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wonder233:
Not really, they are only okay to satisfy the occasional sexual need. The girls themselves know this, that is why they have low self esteem.

If you mistakenly marry a chubby girl, they will cheat on you, because of the low self esteem, which makes it easy for me to get them because they need constant validation to feel wanted.
You can never see the true selfconfidence you see in a normal slim or slimthick girl in a chubby girl. The ones pretending to be self confident are doing it as a defence mechanism

Truly na the problem with many of them be that

She no like the guy na why... But I no understand the last pic sha, whether na vampire or alien jugs I dey see

PinkNature:
only men with low self esteem love these type of women

This is just rubbish. So because a lady is fat then she's not supposed to be loved? No she's not human abi na wetin? Te some of you reason sha. Ma why God no go ever give una power for anything. Imagine that such a statement. As if the"type of women" are trash just because of body size

Proserpina:
I don't know what you are saying. 🥱

Okay na

nedekid:
Abi ohh, some guys like them. One calls them "kumbostic". I asked him the other day how he was able to handle one lady like that that had very very big tummy, the type you will think there is something lurking inside to grab your gbola when you enter. Omo the guy said which belle? Say him no see any belle. Lol

Like 3 different guys done tell me those days in uni that na that belle dem dey like cos em dey add more levels to the kuntus. I swear I come dey follow them hunt for such girls. Some men no dey use that type play at all oo 🤣

Proserpina:
This your analogy get k leg . Why would 5- 6 guys take drink from a single glass? That speaks more of your hygiene as persons than the glass cup itself.

The fact that you equate a woman to a thing is annoying to say the least. Imagine a whole human being to a thing. Phew!

Lol I know you know exactly what I'm saying. Keep shifting the goal post

Proserpina:
It's always about the vagina value to you lots

So what happens to the man women keep dumping, does his value increases? Are you saying women should stick with a badly behaved man so they won't lose value? And who's the custodian of this value? Who's keeping record?

Now see this. We are all in a room right? Like 5-6 of us sitting at a table, a neat glass cup and a bottle of wine. We only have a glass in the house right. So we pour the drink cos everyone is thirsty. And then we pass the glass around and pour out drinks in turn, take it in.

Second scene same glass but filled with drink/ water or wtv. All 6 of us take turns dipping our fingers in that water. And then I pass it on to you to drink out of it. Would you? I didn't think so cos it's disgusting right.

Same way a woman's worth lowers with different meats being dipped in her cos she receives whole we men give. It's not the same. It's two different outcomes on same situation. A woman can never be a man but feminists love to argue and lie to themselves

seanery:
NA YOUR FAADA I COPY

YEAH? AND I KNOW YOU NEVER HAD A FAADA SO NO BLAMES BOI

Sphinx419:
Aje!... street no get memory... Give and don't expect... never speak of your good deeds... human were built to fail not perfection .... sync

It's non of that. I dey help whom I nor even know from anywhere come be say expect wetin? I'm just surprised that he's not even seeing me same way I see him, as a brother. Truth is he's my barber and I no one talk b4 maybe him dey NL now but fk it. No matter where I dey for Lagos na only him dey barb my hair even though his own is expensive but it's worth it cos the guy too good for the work. I know how many big salons done drop down cos say the guy left the place. Anywhere he goes his customers goes and he has a lot of us. Na just that pills and alcohol overuse be his problem before but I thought he had already overcome all of that. I'm only disappointed, nothing else

seanery:
YOUR MONIKA THO'.

KID...

ABCDE

You no wise at all

alanto:
Bros. He's not crooked because he gives you format. Sometimes someone needs a big story to move you to help them even if they need the money for other things. You'll never beg in your life. Try to understand what he's doing with money and try to understand if his job is enough to care for him or not, If the monies you help him with goes betting platforms then you just need to be careful but I still won't say don't do that big thing for him. We never can really tell. Poverty and lack of money can make someone seem crooked because desperation must set in. I always think before someone can call for help it's not easy but I will still give you another take that's why in my first comment above I imply you make your research on him.

Some people go de with people de flex then they realize they are the only one that's not adding money to the flexing. Then they'll call you and start calling you sir, bros, giving you all sorts of format, the moment you send them money they'll be like. "I told you, my boy must send something, my own g be that" avoid those kind people.

That's why you must research on him.

I have seen such people

alanto:
You story sounds real but I've been in both shoes. There's something you need to understand. People beg when they really need it. A normal human being should be ashamed of begging. What I will suggest in my opinion is. Try to find out if he drinks, smokes, gamble or spend on women. If these are his reasons for taking money from you then cut him off completely. But if not maybe what he needs is a better job. If you send someone 5k today, there's probability they'll ask for more in few days because that money won't go anywhere especially if you are the only person that listen to them, true, true some people don't have much people to depend on because it seems everybody's got their problems these days. Plus 5k, 10k I'm sorry to say don't mean jack these days. That's why I de always pity people earning below 100k. They are going through a lot.

Lol I get you. If you read what I posted you will understand what I sent him was more than the 5k I'm assuming is the price of aspirin. He asked me for 12k to get the prescribed drugs I added 6k sending him 18k. I know how much I send to him every Tuesday. He has his vices drinking and pills but last time I saw him after he got really ill he dropped them. I don't know if he has resumed. You are not wrong to say 10,15, 20k small truly but if you are getting it every week from one side (I don't believe I'm the only one he's asking) cos he get uncles too when I know they send him money but me I know how much I send him sometimes twice weekly, even at that you fit manage cook one soup and buy garri or stew. Bro I done struggle no be say I done arrive na just say my heart open. I done survive on 2/3 slices of bread with mayonnaise and sliced onions every day for weeks, sometimes beans steadily or sweet potatoes and German sauce. Na as you get you go package na. 300k salary sef na struggling but then who sabi plan and manage go know say sacrifices must be made and lifestyle changes necessary too till you fit bounce back

DMCA:
u just waste money wey u for carry overcalculating camp her for one weekend ontop one ungrateful soul

That one? Na babe? Lol you sure say nor be those types when go blow you jazz make you sleep before them go rob you and disappear so

mightyhaze:
Young ke

That dude never reach 60?

52 years

I never even scroll half of front page already seeing deaths by truck ramming into people on 2 different threads. Maybe more dey down if I scroll. What is going on

Lol na some guys spec be this. There's nothing wrong in dating/ marrying a fat woman. As long as she ready loyal to my government, then no issue at all

Desmond EEEEdi000t

Lol.. Chinese companies and juju na 5 and 6

All these ones no concern me again abeg. Anyhow anybody like to dey, make dem dey. Prego on the run with BBC

Sonnobax15:
. You even try say you allow am to stay your house after you discover. Person wey you for show the exit door the moment you see that price tag on top your TV. Honestly,na now I understand why my father say to help human beings these days don dey hard for am.

I dey like give people long rope sha but once my mind is made up it's final even if heaven fall nothing go change am. No lies, to help come get as em be these days

Sonnobax15:

Sometimes, just help and leave the rest for God. But then again,e get some kind people wey you go help,you go just regret why you be kind person for the rest of your life.

Personally I've gotten my own fill of this type of friendship. Your own even good na. There's a neighbor of mine whom I've helped countless of times,but today she doesn't patronize me at all. Instead,she patronize others . Unfortunately,things seems to have gotten tough for them. So 3 days ago,she came to my shop, wanting to fill her gas on credit. Imagine,she has been buying from others but for the first time of wanting to buy from me,na credit leg you use waka come . Omoh,tho I really wanted to help her but one small voice on the inside of me whispered to me, reminding me of how many times I've helped them in the past but was paid with bad.

Lol she's wicked. Only remembered you when she needed to buy on credit. Bro I done accommodate guy make him no lose him job opportunity. Even his younger ones in Lagos refused to accept him but I opened my door wide for this guy. Only for him to show me his true colors. I come broke one period, this guy see me dey carry one of my laptop go sell to fill gas and buy some food stuffs, bro just lockup. Someone earning about 500k monthly minis allowances lol. To make matters worse this guy come dey order expensive clothes then him go leave the price tags on top tv stand so I must see it. Na few weeks later na I let am know say him done gather money reach to rent somewhere and I need space. Till today him dey narrate me to him people say I do am bad thing. Na only those mutual friends close to me know the real truth. I go say I nor go help again but then, what to do

Powerbandooo:
I have been in your shoes helping people like that, such that if I should look back at how much I have given them, patronize what they sell, I will feel that anger and annoyance in me when they betray you
One thing I used to comfort myself is I also have been a situation that I need help, and people go out of their way to help me,
But I believe we humans need each other, when you feel you are been exploited, you back off


The funny thing is that they will be addressing you as yes sir, yes ma, praying prayers on you like anything, when table turns, you will know their real colour, it better you just avoid them

In everything you do, never loose guard for anything

Very funny bro. And to think I was even planning big things for him not knowing his own heart is crooked

It's funny but not funny. I always love to help and be there for people but then they start thinking they're using me not knowing I just naturally have a very large heart. I know a guy who used to be one of the best at the services he offered in that ajah axis. Somewhere along the line he fell off. Left for mainland and then to Ghana. Went missing for about a year+

Sometime this year I reached out to him on FB and it took a while before he could return my message. He told me of all his troubles and all. We all have our share of it but then he begged me for help to get back to Nigeria and I also saw the benefits of it because he was losing where he was. So I sent him the fare. And he called me when he was in Lagos. I know he was actually in Ghana because I confirmed it. Now he has to work and I know some people. He now works and has free accomodation in somewhere in VI. I know how things be so I dey always send am upkeep funds until he gets paid he hasn't worked up to a full month now so I'm still the one sending funds.

Like some days back I was on a project online with others working on a project and I am not even in Lagos right now. His calls were distracting me. If I dey resolve things online I always dedicate my focus 100% make I no go miss any line. After I missed his call I got a WhatsApp message claiming to be a doctor and that my brother (this guy I'm helping) was rushed down and he's sick. My mind first go "format" but I chose not to believe. I later called and he explained what happened and still tear me bill join. Na me carry am enter naija back so I dey beat everything until he starts getting his salary so I just overlook and asked him what he needed. I sent it to him to buy the drugs.

Today my instincts just told me to check on him again and I did. This guy came with another billing oh telling me he's dependent on some drugs. For his health. One time he fell really ill I think kidney issues and he was lucky to survive so that was what he used to cover up his new story. But what he forgot was that this doctor and the previous one where he was admitted are different or rather supposed to be different doctors. Cos he was taken to his parents house then on the mainland. When the guy just dey narrate the situation I felt so heartbroken, like why lie? I dey update you regularly even when you do nothing for me, I carry you as my own and then this is what I get?

To add insult he told me the funds I sent him was used to buy Aspirin for strength and na that one weak me pass. Aspirin for strength? Lol he was literally crying before I sent that funds and me even dey low on cash rn cos I'm working on something that I put money on yet this guy no appreciate am. How can you tell me the doctor discharged you and prescribed drugs for you only for you to buy Aspirin? Aspirin when no reach or pass 5k per pack and today you are talking about the drugs you have been dependent on that the doctor told you to get again to continue else you fall back sick. Omoor. Na young guy when I just dey try encourage for hustle but it seems like he has other plans. Like this I done hands up but after listening to him I just told him okay.

To help people no bad but some people will make you take certain decisions that will make you seem wicked to others. It's just terrible. Lol Aspirin for strength. I done see something sha 🤣

Proserpina:

Overuse is not good.

Exactly

Proserpina:
This one is jealous of intimacy gadgets

Men and monitoring spirit ehn He should talk about men who self service and leave women to advise women.

Toto watchers everywhere

It's almost the same thing men who mastrbt regularly hardly get satisfaction from the real thing. I have seen women complaining about their nerves going dead after prolong use of certain vibrators. They no longer feel anything, even some vibrators don't do it anymore it has to be something extreme else they feel nothing. It's not even funny. We are in a world where self destruction is now celebrated and promoted. Of what use is a woman whose nerve endings in those parts are literally dead that it may require me slapping or cutting her before she feels anything because of vibrator overuse?

Only happens when you don't know your worth

Mattswaggz:
You know wetin Arsenal fans see for Chelsea's fans hand all these years of little or no trophies so?. .

Una see shege pro Max

faithfull18:
This right here we both know isn't true. Look around you, don't we have more single mothers than fathers? A woman will think about a lot of things, the well-being of the child/children before any other thing. If not, there should be more single fathers. Women are really selfless self-centered.

Fixed