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francizy:
Awww

Please do send to me. Since you don't receive pms...

I'll try soon but I'm going to say goodnite/good morning because I have a busy day tomorrow, I promise to say hello, ok.

Bunchersstab:

Hello honey, I'm just checking up on you, I hope you are doing fine.

francizy:
Alright then.. Amma send you a pm soon.

I hope you're excelling in what you're currently working on?

What's the time over there? Thought you should be asleep tho...

It's 10:20pm and I just got back from bible study a little over an hour ago but I will be going to bed soon because I'm a little tired.
I'm doing well in school can't wait untill spring break tho. You can try and send me a pm but I have a problem with receiving them.

francizy:
Hi dear,

You abandoned your dear friend tho..

Seems like you've been too busy these days..

I haven't abandoned you, I've been busy lately but I will try and keep in touch with you, ok.

francizy:
Khiaa come out now, I can see you..

Hello luv.

ThisBoyGay:
And aren't u aware that those pedo.philes were also molested when they were young? So if you will justify his action, theirs too should be justified.

He never said he molested children, and some pedo.philes weren't victims of molestation.
Going by your moniker one would assume that you are gay and there are alot of people that think you are gay because you were molested by a man when you were a child but that doesn't mean it's true.

Slitz:
Your post makes no sense! perhaps u could clarify.

Reread your post then my post will be clear.

Truckpusher:
I prefer to be on a horizontal plane when it comes to that.

I won't kneel down for anything.

When you meat the right girl, you will bow down

spicelady:
My boyfriend and I have been dating for 14months now, and we have even made plans for our wedding.

This afternoon my friend called me and told me that my boyfriend just did his traditional marriage yesterday. I didn't believe until she showed me pictures.
He initially told me that he was going to the village to see his uncle.

I am typing this in tears. How can someone be this wicked
I am actually contemplating suicide right now.

Although your "boyfriend" is a player/jerk, the problem here is you, I believe your "boyfriend" made the right decision in marrying the other woman over you because men love mentally and emotionally strong women, and you are very weak.
You are contemplating suicide over a MAN, not just a man but one who you have only known for 14 months, you are pathetic.
I will give you a scenario of your anticipated actions.

Your ex and his wife are living a happy romantic life, traveling, partying, enjoying their families, making plans to start their own family, welcoming into the world their new baby boys and baby girls, teaching them their culture, training them in the ways of the lord, sending them to college, preparing for their marriages, welcoming their grandchildren, living a blissful life while you are dead and 6 feet under the ground. FOR WHAT/WHOM
Girl forget about that man, live your life, God has someone better in his plans for you.

mirexxx:
Don't call me a turtle again

Don't let him get next to you, that is his goal, to upset you, just ignore him.

MzzTega:
If this is true....CONGRATULATIONS!
Now u gat someone to fight for you all the time

I agree, now he knows he has a ride and die chick, someone who has his back that can help him fight his enemies if he is attacked. Bunchersstab baby I got your back. @JohnPortar you are blessed, don't be embarrassed, just learn how to keep your eyes in your head when your girl is around and she won't have any reason to give you another beat down, it's all about respect and your girl demands it. All Nairaland men should pray to find a woman like the ops chick. Ride and Die Forever.

Bunchersstab:
Happy new month wifey

How is lectures and work?
*I no see u online ystdy na*

Happy new month to you also my husband. Work and school are on point, I can't wait until spring break next month, I'm tired I need some more fun in my life like the fun I had durring winter break I came on line yesterday but it was late and for a short time, I will be watching out for you. Have you been ok?

Truckpusher:
You love apologies , your man will always be on his knees.

Oya! na .....apologies tendered.

Apology excepted.

PS..... There are more fun things to do when you are down on your knees other than apologizing. "Oooh Did I say that"

Truckpusher:
Khiaa, To be frank as a typical continent African it is a daunting task to live with a foreign woman because there would be a clash of culture and it takes a lot of wisdom and patience to understand each other and of course we know what happens when anyone of the parties run out of patient , then separation is a sure scenario which nobody loves experiencing.

My disagreement with the self hating op is that he's trying to make comparisons to what some of our men whine here over women which are usual baseless stereotypes for men to classify women.But he didn't mention the bag and baggage that these foreign women come with.

lol@baggage
But Trucky marrying someone of your own culture doesn't mean you won't clash, or remain happily married for life.

Truckpusher:
Fine

*clears throat*

I knew you will respond

Of course you knew I would, now apologize to me on the double maaaaaaan.

Trucky I'm a foreign woman and I don't behave like you said, don't you behave like the op by generalising foreign women.
What's up with cha!!!

searching4love:
Na so my brother

Are you talking about white women or foreign women regardless of race?

Bunchersstab:

Hello my love.

lefulefu:
khiaa if yankee women love brothas wey dark as charcoal pls let me know so i can pack all my bags cross sahara desert come settle 4 yankee .Anytime a nigerian lady see me dem dey always scream and run inside bush .

lol Some of us loooove our men ebony dark and smooth.

Avalani:
Goodbye feminist.

Thanks for the compliment.

Avalani:
You're so insignificant, yet you can't see it. Insults from you mean nothing, the same way insults from a talking antelope wouldn't matter. Your bitterness is hard to hide, and no matter how much you tell yourself you are happy, the truth seeps out. Denial isn't absence. You believe I am your enemy because I am a man but you're wrong.

"My man and I are very happy" or so you say. By the way I didn't ask you that. I asked you how many lovers have come and gone. I asked you if you have been cherished by one only, and if he's still the man you're in a relationship with. The answer is of course no. Because a trained ear can tell the musical instrument from the sound produced.

Quoting rap lyrics, she is (now, that made me laugh)

LMAO You are just as feeble minded as your sunshine.
Quoting rap lyrics? Are you talking about the black American saying that goes *don't start none and there won't be none* that goes as far back as the 1960's? Rap lyrics indeed.!!
My man and I are happy and any person with an ounce of intelligence would be able to conclude from that statement that we are loved. How does it benefit you to know how many lovers I have had in my life? I am not your business so save those insecure questions for Sunshine.
So you think I am bitter because I don't respect hypocrites like you, well you are wrong because you are just a little peon who only exist on Nairaland, so I will take my little insignificant self off of this thread and find interesting people to converse with because you my dear
are a bore.
Please don't quote me again, save your mumbo jumbo for Sunshine. PEACE!!

Avalani:
When a man cheats on his wife, what do ALL WOMEN on this site advise? Because you seem caught up in your "hypocrisy" of men that it is starting to fill you up with hate.

Do ALL MEN on this site advise a woman to forgive a cheating husband? The answer is, of course, no. Do ALL MEN on this site advise a man to dump a cheating woman? The answer is, again, no (evidence of the latter can be found on this very post).

Did every guy on this post advise the man to divorce this cheating, fetish woman. The answer is no. Do you see the point I am making, or are you a simple lass?

People of both sexes give different opinions, some in favour of their gender, others against. My problem is not the opinion of others, but it seems it is yours. Rather than give your own opinion jeje, you attacked someone's No.9 and diverted into your hate for men and their double standards. All men cheat on their wives, blah blah blah...

And then you couldn't resist feeling "pity" for my girlfriend, someone you know nothing about. How nice of you. The truth is, you are either damaged goods, or 13 years old. How many lovers have come and gone in your life? You don't have to answer me on that one. Answer yourself. Have you been cherished by one man who still loves you, or are you what you sound like : damaged goods?

It's probably too late for you, but don't teach younger girls this general hate and distrust you have for men. Smh

Pity my sunshine, she says - very funny

You are a fo.ol if you think I hate men because I give them some constructive advice and point out to some of them the error of their hypocrisy, *shows how lame and insecure you are*
My man and I are very happy so that debunks your theory of me being unloved. Damaged goods? Sorry hon wrong again *Wise Goods*.
Learn how to read with comprehension. I never attacked a poster about his #9 point, I simply asked him a question. I said you men cheat on your wives all the time (meaning the cheaters) I never said ALL men cheat, once again learn to understand what you are reading before you go out on the attack.
Once again Comprehension is the key word here, I didn't say every man on this thread were hypocrites but the one who are, barks the loudest AVALANI.
As for your sunshine, it would take years and years to unbrainwash her feeble mind.
Aaaaaah! Don't get mad, if you can dish out the insults to me you can always expect to receive them back.
Remember, *Don't start none and there will be none*
I'm out!!

Misogynist2014:
That is too much, even an armed robber doesn't get such a sentence, not even in America. 10yrs is enough. It is even possible he didn't commit the crime, I watched a very identical case on Trisha. You don't just dash out sentences like this out of emotions.

In America this man can receive a life sentencing for kidnapping charges alone but with the other charges included he could surely receive a death sentencing. Let's take a look at what he would have been charged with in America.

#1 Rape
#2 Rape of a minor
#3 Participant in a Gang Rape
#4 Inciting a Gang rape(calling his friends to join in)
#5 Kidnapping
#6 Assault with a deadly weapon
#7 Death threaths to her and her parents
#8 Astortion (not sure if I spelled that correctly but you get the picture)

#9 Torture of a fellow human being
I guess he is lucky to be in Nigeria with the 35 year sentencing because those are some horrific crimes much worst than armed robbery. She went through hell.

Marverick:
In medical terms wide hips(big butts) are a sign of fertility and easy delieverence when the lady is about to give birth ,TEAM BIGBUTTS. baba u sure say u dey enjoy canine style, dat gnash too flat naw!

The hips and the butt are 2 totally different body parts.

Creamish:
U made dat brown colored comment severally...making doz who say they r light skinned feel like they dunno wat they r talking about...dat was unnecessary.

I'm sure you being in Nigeria doesn't mean you can't see the difference between light/fair *Drake* and brown/caramel *Will Smith*, you have eyes and you have those different complexions in nigeria.

lefulefu:
op if u dey complain wetin u want make guys like us wey dark like back of pot do?

Women love the chocolate brothas.

pcguru1:
Toni Braxton and Anita Baker I do have their Collection, Mavin Gaye sadly only sexual healing, lol damn rookie mistake Rolling stones i meant, yeah i know the song walk this way it was do.pe, Rick Rubin was responsible for that joint collabo the bearded guy in Jayz song 99 problems. but the Isley Brothers i would give that a go. infact am gonna jam "The show must go on" by queen in the office all day. you really know your stuff you are officially my music buddy and buddy now.

Yes I know who Rick Rubin is/was, he and Russell Simmons were college buddies but Aerosmith made the original version of walk this way back in the 70's.
Please don't torture your fellow employees with Queen *We Are The Champions* was the best song they ever recorded, everything else...... well you fill in the blank.
I will gladly be your buddy.
PS You must get Marvin Gaye's greatest hits. You can't be a lover of music and not appreciate Marvin.

Creamish:
In Naija, the OP is seen as a light skinned man/ fair complexion...so let's try and understand this thread from the naija point of view. We dont live in the land of onyibos.



hahahahaha... beats me! I see alot of threads on 'em..

@OP... d concern of ur "trail of lightskin-phobia ex" is quite understandable even tho beauty-related issues are individualistic. U just need to find someone who sees beyond the skin & ul b just fine.

Im guessing u already found someone tho..

I'm an American and it is the land of multiple races not just white so get it right.
I did explain in my post that the difference must be the US so clearly I understood the op's pov so your post was unnecessary.

Mutuwa:
sexual attraction was present was my dear...I was as active as a v12 plug..but was morally conscious can u beat that nowadays?

Gotta love it!!

Truckpusher:
Well, it depends and the much time you spend with a particular woman at a certain age could be sending the wrong signal to the lady involved and if doesn't happen. I'm sure , no right thinking person would love to have that kind of feeling hanging over their head.


Do not encourage what you're not sure of finishing it.

How long have been dating her?

Truckpusher:
There are some other constraint and we aren't married so it doesn't make any sense.

You don't have to be married to want to see your love one atleast 5 times a week, depending how close you are in the heart.

Truckpusher:
I have but the distance is much and my schedule is usually tight as well as hers too but who cares when you've got a lot of things to chase after - The women will always come around.

Why don't you move closer to her?