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take heart
God knows best

Pretimum:
I want to rant!

Why do good people die young

I just tire. Been awake since 3am trying to understand it.

How can one detect early onset cardiac arrest, what is the first aid treatment to administer?

Was hoping Santa will come my way but not like this nau.

Lost my closest uncle, my personal person, he just clocked fifty!!!

Was full of life last night, woke up grasping for breathe...

Doctors say it's cardiac arrest, just like that.

It is well...adieu Uncle Deolu, we were planning your daughter's wedding ni o.

Now na burial things, Kabiyesi!!!

Lol

slysteel:
They were simply being courteous or maybe mocking you,you need to visit morroco where they came from,its even better than most European countries,infact north African countries are not exactly on the same level with sub Sahara Africa,they can only be equated with European countries,lagos is a big a** dirty ghetto.

They Will save it till they meet you at home lol

Mimzyy:
A busy wife has less time to nag.

Please. Could need advice on this please

09032730510

bros1234:
I hope everyone is doing okay. Pls do not be discouraged. Write more and more and more. You will surely get the one that is selling.

We've just crossed $500 in sales for Dec. Thats slow, and not as much as some of you but then we are learning.

UPDATE: Amazon is giving you free $50 to advertise your books on amazon. Pls take advantage of it.

Ok..ma
As a writer am carried away by wordsmiths a lot...
Peace

comtem2011:
kidco, please stop quoting forgotten issue. Its a thing of the past.

Just one word came to mind after reading your write up ma.... the word is
WOW
THANKS A BUNCH

MamaOO:
iomoge,

When I saw the post last night, me sef shock. Talmbout, you're insane, your head is not correct and all sorts cos the woman admitted to beating her 6 month old. I no wan wahala that was why I didn't reply last night. Plus I was tired and sleepy.

Like they say, if you have nothing good to say, don say anything. Me sef get choice words for the mama wey dey beat her pikin, but there are ways to tell her what she's doing is bad than the way she said it. Helovesme is not feeding the poster, neither is she her younger sis or maid. Have some respect dude! Criticize her but don't belittle her. Frustration can lead even the best mom to do bad things. Let her know what she did was bad without sounding like you're her lord and personal savior. Gosh.

And if we talk now, she'll say she lives in an advanced country kinikan kinikan. Me sef dey live for advanced country. Stop using Child Protective Services to scare people. Shebi you have to prove to CPS that someone is abusing her child, or you think you can just go there and tell them mama something is abusing her child and they will just go and arrest her? Oshisko. Abegi! Talmbout tracing IP and shit. Lmao. No be the same CPS?? they have enough wahala than to deploy FBI to search for one random woman on NL.

And I don't condone beating children in any way. MummyGwen please for God's sake, stop beating that child. It's not right and you should never let your anger and frustrations to make you do such things. I'm begging you. If she will take breastmilk. Give her that and keep coaxing her to eat little by little. With time she will adjust. Me sef that has been living her since, I no dey gree try new food, I'll rather stick with my Nigerian cuisine not to talk of a 6month old baby that's still exploring. Pele

Lol...
It happened sane here when my kid was same age
I pretended to gulp his by placing his on my cup...LOL...he wasn't able to tell the difference

LadyPrecy:
mums in the house please dont ignore. my 9months old dd has totally rejected her formula so it happened that this evening i was drinking a glass of warm milk (nido milk) and dd started dragn the cup with me so i quickly made her formula in a cup too and offered her but tasted it nd refused taking it yet she continued dragn my cup of milk and i gave her to drink and she gulped the whole content and was crying for more.. So my question is, is it ok to start giving her cow milk at 9months(nido milk) cc all mamas.

God bless you really good

FINA4804:
I use to say my children don't eat but when I saw my sister inlaw feeding her 7months old baby I respected her and told her ,me I can't do This, they eat for two hours. NOT EATING HAS GRADE, I sell baby food I HAVE SEEN, you will cry for the mother.
In my case , I spank my children to eat, as I spank his buctucks he opens his mouth then I feed. We are in Nigeria, in this country we beat,it will not and can never kill the child. No greater love than the love of a Mother. No body loves my children more than me.
My first child is 3years old if you don't flog her at least one strike she will not eat.
WELL FOR MUMMYGWEN let your baby be hungry, when she wakes up don't breastfeed leave her till 9 or 10 am then feed it will be better, then use good MILK so that if she eats even if it's twice she will get enough nutrients. If you where in Ph I would have assisted you. Well done God is your strength.

Count not your chicken before it hatches

reallest:
Sunderland 3 vs Chelsea 1

True ma

dominique:
The turtle should have been taken to institute of marine research. I don't trust those boys, they can still hunt it down and cook it. Nice gesture Mr Adebiyi

Ok...
Sorry

Onegai:
cc dominique.

Bros, you no read? No more replies on anything to this topic here. Carry your greviance to her PM.

I point out fact
and accept it
Acceptance of something does not mean u want it
it simply means it exist
In our reasoning.... once you accept something as it is you will e able to act
For example I accept you mockery of me in relations to the mention of my books promo
But that does not mean. I want it to be so... it means it is there because you put it there
Because it is your nature to see things in black and white
to assume thing as it apparently pop upsfrom your own secluded tastes
We are all different mum
We are all a manifestation in the form of things around us... I speak in a male perspective. .. because a man need to help a woman channel their fraustration elsewhere. .. not the Kids
Work need. To be OK enough to channel a mother fraustration elsewhere
Not the kids
Etc LOL
Sorry. For my bla bla
U are really rude
Haba
Love u-\

So the reasons you've listed makes PHYSICALLY ASSAULTING an innocent BABY justifiable?

Oga, it's best you focus on your book selling business and not make such posts as you come across as someone in support of child abuse.[/quote]

Good
you could write a books
have been SNEAKING on your post same with Onegai write ups
You both are good
I have over 3 blog and they can get traffic if the are same area as yours
good initiative

maamee01:
Thanks swthrt. Sorry it's coming late motherhood tinz. I have gone through your blog n was inspired, waiting for part 2 as it will be inspiring. Tnx

Wow... I love ur advise
I love it so
Direct to the questions
And at the end a conclusion
Thanks for advisory poem
On okra and small small
Thanks for That. Insight
know money for food no be beans
Love u Mama

zaynie:
MummyGwen, keep breastfeeding and give formula .
Blend sweet fruits like banana , apples, grapes and spoon feed. ( they contain simple sugars and vitamins)
Have you tried hard boiled eggs? Dodo nko?
Try to give the food you eat too.
I know my lil sweetie loved meat and chicken pie fillings like madt and she always got a taste when i buy one.
Also try making amala with really slimy okro.....before the baby can decide to spit it out, it is on the way to the throat.








I should.have your head for hitting that little baby buh I see Helovesme beat me to it plus I have been in a similar place before.

If you have underlying issues rather than take it out on your baby, talk to someone, write it out.
Look at your child as someone who needs you for everything....be everything.
Also make the food in small quantities so that if she refuses it , it wont be so frustrating,


Goodluck

Most mothers are in a hurry to ho to work
Most husband Do not supports mama works at home when the mama works
So 1plus 1 equal 1
Fraustration and stress set in
The spark flew
Action speaks faster
Words shealtef
Love dies
Hi...
I don't think mama seriously beat the child
yo her it was a serious beat cuz she felt guilty
Please no condemned Mama's here
Let ask how she can fed the kids let's help if we can
...no condemnation

helovesme:
You mean you BEAT 'SERIOUSLY' a baby that's 6 months old That's the height of wickedness and nothing but child abuse !!!

You have absolutely NO excuse for spanking a baby that age and there's nothing you can say to justify such insane behaviour.

Honestly Madam, are you okay upstairs? I think you need to see a psychologist because such behaviour is NOT normal at all. You beat her seriously, she cries, you feel bad and then you repeat the cycle again. Of all techniques that can be used in feeding a BABY, how come it's spanking you've chosen to adopt??!!

In sane climes, that baby would have been taken away from you if word got out that you were actually spanking a 6 months old baby.

Why won't she refuse food from you? If you "beat her seriously" just because she refuses to take a spoon of cereal, only God knows what you do to her when she's cranky or when she soils her nappy immediately after a nappy change/bath.

May God have mercy on you. Amen.

It happens everytime
some dine innocently without a hint of bad aim
while in others it is intentionally done...
For instance someone baby was snatched in a school I wont mention here... the Snatcher pretended he forgot the kid I.d at home and the illiterate security feel for his Facebook I'd and pictures

zaynie:
So sorry about that,
I think the guy has been banned.
Its not that he took it off the internet but that he came into the thread went thru the pictures and saved it for this! Na wa o!

Please. Comments

https://www.nairaland.com/3354192/how-important-early-reading

u may wonder about the benefits of reading to your baby. An infant won't understand everything you're doing or why. But you wouldn't wait until your child could understand what you were saying before you started speaking to him or her, right? Nor would you bypass lullabies until your baby could carry a tune or wait until he or she could shake a rattle before you offered any toys. Reading aloud to your baby is a wonderfu shared activity you can continue for years to come — and it's an important form of stimulation.

I believe that we all need to understand the essential items in anger management with our KIDCO as a family, it is always tough
Good parents are These who oftentimes fall on the trap, their kindness shown to their kids are accepted on kids term as normally the everyday norms in a challenging world economy, the cost..both financially and mentally is very hard

Yet the tough will endure and the kids will grow and learn finally if we endure...

kidco:
Lol
Sorry
got a surface tablet pricier than my monthly salary and Raymond broke it while fighting Veronica and what did I do.... Believe me... I didn't shout... went to play basketball and that it... my anger on the sport ground
You anger cud be on the house work
cuz What done is done
love u

Lol
Sorry
got a surface tablet pricier than my monthly salary and Raymond broke it while fighting Veronica and what did I do.... Believe me... I didn't shout... went to play basketball and that it... my anger on the sport ground
You anger cud be on the house work
cuz What done is done
love u

babythug:
Parenting is so tough sometimes! My eight year old just broke the screen of my phone! My mind had said leave the phone last minute I asked him to bring it and that was it. I'm so so angry shouted and shouted and caused a scene my mil was there and I yelled at her too because she was begging for him. I've sent him to bed without dinner

So so sad here me that I'm scraping by right now

For such painful boil use nature means
It is quicker... and faster
helps to ripen the boil and dry it within two days
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dexterush:
Sorry dear,welcome
Where is our silver chair(no golden chair here,we used the money to buy daipers)


It looks like boil,I can see the mouth already.
Thanks will get that asap.


Its boil,then because am not bfing ,I also got mastitis.
Thanks,I can't bring myself to pierce it even if that's all I want to do now,the pain is sumfin else


Proff of life,I believe you die,thanks so much
Where is that my spirit oh

Thanks all for your input,lemme go and try em

Let me have your contact

burticious:
Hello mamas, I don't know if this might be of help, but if you need it contact me, it's very cheap and very useful https://www.nairaland.com/3191072/latest-vaccum-cleaner-household

Ok... as we chatted...now it up to you to talk to the mama... she is already is Shiloh country now

Peace

Doynb:
Mr Kidco,pls respond to your chat

Hi... plaster could carry dirt
Please don't try it...
Once the kid forgot the finger was plastered and put it in the mouth...no matter how minimal the contact. ..the dirt or anticeptic on the plaster can be sucked
You can use it unless you have to observe the KID 24hrs non stop LOL... like a jeweler on a diamond scrutiny


Peace

mompurity2:
won't it be too early to use plaster or rub Bitter leaf? Thanks ma

Ebute-metta close to Surulere right
If yes lets chat via whartsap so as to ask the Surulere mama coming to Shiloh tomorrow to ship urs... meaning no need to pay transportation fare for purchase of minimum amour of children books for a one kid
Let chat at 09032730510

Doynb:
I would like to make a purchase,i stay in Ebute-meta....any other interested mama staying in this axis?

Any Mama attending Shiloh in Canaan land could please contact KIDCO and see first hand the books in store prior to making future transactions
Thanks
09032730510

One mama is coming to Shiloh
We plan to see personally there
She lives in Surulere
is that close enough for you

Aim07:
Good morning mamas, quite a long time, may God bless our children.

If any mama living towards Ikorodu area is interested in buying books from Kidco, pls signify, I want see if I can get mamas to pair up with so as reduce cost

True fact on the diet side
... in our country over the centuries had to see other source as deputies to it
In this present recession LOL... it is unique itself own lord no matter the price increase

Onegai:
Eat rice like the Asians. It's a small part of a varied meal, chock-ful with vegetables and proteins. Nigerians eat it with fried tomato stew, as jollof, with a side of vegetables drenched in mayonnaise or with overfried vegetables as fried rice. Which is not as healthy as an Asian meal.

Thanks

dunasy:
@Kidco, you can sir

Can I share this via Association of Nigeria authors Facebook page Please

dunasy:
Let's worship God together mummies and daddies:-



Omniscient, Omnipotent
the one who does great things
Onise Iyanu
You are the God of Awesome wonders
We've tasted of your power
You have shown us so much mercy
Much more than we deserve.

We just want to extol thee, worship thee, glorify thee,appreciate thee

Oba ti gbobo oba nt'owo Re gb'ase,(Kings from whom kings take directives)
Adakedajo, (He who Judges silently)
Adajo ma fi t'enikan se,(The just Judge)
Oba ti kii s'ojusaju,(The just God)
Oba t'enikan o le pe l'ejo,(The king that can not be judged)
Oba aseyiowu,(Unquestionable God)
Oba tii s'agan d'olomo,(The God who opens the womb of the barren)
ode orun,(The great mother of heaven)
Atorise,(God who can turn bad situation to good)
As'oloriburuku d'olorire,(God who can remove the inadequacies from ones life)
Arinu r'ode,(God who sees the visible and the invisible,)
Olumoranokan eda, (He who sees the intent of the heart of man)
Oludamoran (The Great adviser)
Ibi isadi wa,(Our refugee)
Aabo wa,(our protector)
Oluwosan,(the healer)
Asoku d'alaye,(He who brings the dead to life)
Olorun alaaye,(God of the living)
Oba ti n p'ojo iku da,(God who can change appointment with death)
Oba ti emi gbogbo enia wa l'owo Re,( He who has the keys to our existence)
Oba ti nti t'enikan o lesi,(He who shuts and no one can open)
Oba ti nsi t'enikan o leti,(He who opens and no one can close)
Awamaridi,(Unsearchable God)
Abetilukara bi ajere,(God who is all ears)
Aiku,(Living God)
Aisa,(Faithful)
Akiri s'ore,(He who goes about doing good)
As'ore kiiri, ,(He who goes about doing good)
Oba t'o f'oro da ile aye,(He that created all things by his spoken word)
Oba to ti wa k'aye o towa,(He who was in existence before creation)
Oba ti o ma wa nigba t'aye o ni si mo,(He who will remain at the end of all things)
Oba t'o ti wa, t'o si wa, ti o si ma wa lailai, (The God that was, that is and that will remain for ever)
Ibere ati opin,(The Alpha and omega)
Arugbo ojo,(Ancient of days)
Olorun agbalagba,( Ancient of days)
Adagba ma paaro oye,(Unchanging God)
Olorun ti o yipada, (Unchanging God)
Olorun kan lailai,( The only God)
Ikan lana,(Same yesterday)
Ikan loni, (Same today)
Ikan lola, (Same tomorrow)
Okan titi aye ainipekun, ( The same forever)
Oba ti mbe nibi gbogbo nigba gbogbo,( the ubiquitous God)
Metalokan,( The trinity)
Olorun Baba,(God the Father)
Olorun Omo,(God the son)
Olorun owu,(The jealous God)
Olorun ti kii s'enia ti yio paro, (God that is not man that could change)
Alewilese, (He that can Speak and Act)
Aleselewi, (He that can Act and Speak)
Owibee sebee, (He that Speaks and Acts)
Awimayehun, ( He who Speaks and does not change His words)
Asoromaye, (He who prophesize and comes to past)
Onimajemu,( Covenant keeping God)
Olulana,(The wonderful way maker)
Olorun oro (Word), (The God of spoken word)
Oba to ti o gbe oro Re ga ju Oruko Re lo, (The God who exalts his word more that his name)
Olutoju wa, (Our Keeper)
Onibuore,(God whose barn is full of blessing)
Afunni ma s’iregun,(The God who blesses without asking for reward)
Adanimagbagbe, (The creator who never forgets the created)
Oyigiyigi, (Great and Mighty)
Alakoso orun at’aye, (The God of Heaven)
Atogbojule,(Dependable God)
Alagbawi eda,(Defender)
Alagbada ina, (He that covers Himself with fire branded robe)
Alawotele oorun,(He whose underwear is Sun)
Asorodayo,(The God who gives joy)
Oba t'o mu 'banuje tan,(God who puts end to sorrow)
Ogbeja k'eru o ba onija,(God who fights for the defenseless)
Jagunjagun ode orun,(The great warrior of heaven)
Olowogbogboro,(God whose hand is long enough to reach at any length)
Olorun awon omo ogun,(The great warrior)
Aduro tini bi akoni eleru,(The faithful God)
Eru jeje l'eti okun pupa,( The Most powerful by the red sea)
Oba t'o mu iji dake roro,(God who commands the storm, peace be still)
Alaabo,(Our keeper)
Oluso,(Our guard)
Olupamo,(Our keeper)
Oludande,(Our deliverer)
Olugbala,(Our saviour)
Olutusile,(God of freedom)
Oludariji,(Our forgiver)
Oba t'o se'gun agbara ese, (God who delivers from hold of sin)
Oba t'o san gbogbo 'gbese wa,(God who pays the price for our sins)
Olorun ajinde,(The resurrected Lord)
Olutunu,(Our comforter)
Olufe okan wa,(My lover)
Oba t'o yan wa fe,(God who has predestined us)
Olusegun,(The conqueror)
Ajasegun, (The conqueror)
Gbanigbani ni'jo ogun le,(Our defense in time of war)
Ogbagba ti ngb'ara adugbo,( The Protector)
Oba t'o pin okun pupa n'iya,( God who parted the red sea)
Olorun t'o mu Jodani sa niwaju awon omo Re, (God who parted the river Jordan)
Oba t'o bi odi Jeriko wo,(God who fell down the walls of Jericho)
Olorun t'o kolu Egipiti l'ara awon akobi re,(God who killed the first born of the Egyptians)
Oba t'o ju gbogbo orisa lo,(The Almighty God)
Olorun t'o tobi ju gbogbo aye lo,(Greater than all the earth)
Oba t'o da monamona fun ojo, (The God who created lightening for the rain)
Aimope ani oje,
Oba to j'ewe at'egbo lo,
Oba to ni owa t'owa,(The God who commands)
Oba t'oni olo, t'olo, (The God who commands)
Oba t'oni k'owa, t'owa, (The God who commands)
Oba t'oni k'omasi, ti o si si mo,(The God who can close a door and no man can open)
Oba t'ao ri, sugbon t'ari ise owo Re,(The unseen God but we can feel his impact)
Olorun t'o n gbo adura, (God who hears prayers)
Oba t'o n dahun adura, (Prayer answering God)
Olorun t'ape t'o n je,(The God that you can call and he will answer)
Oba t'o n dahun adura pelu ina,(God that answered by fire)
Eleda,(Creator)
Akoda aye,(The first among all things)
Aseda orun,(He established the heavens)
Oba t'o fi'di aye s'ole s'ori omi,( He who established the earth on waters)
Oba t'o mo wa (The Potter),
Oba t'o mo wa ( He that knoweth us),
Oba t'o mo ohun gbogbo,(The all knowing God)
Olorun t'o le se ohun gbogbo,(God who can do all things)
Oba ti ohun gbogbo nbe n'ikawo Re,(God who has the whole world in his hands)
Oba to joko soke orun to f'ile aye se itise Re,(He makes the heaven his seat and the earth his foot stool)
Oba ti ntu won ka nibi ti won nti da'na iro,(He who causes confusion in the camp of the enemy)
Atererekariaye,(He spreads out across the earth)
Eletigb'aroye,(The great hear that hears all over the world)
Alatilehin,(Our succor)
Alaanu,(Merciful God)
Oba ti aanu Re duro lailai,(God whose mercies endureth for ever)
Oba alade alafia,(The Prince of peace)
Oloore ofe,(The gracious god)
Olorun ife,(The God of Love)
Olorun ayo,(The God that gives Joy)
Olutunu,(Comforter)
Olubukun,(The blessed God)
Onise iyanu,(Miracle worker)
Onise ara,(Wonderful)
Onise nla,(Great God)
Mimo, Mimo, Mimo,(Holy! Holy! Holy)
Oba t'o ninu mimo,(Righteous God)
Oba alaya funfun,(Immaculate God)
Ologo meta, (The Trinity)
Olotito,(The Truthful)
Olododo,(The Truthful)
Iye,(Resurrection)
Aduro gboingboin lehin asotito,(Defender of the Truthful)
Imole ninu okunkun aye,(The light in darkness)
Atogbokanle,(The trustworthy God)
Atofokante,(Our Confidant)
Adunbarin,(Worthy to walk with)
Adunbalo, (Worthy to follow)
Adunkepe,(God you can call on)
Apata ayeraye,(The rock of ages)
Atobiju,(The Almighty)
Atofarati bi oke,(Our support and defense)
Odi wa,(Our shield)
Alabarin aye wa, (Our companion)
Olupese,(Our provider)
Olugbega,(The lifter of our head)
Oluranlowo,(Our help)
Ireti wa,(Our hope)
Olu aye,(God on earth)
Olu orun,(God in heaven)
OBA AKIKITAN,(Eternity will not be enough to praise and honour you, O Lord)
Afini Mona, ( Pathfinder)
Apata Aiyeraye (Eternal
Atofiseogunran
Aduro tini lojo isoro
Ogbenu wundia sola.
Ogbenu ade lebo sogo


Daddy, we thank you over and over again for everything you have done for us, our homes, the new additions and too many numerous things too mention.

Father accept our worship, our adoration and our praise in Jesus name.

( As led by The Spirit, only in worship mode, hope my prayer/worship isn't toooo long)

Lol

izzy4shizzy:
Two things might be involved here,
1. The lecturers are stupid
2. The students are dull

The lecturer is stupid if he choose to treat all his students including the ones that can read,write and pass the same way as the dull ones

The students are super dull if they cant read and pass or hussle money or pussy for the grades

All in all every institution in nigeria practice these things, just that sense is applied, anyway sha na polythecnique sense them get