yvelchstores:
my younger brothers call me by name. I will be uncomfortable if they did otherwise. I am married and I have given birth and the age difference is 2 and 4 years respectively. I am Igbo. I don't see anything wrong with the issue u pointed out. Maybe cos we are not from same tribe. All D best but mind D advise u give Ur friend. I feel like in Nigeria we blow things out of proportion.

My sister, but some igbo that live in the West are Goin by this Yoruba culture of respecting elders. Assuming you are a Yoruba and you see your friends younger brothers giving your friend very due respect evn in public place, won't you be pained and feel bitter about how ur own brother behave to you? Nothing like blowing out of proportion. If my friend wife send her brother out because of that am sure people will not castigate her for that.

ImaIma1:
I would ask him to leave my house myself. I can't have my brother disrespect me like that. He should go and stay with the person that spoilt him

I tell you. My sister. The boy is always bitter to have his sister as elder sibling, most time when arguments strike out BTW them the boy will say why didnt God allow him to be the elder one to his sister. because of his Ego, he does not want people to no that he is the younger brother to my friend wife such that he doesn't go to church where there may be interaction. Anytime the husband is around the boy will remain isolated inside his room. He is caging himself because he can't relate wit his sister amicably . He always avoid any gathering that Wil bring him and his sister together or he speak to her sister in English or pidgin.

yvelchstores:
The only part I don't understand is the calling by name. U said she is his immediate elder sister. What is the age difference btwn them? Should he call her aunty? Me I don't understand that part at all fa.

3 years. Evn if it's 1year there has to be different. Depending on the tribe though. Can your younger brother call you by name or shout on you when you are trying to correct him in the present of ur husband. He won't be happy am sure

elmagnifico411:
Are they living in one of the boy's father's house? If yes, they should better just leave the house for him and go get their own; if no, Na to boot the shit nigga out nah, not minding what their mom would say. No be she born rubbish boy for as pikin? Let her go and train him herself! Idiot graduate, serve, and still no get sense, how he wan take dey useful for the nation?

Infact to recommend the boy for any good job opportunity by my friends is finding it difficult. because how can you be happy with the person that is full of Ego, disrespect ur wife except when the husband is around. He always want to avoid his sister on the road if they meet by mistake. He will turn his face to other side and just walk pass his sister. His sisters friends always wonder what kind of siblings is he.

elmagnifico411:
Are they living in one of the boy's father's house? If yes, they should better just leave the house for him and go get their own; if no, Na to boot the shit nigga out nah, not minding what their mom would say. No be she born rubbish boy for as pikin? Let her go and train him herself! Idiot graduate, serve, and still no get sense, how he wan take dey useful for the nation?

How possible is that to reside in his father's house.? �. His sister husband house now.

LewsTherin:
Hang on. The only disrespect I have seen here so far is the boy calling the sister by name. Is that all? Or is there something more?

Have you checked if all siblings in that family call each other by name?

Bro. Noting like that. Even the boy is the only male among the 4 children, he has 2 sisters as younger to him, yet they do respect him. They can't even try to disrespect him as he is doing to his elder sister. At times, people around like their neighbors do ask if he is the elder brother to my friends wife with the way he behave to his sister outside.

Jesse25:

See dey is a parable that say
"Nor b how body take dey pain person. They take dey press am" that why I said the man should thread with caution because if the man use force for the boy he can distroy is relationship with the in-laws e.g the girl mother according to the story d mother love that is son very much

Though it was the fault of the mother-in-law who was pampering the boy over his elder sister, now she is regretting it. Now the boy is now u bendable.

Eketem:


The name thing is cultural, some cultures don't really care about that, the main issue is not doing anything around the house and expecting to be served, that isn't decent behavior

Yes some culture doesn't care about that but we are talking about yoruba rich culture here where they don't joke with respect for elders evn Bible teach to honor our father and mother and whoever that are older than us so no justification for this boy to see his sister as someone to cover with respect basically though their mum that cause this is regretting now . If the sister kids grow up to start seeing all this Unculture attitude, do you expect those kids to respect their mothers brother? Meanwhile this boy has 2 grown up younger sisters, they dare not disrespect him, call him by name or turn down his order

Eketem:
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My sibblings call me by name doesn't matter to me but staying in my house and doing nothing is not acceptable

Calling you name before your husband when he knows ur kids name is bad. Also calling you ur name or disrespecting u bfor his friend will empower his friend to do same to you and society frown at it. Secondly the boy never do anything in the house when his sister is busy with her 3kids, cook food, sweep, mop tiles the boy will remain inside his room until it's time to go to kitchen to carry his food or go to watch ball on saturday afternoon. His sister is feeling the need to have her female sibling staying wit her than this boy.

keepingmum:
Infact, i like the responses so far - i hope when the table is reversed and a wife complains that her inlaws that live with her are disrespectful to her, you will all encourage and insist the husband throws his sibling out of the house : afterall, you cannot and should not make someone uncomfortable in their home

With the way it is my friend never wish or
allow anybody to come and stay with them, but his wife play smart by bringing the boy home before telling her husband. So my friend can't turn this down anymore, now it has boomerang. As for me I prefer to have my siblings who I can deal with anyhow than to accept in -
laws that I can't scold to come and stay with us

royalguy123:
I am married for 21yrs,but experience is what matters,the HUSBAND should call the Inlaw in a meeting one on one,tell him as a brother and friend that's though this woman is his sister,but she is my wife and its my home.
you won't tolerant any of his ego any more and if he decides to show them again he will force me as an Inlaw to do the needful. Trust me it works,speaking from experience.!!

Also brilliant advice indeed, what happen is that my friend in question works in abeokuta, so he only come home on Friday. So Imaging what kind of rift, rivalry his wife Wil be facing with his brother during the week before the husband comes back which will make the boy adjust

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Infact radarada ni ooo. It's like is a crime for lady to have boy as immediate younger brother. The boy will not want to respect her sister especially if he has big stature than his sister. Sending the boy out is not the issue but my friend is being careful because it's inlaw case here and who knows tomorrow. I accept ur advice

Prognose:
Can you live live live with your wife's younger brother that doesn't respect your wife? Live, not leave with your wife, live with your wife.

Thanks I was supposed to have corrected it.

bladeAnders:
not all.. disrespecting my wife, means disrespecting me....

Yes now. I appreciate you all for this mature advice. If my friend send this boy out on the ground of rudeness I don't think people will see that as wickedness.

Nbote:
Oga if He cannot respect his host den why is he still in d house?? U did not marry d broda and d house is her sistas house. Let ur friend sit d boy down and talk to him. If he can't respect his wife who happens to b d boys sista den he can as well go look for anoda accomodation

My friends is just trying to manage the situation maturely because of tomorrow. Who knows tomorrow? But to keep abusing, disrespecting his sister in her husband house is a no no no. Yet this boy has 2 younger sisters who dare not call him by name.

Exponental:
Op..... you've abused English ooo.
If the sister agreed to be manipulated while growing up,, should she be so stupid to be manipulated in her marriage She decides!!!

I really abuse English � �. Meanwhile that is the exact. Advice I gave my friend. If he call his sister by name, then he is calling my friend by his name be that.

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Eketem:
Nobody should make you uncomfortable in your own home if he cannot live and respect people then let him go and have his own house and do ego

Abi now. How can he call his sister by her name in the present of her husband and that wont cause trouble evn if he has been doing that before now? when ever woman get married either your elder sister or younger one, she deserve respect from that day she got married, but this boy stil want to live in the past.

alterswerve:
Doesn't she have cane in that house?

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☺ ☺. U mean the sister should cane the boy that is taller than her.? The fault is from their mummy. Over pampering. So the boy now find it hard to respect his yet sister.

Very voluminous though

Front page material.

Though, my advice to my friend in this case is that he should send his brother-in-law out for his wife to have peace of mind. What happen is that there is this friend of my with his wife. His brother-in-law just move down to Lagos after his NYSC, fortunate or unfortunately he has no place to stay comfortably than to stay with his immediate elder sister luckily for his he got job around that area . But the issue is that this boy is disrespectful, arrogant to her sister, he is a big rival and headache to his sister (my friends wife)when they were living together. He call his sister by name and talk to her anyhow in the present of their mum . According to his sister, their mother actually caused it when they were young, their mummy always pampering this boy because he is the only boy of 4children so she gave the boy unecessary preferential treatment over other kids. Now the boy has no choice than to stay with his sister in her marital home, evn despite that his sister has 3kids now he still call her by name which nobody does in their compound. Whenever he want to talk to his sister in the present of her husband, he speak English or pidgin to his sister. So he is pretending. The funny part of this is that if they both meet outside or along the street, the boy will pretend as if they are not sibling or present as if he didn't see her sister. My friends wife never wanted this boy to come and stay with her base on longtime rivalry between them but their mummy persuaded her to allow her brother to stay with her, she belive that the boy would have changed, now the boy is giving her tough time. The boy always trying to avoid to be in thesame gathering with his sister because he won't not want to talk to his sister. Anytime his sister husband is around this boy will lock himself inside his own room living everybody in the sitting room imaging isolated life because of ego and lack of home training . He is full of Ego or regreting to have female as elder one. Many of this boy friends have scolded him to correct this immorality but he is finding it hard to do. Now I adviced my friends to send this Ego-ladden brother-in-law away because the boy does not help his sister out in any house work especially when the husband is not around. But inlaw-case is very sensitive. Pls anyone with good advice or who has ever experienced this bfor.

The boy use to attend deeper life church before when he use to stay with his friend in their family house because he has no choice. But when he moved in to his sister place he stop attending church.

Jesus see public confession, commendation of PHCN on electricity improvement. When in our area at lambe Akute, ogun state there has been no light since April 2017, IKEDC came to take away our transformer for repair yet contribution upon contribution is happening every time towards getting the transformer back. Since then they didn't return it. Many tenant have relocated. Even me too have relocated to nearby community where there is light.

Haba olopa ewo tepe. You dey vex Gan ni ooooo. Lady. � � � � � �




Crashed from what to what? I really hate liars.

Something was 850naira before you canme in. You took that same thing to 2000naira. And later brought it to 1850naira and you have the tenacity to say it has crashed? Are you mad? Is your family mad?

I think this is a Goodnews. I no it's possible to meter every house in nigeria both in rural area, going by the theory of how million of people in nigeria own a mobile phone, while human beings are far more than the number of houses to meter yet phone are made available for everyone. Just that the PHCN people didn't want prepaid meter to go round. How would they get to be brided for not disconnect consumer, they also no that power cannot be available 24/7,so how Wil they sell more card when light is not available.so they must work hard to make sure there is constant light so people can use their card on time to buy another one. My research though

[quote author=RichieBrown post=66028655]I'm sorry about your experience. But wait o!!!! Your English ehn, e reach make them pursue you from Nairaland. Lolzzz. My english no be here. Na cambridge kind of english bro. Thank for taken congnicance of my errors.

Richibrown thank you bro. My english nawa. I notice aome error but ideal is what we need. I no u can get the message am trying to pass across. Lolzz

FIRSTBANK WHY WHY. ?? This is unfear.

With serious embarrasement i felt when a security man at firstbank challenge roundabout ibadan. On friday 9th match 2018. I actually went went to make some cash deposit with someone. Getting to the banking hall , very big hall with capacity of housing 300 people , yet no seat/ chair provided for their customer incase of any customer that cannot stand for long if ask to wait by either the customer care officers or tellers. Yet there was a very view people inside the bank hall. While i was waiting for the person i went with to fill the pay- slip and make his deposit a security man jus walk up to me and said i cant stand or wait inside the bank that i have to go outside and wait . The SUN outside on that day was so harsh. I initially argue with them that since i hv been using firstbank account 2009 till today i was never asked to go out of the Bank to wait outside in a case where i went with someone to the bank. Imaging on that day we first of all went to Zenithbank at challenge to get the money we brought to this Firstbank oo , i also waited for my friend for almost 20mins inside A/C. Watching CNN while my friend is was trying to withdrawn momey. So also many people were sittted beside me waiting for one thing or the other there security did not bounce anybody outside. What if it was during the rain. Firsbank really socked me. Well their securty men said that they are acting base on order. Finally I have to complied by leaving the bank hall to go and stand beside security gate. Pls has anybody experience this before with any other bank or first bank in another branch ? Evn Firstbank at Dugbe has seat for those that came with customers. Am Really not Happy with them by this insult.

domack99:


God bless Kwara State

Where is kwara fate in this gathering. ? I pity yorubain kwara and kogi.

hatchy:

I'm calling Tunde my author dealer to place advance order for this toy immediately because i want to be the first to use it in Naija before all these ritualists and yahoo yahoo boys begin use am carry firewood for Lagos

O boy wetin u smoke sef ?? So funny

*WHAT A WOMAN WORLD*

When a man has a good car it attracts more ladies to him. When a lady has a good car it repels guys away from her. This is the world we live in.

*A teenage boy* impregnates his teenage girlfriend. The girl drops out of school, the boy continues his education. This is the world we live in.

*A guy catches*his girlfriend with another guy, he fights his girlfriend. A lady catches her guy with another lady, she fights the other lady. This is the world we live in.

*The older a man* becomes, the higher the number of ladies available for him. The older a lady becomes the fewer the number of guys available for her. This is the world we live in.

*A 76 year old man* can still marry a 26 year old lady. A 36 year old lady is tagged too old to get married. This is the world we live in.

*A man divorces* his wife today and the next day he is dating other ladies. Six months later he is married. While the divorced woman is labeled a divorcee and remains single six years later. This is the world we live.

*A man looses* his wife to death and remarries a year after, he did the right thing, he's being praised and congratulated for moving on, after all life is for the living.

*A woman looses* her husband to death and remarries after 4yrs, "aaah! so early? Are u sure she wasn't sleeping with that man even when her husband was alive? That was why she killed her husband. This is the world we are in.

*A married man*is caught in bed with another woman, his wife is asked to forgive him and move on. A married woman is caught in bed with another man, the husband asks her to leave his house. This is the world we live in.

*A man gets transferred* by his company to another state, the entire family relocates with him. The woman gets transferred to another state, she goes alone or resigns from the job. This is the world we live in.‎

*If a man*rises to be the CEO of the company, he got there by hard work and determination. If a woman rises to be the CEO of the company,,she's suspected to sleep with board.
Kudos to those women whom have been gossiped and maltreated wrongly. God will surely solicit for you and fight your battle. I feel your pains. Nawah oooo. Nawa ooo

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I have always belived that this road linking Okemesi -Ekiti to esa-oke osun state is under a terrible curse as it has remain this deplorable since my school day as a student at OGS ( Okemesi Grammer School) in the 90s as its has been neglected by many goverment both military administrator and civilan goverment have came and gone , no goverment ever gave it attention. Now with what am seen if it true then kudos to Governor Ayodele Fayose for this great feat. Congratulation to Okemesi my beloved town.

I pray they (DSTV) and powerful people behind them dont frustrate the coming of this promising , pocket friendly pay as you use (TSTV)? What i hate most about the dstv is that when ever you have issue with ur decoder and u decide to call their customer careline , they will keep deducting your credit , yet nobody will pick it. If u cut the call and u dial the line again they will keep deducting ur credit now from this trick they collect our money through unaswer calls to them again. U can imagin how wicked they are. I dont like their style of monopolising the entertainment scene. So TSTV will be welcomed my many of us. Some lawyer once take the case of DSTV to court to force them introduce pay as you watch but u no our jusicial system here so corrupt either DSTV frustrated the case at the court but we didnt hear anytin about the lawyer and the case again. DSTV has reallly dealt wit many nIgeria maybe with backing of some Corrupt government official or governemt herself.

lelvin:
How is this possible?

i thougt am the only one that observe this confusing statement.