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Allconnected:
Hi Sis, my name is Oluwatosin. I like your person, I humbly wish to know beyond surface levels.

A ship?

Where this Sean Tizzle dey sef?

Richardonald:
Na dance bella dey dance Soo abi wetin

She just dey jump everywhere.

scondy:
As usual.... u never try to understand varying perspective....

In her post ...they talk for 9 hours...she misses it...she is sad they don't get to be like that any longer...

Are you a novice to how friendships with opposite sex goes especially when one party is trying to be more?

I'm a novice. Goodnight Tete.

Ginaz:
awwwn thanks dear I'm smiling lolz.

the worst to happen if i give him a chance is that i hate unnecessary heartbreak cos i am somewhat possessive o and he doesn't like that. i felt we won't last long.

silly me.

anyway, he's history now. he's probably got a new bestie and felt like the he doesn't need the old one any more.

Gbam!!!

NozinoGroup:
For all of us.
For everyone trying
For everyone who genuinely need a breakthrough.

Now, you wee make me cry

Amennnnn.

scondy:
Did it occur to u the guy is doing bf work without being the boyfriend? That's emotional torture especially since he wants more....

I think ladies are oblivious of the stress of such friendships....u demand emotionally from him....u feel entitled to his calls...his care for u ....occasional trips and all....butiiiii he shd just be that friend emotionally supporting u .....

Lai she aridin....


If no party is feeling a certain way...all good....but once one side of the equation wants more....the best thing is to dead the friendship...

Your views on friendships are skewed.

Where in her post did she type this?

Friends don't offer emotional, financial and all form of supports to each other? Bruhhhh! I can't believe I'm having this conversation. Tete plisssssss.

fijiano202:
Sorry for my input but truth is A No from a friend you thought was ur perfect match hurts more than losing both eyes...

Your cold feets must have destroyed him though but he may try to hide it from you...

I know you speak from yoir own feelings but you don't really know how he felt

Still doesn't justify being outrightly mean or rude to her. I'd understand ignoring her calls, maybe to clear his head and all. But being rude and hanging calls? Mbanu, na malicious behaviour.

Geezeem:
I watched

There's London, there's Lagos, I'm Bri'ish.

Twoclans:
I concur,I rather give it to Ally than that your ekuke

If Ally wins. My Ekuke will return to her good life. Your who dey? Back to trenches where she rightly belongs. Kwakwakwakwa.

Ambber:
he now told his father's story instead

A bloody fool

Ginaz:
he confessed his love for me, he wanted us to officially be a couple but i got cold feet cos i feared we won't last together as a couple and so i rejected his proposal, i was scared to lose him too in the name of relationship .I'm the only girl who have slept at his family house, he introduced me to everyone.

he's just like kidwaya in nature. playful , crazy , flirty and a big baby at heart, extremely generous. he's really cool. we started when he had nothing but today he's a big guy, things are going well for him and I'm so proud of all he has achieved.

well, he stopped calling, he won't pick my calls, started acting rude to me , like he's paying me back for what i had no ideal about.

i was crying too much, lost in thoughts and felt like a mad woman. i had to let him go. it was fun while it lasted, that's how i lost him o.

Oh my!

I can imagine what this felt like for you. I would say you should give the relationship a chance,
what's the worst that could happen? Heartbreak? You'll cry and move on


But acting rude, withdrawing friendship is enough red flag. The thing I always look out for in friendships or any ship at all is kindness. How do you react or handle things when we are not in good terms? It's okay to be hurt when turned down, especially seeing how close you guys were but it doesn't justify any mean action towards you or the friendship. If he's going to do that as a friend, he'd do worse as a partner. You deserve better than that.


Sending you positive energy and more beautiful friendships.

Agbgift:
I rather wish Daniella wins it.

Daniella cheated on her husband. I prefer Doyin and Bella.

Ally and Adekunle playing old love.

Ally na proper babe sha. If you people are really bent on a woman winner, give it to a deserving one like Ally biko.

Ally say make Hemure shut up.

Ally and Hemure are having issue, I think?

Ginaz:
lol i love kidwaya so much. he's one of a kind, that person who doesn't take things so serious and he's actually a sweetheart at heart.

reminds me so much of my ex bestie. but we no more together now.

I don't love him anymore abeg, e no dey ever serious. There's time fir everything

Awwwwwnnnn. Why? Can't you guys sort things out?

Demnan:
Big mad

Ha! God abeg oooo

Bella's story and her "glorification" of what she has with Segun dey very understandable

Daddy issues na your mate?

Olodo24:
So everyone on in the house suffered for ages. A whole BBN. Lol

Na why Kiddwaya dey one of a kind. Baba said "I don't have a sad story".

Who said this thing go affect the party? They don dey hype themselves.

Our traumas when not properly managed go ahead to shape our lives in uncool ways. Imagine what Adekunle could have done with his brilliant self without dealing with the trauma of his father's horrible choices.


Na why I no want pikin be this, I fit dey make mumu choices and mar my child for life. Omo!

safarigirl:
LOL

See as he just talk say na out of wedlock dem born am, like say he dey tell him guy about one banny wey he meet.

Bryan did the same thing. Men una

Dodoooooo!!! Let's gooo!

Omoooooo!



Some teachers dey mad

Adekunle is really crying. Omo

fitzmayowa:
Since you don marry na I dey congratulate you on behalf of all the married women wey dey this thread na......

Scondy go still drag me.

Adekunle's father was addicted to drugs.


God abeg, parents need to do better for their kids.

Adekunle's picture has "available balance = insufficient funds".

safarigirl:
Eloswag is talking like this because he does not want to get emotional and/or cry. I sabi this tactic.

It's what I'd have done, I might finish with tears oooo but I'd start with so much laughter.

endure207:
Bro even if you no like her, buh try get small conscience

As I no kon get nko

Just hating sha. She had a cool story.