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It goes both ways. That's y u shouldn't roll with a freak, Especially below ur financial status.

If u are nice to a low level lady, she's gonna be like he want something from me or I turn him to mugun and vice versa.

D prb be say, we don see ourselves finish just like d white has seen d good and bad of d white ladies.

White guys will go for black ladies that aren't expose( black American) while black guys will prefer white ladies because they are less materialistic and to upgrade his status.
And black gals will go for white cos she believes he can take care of her financial instability.

We just wanna satisfy our fantasy and explore....my view.

Inform d church if she is an active member of d church and so are u.
Keep records of d threat and share with a family member u trust or a friend u can confide in.
Try get a restraining order from court
And don't forget to involve d police.

U don't owe her anything, relationship no be do or die matter.

samguru:
For mature minds only.

I need your advice on how to dumb a lady which I don't like but we have been dating in the last 5 months.
She was introduced to me by a friend and since then I thought the relationship can lead to marriage but my instinct keeps telling she is not the one.
I have had sex with her anyway but her antecedents is something to worry about as she has been married and the marriage crashed without a child.
I have also married with a male child but the marriage crashed due to crazy intolerable behaviours of my ex.
This lady has shown some signs which my ex possessed and I don't want to experience such marriage again.
Please how do I dump her without having any feeling of guilt
Please feminists should keep off this thread.

Hmm....I can relate a bit to what u are feeling, It's kinda psychological. Once bitten twice shy but I will say is that try to learn from ur previous marital experience, don't repeat same mistake cos it takes two to tango, be a better man, let go of the fear and hurts and free ur mind for a better beginning. Though easier said than done but nothing is impossible.

Express how u feel about some of her characters u don't approve but do that carefully so that she won't spark up. Give her little time to change cos change is inevitable. We all gat our flaws and weaknesses, no perfect being on Earth. And after all said and done, no changes and u know deep down in urself that u can't cope, d best way is to break transmission in communication cos sound communication cement relationships or come out boldly to her.

Marriage is to be enjoyed not endure.

First step to take is to quit masturbation by whatever mean u can. Afterwards, u shud engage in kelgel exercise & pee control. Always manage to kill anxiety before sex by relaxing ur nerves that's y pre-intimacy is very important. Mind control is paramount, take ur mind off d act during d act and think about something else entirely, maybe something scary. And again don't joke with regular exercise like push-ups, jogging, etc. During sex, try to change style every 2mins if possible and whenever u feel dat urge to release, eject and squeeze/pin ur shaft for a mins or two for d feelings to die before u continue.

P.E(premature ejaculation) isn't a disease. Larger percentage of guys pass thru that phase at some point in their sexlife and d good news is that it's a phase and will surely pass. But solve it naturally not with drugs.

Allaboutkatiee:
You need to elaborate more

U haven't answer my question

Are u trying to say u can't say NO to a particular guy even if u ain't into any romantic relationship with him? Or he's ur vulnerability?

Sexually addicted as in hyper sexual or nymphomaniac? Cos d word "addicted" u added to it gave it another meaning. Addiction can be an habit or practice that damages, jeopardizes or shortens one's life but when ceased causes trauma.

[quote author=Colourich post=73468440]Oh nice, so you are being faithful for your wife, that's good.[/quote
]

Smiles....once u gat happiness with what u have, what u need to seek after is happy ending not "happenings around".

elugo:
If your luggage is more than 47kg what happens? Can one still bored the flight? If one has to pay how much is it?

$10 per kg I guess once it's above 47kg

Colourich:
Are you abroad?

Yeah

Colourich:
So you are saying a man will stay for one year without having sex, it's even difficult for a woman talk more of a man.

Konji is no respecter of anybody.

It's all boils down to self-control and determination.
At least ama clear example. A year and a month today.
There are millions of men/women on this planet which u have only met pinch out of 1/3, u can't just generalise my dear.

Colourich:
No I can't, unless he will do my visa immediately and take me there, I don't want konji to kill me in Nigeria while my husband is abroad frolicking with white women.

Haba! No be all married men that lives in abroad are wayward.

It's a phase, it will pass. Maybe u guys doesn't court for long before taking that huge step but anyways, that's isn't d problem. D marriage is young and u are just blending into each other. All u need is more patience, be a good listener rather than a judge of character. Living with a woman requires wisdom, they gat mood swings easily, very emotional, diplomatic and dramatic.
Correct her in love at her best time not her worst that is if at all u need to. Don't mandate her to yield to ur advice rather support her on hers and if it fails she's gonna come back to urs. Take ur time to study her, it takes patient to understand a very complex being like them.

MannieA:
I can't marry a man DAT is based abroad.... like..nah...DAT marriage won't work.... wat kind of marriage will DAT be
I'm getting married to be loved and pampered... but he is staying abroad... how will I be loved and pampered.. lol
who will help me to correct the children when they are doing things wrongly... abi do u think it's Easy for only one person to raise children... nah..it isn't easy
and me DAT is scared of sleeping alone...nah...I can't marry a man based abroad o...even constant sending of money won't make me happy in DAT marriage... I need my hubby by my side...lol

What if u are already in d marriage and maybe after few years into marriage he got a job opportunity abroad but can't come over with his family not after a year or two. Won't u agree to it?

MannieA:
I can't marry a man DAT is based abroad.... like..nah...DAT marriage won't work.... wat kind of marriage will DAT be
I'm getting married to be loved and pampered... but he is staying abroad... how will I be loved and pampered.. lol
who will help me to correct the children when they are doing things wrongly... abi do u think it's Easy for only one person to raise children... nah..it isn't easy
and me DAT is scared of sleeping alone...nah...I can't marry a man based abroad o...even constant sending of money won't make me happy in DAT marriage... I need my hubby by my side...lol

What if u are already in d marriage and maybe after few years into marriage he got a job opportunity abroad but with

That's an act of generosity, protecting his brother from having sexual transmitted diseases and unwanted pregnancy. We all need to be our brotherskeeper

Tamarapetty:
Seriously, where is the explicit content??

Actually it was, go watch it on Instagram. He ought to post d video not pictures.

D question shud be reframe like this; ladies, what's d length of preeq u will be satisfied with measured in inches and width measured in centimeters. cos most ladies doesn't know that an average preeq size is 5inches long and 2.5cm when it's fully erected.

Two kinda preeq, shower and grower.

Quickie, little or no kiss. olosho for chocolate factory, no kiss. Ur blood olosho, maybe. Love making, that's d invitation to d arena.

Actually some do and doesn't pretend, while some pretend and some doesn't really like it. Women sexual organ isn't as obvious like men so u can hardly notice when they Hot unlike men.
And again larger percentage of d circumcised one doesn't really like sex 100% like d uncircumcised ladies cus getting them in d mood isn't a child play unless u gat what it takes as a guy.

Female genital mutilation is bad.

To answer ur question, there are guys that want something real in relationship besides sex. Apparently na just lust he gat for u, and again don't be disappointed with d way he acted up, perhaps he had had sex on first date with some ladies in d past and tot u ain't special.

Show him cold feet for cold shoulder

Eberechi24:
There is research going on now which proves that Nigerian Ladies take proper care of their vaginas.
Appreciate us for once pls.

I really love and appreciate African ladies especially naija babes but d problem too much ignorance. I'm not saying naija babes doesn't gat fruity like virginal odor but based on d percentage mentioned, d research wasn't conducted in naija.

If d symptoms persist, plz, see ur doc.

D research was conducted in developed countries where ladies takes proper care of their virginal and see it as one major part of their body that needs proper attention.
Actually, a good virginal odour can set a man on d go that is if it gat fruity kinda odour.

gordus:
Please house, my contract of employment stated UNLIMITED CONTRACT.WHat does that mean

i.e u can cancel after six months

ntutu:
Good day friends. Please I wish to ask for direction before my cousin makes a mistake or get scammed. Attached are the documents my cousin agent sent to him from Dubai. He instructed that he takes the two documents to Dubai Embassy for his medical before his Visa will be approved. Please, is he on the right track? He supposed to travel to Abuja tomorrow against Monday for him to do as instructed by his agent. I need a professional advice on what he should do. Thanks guys.

He's on d right track. That's employment Visa process. Once he show d first document to them at d embassy, he will be directed to go for medical, attest d medical report then proceed to biometric that is if he's company over here has done d necessary with MOI in UAE. Though he's still gonna pay for biometric in naija. Good luck

What kinda advice do u need when u are in relationship with urself

To go see her parent formerly as her fiance not introduction. Maybe u are d one that misunderstood her.

TimiRume:
Numb 15 will not kee mee

But u can do better

Rosezee:
That's no always the case - speaking from experience

I may partially agree with u but friendship is all about choice.

"D company u keep determines d kinda person u are"

Babe, u know I'm crushing on u like mad and gat a wide sexual fantasy I wud love explore with u if u wouldn't mind.
Very simple way to ask for sex. Put it to her via text, chat, or oral and take charge from there based on her response or reply.