₦airaland Forum

pharmking:
To tell you the truth I don't think you met the right american women. African women are still the best because we have the same culture
However if you meet a white women from a good upbringing, you will see the difference. they don't care about your money. they love you for you.
The black americans are another story. Most that didn't got to school are just after your money.

derolly:
[s]Damn it , i wonder what gives some dudes the impression that filipinos are white. [/s]

geogentle:
This also has its disadvantage as some tend to compare homes (like wives discussing how much dad drops), beginning of trouble

Be yourself, hang with your friends single or married and always put your spouse into consideration.

kobikwelu:
naturally, your association wit your friends of the same sex will be toned down (if u go clubbing every friday nite, or u stay out late,

if the friendship is with a person of the opposite gender, it will definately suffer, if not for anything, atleast for the fact that you are considering your spouse

Pennywise:
Spiky if u are on this thread, you have my full attention

spikedcylinder:
It depends on the relationship that exists between the two friends, the relationship that exists between the friend and the wife/husband.
I have a friend who got married exactly one month ago today and I can't imagine not hanging out with him again cuz he's such a great person. On his wedding day, I was so happy for him, I almost cried. He had been looking forward to it so much. His wife and I are cool. I know not to cross the line and disrespect her and she does the same.
He can't hang out without bringing his wife along anyway. . . . so cool.

On the other hand, some women are just stark raving lunatics who think their husbands are the best things since cubed sugar and every woman is interested in some way. Best stay away from those or you'll have yourself to blame for engaging with mad people.  

sistawoman:
It really is not. . . it is a wonderful experience if done with the proper mate for you.

Just be sure to vet him/her properly, make sure their values, goals and morals line up with yours and discuss, discuss, discuss everything you can think of.  If you marry a reasonable and evolved man your life will be full of rewards and there wont be anything that the two of you cant work out.

Moralistli:
while can't u just love dis new chic and ignore these market-rejected commodities u call ex-? , they are already striped off market values ''dia totos'' are worn out and most probably oozing offensively.

Anyway, Birds of d same feather flock 2gether.