escapefromusa:


Yeah.. that's why I mentioned "interesting aesthetics".

So far you and that cantaloupe have been interested. But, I don't do old hags.

I like em young like Ned Nwoko and Yusuf Buhari

RIP .. Ataga!

Drugs kill

escapefromusa:


Yeah.. that's why I mentioned "interesting aesthetics".

So far you and that cantaloupe have been interested. But, I don't do old hags.

I like em young like Ned Nwoko and Yusuf Buhari

RIP .. Ataga!

Drugs kill

FreeSpirited:

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JovialJune:


Babe the idiot you quoted is a man with hairy sagged balls, he actually expects everyone to read his SIG to know that, thinking it will change the fact being a man is a shame to his existence.

JovialJune:


Babe the idiot you quoted is a man with hairy sagged balls, he actually expects everyone to read his SIG to know that, thinking it will change the fact being a man is a shame to his existence.

PlayMaker14:
Kriss216,

Please come and see how some Evening Newspapers (ENP's) and deranged feminist are worrying themselves on how a man should discipline his wife.

khia:

A grown man believing he can actually discipline a grown woman is hilarious.

Kriss216:

Demons that can't sustain a relationship for 2 months telling a married man how to discipline his wife.

I still insist on annihilation of evening newspapers to bring lasting peace in the world.

PlayMaker14:
Nna ehn!!! It seems I will disturb some of our lawmakers to pass it into law...


Not only are these ENP's turning into nuisance, but they're gradually becoming dangerous to World Peace.

Kriss216:

You're right... It's easier to discipline a hen than to discipline a Nigerian girl.

infogenius:
Op, u've done ur worse, so what else do u want from her?
I can tell u categorically that u're not a husband but possibly... I reserve my comment.

U endangered ur wife that u swore to protect because she a wore a dress u were not cool with.

Apologise to her and learn to behave like a husband and not a boss.

U need to really love and respect your wife no matter what while correcting her shortcomings in love

Mrscarter:


I agree. U cant make her into what u want when u knew her b4 u married. She will eventually resent you.
U should control ur temper n bossiness n talk to ur wife. U love her n shes a person with emotions too. If u sweet talk her properly u can get ur way n guide her how u like. Lol do it right. But being bossy n childish wont work.
For a happy marraige u should share ur feelings calmly n ur reasons for things n try comrimise. U shoulda just kissed her n held her n said my beautiful wife i love you dressed like this but it would make me really happy if you kept those kinda dresses just for my eyes. Tell her it makes u feel whatever u feel. Lol it sounds mushy but its most likely the way youll get ur way without her acting up on you .

Romanoff:


Abeg shut up. I am married. And I am not a slave to my husband.

My husband na man. A real man that is in complete control of his emotion and his mind and I respect him for who he is. I can't disrespect my husband and he can't disrespect me. He is my best friend and we are crazy about each other.

We have something called "Mutual Respect" for each other. You should look up the meaning of the word.

Shior.

If your sister's husband locks her outside for what was written up there, throw a party for her husband, clap for him and call fuji musicians to come and hail him.

"Dragging head" with my husband means I should be treated like a miserable orphan abi? That's what marriage is to you?

Put a dog collar on the neck on your own wife, make we know say na slave she be to you.

Who raised some of you here?

Romanoff:


If I don't submit to my husband, e for done run.

Submission isn't slavery. A woman should be happy to submit to you and that submission comes from how you treat her. With love and respect.

Bobbyjay001:


You are a disgruntled old fool. Septuagenarian my foot! You came online to rain insults and expected me to keep mute and and applaud you abi? You want to score cheap goal abi? I wonder how you trained your children. Baba, try and be cautious in your dealings. This is a faceless forum.

Ginomel:


From your response, I struggled to see a reasonable married girl. It's obvious you will be "mutually arguing " with your husband a lot.

Things look OK to you because he is tolerating you and enduring inside.

Just passing by, anyway.

PlayMaker14:
According to my research, 80% of them don't think, so, they end up insulting you to cover up their intellectually deficiency and low comprehension ability.

This is a defense mechanism they apply to appear smart online.

JovialJune:
Eyah see them males gossiping like scared liitle kids about me, i am that important to their existence here, scums of the earth thinking their rant is of any worth to my person, I have no joy or patience for low lifers who gloat like urchins about, from page one they've been showing how useless they are offline, I dare anyone of you to quote me, I will insult y'all at will, chop and serve my ban, and come back, unlike you dolts, I don't live my life on nairaland

yorubarere:

Low... Take it easy on them

khia:


No, it's a reaction to being insulted first, if you don't want to be insulted stop insulting others You can't insult women and not expect a reaction just because you have a pen.is.

Kondomatic:
The OP is an ass a big one.

I understand that the first few months of marriage is usually difficult because that's when the couple will drop some "I" and "You" for "We". It's when they learn to do things as one.

There will always be clashes of interest in a marriage, even Jesus and God had same when he said "if possible let this cup pass........but your will be done"

Sometimes you will let her win and other times you will stand your ground but when it comes to married women and church, bros a man suppose take a firm stand before things get out of hand. The Pastors are not doing God's work any more.

For a wife of two months to tell you that "you can't stop her from going to church activities" means there's already a problem that needs urgent fixing - unless she was being stubborn because they already had a quarrel.

Meanwhile she kneels to talk and take instructions from the same pastor. That's madness.

I am calling the OP an ass not because "He punished her" but because he locked her out. You don't do that to an adult, you don't do that to even kids.

And there's a saying that "two people killed each other because there's no third person to separate them". The OP should have returned home the moment his brother called. Shows she was really sorry.

That would have given him the ample opportunity to giver her some dos and donts when it comes to church activities. He blew that chance.

Lemme tell you something, the OP and his wife are in "who is the boss" stage in their marriage. It's a phase that will soon pass but he will be caged forever if he loses.


Now back to whey I am saying all these to you.

You see this thing you said in the @emboldened, please don't say it again.

Nobody deserves to be loved and respected no matter what.

God cannot love you no matter, Jesus cannot love you no matter.

Respect is given to who deserves respect, it's earned not demanded.

yorubarere:

But why do you find it easy to insult? You started insulting the moment you joined this thread instead of contributing to the thread. Insulting people you don't know is not a sign of intelligence.

JovialJune:



The mumu you quoted will never reply you because you are male, if it is a female, they would have been ranting, crying, wetting everywhere with spittle as is already obvious, that is how to show their manliness and exude daft power, only on females, on a faceless forum

yorubarere:

No one insulted the women first. Go back and read and point it out if you are certain about your claims. It is hard that women here cannot engage in any discussions without insults. Haba

Kondomatic:
The OP is an ass a big one.

I understand that the first few months of marriage is usually difficult because that's when the couple will drop some "I" and "You" for "We". It's when they learn to do things as one.

There will always be clashes of interest in a marriage, even Jesus and God had same when he said "if possible let this cup pass........but your will be done"

Sometimes you will let her win and other times you will stand your ground but when it comes to married women and church, bros a man suppose take a firm stand before things get out of hand. The Pastors are not doing God's work any more.

For a wife of two months to tell you that "you can't stop her from going to church activities" means there's already a problem that needs urgent fixing - unless she was being stubborn because they already had a quarrel.

Meanwhile she kneels to talk and take instructions from the same pastor. That's madness.

I am calling the OP an ass not because "He punished her" but because he locked her out. You don't do that to an adult, you don't do that to even kids.

And there's a saying that "two people killed each other because there's no third person to separate them". The OP should have returned home the moment his brother called. Shows she was really sorry.

That would have given him the ample opportunity to giver her some dos and donts when it comes to church activities. He blew that chance.

Lemme tell you something, the OP and his wife are in "who is the boss" stage in their marriage. It's a phase that will soon pass but he will be caged forever if he loses.


Now back to whey I am saying all these to you.

You see this thing you said in the @emboldened, please don't say it again.

Nobody deserves to be loved and respected no matter what.

God cannot love you no matter, Jesus cannot love you no matter.

Respect is given to who deserves respect, it's earned not demanded.