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MissSweet:
Dude, you don't have to force yourself on any girl. If she deserves you she will always reconcile. Just take a break from relationship issues and earn yourself value first...

Trust me, If you worth her she will come for you else, find someone will understand you and cherish you more...

And @op never you shout at a girl... you lose your respect for her.

Elchappo:
OP.. u re certainly a teen..

Once u ain't compatible wiv a Gal, just call it quit..

Met a drama queen last month, I quickly called it off..

Kayceenaz:
Her attitude is a red flag. Let her go, run!

aishatmusah:
Come let's date����

dnawah:
you want die young?run for ur life

pussyAvenger:
See everything in life including relationships operates on the principle of power... I find it hard to advise you since you still LOVE her... Believe me, your girl would be somewhere now saying, ' na gra gra he dey do, he'll still come and beg for peace'

Women can easily tell apart strength and weakness

Where do you belong, Mr lover boy?

Tunyx01:
Quit the bleeping relationship, u will surely get over it with time. it's a matter of time bro

LegitBoyy:
I believe this shit is not real and you're here for clout.

However in the alternative, you have a problem with yourself and you don't even know it. You seem to be so engrossed with your ego as a Man. What the hell do you mean you don't like your girl talk back at you? You want her to come down for you? Nigga go back to your village and find your type and stop disturbing us.

Swtcherries:
She won't make a good wife, she is the kind of woman you will marry, tomorrow your house won't be able to contain cause you don't have leave of mind. Leave before its too late, I rather date many men and marry the right one than date few men and marry the wrong one.

daddytime:
Bro...I am in this very situation you just aptly described, the only difference with mine is, there are kids involved but not to worry because that will surely be sorted.

I'd advice you my guy to flee that relationship before you lose your mind or end up committing murder out of rage.

Gently find your way out from her life because she'd never change trust me on this. She'd beg after each fight and tell you she was wrong and will never repeat such attitude but na lie... (repeat offender) na blood e dey no be learn she learn am.
Fish wey don dry no dey let bend my brother..if you try bend am na break.
Abi you wan teach old man how to use lefty for old age?

My own case na small thing....I don weigh am left, right, back and front na obviously to move on as we both obviously aren't happy any more and seem to be disgusted at each other.

If I had seen the signs as clear as you do now before delving I sure would have thought twice but it's never to late bro...

daddytime:
You better vamos and save your head...what is heart shattering about moving on?

Is your life ending afterwards...siddon there dey heart shattering....

ojkalito:
I'm faced with similar experience, rude, unapologetic, ungrateful. I care about her a great deal but I had to quit. Follow your brain not your heart, it's not easy I know but you'll be fine. It's hard for you to find a girl and be in a relationship I'm guessing but don't let that thought make you act less of what you are. Like I said I am faced with similar situation and equally following my own advice here

luminouz:
Lmaoooo

Ehya....this wan is heartbroken!!!!
U know ur fragile eh? Then TOUGHEN UP!!!

femi4:
you guys are bleeping incompatible. For a relationship to work, a partner must be bleeping hot while the other must be bleeping cold.

Don't allow emotion to cloud your bleeping judgment. Loose her....and let her bleeping go!

JamaicanLove:
Mr bleeping, take it easy

Lexusgs430:
She is not the problem......... You are the problem.......... You see all this issues/characters, yet you still wan put head.......



Marry her soonest...... Nairaland is always available for post - marital advice............

OPTIMUSPRIME08:
was in same shoe with you over the years which lead to my break up, later when i was diacussing with old friend, after narrating my experiences and how difficult i find it engaging in another relationship since then, he laughed and told me that i can't marry with that attitude, every woman gets bored at some point in marriages and you tend to see the worst in them he rather encouraged me to focus more on treating any lady am dating right, that correction can be passed on romantically too, that any man that finds himself always exchanging words with his lady has faulted few steps and needs to relax retrace his steps and methods
I tend to understand he was correct somehow because op if she was to be so from onset you wouldn't have been in love with her, you got to see this attitude overtime so if you wants these said lady then work on yourselve your temper, your correction methhods, your approach to stuffs, attitudes and reactions when she faults you shalom..

thotsofnaij:
This is the problem here my friend.

Why would you raise your voice when talking to her. She is not a child and she's letting you know you should not treat her like an animal. Simply stop raising your voice at her or any human for that matter, she's not a dog.

creepsyme:
My brother saw these signs n his relationship and went ahead to marry the lady now he is regretting his life.

sherylbakky:
Quit, u guys ar not compatible

grayht:
Let's wait for the elders.. This one pass Nairalanders!




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ojun50:
if u don't have the brain to give an advice jst close yr mouth nd stop talking nonsense,

u for carry yr own sisters pant go give am make him use

Papacypaul:
If you are ready to become a student and you are from the 19 northern states or yoruba, try abu zaria special admission into 300lvl for hnd upper credit holders. I am in 400lvl now of civil engineering via special admission too

sparkle7:
You need a good calabar babe to straff the gay outta your life. What a Morata!

Onepointfiveodds:
We've been at this for close to a year now, i love her but I'm not sure yet how much she loves me.. She comes to my side often almost everyday, sometimes even stay the weekend. I've never given her any gift tangible or money buh she seem comfortable with that because she knows I'm not that box up ( her salary is twice mine).
Last week, she told me she had a date with the guy (the admirer) but she couldn't go because she was busy at home and with me (so she said)
Saturday morning, she came to my side, have sex with me (not the first) and later said she's going to meet the guy again just to tell him NO properly, she begged me to let her go and i said, no problem.

Later that Saturday night, she called me that she's back. I asked her how it went and she started the talk about how she happened to like the guy and all... Said the guy's talking about settling down very soon which is what she also wants. All the guy needed to hear was YES.
I needed to post this hear to seek advice from experts. I am not financially ready for marriage right now but i love the girl and here is someone offering her on a platter of gold what she's always wanted.

What should i do please? .. Is my relationship gonna die with this info? I'm confused

UPDATE : We talked at length last night, i told her(practically begged her) to stop talking to the guy, she said she can't, that it's already too late for that, that she met the guy already and she's promised to always chat with him and pick his calls. I also asked her if I've not lost her by giving her permission to go see the guy, she said she hope i haven't

NanaF:
Think Canada and increase your budget by like another 500k. Luckily your HND qualifies you for two or more certificates. Be ready to write ielts. Post this on the Canada Express Entry thread and stay far away from agents

kunlesmiles:
It's very possible, federal university oye, ekiti state and kwara state university have top-up programs.

JewelStone:
No you're not going anywhere. If you or your people voted for Buhari, you need to stay back and face the music.

rs172:
Think towards canada, increase your budget to 4.2 million either canada or Australia, check the travel you will see links on guide to apply for the permanent Resident visa, pls don't use agent or adhere to anyone suggesting using agent or investing money in developing Naija.