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Nomski0:
Happy Birthday!!




Those Bulgarians were brutal............especially that Marcelinho guy. I wonder what they feed him.



Finally........Benzema scored!

I can't wait till we meet Liverpool.

Nomski0:
I feel your pain. Eating disorders are more serious than most people realize, in my secondary school days, i suffered from BED then a mild case of self-imposed anorexia. I still tremble at the sight of very fatty foods.....i suggest you tell him about the disorder, then he'll stop pressuring to eat all the time there's nothing more frustrating than that, you could also ease into the meals slowly.....one spoon per day or something. But please dont go bulmic, there's nothing worse than that.

WorldGreatest1:
Here is my take.
Understanding & effective communication is what matters. If I should ask u if u both love each other, I am sure you would reply in the affirmative. When it comes to love you cant always have ur way. Let there be some form of balance. Balance is the keyword here. A little from his, a little from urs.

Deciding who is right is not the issue but doing what is right & learn to overlook some issues. Sometimes, u let him have his way, if u must prove a point do it in.a nice way.
Note: You are by no means inferior.

And abt whose culture to give up. I think both of u can always do both. But, if u insist on one giving up for another. U will.have to give up urs for him because you are married to him & not the other way round.

You can definitely live together but it depends largely on u both. Let understanding & good communication have its way & dont forget how you relay ur message to ur man matters a lot.

I hope that helps.

paradoxqueen:
Why i mention i am white is not out of superiority its because if someone reading knows much about Americans they know black American and white American carry a different culture/view/raising.

KingTom:
JOKing

alutacontinua:
Which village are you typing from?

paradoxqueen:
Hello,

To start with I am a white American woman and my husband is Nigerian. We have been married for almost a year. Anyways my husband claims to be frustrated with me disobeying. Frustrated enough he left and went back to Nigeria but returned after a little more then a week.
Now most of the time i don't think in my mind think to just obey him. What he says or we talk about well to me is only his opinion. I don't see anyone as authority to obey. I see people as people with opinions. My personality also contributes to this problem because i am spoiled, spontaneous, and well my husband says i think too much of myself... I say he doesnt think enough. I am not a disciplined person... I have lived my life doing what i want when i want and how i want.
Then other times i will very clearly purposely obey him. However.i only do this if he has upset me so that we may both be bothered and these times i clearly intend to anger him and frustrate him.
Now i have a problem that he wants me to obey him. I have several problems with this.... 1. I can't obey... I can Try.... But its not in me. 2. When we married our vows were messed up so i feel that is my escape clause that prevents me from really having to up hold to the martial vows. But most of all I just can't obey him. I could name many reasons why i won't or can't but i know myself well enough to know there is no situation with anyone i am going to obey.... Its just me...
Now my real problem is he is threatening to terminate the marriage if i don't obey... And i know he will.
I don't want the marriage to end but i don't want to obey him. And its probably easy to say obey him if i don't want it to end but i can't obey i don't know how and i don't even knowmost of the time when he expects me to i think he is just giving an opinion as no one not even my father would ask let alone demand me to obey.
So does anyone have anything they know i can do or any way i can alert.his mind on this obey thing?

PapaNnamdi:
*cleans face with handkerchief*
phew wat an epistle
d bible says...
obedience is better thannnnnn...........

anyways, i hav no idea whatsoever
i just came to read comments.
u remind me of someone though with a similar scenario,

voodoo85:
Cant be bothered anymore. hangover is too big

KingTom:
I go just express my Yoruba traits marry 2 of them na

dalhjana:
why can't you accept the simple truth?.we were perfect containing the virus, so they came for case study which also means learning and understanding all steps and measures we used.
#wadelse?

voodoo85:
here u r ! black woman+white husband=white baby

oooooo :DDDD

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2739797/The-colour-skin-no-concern-Jonah-healthy-happy-baby-matters-Million-one-white-baby-born-surprised-black-mother.html

urhoboman: "mr legit"
What made him legit?
Well you live there like said. Yuv study and known the difference in them.
But isn't it possible for a white to produce a white kid for a black man? Isn't there a likely chance?

urhoboman: No need for that ma'm, i think I should agree with you at this point. Though his kids looks white to me, they both have blondes hair like their mums.

tonychristopher: I will marry and I have dated many ...most of them are matured but apart from that she must have only a kid . I won't take children

The kid won't stay with us the first few years of marriage but then I will love the kids as mine

Its no big deal

Better to marry a baby mama that will give me peace or single presumed virgin and give me hell

ericessien24: all this you wrote ,who does it more in a guy and lady.you making all the ladies look like saint but don't forget bitches ain't loyal.

urhoboman: ma"m u got me wrong, being Native American means "indigenous".
A core american.
I know indigenous American consists of blacks, white, bi-racial, etc, but my bro kids looks "indigenous white American"
A pix of them woulda explain better for me. Too bad this is a public forum.

ericessien24: explain the meaning of heart breaking and causes?

urhoboman:
No ma'm, they lived in Nigeria and bore the kids here before going abroad. The kids dont look bi-racial, they look native American. But the fact that their father is black, the kids are considered to be blacks.
Apart from them, have seen some nigerian men with white ladies and white kids.

Ma'm haven't you seen a black mother of a white kid?
Also a white mother of a black kid.
It has to do with the womens gene.

urhoboman: ma"m, my elder bro is married to a white lady, they have two white kids together, If the gene of the man is stronger than the white ladys, therez a high chance of producing a white kid.
White kids are not special to me, i only fancy them. I guess you will admire them too.
I love blacks, i will marry black and produce blacks.

urhoboman: its just an imagination of having a white kid. I love blacks and will certainly end up with black.

Bunchersstab: will be on my way soon, what do i get 4m Jbluv55 for you?

Bunchersstab: Honey, can we go now

ericessien24: I can't even go out with that kind of a woman not talk of marry her? that's the reason for relationship.and your turn

ericessien24: so you want to admit your relationship Is perfect? havnt you had misunderstanding before and resolved it? why didn't you leave him?

drnoel: Whose foolishness and arrogance do u mean. I think ur? No? I am sure u are feeling cool with 7th elf cos u think u have written something. I suggest u mind ya sef be I will he forced to take u up.

BadBoy25: Why do you feel the need to always go through every single page and reply every fvcking message? and you call anyone who doesn't agree with you "white" . you are a fvcktard.

I have the right to say whatever the fvck I want for whatever reasons I want so fvck you Hoe.

if these ignorant nigerian idiiots shut the fvck up and stop being so ignorant and dumb, I won't disturb anyone .

BadBoy25: shut the fvck up you nigerian ass licker. go lick nigerian nuts . You LovePeddler,I know you like Nigerian dick up your tight ass

KingTom: My fiesty Khiaa

BadBoy25: Why do you feel the need to reply every fvcking message? and you call anyone who doesn't agree with you "white" . you are a fvcktard.