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for me, i believe friend u had while u were younger make better friends as u grow....in essence i hardly make new friends..aquaintances....yes but i cannot be close to them like my childhood friends that weve stayed connected through the years(they are best!!!!!!)

YungwizzzyPt7:
Girls don't make good friendship like the guys

No wonder most girls like making friends with boys

but you now call it friendzone

i beg to disagree with this notion cos ive had bad experiences with guys i thot were my close pallies back then until they backstabbed me....told lies to my boyfriend at the time. infact they made me soooo wary of friends generally.l

ViktorMartins:
Kibi, happy birthday dear!

thank u very much...appreciate

pickabeau1:
Since you dont have ALL the facts..but you have displayed a friend's marital issue online, i wonder what your motive is.
I guess we can all laugh at your friends expense.

laugh....nope else twould have been posted at the joke column...

pickabeau1:
You don't have ALL the facts of your friends marriage yet you come online to selectively post things to assassinate her husband character.


Such a 'good' friend you are.



He is a caveman

Let her divorce him.

Are u happy

i never said i had all the facts...truth be told i didnt ask so i would give her any advice....i just was puzzled at why a squable wuld be settled with such a condition.

Raiders:
according to the op, she said her friend husband ask to submit her salary at the end of the month which probably means she is not helping with the bills. No man would ask his wife to submit her salary if she is contributing to the house bills

but dyu know there are some men who dont knw and care what their wives earn cos they believe its their duty to provide for the home.

Raiders:
your friend is stingy lady. What is wrong with a woman helping out her husband with paying for the bills. I hate stingy women

this isnt helping out IMO cos he wants it all...its a different ballgame if she assists in purchasing stuffs in the house or contributes to paying bills.

eunisam:
I askd:Will you as a woman summit your salary to your husband to make him happy? 60% said YES ane 35% said NO. 5% Said it depends. source:my whatsapp broadcast.

i still think they all dont support that but the YES are those who do it to avoid issues(for peace sake people)

haftob:
This one mess in someone's mouth put salt join, mayb the challenge she's having in her marriage is as a result of her salary dat's y the husband is demanding for it. Bur for God's sake, it's unhearable, how will u demand for ur wife's salary, o ga o

he says its meant to show her submissiveness...thats the part that puzzles me.

i just spoke with a friend of mine who has been having marital challenges and she says the hubby has given her a condition for their make up - submit your salary to me at the end of every month.
i really dont like being in the middle of marital squables cos i wouldnt want anyone in mine so i told her to pray and talk it out with her husband though it did get me thinking, whats the rationale behind that condition...for men in the house who do this please enlighten me cos i dont support it.

tatiana009:
Yes most matters shouldn't be reported to parents or any third party however there are some issues that may require that e.g domestic abuse. The important thing is to be mature enough to know the issues that require third party intervention versus the regular relationship quarrels.

i agree with you on the domestic abuse part. as for maturity to know how to handle issues...hmmmmnnnn...that one na God!!

Kanwulia:
My family nor get work ni? Abi na 'THE NIGERIAN VILLAGE-MARKET SQUARE' una dey live ni?
Dem go juss 'hiss'. . .waka comot!
My husband would be the LAST thing they would be interested in. . .
. . . And vice versa! Borrrrrrrrrrrrrring shyte! Na me or dem f'O'rst to marry?

We nor dey judge that kain case for my family o.
Before you open your mouth begin. . .dem don WAKA GO!

Na you and ya 'GOD' or 'SATAN' o!

I don't remember ANY TIME in my life ANY of their siblings discussed their spouses. . . .
Ova to the 'BUSHMEATS'! NEVEEEEEER!!!!

wow!!!! i love this family of yours. Sincerely tho this oughta be way it should be.

i know a lot of wives are guilty of this. Granted your family wishes you well and will never advise you wrongly( or so you think) but i daresay most times they do.
please remember that you are the one who said the "for better for worse" part thus will and should be able tolerate what comes your way(believe me they will come) but your folks, they cannot tolerate it if their little girl is going through all that(trust ladies to always paint the picture of the victim)
my take on this is whatever the issue, please resolve it with your spouse that's the least you owe to each other.

Thanks for all your responses/advice. speed dial has really spoilt a lot of us..

I just want to know if its compulsory as some people don't have the gift of retentive memory in this regard.

sooooooo yes!!!! and ill enjoy every second of it

Hi every1, please where can I get corporate maternity gowns(affordable please)? Urgent

dopeJemi: Yeah



Buh mah father haz neva heard of d word called "sorry" b4

most fathers havent..instead mine wuld say and i quote " ave fogiven you for what u did" take it or leave it.

jamp: Hello NL,

I have noticed that male babies suck breast more than the female ones. When I had my first daughter she did not suck as much as my first son is doing now.

I want to know why the male child suck more or could it be why they still suck even at old age?

i have always wondered myself...and the husband will be hungrily looking on while their babies suck...

Mrs mansson: My hubby cried all through.i was in labour for good 2days,when he got tired of crying he started praying,and when my cervix couldnt dilate further despite the fact that i was induced ,all he was saying then was "if i knew i wouldnt have gotten her pregnant O"the nurses laughed at him eh.Finally when i was going into the theartre he looked @ me like it was the last time he would ever see me.Thank God everything went well.

wow!!! 2 days!!! i feel his ...and ur pain

candieangel12: Rlly? I thought the hubby usually stays in the labor room?

wanted dat badly but...was a no no for me..their own hospital policy( )

candieangel12: I dunno how my future hubby will react but hopefully he will be a strong man that wont be a wimp at the sight of childbirth, especially since I want 2 have my children naturally at home in the bathtub. Something about water birth fascinates me

water birth always fascinated me too, unfortunantely some see it as wierd...well in my case hubby wasnt allowed into the labour room but he stayed out all thru where he culd hear everything going on and told me he heard our babys first cry.

the test will be at kogi state polythecnic lokoja on saturday 18th. all d best