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Wotowotoman:
If you are not hit on by men, it means you are not attractive. Not just unattractive but below average, because even average women get hit on everyday. This is sad but the simple truth

Starz825:
He na too dey rate all these girls..she's obviously not a classic girl, hence doesn't deserve this kind of treat

Na confined space i go carry you go...we dey chop finish..we dey nak..no time


The babe no even clean...see her face ...see her back....no shame ...order like 3 plates of full food package with the intention of telling the waiters to pack up for take home..dey disgrace her family...what a hopeless glutton.


I go carry you go eatery go chop free food..you go come dey go your house...unto say wetin...we be family??


Nice one sha...and I also like the fact that the camera was hidden...

She go shock say she don blow online

Towma:
Its very real, men and women need to be careful, its not only women using charm and love spells in relationships, I have seen comments by men online who want to use spells on unsuspecting women. Everyone needs to be prayerful.

neonly:
The real cause is awareness by men dat you should not kill yur self because of a woman
If her money is her money than my own money should be my money and my children only if u have
Belief me this thing they pain the women world only they don't want to speak out

Trends in Modern Witchcraft and Relationship Manipulation

In recent times, there is a marked, visible increase in the practice of witchcraft and related spiritual, energetic, or occult methods by women targeting men, particularly in relationship contexts. Driven by social media visibility and a desire for control in personal life, this trend focuses on utilizing, trapping, or binding wealthy or desirable partners. While historically associated with disempowerment, modern witchcraft is now often perceived as a tool for feminine agency, empowerment, or in some cases, aggressive manipulation.

1. Drivers of the Trend

Social Media & WitchTok: Platforms like TikTok, Instagram, and YouTube have mainstreamed witchcraft, removing the taboo surrounding it. Hashtags such as #WitchTok (over 8 million posts) have allowed for rapid sharing of spells, rituals, and advice on how to use, or do, witchcraft on partners.

Search for Agency & Control: In times of socio-economic uncertainty, individuals often turn to alternative power structures. Women, facing dating market pressures, may use these methods to feel in control of their romantic lives.
Desire to Dominate Relationships: Specific reports indicate women leveraging witchcraft to keep partners from cheating, to trap wealthy men, or to force commitment.

2. Methods and Practices

Binding and Love Spells: Common rituals involve binding a man so he cannot leave, or using love potions to increase attachment.
Physical Artifacts: Reports show the use of tangible items in spiritual manipulation, including waist beads (frequently mentioned as tools used by side chicks to entrap men), herbs, and hair.

Isichitho and Dark Magic: Particularly in Southern and Eastern African contexts, there are reports of isichitho (a spiritual affliction meant to cause separation) or other forms of dark magic being used to destroy relationships or make men subservient.

3. Socio Cultural Impact

Rise of the Modern Witch: While many practitioners focus on self development and healing, a significant subset focuses on competitive relationships, often termed dark or selfish magic.

Gendered Accusations & Fear: While women are frequently the ones accused of using witchcraft, the narrative has shifted to women adopting these roles intentionally.
Mistrust in Relationships: The prevalence of such stories creates high distrust, with many men being warned to be cautious of new partners, leading to increased anxiety in modern dating.


The resurgence of witchcraft is no longer a fringe movement; it is a mainstream phenomenon accelerated by digital spaces. The increasing trend of women performing spells on men highlights a complex, and sometimes coercive, quest for power in personal relationships.

marcusverum:
Any woman who endured with you just for your potential still deserves a level of respect.

No woman stays for your potential if not that she is interested in you first. Read that again.

If a woman doesn't want you, she won't care about your potential. she will dump you instantly and find a proven winner.

If a woman stayed with you, bet on you, she's putting her life on the line. There is nothing like she stayed because she knows you will become successful. One of the hardest things in life is to bet on someone's future with your life because it is uncertain.

A woman that believed in your potential took a risk too because the dangerous thing about potential is, not everyone gets to manifest.

We all do things for a reason. If a woman endured because she believes you have a bright future, she's a good woman. If she supported and helped you in the process, she deserves a seat at your table. Never be ungrateful.

No one does anything for free not even you, not even nature. Life is about give and take

Your duty as a man is to remain stoic and not let her manipulate you with her effort and contribution and this depends on how you lead her. Any woman you refuse to manage properly will become a tyrant no matter the condition she choose to stay and the outcome.

As long as you don't make her the center of your world and credit it all to her because one thing you need to remember is, if a woman stayed in your struggle, she didn't suffer with you, she stayed because you were still the best thing ever happened to her.

Your duty is to appreciate her for standing by you. Do not worship her like she gave you the life you worked for.

\When you know this and act it, no woman will ever manipulate you when you finally become successful. The onus lies on you as a man.

BigYash:
If there is no grip,that alone can ruin your attitude That grip is also a factor to having pleasurable nack.. Person go get big preek,Toto go still dey swallow am. How ur attitude no go change?

Nastrademus:
This is wrong on all sides, not all fulanis are bandits
Then on a second thought the video he did, was supposed to be for his fellow fulanis to see how the world view them as terrorist so they can change their ways, but instead he's claiming victim

Ifexibe:
You're blue pilled and naive. I asked you, do you know what is hypergamy? Do you?

lightwind:
Some people no get choice o, when he don choke them baba

lightwind:
Na Benin d whole thing come 2 much now.

These are likely old takers from HK boys wey no see clients pay them again.

Inosky:
A.I cannot replace works that have to do with human contact; humans can't feel completely okay with robot touching them or trying to talk to them emotionally.

Science: medicine, engineering, etc. can't be completely replaced by A.I.

plaetton:
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This piece was written by a woman, I'm guessing.
Many truths and many delusions. The usual delusions.

Here are some simple truths.
In their youthful prime, women see themselves as the prize. They choose whom to give their prize. They give it for love, for free and for money and resources.
When youth begin to fade, the tables turn. They now look for a man to pay a great price and permanently latch on to that which had been previously given freely or sold cheaply.
Also,Social media have further destabilized the dynamics of dating ,courtship and social interactions, exposing the shallowness and fickleness of the greater numbers of the female gender.
So men are on guard, albeit confused, about making lifetime commitments that statistically have a short span and rigged against him.

Alliswell248:
He is a first class graduate and not a NL noisemaker and hater like you.

Must you wait for others to create job so that you can apply? Why can't you also create jobs and employ others...

Keep hating others for their political choice.
Bitter and hate filled people

Tenrack:
After all these, dem go still leave your ass go sleep with who no even reach you by quarter. Una too rate women sha.

We had issues, and she angrily left my house and ever since then she has refused to apologize saying that she did nothing wrong to apologize to me. Please What Do I Do Now? I really love this girl and for the time we’ve been together, I can see she loves me too.

spiceadole:
Love indeed.
The man is on social media now crying like a baby