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Truckpusher:
I just wanted to be sure that a sister is well taken care of .

I hate seeing lonely ladies around.

I will never be lonely for a man because there are too many around.
What about you, do you have a woman to love and take care of you?

Truckpusher:
curiosity killed the cat

How about you, do you have a boyfriend?

Curiosity killed the cat, but satisfaction brought him back. Yes I have a man. Why do you want to know?

Truckpusher:
Nah, Why are you asking?

Just curious.

Truckpusher:
sex isn't a scot free thing at all - it is a serious business.

Get one local girl that is ready for marriage preggy and see how your life would take a twist.

Some of these girls aren't smiling .

Are you married/engaged?

Truckpusher:
Why would I do that?

It is morally wrong to make babies that one is not mentally and financially ready to cater for.


I do really think that those mofos that makes babies that end up in the streets as hawkers should be castrated.

I said that because you said that you were doing everything one can do and go scot free.

I agree with you, I despise people who carelessly have babies and refuse to take care of them.

Truckpusher:
Been around doing everything anyone can do and go scot free.

Don't you make any babies all over your town/village.

Truckpusher:
I can see you're having a heavy dosage of tales by moonlight from that moniker you quoted.

Yep!! The bell doesn't ring quite right.
What have you been up to lately Trucky?

Avalani:
You are a feminist, and I really don't understand why you should be ashamed of it or deny it. I checked your profile and saw you posted a similar "Men are hypocrites" article in 2013. You have deep lying emotional baggage, and the sooner you seek help, the better it will be for you and your future generations. Just because all the men in your life have proven to be hypocrites (a sad thing) doesn't mean all men are. I would have asked you to pray for a good man, but I'm not sure you are deserving of one.

Hit you up? Don't make me laugh. Explain how you arrived at your conclusion here and now. I'll read it. Maybe it will make sense. I'm keen to know how a cheating, baby-aborting, fetish woman's case connects with men as hypocrites.

Seriously, you have a big emotional problem.

Correction! I posted *You men cheat on your wives all the time* WOW!!! You are a very emotional man, I feel sorry for your girl *if you can find one who will put up with your whining*, as far as hypocrites are concerned I was talking about the double standard men not all men, so you being offended by my post only shows that you are one of them, by the way *hit me up* only means for you to post back to me for questions you need answered.
I already answered you question in my previous post, but for the slow at mind I will break it down.

#1 When a man cheats on his wife/fiance/woman alot of men on this site will blame the female with these excuses.
A...she was a nag
B....she got fat
C.....she doesn't want to have sex often
D.....she doesn't exercise
E...... she, she, she never him

#2 The advice to the woman is to forgive the cheating man and to pray to God for his deliverence *in other words do nothing and take it* even if he got another woman pregnant.


#1 Now in the case of the woman cheating like the situation as the op.


A... dump her cheating azz
B.... She's a who.re
C... She will cheat on you again

D.... Don't marry this Jezebel


#2 Fellas, where are the prayers and forgiveness for her.
I believe the op should find someone who really cares about him but I HATE double standards/hypocrites.

Mutuwa:
I never had sex in my life up and till i got married thats the jist of it all.I was very tamed throughout my courtship era with all the girls i dated up and till marriage.

Are you sure you aren't a down-low brother? just kidding. So you wasn't sexually attracted to your girl, you never even tried to have sex with her for 5 years? Hmmmmmmm?

pcguru1:
well i don't really see myself as a core rock fan i'm actually a fan of any music because today it could Freddie Mercury,tomorrow the Smiths,Enya,Origa the list is endless i just like music cool to listen to, Bon Jovi is not bad as Mick Jagger i don't really know his personal songs only during his time as aerosmith (assuming that doesn't count). but recommend a nice music so i can try out. Florence Welch is the lady from Florence + the Machine she's actually good.

Mick Jagger is from the Stones, Steve Tyler is from Aerosmith and I do like him also, remember that song by Run DMC called Walk This Way, that was a remake from Aerosmith.
Freddy Mercury? Queen? Where did you grow up?
You are right, Bon Jovi isn't as bad as Mick Jagger *bad meaning good*. Since you are a music fan of the old school why don't you try the R&B music from the 70's 80's and 90's, my dad's collection is very good. I love to listen to the Dramatics, the Stylistics, The Isley Brothers, Marvin Gaye, Stevie Wonder, Anita Baker, Toni Braxton and so much more, my dad made me a fan of old school music, we were very close.

Slitz:
The answer is as simple as ABC! anything that takes you away from the worship of the one who created you, I mean the Lord of the heavens the earth and the universe is falsehood, without doubt. Anything that claims God is divided into segments yet still one , is deception. And the theory that most Muslims who bcm xtians, discovered Jesus(peace be upon him) is an illusion. 99% of the people I have seen abandon Islam( the religion that reminds you to submit to NONE other than the One who created you) and uphold a religion that says 1+1+1=1 is simply because of trials which they wer facing. And God reminds us in the Quran that "do the people think that they would be left to say we believe and would not be tested?" many Muslims have failed to understand this and unfortunately get misguided by the "Miracle workers". The earlier generation who believed in their Lord and ascribed no partners to Him wer definitely guided. Moses, Abraham, Jesus Christ, Muhammed, Noah(peace be upon them all) bowed down to their Creator. We have no doubt that they wer upon the truth. So there can be no doubt that the religion that goes in line with the message they brought is the truth. The religion of Islam was not introduced by Muhammad (SAW) rather he came with the same message of the earlier Prophets. The message of submission to One God without partners, no sons, no daughters, no wifes. "He begets not nor is He begotten"

In your post you said submission to ONE GOD without partners, no SONS, DAUGHTERS, and WIVES, please explain why you left out HUSBANDS without being a CONTRADICTION to your post.

Shed24:
Christianity is De true Religion because it teachs love to de fullest, for God is everywhere there is Love.

Why post that picture that isn't a correct image of Jesus the Christ. Embarrassing!!!

honourhim:
1. salvation is not restricted to the four walls of the church.

2. God can minister his true word and salvation to anybody anywhere and at anytime so you cant conclude that the rest of them who were not opportune to come to church are dying without salvation. The thief at the cross got saved at the cross not in the church.
God sees the heart, he knows the muslim(or other religion) man/woman that is earnestly seeking him with a genuine heart and God will never fail to minister the truth to such people. It is only those who do not hunger for the truth, the hypocrites etc that will be damned and this includes both the muslim/other religion and "christians" and every other person.

3. Jesus said "blessed are they who hunger and thirst after righteousness for they shall be filled" (Matthew 5;6). He didnt say blessed are those who go to church, or blessed are they who keep church doctrines and traditions.

Being a member of a church does not make one a true follower of Jesus.

In Jesus name Amen.

This is my 2 cents.

I don't know if you all heard of a tv show called *Preachers of LA* if not go to youtube and type in Preachers of LA season1 episode1.
On that show there is a bishop /pi.mp named Ron Gibson the one with the thick mustach, he is the bishop that preaches in the church down the street from my family home *I went there last nite and I enjoyed the Black history program* anyway I said that to say this, Bishop Ron is an ex drug addict, gangster and pi.mp. He is suppose to be delivered from his pass sins but when I here him preaching in his church about the 300,000 dollar porsche that he paid cash for and the Bently, Corvette, and the full lenght mink coats that he owns and he does because I have seen them with my own eyes I think to myself, this nigga is still pim.ping but he will not pi.mp me and I will not give him one penny at offering time.
This PI.MP has the nerve to tell his congregation that if they don't have any money that he takes cedit cards or they can go online and pay, can you believe this PI.MP? I am not a member of his church but I do go and support certain programs. I am a member of another church where I pay my offerings, with my church I can see that the money is going to help the less fotunate.

January27:
I am, maybe if you had used "grace", it would av been better

Thank you, thank you, thank you!!!

Mutuwa:
Started dating her 2003 and got married in 2008. She was on her period as at when the matrimonial events took place and ceased two days after we packed in.

So are you saying you went without sex for 5 years or that you went without it with her?

pcguru1:
well i guess maybe because am old that could explain my taste in music. I don't listen to any song with no message (clearly this is where most Naija songs fall in ) i'd rather blast Marina and the Diamonds and Florence Welch than "Ice Prince". also Cranberries are dope, sorry for hijacking this thread.

Your age has nothing to do with your taste in music. You are a rock fan, I am a R&B fan, not crazy about rap nor rock, but I have heard some classics that I like. Don't take this personally but your choice in rock music is very corny. There are much better classic choices out there like, Sting, Mick Jagger, and David Bowie. I guess I like these artist because some of their music crossed over into R&B.
Who in the heck is Florence Welch, Marina and the Diamonds?
How could I forget the rockers *Living Color* they were good.
My father left behind a collection of the rockers I mentioned so I listen to them sometimes because they remind me of him.
I can't believe the word DO.PE was exchanged for DRUGS this is straight up ridiculous.

hoojay4:
My advice is that you shouldnt leave her yet, stay with her and still find another lady to date, then u choose the one you are most confortable with out of the 2

If he takes your advice he would be doing the exact thing he is condemning her for, lets see what is the word for this, hmmmm! *Hypocrite*
It would be better for him to let her go than for him to become the very thing he dislikes in her.

Avalani:
Hey Level 2 Feminist, take a chill pill and relax. When you're well rested, come back, study your post hard and explain to the house what kind of logical (or illogical) conclusion you made.

I guess you are one of those guys that label a woman a feminist when she points out a hypocritical error in your thinking, that is not a good look for you, it only shows your arrogance and stubbornness.
I think the house is intelligent enough to understand my post, if you are not, hit me up and I will explain it to you step by step.

omowumee:
Please o is there anything wrong with a guy washing his girlfriend's clothes? After all we wash yours.

I asked my boo to help me with some clothes. He got so angry..-

Please did i do something wrong ni?

You did nothing wrong, he is set in his ways and needs to be retrained.

Mutuwa:
Yes of course..i am boastfully telling u i did all tru my courtships.am 7yrs married today with 2 kids and sex came 2days after I married.Its all about self disciple and respect for your spouse.

How long was your courtship and why wait 2 days after the marriage, if you don't mind me asking?

PrettyEmy:
Are they guys who can actually accept to date a girl without sex and will still stay faithful?
Please be sincere, I really wana know this

6. The guy (OP) means nothing to her, thats why she took him for granted and visited the alfa despite his warnings

7. She is a manipulator and a liar.

8. She is fetish. Like someone said above if the OP continues the relationship and eventually cheats on her or hurts her she will go back to that same alfa or another one to seek revenge or ruin for the guy

9. She is ultimately disobedient and selfish. She puts only herself into consideration.

10. She is dangerous. She keeps dangerous secrets hidden ti herself. Secrets dangerous enough to ruin her partner.

I understand all of your points except for #9.
Disobedient? Is she his child or pet? To be honest alot of you men who are saying leave her would tell a woman not to leave her cheating man and to pray about it.. That is called hypocrisy.

pcguru1:
Let's put it like this have you ever listened to music to get a message, that feeling is missing in today's music obviously i listen to all music enya,yanni,kendrick lamar,nicki but nothing comes as classic as Bon Jovi, the message , the lyrics everything. during its time Bon Jovi was the rave of MTV, then again it might be attributed to my age i grew up with Cranberries, We are president of the united states, Sting and all them oldies. just try listening to Bon Jovi - Always and tell me what you think about it.

I went on youtube to listen to their music but I don't get why you are so into them, I liked the baseline intro on *living on a prayer* but I'm not into their music. lol @ the Cranberries *Really*
I like Sting though.

Temptee101:
There is absolutely nothing to re-read here. The guy should let go of her; I know it's somewhat difficult but he should try and he will surely be glad he did in the nearest future. Sometimes we are blinded by our feeling which most times turn out bad.

I agree with you that he should let her go and he is too blind to see that she is no good, that is why I told him to reread his post several times and maybe then some common sense will pop into his brain.

dpoladapo604:
We have been together for over six months. I love her so much (never fell so much in love) and she's so crazy in love with me too. she's such a wonderful lady I've ever met. she would do anything just to prove and protect our relationship.

Early January this year she came to my place to spend few days. during her visit, I one day took her phone and checked through her bbm I saw her chat with one cleric (Alfa) asking the man to help her about a shocking dream she had about me and also talking about d previous guy she was dating before I met her. I was so confused I couldn't talk till she left but on her way to the park I ask her if she was cheating or something and she assured me that she's all mine.

So the following day after she left I called her and told her that I went through her phone and I observe that she's still having some affairs wit her previous boy friend, she first started talking angrily that why should I go through her phone without her conscience but after few minutes she called back and started begging not to be annoyed by the way she talked regard me checking her phone. after a lot of begging I told her I'm no more annoyed but I warned her not to go to the Alfa because I could observe that the Alfa has other interior motive from the way he was chatting and she promised not to visit him.

So last Tuesday she came to my place and I tried to go through her chats on bbm and to my biggest surprise my lady was asking the man to pay her the money she spent on abortion to her (omo I was so shocked) I couldn't blv my eyes,I saw a part where the man was asking if she love him and she said no...dat thats why she couldn't keep his pregnancy. I kept it for good days till when she was about to leave this morning. The question I threw at her was "did you really did abortion?" she was shocked and started swearing with the holy book...I asked her to bring her fone and I viewed the Alfa's pics and asked if dis was d same Alfa I asked her not to visit and she said no he's the not him. I showed her the pics I tuk from that chat....she was shocked and accepted she slept with him but she did no abortion saying she only want to use that to get money from the Alfa. I asked her why....but she kept saying she didn't know how it happened. she was just begging and crying. the reason y I was so pained is that I warned her not to go to him but he go against my warning. I love her but I'm not comfortable with her. after too much begging and crying I told her I've forgive her.

Please is it advisable to go on with this lady?...I'm confused because I'm still in luv with her I can't just let her go but something keeps telling me that I may regret go on with her. AND IS IT WRONG FOR PARTNERS TO CHECK EACH OTHERS FONE?

Please reread your post very slowly 10 times then the answer to your question will be obvious.

Bunchersstab:
Khiaa, where u my luv?
Daddy is missing u...

I'm here my luv. How is my honey doing? What days are you available throughout the week so that we can catch up with each other.
I miss you too Daddy.

kelvin100:
People and their misconception.

Attitude is the problem I have to say. When you try to flirt every damn time and think your woman would take it lightly with you.
... then it becomes light skin guys aren't loyal, rubbish!

I think the ladies are saying that these guys develop a cocky attitude and over confidence simply because they are light skin (which everyone of the posters who are saying they are light skin really aren't) and it is a turn off to some of the ladies but others love them for the color of their skin and the men know it hence the cockyness.

pcguru1:
Babe am so into bon jovi that I performed Always in a karaoke bar last week there's almost no bon jovi album I haven't heard and my fav album is the 1995 hit album These Days.

What on earth do you like about them?

pcguru1:
Am actually light skinned but that pic was in the night. You can actually seen my veins through my hands which is one disgusting feature I hate, but the nurse thinks its cool saves them time. Or maybe Naija sun son deal with me

I can see my veins through my arms aswell but I am considered brown/caramel like you, I guess it's different in the US.
lol Are you flipping the birdie *finger* in that photo?

PunkyBrewster:
Hahaha.

lol I loved watching Punky Brewster when I was a kid.

MrCork:
sexxslizz?... That ugly lookin Ghana albino midget??... Of course he albino. He admitted and said he waz proud albino.. This waz before the mofo waz finally sacked!!

I saw a picture of him and he was brown/caramel and attractive, what happen to him anyways.