forget say na your name o
thanks man,but don't understand the part of no forget say na your name?
Re: How To Increase Intimacy In Marriages by Lightorder: 11:38pm On Aug 11, 2021
Pharmtj:
thanks man,but don't understand the part of no forget say na your name?
ok , let me explain. They use to tell me that no matter how your wife acts, make sure your house doesn’t go aflame. You are the owner of the family. She bears your name, the children bear your name. People would say Mr so so and so’s house is in chaos. Let me shock you. Do you know that your wife is the only STRANGER in your house. Your children have your blood, your name and denying you is just for denying sake. But your wife could drop you, drop your name, leave the children behind for you and properly divorce you, destroy every tie completely,be re-married to total stranger , doesn’t owe you any explanation legally , pick up a different name forever and nothing happens. So if you don’t know that it falls back to you, you would let her destroy your name, put stigma on it, leave you, pick up her father’s name or new husbands name and you would bear the shame.
Re: How To Increase Intimacy In Marriages by caandi: 10:53am On Aug 12, 2021
Good advice
Re: How To Increase Intimacy In Marriages by Pharmtj: 12:32pm On Aug 12, 2021
Lightorder:
ok , let me explain. They use to tell me that no matter how your wife acts, make sure your house doesn’t go aflame. You are the owner of the family. She bears your name, the children bear your name. People would say Mr so so and so’s house is in chaos. Let me shock you. Do you know that your wife is the only STRANGER in your house. Your children have your blood, your name and denying you is just for denying sake. But your wife could drop you, drop your name, leave the children behind for you and properly divorce you, destroy every tie completely,be re-married to total stranger , doesn’t owe you any explanation legally , pick up a different name forever and nothing happens. So if you don’t know that it falls back to you, you would let her destroy your name, put stigma on it, leave you, pick up her father’s name or new husbands name and you would bear the shame.
now I get u your point,thanks sir Blessings!!!

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Re: How To Increase Intimacy In Marriages by cunny88(m): 12:33pm On Aug 12, 2021
Marriages in Nigeria have more serious issues fan intimacy. Fyi, money is d oil dat greases the love
Re: How To Increase Intimacy In Marriages by Lightorder: 1:45pm On Aug 12, 2021
Pharmtj:
now I get u your point,thanks sir Blessings!!!
Best marriage, my brother

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Re: How To Increase Intimacy In Marriages by 77star: 1:54am On Aug 16, 2021
is alright

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