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Tenrack:
I like their confidence ehn. They be like, my wife cannot do this to me. My wife is loyal. She's classy. mumu them. Dem go learn well. Sha make dem come entertain us with their miserable story.

Lol na "streams of tears" dey always end the story

Na who get heart dem dey break. As for your question. Whatever you do just try to guide my broski and let the dead remain dead

Tenrack:
https://lifestyle.thecable.ng/roby-ekpo-how-mayowa-deceived-me-married-another-man-after-11-years-together/

Omo women wicked o. I hope one foolish man in love learns from this.

Impossible! They never learn until it's too late like a headless chicken

Ekpo, a comedian and radio presenter, alleged that Lambe misled him throughout their marriage, including hiding her use of contraceptives from him.

“I am 48 years old, I don’t have a kid, I started going for tests because I thought I was the problem, I thought I had fertility issues. I later found out that she was taking contraceptives,” he said.

He also claimed that she deceived him about undergoing medical procedures aimed at conception. Mayowa travelled to Miami to do BBL. She told me she went for surgery that would enable her to conceive,” he added.

According to Ekpo, even routine communication between them became strained and suspicious.

“If I send my wife a message on her Instagram DM, she would question me why I was sending a message there. She would say ‘they (immigration) check’,” he said.

He further alleged that Lambe shared personal complaints about their relationship with others.

10 years of my life. If I had a kid out of wedlock, I would have justified that Mayowa can do whatever she likes, what did I do, but just love. Mayowa travelled for six years; with the little money I was earning, I was sending money to Mayowa every time. I was sending flowers,” he said.

Since 2021, I have not seen Mayowa again, until last year, I sent her ticket money to come to Nigeria. I went to the airport in two cars. I could not get a clip of hugging my wife. She did not kiss me. I slept in the living room for two days. I will send her N200k from the N500k gig

Ekpo also claimed financial strain during the marriage, saying he regularly supported her despite his own earnings.The media personality alleged that Lambe once told someone he was not meeting her needs.

He said, “She got a house and got a male flatmate. I was not comfortable with it, only for me to find out two days ago that the flatmate was sleeping with her. (It was not the same guy she married). I saw a picture of her sitting on a man’s leg at a restaurant.”

As a man if you like make you no guide. Dey snap pre wedding shoot and holiday pijamas to match.. dey form caring lover of the year. You go cryyyy

Kaliningrad:
Fun fact: There are more Christians in Iran than in Israel.

Iran is a safer place to live as a Christian than Israel.

Of course na dmb Nigerians who think Jesus Christ and Israel fit into one space are highly delusional. Israel has never been and will never be a Christian nation. They don't even believe in Jesus Christ

Lol non virgin tell you no sex before marriage and you agree because you wan "prove"

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ejire042:
Please mention one.

Promotion of poverty

These men no different from politicians... Same scripts, different acting stages

Bahamas95:
Back in school, while studying electrical engineering, a friend and I came up with the idea of signing up with an experienced electrician in town so we could work with him and learn during our free time.

One day we went out with him for a wiring job and he asked me to connect a four-gang switch. I had never done that before so I was confused. Instead of patiently explaining how to loop it, he started shouting at me like a mæd dog and even drawing the attention of people around.


I know what I’m capable of when I’m angry, so to avoid losing control, I told my friend I was going home and that I would never work with him again. My friend begged me to stay, but I left. If I had stayed one more minute I might have done something terrible.


Later my friend returned to the hostel and told me the electrician felt remorseful after I left, that I wouldn’t be able to learn with my temper and that I was staring at him with so much rage as if I wanted to beat him up..... I told my friend coldly, “I wouldn’t have beaten him ---I would have kee him.”


About a week later, I met a reasonable electrician who taught me everything I know today. He even paid me whenever I accompanied him to work, such a generous man. He is now my mentor. Whenever I get a contract outside work and I’m unavailable to handle it, I pass it on to him.


Life isn’t supposed to be difficult; we often make it harder for ourselves. I still wonder why many Nigerian bosses have this primitive mindset that an apprentice must endure emotional trauma before learning a skill

It's just wickedness

Hmm.. E go bloody ooh

SixSeven:
It's not about the age card my dear Nairalander. It is what it is. Again, experience is the best teacher. I wish you well.

You obviously lack that

SixSeven:
I don't need to argue with you. You are also entitled to your own opinion but as you grow older in life, you realize everything is not black and white.

Typical. When they're found out they play the age card. Lol i guess you're Methuselah then, still doesn't change your emptiness and life is exactly what you make it to be. Don't come here with that not all black and white shiiii, it's lame

Dshocker:
It is better to confess and ask God for forgiveness, and the secret dies with her.

If she mistakenly tells me, that marriage is over, nothing anybody can say or do would make me keep her under my roof.

That's on you to raise other men's kids or die from a disease or suffer the spiritual and physical consequences of a cheating wife don't advise other to follow that route

galantjoe:
Don't confess

These are likely consequences
1. He might kill you out of anger
2. He might kill the man
3. Your marriage might end there
4. There will be no trust again

Repent and repent genuinely
God will forgive you

Will a killer go to a widow and tell her he killed her husband?

Another empty and fake. A man will leave his father and mother and cleave onto his wife and they shall become one and yet you're comparing a "killer" outsider and widow to the op... Gademmm and you lots still claim educated?

SixSeven:
Keep it to yourself, confess to the Lord, ask for forgiveness and move on.

Which Lord are you talking about? The way some of Una dey reason sha. And when he finds out what do you think will be the worst outcome? Confess now or let him find out later You blame women for being wrong yet you're encouraging deception. You guys really have nothing within you, just empty copy and paste Bros

This one is just embarrassing her father on a stead

Preciousgirl:
Will you advise a Christian wife who cheated on her husband, has genuinely regretted and repented to confess to her husband?

Why?

Thanks

First of all a "Christian wife" is just a church goer, bench warmer, a religious individual without the fruits of the spirit but of the flesh. That person is definitely not a believer a but an unrepentant OS who will do it again and again unti God exposes her. So she doesn't even need to repent of anything because she's really nowhere.

True Bible believing couples will open up to the one who was designed to complete them and truly live as one. For her to even be contemplating says a lot about her nature

“But if we walk in the light, as He is in the light, we have fellowship with one another . . . “ 1 John 1:7

Darkness and light don't sit in one place. One gives room for the other. No secrets, no shadows with the one you love

The consequences may be severe and you may need a wise, godly (biblical) couple or biblical counselors to help you walk through the process, especially if you’ve been keeping sin hidden. Your spouse might not forgive you right away . . . or maybe at all. Trust God. Do what is right and leave the consequences to Him. Any other way isn't the way of a true believer.

Being a Christian is a lot different from being a true believer. One serves man and the structural doctrines of the institution while the other is truly one with God in spirit and in truth. Know the difference before coming here with your stories. Majority of y'all are lost already but you just don't know it. Better to be a practical worshiper of Satan than a regular church goer

because you are lukewarm—neither hot nor cold—I am about to spit you out of my mouth Revelations 3:16

What it really means: So because you are lukewarm (spiritually useless), and neither hot nor cold, I will vomit you out of My mouth (rejecting you with disgust)

MosesBlack:
Omo hypocrites full this platform oh.

If you've genuinely repented and God has forgiven you, that's fine. Don't ever in your life confess to your husband.

Delete all evidence of cheating and focus on your marriage from now on.

"A blind husband is a good husband."

"A man's ability to provide is his shield"

"A woman's fidelity is her shield."

Don't lose your shield.

You're not wise at all. Genuine repentance and concealed truths 🤣
People like you are unaware the truth can't remain hidden for long and when he finds out one way or the other which he will you will be blaming everyone but your deceptive self-centred self for the exposure. It is all in a matter of time

themanderon:
They are even doing it in public meaning decency is gone but these kids do worse things amongst themselves. That first girl is gone. The second one was reluctant but the old man? He should be punished.

Not just the man, the entire school authorities and parents of the participants. These kids were duly informed,practiced before the display while their parents agreed to and supported it. It's part of what you get when you register your kids in substandard schools, run by losers

Omor I don't even understand thiswan walai! These underage kids don dey blast already. I mean see the first one? Who do we blame? The parents for allowing their kids do this? The proprietor for accepting such shameless act and even dancing and nodding along? The school authorities for accepting such display and grooming the children for such? And to even think people were sitting down there watching and cheering, fathers and mothers.... Omoooorr the decay is very deep

JooEeL:
It's okay. I don leave the country for una.

Haha you never see anything

SmartPolician:
Who has noticed that the world is strategically cutting Nigerians off beneficial services?

You see lots of countries that can benefit from services, except Nigerians. Thanks to Tinubu, his supporters and Nigerians with criminality mindsets

Definitely not because of fraud but they're just plain racist towards Africans. Russia, Ukraine, China, the United States rank higher than Nigeria in any and everything cybercrime and fraud related. Africans have always been treated less in most Western countries and it's not because of fraud or crime but because of our origin. You lots just love to hate yourselves and love your haters. Yes we have criminal elements but it's not just Nigeria and we're no where close to other nationals in the field of crime

Lol all these Forex boys and lies
It pays but not like they make you believe

Trust22:
It's a pity... Our government has failed us

Na today?

essentialone:
Bro if she mistakenly calls you another man's name even while making love, she has to go.

Whether it's her cousin or brother, don't forgive her. That is cheating. It's only you who should exist in her life. Especially when you both are together.

Focus. Be vigilant. Never lose consciousness during s€x. Listen to what she says.

"0oh John, do it harder”
Can you feel me Portia?
"Ooh Dan, it is sweet”
I am not Dan.
Who is Dan?
"I didn't say Dan, I said Damn, it is sweet”

You can not predict the like of a bed to bed midfielder.

Send her back to Dan right away.
Send her back to the streets.

Class dismiss.
Till I come your way again.

This your gist remind me of an experience back in my university days. I was chyking this smallie but she was always around one low budget pastor Chris looking, permy haired mofo. The first day I lashed her I picked her from his house. According to her they were reading and preparing for exams together. I no bother sha I never take my share. So we were in my apartment then, a 3 bedroom flat I shared with my brothers. They all know her. As I was trying to touch things and things this banny just pushed my hands off like " ohhh Dan(his real name) stop this naaa"! Omor my blood boil. She tried to explain me done dey vex tell her to get up and start leaving that I have places to be in. Sally begin beg and I saw the golden opportunity. Lol... When I lash nonsense commot for her kumtuz na tongues she begin dey speak sotey my neighbor one babe downstairs begin throw herself at me as soon as I escorted the smally. I never trusted her one day throughout our almost a year of dating.

So em done they when this op dey post nonsense
Going through the thread why are some girls just so angry at nothing. Y'all love to discuss dick sizes and see nothing wrong with that but get offended when guys talk about worn out kpekuz

I stock my kitchen, fill my fridge with food, healthy snacks and canned booze, steady power supply, stock my Cana, update internet sub for the next 30 days. If you see me outside maybe some early morning roadwork. Who outdoors help

Girl when you tell her to come collect. Wipe am wetin no good on top nothing

An ape is a large, tailless primate—such as a chimpanzee, gorilla, orangutan, or gibbon—found in Africa and Asia