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MissAnneboleyn:
What is the name of the Song Chike performed? So many good artists, just when you think you know them all another one comes along.

Over the moon.

So proud of Chike.

My darling baby boy Chikeeeee

Amya:
If he was even a legit HM there's still no guarantee he would have lasted 2 weeks, America or no America.

God abegggg! No solid fanbase because they can't be voted for. Omo! Make e just return to pharmacy and perfume business.

Was really indifferent about Diana. Except for the night of Hanimol, she was really bland. Bye.

Latashia:
He could have turned down the fake hm offer. He wasn't forced.

There was nowhere in my post that such was implied.


You people just quote like something dey frustrate una for house.

Froshloaded:
Shella no get shippers

Is Zudd a joke to you?

Ebuka, call Olusegun Obasanjo.

This show is actually crazy. Pesin fly in from hamrika and you dey evict am after 4 weeks. Omo!

Froshloaded:
Why is my heart beating

Danny baby dey go house

Sweetpink:
I’m still waiting for the gbas gbos Adekunle promise me us

scondy:
This is a big lie tho....they aren't the main content of the show....too many solid talking points ....toxicity isn't content ....

Butti bad belle gossip is. Kwakwakwakwa

Geezeem:
I've come to terms with it... today I know another circle of abuse and make up awaits us

I will never be able to write him off as a human being...I just want the ship to end like yesterday. But I don't see this ending in the house... they are both sexually attracted to each other... and that enclosure heightens emotions like hell

Just adjust yourself to taking things as you see them unfold. Detach emotionally

Have fun while they are on your screen, soon they will only be stories told season after season

They have made their marks... put themselves on the sands of BBN time

They have given bloggers and we here lots of contents to talk about, they have moved the thread and kept this place from been boring

They have given us themselves.... their strengths and weaknesses to shred on the daily. They might be hiding their fights from their fellow housemates, but they are bare before us

This is reality

This is a reality show. I expect nothing less than their true selves

Many are watching and learning

Many are using them as mirrors to view their own relationships and marriages

At the end, some might be saved... just because they watched those two and saw their own relationships in its true lights

This will serve a purpose.... a good purpose at the end.

People are not born narcissist... if this guy is one. I still doubt this title. I've another theory about why sheggz is like this. But for the purposes of this argument, if he is one, Sheggz wasn't born a narcissist... a lot of times, this tendency started from childhood traumatic events

I don't know how he was raised, I don't know if he has spoken about his family and siblings outside their Worldly possessions and privileges... but he deserves a small pity. He didn't damage himself

I see him as someone who is used to having his way... lots of attention and would do anything to have it

I see him as someone who has lived under the shadow of other's powers and control and thought that's how to live

Aside this, If you know about attachment theory, I question his attachment style

There is a link there to what is playing out now

But I won't excuse this

It's ugly.

But hey!.....People supported Ceecee that year and she got to second position, she was the toxic partner

Some people writing epistles here were in that team... so don't sweat it teamie... do you.

Peace!

Now, I'm going to cry.

Oh! Olusegun Obasanjo, please rest.

ThunderSwitch:
make I knack am for pidgin sef U must don high before to Sabi when u don gage

I was going to defend Zico and say being tipsy is the limit you get to before getting drunk until I checked Google and saw that tipsy means slightly drunk.

ThunderSwitch:
Sorry to Bump in ooo but this is a lie!!!

U must have been drunk to even know ur limit!!

Wetin English go cause ehn

safarigirl:
You're polyamorous, but you dey vex say your babe dey dance with other guys

You think say na only you like enjoyment?

Na yabaleft people Biggie bring come this show this year

Chiefheywhy:
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We are the best .

Indeed.

Geezeem:
Abeg leave these Forumites with their agendas... everybody seem to know why Bella isn't quitting the ship...na today?

I don wash my hands off them.

carammel:
The best men ever

Who?

Demnan:
Thank God for your life. Many really ran mad

Ope ni fun Jehovah, a o ni resu oooo.

fitzmayowa:
Sheggz is skilled in emotional manipulation and it will take some thorough soul searching to be able to run away from that.......

Thank you because nairaland people wan dey carry me go where I no know oooo.

PatientVulture:
The soft life thing is a wrong notion as Safarigirl noted .Bella is royalty . Yes you have a point . Society has never been fair to victims , but should that be a reason to die slowly ? [At a point you just have to Bleep the world and do you for your own sanity

Very true but until they are ready to do that, we can only hold space for them and let them know we'll always have their backs. God should save us from his wonderful creatures called yoruba men.�

PatientVulture:
Sorry to ask . Was it a four weeks relationship ?
When you noticed it was toxic . Was your reason beyond getting another "serious" relationship or being a laughing stock . I want to learn

Demnan:
People are forgetting the power if emotions and how it blinds and/ or forgives

Leave them nauuuuu. Na so I dey take rake "no man can take mi fi idiot" that year", not only was I taken for idiot, I wan run mad with it.

PatientVulture:
This is what plays out dayal to day in our society . It's the reality .alot of people remain "married" in abusive marriages because they don't want to be a laughing stock .forgetting everyone has his own problems .

You think Bella won't have that feeling also , that people they have projected their relationship to as classy and perfect won't mock her ? The whole house is divided between the "nice people" who believe they are real and the "pained " who believe it's all fake .

And are they wrong to think this? Do we ever extend grace to victims of abuse. Are we extending grace to Bella now? Even on this thread, we've people saying she deserves it because she wants soft life? How's an abusive relationship the consequences of wanting a soft life. Mind you, all the soft life Segun had given this babe is noodles and promises to take her to UK which she already called his bluff on.

Someone dated Segun for 3 years, 3 whole years. Was she also afraid of the housemates' mockery? Was she there because of soft life? Lol. Y'all better pray you don't date men like Segun.

PatientVulture:
Except you are saying Bella is not smart . You think she does not know this is toxic ?
Now let me ask , God forbid you were in her shoes ,what would you have done ?

That she knows it is toxic doesn't mean she'd know how to get out of it. There are always other factors that make up this sorta of relationship.

I've been there and my friends and family would probably tell you how much of a no nonsense person I am but did that save my arse? No. To drive motor with mouth day easy. Kwakwakwakwa.

Geezeem:
Sheggz is an attention wh.ore!
He will do anything and everything to keep Bella completely focused on him... he is constantly emotionally blackmailing this gal

I'm glad you're seeing this for what it is.

This Dezenazil person reminds me of onirun kolokolo fans. Hahahaha

PatientVulture:
At what point will you hold Bella responsible for her plight . Like I don't see Sheggz using a gun to force her . She is ashamed to call it off because she already made it known to the house that most ladies are not used to the special treatment he gives her .she is scared of how the house will see her after all the �️ pepper they have been spraying them

This logic is so flawed and you people are beginning to sound like broken records. She's scared of which housemates? The ones she "supposedly" thinks she's better than?


How in God's name do you not realize that this is beyond her caring about what anyone thinks?

Dezenazil:
she is oblivious of her predicament, shebi that's una excuse for arising on her matter. Una wan carry money give an obvious materialistic goat.

Was going to ask you the other day but I forgot. Are you a man or woman?

Amya:
With this thing i'm seeing? Only if he leaves tmrw will her senses be possibly salvaged. Sheggs has her mumu button. That relationship will only end on his terms, not hers.

I see and get your point, sadly.


Well, we at least know she has an idea of what is happening.

I like that Dodo is sleeping her drunk arse off. Way to go!