Bunmhi:
You guys did court before getting married right? Why don't you tell her you don't like your woman in skimpy dress to church? And you punishing her by locking her outside is a No No, as a man part of your duty is to protect your woman. Do you even think of what might happen to her that day you locked her outside? If anything should happen to her that day you would be held responsible. So next time find a reasonable way of making your wife to realize her mistake and also she's not a child, if you love her you won't punish her that way.

Nacoss25:
Good day my people. Ignore my wrong sentences please.
It all started like this.
On Sunday my wife wore a dress am uncomfortable with and which is unexpected of a married woman(I mean the gown was too short), when we came back from church I told her never to where such dress again to church she then picked offence that I always complain about her dress being too short, (My wife love skimpy dresses alot which I don't like) I was still talking she walked out on me went and stayed outside like someone who was chased out of the house, she stayed outside for about an hour and later came in and started dressing up to go for an evening program in church, I then told her not to go to anywhere in need us to talk, why I told her not to go is so we can settle the issues. She insisted that she must go that I can't stop her, I repeated my statement telling her not to go that I want us to talk she insisted on going. While she was about to leave I forcefully siezed the house keys from her and let her go, this happened around 5.30pm.
I love seeing my woman in short dresses but not wearing them to church.
On reaching the time she is expected to come back home around 7.30pm I left the house without dropping the house keys anywhere to a hotel and lodged there, she waited outside still around 10pm and sent me a text that do I want to sleep outside I did not reply her, she now called Me i picked and told her to go and sleep where she went to since she has the guts to disrespect mess her husband that am in a hotel at the moment to pass the night there and ended the call she called till 11pm and also sent text messages begging for forgiveness, she then called my younger brother who then called me too begging me to go back home I never picked her call and I switched off my phone.
I came back home around 5am only to discover that she slept on a bench in the veranda.
My people I want ask a question.
Don't I as a husband have the right to tell my wife not to dress certain way or don't I have the right to tell her not to go out, mind you am not the authoritative kind of husband but on this one I need to stamp my authority as the head of my family.
My wife is a good woman and I love so so much, I just needed to discipline her.
Our marriage is two months old.

yorubarere:

For those of us that did psychology, that is reinforcing bad attitudes with that your advise. It will only get worst. Op went too far tho but he got the results he wanted and that is good enough to maintain peace.

DriftOff:
You no dey fùck her well, else she go dey respect you.

DrFunmisticGlow:
so a woman is supposed to change into another human being in the name of marriage and a man is not?

You sir are a hypocrite.

Romanoff:




The marriage is too young to be showing machismo. If she had always been stubborn, why did he marry her if he can't handle it?

That woman will become resistant to the "discipline" and become a thorn in his flesh.

For those who go through marriage counseling, is this how marital conflict resolution is taught?

Before you know now, physical abuse will enter.

Just reason and comprehend all I've said and tell me I am a feminist because of my line of thought or beliefs.

Know this and know peace o.

Bobbyjay001:


plus the op ought to have invited his wife to the hotel where he lodged n iron things out thereby, giving her a good and satisfying f*ck, then both proceed home the following day.

yorubarere:

It is not that he doesn't love her. The man feels disrespected. Some men do take that seriously. Walking out on your man is another red flag.... Baba

But the dude was kinda hard sha.

DonroxyII:
Don't mind him ... Something simple gbasgbos will solve ... He locked her out ... That woman can never listen to him lailai... She will pay him back and his agression will kukuma scatter everything ... sha tell us when kasala burst ... so we go commemorate and commiserate

Bobbyjay001:


lol. That gbas gbos got me cracking. E never reach that level bro.

JovialJune:



And you are claiming female, what happen, bobrisky in the making or you're ashamed of being a man?

DonroxyII:
GbasGbos mean say he should invite her to the hotel ... then make dem shukushuku , make her orgasm and tell her what he wants from her ...

Woman listened attentively after coming back Orgasm .... The brain would have removed all the toxins inhibiting concentration and promoting lack of understanding!!

Bobbyjay001:


Exactly what he ought to have done. I thought your gbas gbos meant "abara ati ese"

escapefromusa:


Read my sig .. sl$t

PlayMaker14:
Ignore the Jovial Clown....

Once you support any lady, you're her best friend for the whole week, but the minute you say something against her gender, she starts throwing insults like a paranoid crayfish seller.

Bobbyjay001:


Exactly what he ought to have done. I thought your gbas gbos meant "abara ati ese"

PlayMaker14:
Ignore the Jovial Clown....

Once you support any lady, you're her best friend for the whole week, but the minute you say something against her gender, she starts throwing insults like a paranoid crayfish seller.

escapefromusa:


She come add jovial to her name.

She for kukuma use ... "am fun to be with"

As if we neva see dem finish

escapefromusa:


What sane wife challenges her husband?

Abeg go adjust your push up bra or visit one of your ex-boyfriends to play ludo or something...

All this late-marraige women, that manage to deceive one slowpoke.

escapefromusa:


Read my sig ..

Grade 3 tokunbo girl

yorubarere:

I noticed that.

But why are nairaland girls so insultive? Small thing na insult as if Una get fights before.

khia:


Ignorant women like yourself is why you women will remain oppressed, suppressed, repressed and in poverty. Most American boyfriends are more humane than your so-called husbands/masters could ever be. You sorry excuse for a woman will leech off of any man and put up with unmentionable abuses all for the honor of being a wife, a concept that your primitive ass has no clue of the gift of a wife to a man.

Being a wife to women like you means not having to be responsible for your own existence, your whole existence depends on a man and that's sad

FreeSpirited:

Then why marry another man in the first place...Uche must love second hand good

JovialJune:



Because you've been caught in your stupidity you had to add a disclaimer, how superb,

Does that change the fact that you are obviously ashamed to be a male here?

Grade 0 nonentity.

khia:
I explained that to you in my prior post. It's different than the side chicks you men cheat on your wives with, those women are your hoes excepting second hand used crap, while Uche is a real man who loves and will provide for the wife you didn't want.

PlayMaker14:
According to my research, 80% of them don't think, so, they end up insulting you to cover up their intellectually deficiency and low comprehension ability.

This is a defense mechanism they apply to appear smart online.

escapefromusa:


You need to wash your clients sperm out of ur eyes. My writing style is hardly feminine.

And stop talking to me ... I am allergic to girls with saggy boobs. I am sure you can squeeze the entire thing into a drinking glass.

yorubarere:

Disrespect is a challenge.
1. Fought him on the issue of skimpy clothes and walked out on him (imagine).

2. Go out to church when the husband called for talks. Thinking what will he do?

Well, op had done his worst.

escapefromusa:


You need to wash your clients sperm out of ur eyes. My writing style is hardly feminine.

And stop talking to me ... I am allergic to girls with saggy boobs. I am sure you can squeeze the entire thing into a drinking glass.