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BadBoy25: shut the fvck up!!

lol Shut me up troll. By the way, use that bomb to blow your own dumb butt up.

Jj222: Dat is to tell USA that our God is great.neve them look down on Nigeria cos we too much. Let someone praise God cos is not easy to pray n ur prayer wil b ans.

Our God is the God of Abraham, who is your God?

BadBoy25: what the fvck is wrong with you? take your stvpid talk out of here.

You are who you are!!

BadBoy25: ahahahahah bunch of nigerian wild animals . Nigeria is a third world shiithole and should be nuked .

The white trolls are back!!

shady26: you forgot to add 4 &5..
4.American citizens should Learn how to pray and trust in God
5.Reject gay law, atheism and Hedonism.

You forgot ......
#6 Some Nigerians should actually follow the words of the God they pray to.

drnoel: These people will study all they want but not get an abswer. By the time they realise that such viruses doesn't kill African man it will be too late. They will probably go home disappointed.

Aren't Liberians and the other west africans that lost their lives from ebola African people?
Think before you type. Good God, the foolishness and arrogance are unbelievable.

ttmacoy: This story sounds so dodgy. I can't see why America needs to study how Nigeria dealt with ebola as America provided the guidelines used by Nigeria to handle it.

Also why only Nigerian media carrying the news?

Forgive my being so pessimistic, but with all the false news released from the government and media over ebola last few months, I don't believe this.

It is false information.

donnypool: you are one of those black girls that Bleep all friends of white guys thinking it will turn your stinking pvssy white right? FYI whether you fvck or date only whites, you are still a fvcking nigglet, and trust me, micheal brown, travon matins etc treatment is waiting for you. just a matter of time.

du.mb b.itch

She's not black, trust me.

thorpido: You're taking this VERY personal.Are you a single mother?
You know nothing about my marital status and whether I have kids or not.

lol You are taking this personally. When I said YOU I didn't actually mean you the person I meant the person in the situation. No I am not a mother.

ericessien24: my dear that your US is just something else,but why would I sign that the baby isn't mine? I can't do that.you know girls in the states are very abnormal sorry to say.any small thing ,its over.divorce is like a normal thing there cos they know they wil share properties for them,but here in Nigeria that can't happen.as far as you can proof the child is yours,then you the father and most of the girls that are baby mamas are the ones that goes to Men for feeding money,players with many guys.I can't date a girl and know she have 6 other guys and il accept one pregnancy that its mine,I can't.for example my last relationship the girl told me I was her side guy and she cant date one person.I took her as my sex mate too.when we have sex I pay her and suddenly all the other guys were cheat and she realized I'm a cool guy,she then wanted to stay with me.but I couldn't cos I can never love her and if she get pregnant for me,she will just be a baby mama .so I DONT PITY them cos they get what they want.in my hood ,being a single mother makes you a big girl and later they start dragging people's husband.I know there are few decent ones but 98% of them are out of greed.

I am talking about men who don't want the responsibility of being fathers that's why I call them sperm doners, because that's all they were good for.
You said women in the US divorce for any small thing this is not true unless you call serial cheating drug abuse, physical abuse and many other horrible acts a small thing. Why shouldn't the wife get half of the properties when she worked her butt off to help pay for them. That law should be changed over there it is so unfair to women. So you don't mind the idea that your wife only stays with you because she has no place to go rather than the fact that she loves you? Mind you I am not talking about you personally, just the scenario.

PapiWata: The above sentence explains in one fell swoop why Africa will forever lag behind the rest of the word, in all indexes of advancement.

90% Nigerians, both illiterate AND "educated" believe the following ridiculous absurdities to be true, BECAUSE "SOMEONE" TOLD THEM SO.

1. Human beings can change physical form into any number of animals and birds, just by uttering a few magic words.

2. Human heads, harvested from kidnap victims, can be "processed" by Juju witch-doctors, so that the heads spew free cash on demand like defective ATM machines.

3. It is possible for a person to fly through the air on the power of magic incantations ALONE, to visit distant locations WITHOUT boarding any form of aircraft

4. Wearing a seat-belt INVITES car crashes, whereas wearing NO seat-belt, then simply praying and making sacrifices to any number of deities, will enable believers to survive ALL accidents, by simply tele-porting like the Star Trek crew in that old TV show, to re-materialize in a safe location right at the instant of impact.

5. A witch doctor residing in a mud hut can, FOR A FAT CASH FEE, create and activate magic spells for the purpose of conjuring money out of nothing, and without the need to engage in any form of effort or employment.

6. An impoverished Juju witch doctor can place a curse, FOR A FAT FEE, that will be effective against any target that resides many time-zones away from Africa

7. Great riches will be reserved in "heaven" for ONLY those who impoverish themselves during the here-and-now, by giving most of their paychecks to fast-talking miracle pastors of "Prophet" Jaguda's ilk,

Chronic, mind-dulling superstition, inter-tribal loathing and blind religious fanaticism will prevent Nigeria, and much of Africa, from recording ANY meaningful development over the course of at least the next 200 years.

LMAO Now this is comedy. Lord I hope they don't really believe this. They can't be that gullible.

buoye1: So what do you want me to say/do?

I want you to know for sure before spreading your gossip of what someone else told you a continent away without any proof, because some people believe everything they read on the internet.

Hishuula: sure

lol Seriously!!!

buoye1: if im nt there,i av brother and relatives there!so i knw what im saying

No you don't know what you are saying. You only know what someone else is telling you. Unless you hear with your own ears or see with your own eyes you have to leave room for doubt. I can't tell you how many people who have came on this forum with their lies and exaggerations. For example Dasparrow came on this very thread and lied and said Black Americans hate Continental Africans (lie/exaggeration) when he should have said some AA that HE met didn't like HIM. With the nasty attitude he displays I can hardly blame them.

Deepfreezer: yeahh God of Abraham isaac and Jacob. please I can speak for I and my house. don't know about others.

If they were really christians(not as in talk) but in deeds, it would show in their hearts and words. The only thing that shows through their hearts and words is hatred. These people aren't children of the God of Abraham, put the pretenders the bible speaks of, there is nothing loving about them. No compassion at all, they are an embarrassment to true christians.

Hishuula: I don't pray for that sha even God forbid am 4 you self ....vigin* birth lo sure ju

Ok you are right, but there are exercises a woman can do to tighten up after childbirth.

buoye1: U wont understand me!i dont want any1 to suffer both white and black bt my point is some white fools stil go about abusing blacks with words like...."go back to africa and die of ebola"its unfair and annoying!

If you are not in America how could they have said that to you?

ericessien24: after training the child to the peak,won't the same man come and claim paternity and daddy? u should know the real father of a baby is always the father.

This is not true, DNA doesn't make you a father/mother, love does. Here in the US if you marry a single mother/father you can also adopt the child and he/she will legally be yours, the biological (sperm doner /egg mother) will not have any rights. Before adopting the child you will have to get the biological (sperm doner/egg mother) to sign over his/her rights to the adoptive parent and believe me most of the time there will be no hesitance because he/she didn't want the responsibilities of the child in the first place. Now, if said sperm doner/egg decides he/she suddenly wants to play daddy/mommy after years of neglect and abandonment, he/she will have to go to court to detest the adoption but it would be hard to prove to a judge that he/she will be a good father/mother and provider after years of abandonment.

I tried to make it equal.

ojialo: I don't see anything wrong dating a single mother.... my woman was once married with a child... I'm enjoying my relationship.

But will you marry her is the question?

Ceasar1: Are you a single Mum?

No, I don't have any kids yet.

thorpido: To those saying a single mother proves she is fertile,HOW WRONG YOU ARE!
There is something called SECONDARY INFERTILITY.That a woman has had a child is no guarantee that she can have another one.There are countless women struggling to get pregnant again after they already had a child.Every pregnancy is unique.

I'm not against single mothers,I'm just disputing the hypothesis that having had a child means fertility.

Yes this is true there is no guarantee of a pregnancy because the new man (you) could be the one who is infertile.

MadCow1: Observations of a Mad Cow.. Why are most of the responses on this thread so far gender bias towards the women? The title didn't specify single mothers, it said "someone who has a child".. Even the female respondents are ignoring the single fathers and focusing on single mothers like they are lesbians.

I guess the trend of the responses speaks a great deal about our overall mentality as a people towards single parents which is;

Single Father = acceptable..
Single Mothers = taboo..



Just an observation.. But it's none of my business..

The op said single mothers out of wedlock.

Atmmachine: [b][/b] I HATE NIGERIANS.
You can't marry someone who has a child ??

You don't hate Nigerians.

lepasharon: Black women have the highest incidence of abortion in America and yet STILL are the race with the most kids out of wedlock ! What do they want?

Jheezzz

We are talking about single mothers period, no particular race or country. Jeeeez!!!

Hishuula: I only pray for birth tru vigin* for my wife ,after birth it can never be the same again ..if you keep telling her its the same as before u re simply trying not to hurt her

If she has a cesarian birth it will truly be like before, no lying because no baby will pass through her va.gina.

DWJOBScom: I was going to scream a loud "NO" after reading a lot of comments here somehow I feel I don't have to right to judge a book by it's cover and won't look down on anyone's comments or decision.
A lot might have made her "baby mama" "single with a kid" etc as stated by Mad Cow but I stick with the caution maintained by safari(watch out for a lot of things like loyalty, love etc)
I will marry with all the caution and "watch out" loud on alarm screen.

#my thoughts

So you would marry her but you wouldn't trust her?

free2ryhme: If all keeping specifying the kind of single mother they want to marry with specific qualities and xter my question remains if you eventually find the woman with all these why can't she with all the right qualities and xter maintain her current marriage with her child's father? Except her husband is late which is an exception.

The topic is about single mothers who have never been married.

tollytexy: Is there anything wrong in dating after one Having a child means she's cursed?? This Post funny sef!!!

The question is marriage, not dating.

Elnino4ladies: Hell no!..i want to marry a virgin.

Goodluck with that.

Hishuula: neva..I will be thinking a big child pass tru her puss* so wetin my own pppp wan do wey wan satisfy her ? I want a girl that even a finger can turn her ON,I want it tight

What will you do with your wife when you get married and have your child? Some women are just as tight after they have a child as they were before getting pregnant, because not all births are vag.inal births.

Jarchi: No No No Yes,my yes is of 25percent xcept on reasonable ground,but why can't they marry the fada's child is still my question

What if the father is deceased, married someone else, or just doesn't want to get married. Maybe she doesn't want to marry the father, there are different reasons why the parents never married.

Safari29: my friend think about it. Again think deep about it. It is difficult. It is not meant for a young guy. Am talking from experience. U are going to be third on her priority list. U are definately going to marry her with her kid. her kid must like you. You are going to make her happy almost every time because if u don't u ll be resented. if she is smarter than you pls forget it. most of them are pathetic because of their past and dont have a heart. If she is supportive and u know genuinely that she loves u (not just I love u I love you too)then I wish u the best. I know you have butterfly in ur tommy now wait till you guys are in bad terms. then u know if she really loves u or not

Everything you said applies to a woman with or without kids.