₦airaland Forum

LaBellaMafiaZA: Whites are nothing without "white privilege" & having everything handed to them on a silver platter just by being white.

Here is an example of losing privilege & perks from the govt in South Africa today.

So on point.

CAMNEWTON4PRES: Ah ah my lil BA offspring, how is fam?

I'm cool, how about you?

kaybee3: I said earlier that I just want be white or different country just to understand how it feel to be other race, maybe I should have said any other race apart from black so has to understand what's like to be other race and I won't want Nigeria as country too. After staying this again those this has anything to do with inferiority issue or how they leave? All I based my comment on initially was based on trying to feel how it is to be another' race.but if that's wrong then I can't help cos it just my opinion and no disrespect meant to anyone.

Ok hun!

kaybee3: are you saying because they want to be white means they don't love been black? Or they are white washed because you wouldn't change your race or color don't mean other people won't? And that doesn't make them a lesser or un patriotic either

lol. isn't it obvious if they are black and want to be white they don't love their color. *Michael Jackson*

ElNur1: possibly, a whale.. I love its size..

My man..Can u speak fulani?
my mom is Fulani.. nd I cnt speak fulani..
tho I love their ladies. .
they are:

white
long nose
fully rounded
Beautiful
educated
love Agriculture (cattle rearing).
can cook very well..

How are Fulani women white?

chulla12: All of the pro-blacks and pan Africans have come out with their claws in tow.

I believe that there is something to be said about how quick we are to defend our own and I respect that because of our biological drive for self preservation. There is also a territorial aspect that comes with it too. We don't want to say or concede things that will make us vulnerable to our adversaries. Heck, a white, asian, or Australian aborigine is taught to say yes with respect to this kind of question.

I get it. I get it all.

That being said, my first post is my conclusion after weighing the pros and cons with respect to living my full potential in life. It doesn't come from a place of feeling inferior racially or by downing my heritage.

To clarify though - I'm not keen on being happy with my race or ethnicity because of so-called cultural achievements or cultural diversity either. I appreciate the diversity and achievement of the human race in general but I have recently decided to refrian from ethnicizing such because of underlying politics that begin to uproot from that.

So while black people have made cultural contributions to the world, I could care less. Ditto white people or asians. When these things are ethnicized our competitive and ugly, discriminating natures come out and it devolves to an interracial and intraracial battle (see NL bigots for instance) that I would rather avoid.

So, why do I say that I'd rather not reincarnate as Black? Logic! And a desire to maximize my chances of living long and living well.

1. On average, you are accorded more societal respect when you are not black, as opposed to being so. Institutionalized discrimination, police brutality, slavery in certain non-black countries, racial tensions, being judged in some of the worst ways until you prove yourself. Negative stereotypes that affect your sanity. Constantly devising racial conspiracy theories to explain our collective miseries. Given an opportunity to live a life devoid of these burdens, I will go for it...sorry bro.

2. In all-black countries, the metrics that measure standard of living and access to basic amenities paint a grim story. This is a hard core fact that cannot be explained away by lofty stories of African grandiosity. Most of us struggle to immigrate to countries where we are further exploited and discriminated because we want to escape poverty. The rest of us stay behind and have to deal with incompetencey, lower standards (compared to the rest of the world), disease, violence, corruption, militancy. Why deal with all these when, by virtue of my birthright, I can live comfortably as an indigene of the first world, making global contributions to lofty ideals such as science, space travel, singularity, and other innovations? Rather than thinking of old world struggles like emancipation or poverty alleviation?

Of course the next thing you will ask is what I have done to effect change towards the life I aspire to assuming I was another race. Well, I am an externalist and I believe that there is only so much one person can do. I cannot change our situation alone, and I don't even forsee a significant change overall for many centuries. I could choose to come back as a prominent black person but my depression at the racial collective will still weigh me down. Uneasy lies the head that wears the crown.

So forgive my wanting to imbibe the finer experiences of life.

My thoughts on this biography are:
You don't have to be white to make those contributions to the world. It seems you have put mental chains on yourself. Yes, uneasy is the head that wears the crown, but who said that head belongs to the white man? There is another saying, *you can be and do anything you want to do if you put your mind to it* The white man life isn't a bed of roses, but to some the grass will always be greener on the other side.

kaybee3: you are very funny bro! And I can understand you sha, but this a Nigeria forum and how many whites are here? You sounding more like it a personal beef with white forks. Bro there is nothing special been white or black it just a completion and nothing more. Who you are and what you're is within

If who you are is within, why would you want to be white instead of black?

Bunchersstab: The whites :- wen they are angry/furious they bcome red, when they are ill they bcomes green, from a distance they are yellow,give them salt (sodium chloride) they will have black spots, give they pepper (spice) they might melt.
Are they really white or they seven rainbow colour

The blacks eats anything and bcomes stronger wat an irony.

This is the truth, well said baby.

nathdim: I would love to come in black skin with a white man brain

A pethetic case of inferiority complex.

bigfrancis21: They are not having it any better, bro. You won't appreciate how lucky you are to be Nigerian or the qualities that, by virtue of the very fact that you were born and raised in Nigeria, you possess until you come here, US.

Don't believe this.

CAMNEWTON4PRES: Let's see it from another angle ,okay? Don't you guys think the fact that we have to descend so low and ask such a stupid question means that our rapists are the ones to blame? I mean if it wasn't for slavery , colonialism ,racism and white supremacy I doubt any of of you would ever ask such ? This is exactly what it is,the contact with europeans brought low self esteem among most Africans-blacks

Now why not react like the chinese, if you are under domination, you can always keep your way of life and language for a better future, I mean is it not shocking that of all the continents and countries which were raped by western imperialists ,African countries are still the only ones using the language of their masters ? Using their currencies for some? Praying their gods and following their religions?

Do you really think that the guys who stripped you of your pride will b the ones to give it back to you ?

So not only I wish to still come as an African -black but I also wish to come back during the scramble of Africa so that I can organize my people and kill as many western imperialists and missionaries as we can.

Btw it still baffles why the boxer reaction which happened in china did not happen in Africa, I heard of people of my ethnic group and clan beheading missionaries but they gave up so quickly to the point that not being a Christian is almost a taboo

For once you make sense.

sexzskil: I beg to differ that WHITES are superior, infact they are lords of the Black race. Isn't it evident even in nature' face the hard truth, face concrete reality, WHITES are superior to Blacks in every area of existence by billion miles, FACT!!

You see whites as being superior to you, but they are not superior to the black race.

TeamSimple: Y not,what if by then its the black race that is ontop n we have the whites as d second fiddle..Black man with white man sense that's me.

Black man with white man sense, what the hell do you mean by that?

Bunchersstab: Honey, i've been readin ur posts from a distance...
i wont say i hate d whites but i will neva wish to bcome a white cos dat skin colour irritates me like d skin of an ebola patient. (sorry to say this)
Am black and proud!!!
Will want to remain a black naija if i have to come bak into this world.

*BLACK N PROUD*

This Is My Man!!
I'm so proud of you my love.

kaybee3: I give up, if you can't see reason with me I see a lot of sense with yours. But my point as never been about if they leave a better life or not and for been delusional I'm far from it.also not only Americans are white as a matter of fact that country is not on the list of country I want to visits any time soon.

It's not just America, I just used America as an example but people are the same all over the world.

spotit: khiaa u have to realise that most of these subhumans have never lived outside the shores of Africa nor socialised/integrated themselves with white people. the evils of television and digital photography is what's dealing with their self esteem

I realise this. They don't understand how much Black Americans looked up to Africa.
Let me give you a scenario. A Black American wants to reach out to Africa, That AA finds this web-site and is very, very excited. The AA browses through the forum to find an interesting topic. What does she/he find, loads of degrading/hateful/racist threads about AA, then we see how great the whites are almost to the point of worship. It is so sickening, disgusting and embarrassing to see black people kissing white azz. So alot will make degrading threads in retaliation or will leave and find a more welcoming African website.

Jbluv55: Welcome ma'am. Erm.....majority of peeps in the house went to the wooing center earlier where males are currently wooing females .

It continues later today .

When you say later today, you mean Sat. right, because sometimes it gets confusing because here it's 6pm Fri.

kaybee3: lol I can't take you to heart trust me, I'm actually enjoying this cos I'm learning here. But are you familiar with this quote 'change is the only constant thing in life' in as much as I love been black I have no problem to come back as white cos and I will want to be white in next life. Different stroke for different forks after staying this my decision doesn't not makes me inferior to any human being. You can't just tell me because of what I want and my decision make me inferior and that equivalent to the fact that u don't love been black that's a very wrong generalization.

You don't even know why you want to be white. You have this delusion of grandeur of what whites are. I think maybe you watch too much Hollywood movies. They are no different than anyone else. They put their pants on one leg at a time just like you and I. They don't live a happy go lucky life, they have trials and tribulations just like the rest of us. In America some are rich and live in mansion, and on the flip side some are dirt poor and live in trailer parks and shacks up in the Kentucky mountains with little food to eat, and some are even homeless for different reasons. So don't wish to be something you really no nothing about. Anyway God loves us all and he made us just the way he wanted us to be.
If you truly love who you are why would you want to be who you aren't? It kind of reminds me of the Michael Jackson situation, you know he hated being black.

glitest: You call me ignorant, when you can simply comprehend crap.

I do admit that my first six comments was referenced towards Americans in general, which I clearly wasn't the only one on the thread, who found that to be a bit ridiculous.

The only time i made a comment towards a particular race, was when I stated that "most young grandmothers, partied 24/7 ".

You on the other hand, do need to stay on topic; First, you claimed I called all grandparents( men and women includded), "boozers and useless "?, and now your claim I made all 7 responses to op, about Americans in general?....You need to go back and read but my comments and that of op, cos the only time I mentioned all AA( men included), was only when you brought up that of that the suppose single young Nigerian father, whom you claimed to be true....Remember that isn't a confirmed statement.


Well; I was wrong mentioning CNN as a legit source, cos its obvious you do not pay attention to stuffs like that....You shouldn't have had added a smily face to your obviously dumb response..You didn't come off been smart.

You are one of those type of persons who can't admit that they are wrong and that they are liars/exaggerators, so there will be no more conversing with you. You have some growing up to do. I am done.

Jbluv55: Hello khiaa, how are you tonight?

I'm sorry I just realised it is you. I'm doing great, how are you? What's going on in the house tonite?

kaybee3: actually I can't prove anything to you so I will accept your judgement and your view. I'm not the type that's see any man like a semi gods either white or black or Asian but I made my comment based on the topic and I see nothing wrong if i want to be white if I come back to this earth again. To me you just sound like you share so much ill feelings with the white forks. Why didn't you ask people why they want to come back as black man or woman? Why is it you questioning opinion of people that want to come back as white?

If you are black and you love yourself it is only natural to want to come back to what you love, same goes for whites or any other race. Don't take me to heart hun, this is only a discussion.

chucky234: Been around my man, why are you and Khiaa taking every single joke serious na.

How would you like it if I bad mouthed Freecocoa all the time?

glitest: Pls!...Get your facts straight.....You're looking for an audience.
I stated at the end of my comments, that my opinion was solely referred towards young AA mothers/grandmothers....Something you clearly referred to, the first time you quoted me....First you claimed my comment was referred to all AA grandparents, now all races?...... This is the same person who called me a liar for stating a fact that even CNN reported just last year?
And you call me a liar?...You really do need to get back on track.

You are a liar. Reread your original post. You said all that crap about AMERICAN grandparents excluding NIGERIANS and IMMIGRANTS. Now that I called you on it and asked you for proof you want to change it to an AA thing.


LMAO!! CNN, now I understand your ignorance and stereotyping.

[quote author=kaybee3][/quote]This is not a racist issue. I wanted to see through your eyes why you would want to be white, and guess what, you answered me without even realising it.

So I take it you are one of those people who see whites as
semi Gods.

Lord I hope there aren't any whites on this thread, this will definitely feed their over inflated egos.

tdayof: human transformer

glitest: My own little world?....Pls!....stats about African American children been born to either young parents is just a Google away....Something anyone curious, can get within a few clicks....Its also an issue/ topic an unbiased AA, would agree to.......Very different from the suppose
Nigerian single parent, whom who you brought up as proof, with no evidence whatsoever......Now, tell me...Who has more facts?.

It is only logic and common sense that not all Nigerians live a life of morality in America as well as the fact that not all Americans live a life without morals. That is not generalising. You made the comment that grandparents in America (regardless of race) are not good parents who love to party like teenagers with little regard to who takes care of the children, now you want to make it an AA thing.

tdayof: black and white" I mean I can be white when I wish or the other way round! my post is base on op's topic n post .

Oh ok: lol you want to be a transformer.

glitest: (A) Nigerian guy?.... Just one?.

I do live in America, so I can tell you about lots and lots of people I come in contact with, who also happen to be young and mostly single parents/ grandparents....Isn't that enough proof?.

No it is not enough because the people you come in contact with in your own little world is not all of America and by you saying this about them is no proof at all. It's just another one of your lies and stereotyping. The reason I brought up the Nigerian guy was to show how you generalise in the positive light when it comes to Nigerians and not all Nigerians in America live this life of morality that you wish to paint. Of course there are more young single, never married Nigerians parents than him, he was used as an example.

kaybee3: what exactly do you want me to list or talk about white forks? This is a sensitive issue and I'm not going to dwell into it, what I'm going to say is khiaa there is nothing if someone want to be white. To me I will like to be white just to experience been another race not anything special. And for your question I don't know how you want me to answer that cos I stated categorically that both white and black are beautiful but you choose to ask me why white is beautiful..

You said experiencing being another race is nothing special, so if it is nothing special why would you want to be white?

glitest: You need to take a chill pill, cos you are clearly the one on a rant. My comment, was directed towards young grandma's, and not to all grandparents....Get your facts straight; Also, when the hek did I ever call the grandma's drunk and useless?....pls stop misquoting my comments.

I can attest that most Nigerian grandparents aren't around parting , cos most Nigerian grandparents were brought up with self respect; Most Nigerian grandparents, aren't 40 plus year old single mothers and fathers...Most are now retirees, who have either relocated back to Nigeria, or are helping with the up bringing of their grandkids.
I do not care if you like my comment or not....You just can't fight the fact that I am right about my comment that most AA grandmothers of today, are very young women with Atleast one grandkid..You can call me a liar, but you know that is that damn truth....# peace#

My grandparents and most grandparents are not what you say. I know a Nigerian guy who is 22 with 2 Nigerian children and he is unmarried, and his parents are 45 and 50. So once again I ask you to show me the proof.

kaybee3: maybe you can tell me what makes you think black is beautiful? Is it because you're black? Or it just a myth? We are all human, I'm black and I love been black! but there is nothing wrong if I'm white too cos white are also beautiful! Any this are just my opinion.

You repeated the samething as in your other post. Can you answer my question?

*Can you tell me what is beautiful about white skin in your own opinion*?

tdayof: op! black n white! I won't face racism

Biracials are discriminated by both races, so at times they have it worst.