₦airaland Forum

TripleOh7:
I have met black Americans, (and I meet them everyday) who scream appropriation at want given opportunity.

That you don't do it doesn't mean others don't.

Where have you met these Black Americans?

TripleOh7:
You are only projecting your insecurities upon Nigerians.

You are the ones who shout appropriation all the time.

The average Nigerian couldn't care less.

You have never heard me shout anything, but the average Nigerian doesn't care when it's whites doing the appropriating, the op is a perfect example of that.

Johel:
You dunno what you are saying...

I live amongst them, why wouldn't I know what I'm saying? Most of you Nairalanders are delusional about the whites.

sunshineV:
u comparing citizen safety in uk to 9ja makes me puke

That's because you're ignorant.

Johel:
White man no get problem...Na African man dey carry matter for head due to HYPOCRISY.

Are you saying the white man don't have any problems? There aren't any people more hypocritical than the whites.

sunshineV:
get sense

You are the one who needs to find some sense. You said you wanted to go to the UK to get away from bandits and terrorism as tho the UK lack these things. Once again, you better find some common sense real fast if that's your belief

sunshineV:
because he is clear of bandits and terrorism ode

There aren't bandits and terrorist in the UK?

Apreecauts:
I am a Nigerian and I didn't make any complaints about any African Americans wearing African attire, so please stop generalising. I don't even know where your anger is coming from sef, please take it elsewhere jare

Since when does stating facts equate to anger? If you haven't complained then you should know that I wasn't talking about you.

TripleOh7:
Stop lying.

It's only black Americans that scream and shout cultural appropriation whenever the whites wear clothes like Kente or braid their hair.

Africans in Africa feel a smidge of inferiority complex to the whites or even black Americans on many other occasions to even complain about stuff like that. As you can see from this thread.

This is the fact!

Stop projecting.

The facts are, Nigerians hate it when Black Americans wear Native attire as tho our ancestors weren't African but are overjoyed when whites wear the same attire. Fickle people!!

siofra:
Please stop lying.

What lie did I tell? Nigerians have complained about black Americans wearing African attire with their reasoning is we aren't African. Why don't you stop lying!!!

yorubarere:
No one insulted the women first. Go back and read and point it out if you are certain about your claims. It is hard that women here cannot engage in any discussions without insults. Haba

If you read the post that I replied to, you would know that we weren't talking about the op and his situation but about the men and women in the comments .

thebosstrevor1:
Cultural misappropriation according to liberals and black Americans

Actually it's you Nigerians that accuse Black Americans of appropriating when we dress in African attire but I guess it's a sign of respect and appreciation when whites wear African clothing. SMH

Kriss216:
You're right... It's easier to discipline a hen than to discipline a Nigerian girl.

I didn't say anything about disciplining a girl, children are supposed to be disciplined but a husband trying to discipline his wife (a grown woman) is asinine.

JovialJune:
Babe the idiot you quoted is a man with hairy sagged balls, he actually expects everyone to read his SIG to know that, thinking it will change the fact being a man is a shame to his existence.

Maybe he's a Transgender.

JovialJune:
Babe the idiot you quoted is a man with hairy sagged balls, he actually expects everyone to read his SIG to know that, thinking it will change the fact being a man is a shame to his existence.

Maybe he's a Transgender.

escapefromusa:
Yeah.. that's why I mentioned "interesting aesthetics".

So far you and that cantaloupe have been interested. But, I don't do old hags.

I like em young like Ned Nwoko and Yusuf Buhari

RIP .. Ataga!

Drugs kill

I'm straight, I'm not into girls so I don't know why you even brought this up miss.

escapefromusa:
Go read .. Encyclopedia of Feminist theories from routledge..

Too many types of feminist.
So are radical accept violence against men cheating , paternity fraud.
Others say prostitution abortion is ok..
I believe all are ok with lesbianism..

So many... sub groups in the group

However .. prof. diversionary tactics

Are you a feminist and what kind.

Once again I say, "give me YOUR definition of a feminist", I didn't ask you what others say.

FreeSpirited:
Yes..but respecting me comes first...it's as simple

Once again, if you want respect, earn it by giving respect. People don't owe you respect simply because you have a peni.s. The sooner you learn this the better off you will be.

PlayMaker14:
E be like say my "k." replies is taking it's toll on her blurry vision.


Have compassion.

Your K replies shows your immaturity that's why I chose to ignore your childish behavior.

FreeSpirited:
A man naturally cares for his woman...that's a fact unless u want to twist fact....but without respect, she can forget my love or respect

That goes both ways

escapefromusa:
Kia motors read my sig.

Would you like me to define pretence?

I don't go around checking everyone's signature, you stated that you're a female and I will take you at your word, miss.

FreeSpirited:
My wife is mine...we ain't equal in marriage...she must respect me..is that too hard to ask?

You must respect, honor, and cherish each other. Marriage is a partnership, without those components there's no love or true marriage. Is that so hard for you to understand?

escapefromusa:
So you're not a feminist?

In your own words explain to me your definition of a feminist.

FreeSpirited:
Stop confusioning my life...I pray God wnt confusion ur own

Stop thinking you own a human being just because she was kind enough to take your hand in marriage. Be grateful someone cares.

escapefromusa:
You need to wash your clients sperm out of ur eyes. My writing style is hardly feminine.

And stop talking to me ... I am allergic to girls with saggy boobs. I am sure you can squeeze the entire thing into a drinking glass.

why are you pretending to be a female?

PlayMaker14:
According to my research, 80% of them don't think, so, they end up insulting you to cover up their intellectually deficiency and low comprehension ability.

This is a defense mechanism they apply to appear smart online.

No, it's a reaction to being insulted first, if you don't want to be insulted stop insulting others You can't insult women and not expect a reaction just because you have a pen.is.

FreeSpirited:
Then why marry another man in the first place...Uche must love second hand good

I explained that to you in my prior post. It's different than the side chicks you men cheat on your wives with, those women are your hoes excepting second hand used crap, while Uche is a real man who loves and will provide for the wife you didn't want.

escapefromusa:
What sane wife challenges her husband?

Abeg go adjust your push up bra or visit one of your ex-boyfriends to play ludo or something...

All this late-marraige women, that manage to deceive one slowpoke.

Ignorant women like yourself is why you women will remain oppressed, suppressed, repressed and in poverty. Most American boyfriends are more humane than your so-called husbands/masters could ever be. You sorry excuse for a woman will leech off of any man and put up with unmentionable abuses all for the honor of being a wife, a concept that your primitive ass has no clue of the gift of a wife to a man.

Being a wife to women like you means not having to be responsible for your own existence, your whole existence depends on a man and that's sad

escapefromusa:
See why women are cheap. You fail to see the other side has another side and so does the next.

Women always buying high and selling low.. every time every time. Like remnants on a plate... some are even crumbs

You Nigerian men are pathetic. What sane husband throws his wife out of the house, not giving a damn about her well being simply because she doesn't agree with him. Only little boys and tyrants believe they can discipline a grown woman and earn respect from her, that behavior will get you an unhappy wife, and like the saying goes, "Unhappy wife, Unhappy Home."

FreeSpirited:
By the time she's thrown out of her matrimonial home, I hope Uche won't disappoint her by marrying her

Uche is ready to be the loving husband and father to her kids that she deserves.

escapefromusa:
The grass is greener on the other side.

Yes the grass is always greener on the other side but if what you have at home is nothing but weeds, that grass on the other side looks very good to someone who is being strangled by infectious weeds

yorubarere:
She should go meet the better man. But what is your definition of better man? Man chasing used married woman? Or mumu?

A good man who understands that the love of his life made a mistake by marrying a man who doesn't love her, abuses her, disrespects her, and only married her to enslave her. This man was charming before marrying her but is now being his true wicked self.

She can now see that the man who truly loved her but for his own reasons didn't tell her is who she belonged with all along. She needs to dump that zero and get with her hero.

PS...Uche didn't chase the wife, the husband chased her away, straight into Uche's loving and caring arms.