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What's really the problem of African football, I need hindsight please. You'd see Africa cup of nations 0-0, 1-1 or even 1-0 lead for full 90mins plus extra time and here in world cup an African team leading 0- 2 in second half and can't secure a win till they lose 3-2.

And not just any African teams, champions of africa.

If I didn't watch the match I would have said it's fixing but Africa football generally still has a long way to go not just physically but psychologically. Why won't the whole world take us as a jest in the world stage.

I can't help but to think do rich kids born with silver spoons in their hands, knows how lucky they are? That if not luck they could have been one of us bred in the ghetto, staying face me I slap you.. attending public schools and it's almost certain they wouldn't make out of the ghetto

Now this is not a hate topic, I'm just in cloud 9 right now and the thought just hit me. Do otedola kids, adenuga sons..Adelekes.. even our very own seun kids knows how lucky they are.. because I know someone who is 45, never worked in is entire life but since he was a boy he receives salary from 3 of is father companies before month end without sweating. You might see him this afternoon, and the next day he might be out of the country to go see is friend and be back the following day.

My question still remains are this set of people SELF AWARE how lucky they are or they just see it as a normal thing?

Over the years I have only had two friend in my entire life..I can't make new friends not like I care to. But I have always noticed since I was a teenager, people just stare and keep their distance. Like it starting to feel like I have some kind of demon that keeps people away at a far distance. I think I am the problem, I don't talk much.. I don't mingle, in fact I hate public settings and if you stare at me too much, from that day on me and you Will have beef in my mind... Because I might think you've heard one or two about me.

To cut this short, I am in my mid 30s right now and just can't help to notice like it seems I am the problem. I have lived in my current residence for 6years and not one single friend going down the street they all just stare. Men and women, boy's and girls...It's almost like my aura or the vibe I give is not welcoming, is keeping a straight face a bad thing..or is minding my business bad. It's almost like a spirit possessed me from childbirth keeping people afar.

Someone that I haven't talked to before might decide to keep malice with me like so many people.. frowning face whenever eyes meet and you can see from those eyes the hatred.
Like I wonder what's this problem.. meanwhile there's another guy right there who might be in same place and within a second knows everyone..I think this is spiritual

Oh, Nigerian is doom.
It can never be better.
I give up totally from today seeing this

You see the work there and the ones you nor mention..let's do 2.4

Damn that's the point I am in right now.

God help me

DeclanR:
Can I ever own a car in this life ?,🥲🥲

Yes just believe. It works perfectly well. When you have it you won't even remember you wished for it.

Unlimited access still make sense though..that I know they can't deny you

Hey amigos...have you ever thought if there wasn't WizKid DAVIDO and burna boy would there have been an entirely different big 3s. In fact say less, I am here to tell you that there were musicians with much more promise way back then that could have been the discussion of the big 3 today in the entertainment industry if only they had pushed farther, be consistent.. take note, keyword "COULD"

But as the saying goes nearly can't kill a bird, hardwork beat talents, all these are words when put into consideration you'd realise it's just the reality of life. Without time wasted I am here to drop 4 names, and the reason why they couldn't attain the higher level... the big 3 as at today. A self named title by Nigerian fans.




PSQUARE


"The duo are legends, they are not supposed to be on the list. They achieved all, what's this guy saying, blah blah blah....." my bro sit your black ....... down and let me talk, I got the mic, your work is to listen and learn.

sorry boss apologies.... please go on


Accepted!

I still tell my home boys till today, the splitting of PSQUARE systematically opened the way for the big 3 discussion in Nigeria. They were the biggest, touring whole of Africa, Europe, their stage performance was so elite..even when WizKid was making raves, PSQUARE was still number one holding that spot 2013, 2014, 2015... if only they had held on a little while longer and not let financial disagreement come between them they would still have been number 1 in the game. All they need do is release one or two hit every year with some features and viola they would have still been the biggest no cap. Because so much banging hit songs, king of party jams and you dare tell me if the duo were still together and didn't have any issues at all someone would just come 2026 to list big 3 and PSQUARE isn't among.. your joking fam!. It's just like saying if Michael Jackson was still alive they would mention others and leave him out.


OLAMIDE

The one mistake a man can have or can deem a man light faster is been compared to your predecessor and once you accept it, no matter what you do, you'd always been seen like a lower version of the person before you. That's the case of OLAMIDE when he arose being compared to dagrin on every rap song he dropped...bro himself didn't like it, he had to diversify, and switched gear to full time singing
"She carry front, she carry back, she too package, I can't leave her.. that's one of the reasons I can't leave her, nothing in this word that I can't give her.
I'm loving you eh
I'm loving you eh"

If only OLAMIDE had maintained this vibes and brought much more party hit songs like this, year in, year out...I kid you not Davido got nothing on him. Or is it SHAKITI BOBO all is songs at that time was explicitly good, melodious with the Fuji tone but it only came once in a blue moon..he wasn't really consistent enough. It's just like the drive to compete for number one with others wasn't really there.



RUNTOWN

In every disagreement, dispute you find yourself with family, friends or business partners if you can settle out of court please do. Only few people would understand, it saved WizKid career and now he is what he is today and eme can't take that from him. Daddy yo was supposed to drop some other album but he said he wanted to leave, due to his personal reasons.. but contract is contract.. you signed it. The label came said, you want to leave we agree but here is our terms. What your supposed to get from your previous albums we take it to make up for the one you didn't drop...oya na.. hands were shaked, problem solved.. everyone pathed ways..now tell me where WizKid is today.
Why couldn't RUNTOWN do a similar thing with Eric Manny, or did he tried and they refused or was he the one that insisted on going to court. It baffles me till today, because sound God was so good, so different with his sound, style, voice and everything and artist should have. He would have been in the big 3 discussion if only that issue with his label didn't arise. 2016, 2017 he had the whole year locked down from DJ mix to club..mad over you.. for life, energy and lots more. Runtown was on another level but just couldn't avert the hurdle when it came.




ICE PRINCE

The fall of ice prince needs to be studied, included in our school curriculum or something. You see if you thought I was wrong with the others you see this ice prince I will go far and length with you to tell you how good this guy was and if he had remained he definitely would have been... Is it SWAG? IS IT FASHION SENSE? IS IT FAME? Is it INFLUENCE ? bro had them all. He singled handedly made Nigerians fell in love with rap music, new school hiphops not Mi but him. But all I saw was bad management, bad advisers telling him to change genres from what blew him to singing trash.. because to them rap music don't sell in Nigeria like come on bro, you had it all.. with your hot bars, Oleku still banging hard whenever it comes on. Juju still hitting hard and he just gave it all to start singing party jams because that's what sells. It worked for sometime but couldn't for long.. if only he had held on to that ice prince zamani nobody test me.. the big 3 today would have been an entirely different conversation.

verminnel:
Get a partner and get married ,that should help.

I find that as a huge challenge, never had one. This is just my life patronising prostitutes and call girls since I was younger..stress free, pay and go in
I don't even know what step to take if I decide to get one, I get tired easily with people.

Just this year alone, I have had sex with over 20
prostitutes. It's almost like I am cursed or swear for with this kind of lifestyle.

While people were in church Jan 1st I broke my resolution before the year even started, had marathon sex that night and one would think it will be enough but it never is.

Before then I have been trying to change the whole last weeks of December, even on Christmas eve and the 25th I was still holding myself, the urge to patronise them kept calling but I kept my cool was adamant on my resolution but on new year eve I lost it all and the relapse is so bad that I haven't rested since Jan 1.

From one brothel to another, different spots carrying daybreak, short time. I have lost a huge amount of weight within this 2weeks but I can't just stopped it's almost like I am jazzed... like a reflex action that I don't even think, it just happens..

I know it's the price I got to pay for starting with prostitute in my teenage days and it became a habit but now it's getting worse and I'm starting to think this isn't normal, they've gotten to me.

If I know anyone to go tomorrow to get a permanent solution even if it means paying for it I will. I met a pharmacist sometime last year if there's any medication I can take to kill my sex drive. He didn't give me a reasonable response, I just need help on how to reprogram my life, my brain to live like a normal human being with purpose and focus in life other than patronising prostitutes..it gets so bad that I take loans from friends and app to expense this lifestyle. I can't watch 2026 passed me by yet again with this kind of living. Now I am sober but give me 24hrs time especially tomorrow Sunday, I'm back to the same ways.

I need help.

0Brien:
Is it over?

3 more minutes

God help us

Goo0dHardDick:
Pure luck dude.

Make Nigeria beat Morocco na let's see!

If Senegal or Egypt catch Nigeria, otilo

so you nor know say Senegal and Egypt don play..mumu boy

Chill Nigeria going through... sport isn't by who dominated the most.. it's by luck.

Nigeria what do we produce in large quantity if not polithiefans, corruption and insecurity.

Wonders shall never end...2026 just start o

Farewell nwannneeeeee

Better days ahead.... Before you sell your vote reason us the masses

I was amazed yesterday when I drop a post in respect to frank Edwards and so many comments of people asking who are the big 3 it's just like asking who are the top 3 in football for a long time now. Despite hearing the names of Lionel Messi, Christiano Ronaldo and the prince who never became king, neymar.. even if you weren't a football fan!..

But hey, I'm here for the common man. This is my field, no need to get ashamed, just grab your popcorn, or a bowl of garri with blueberries whatever you have while I tell you for a FACT who the big 3 are in Nigeria music Entertainment industry for years now!!.

DRUMROLL PLS......


3) BURNABOY A.K.A THE AFRICAN GIANT

You can call him arrogant, nonchalant or any names you deem fit but the man has already claimed the number 3 spot for some years now. I saw a video clip some time ago when he said he wasn't proud being a Nigerian, I didn't blame him because when he started Nigerians really didn't support him that much we didn't take him serious. He struggled so much being underground for a long time until the international fans saw his talent and accept him before starting getting actual respect from Nigeria fan base. Imagine being accepted by outsiders before your own people won't that hurt? As it is right now, he's the hottest overseas among the big 3 with Grammy's but still number 3...I said what I said. His online feuds with the same people that feeds him...Dang!..I rather not delve into that. But hey burna boy worked so hard for where he is today, a legend with his own hands and that can't be taken away from him cancellation or not.


2) DAVIDO A.K.A BADDEST

Those who knows me on this forum knows I have never been partial, I say things as it is. Raw, natural, while it's hot so you can feel the taste. if the big 3 are to perform same day at my location here in the South south and it's a free pass this December I dine and wine with OBO not because he's my favourite but the personality the vibes..his songs are so African like for someone born in overseas. He's the king of afrobeats in Nigeria hands down, hits uphon hits, catchy lyrics not all those party jam noise from those Fuji musicians... I'm talking about steady afrobeats with flavors. DAVIDO got no Grammy yet but man don try.. before FIFA called him to feature in the last world cup theme song they needed that AFRICAN SAUCE.



1) WIZKID A.K.A BIG BIRD

I know some of you might hate this, even I myself hate it but my people say " who don big, don big" nothing you can do to change it. STAR BOY has been number 1 for years now and he still remains number one in the whole of African. Not necessarily because of his musics, man hasn't dropped any hit songs since they killed gadanfi but there's just this level of grace, Aura, self reliant a man can have that he would be so much valuable without doing a thing, saying a thing and still be relevant for years. I tell my guys whenever we banter even though we are grown adults that WizKid SUPERSTAR ALBUM was the foundation that made him who he is today and he should be forever grateful to banky w and squash any beef. Although he had some major hits when he left eme but that album crest his name in the world as it is today. And the personality of being unavailable, hardly seen, using absence to increase respect filled in the 10% for what he is today. I know you might argue but wizkid is the number 1. Is it fan base? Is it style? Doesn't force it just like Roger Federer just generally liked.. doesn't need to do much. Once he drops a song or album you'd see someone just approach you like " you don hear that WizKid new song ' since it's WizKid you have go ahead and stream. That's greatness on another level, a blessing only few attains.


Add-on : I saw sometime there was a particular gen z musician who blew 2 years ago claiming big 4 or big all..no kid, you still got years to compete with your peers, and future upcomings. You might be relevant right now but there's differences between being a legend and having one hit song..so pls calm down. give yourself time with much consistency, you still got about 10years more..

Drops pen....
King0G pro music Analyst......

Sonnobax15:

Frank Edwards that year ....The Nigerian version of Don Moen

This dude almost made me to repent completely back then,with his praiseworthy songs

If you settle down listen to this guy songs,one part of your soul must tell you to give your life to Christ..

Exactly you feel connected to another realm entirely, no matter how bad you are. You'd just want to listen more and more.

See The Only Gospel Artist That Can Go Toe To Toe With The Big 3.. No cap

Is it by hits? Is it by influence? Or long duration of songs of all time. Frank Edwards made so many hit tracks till today that made young people of our generation fell in love with Christian songs. The man is the only gospel artist in Nigeria that can single handedly tell the big 3 to sit down and they will listen because them themselves has heard of him and even listened his songs one way or the other.

I feel like frank Edward isn't given a lot props as he deserved, is it hip-hop is it pop or party jams, is it emotional lyrics. Tell me who come close... and don't dare compare with this baby upcomings.

Bro sang in all the languages in Nigeria and all of them are hit tracks.. evergreen....oghene dhooor oooooo yeh.. eh... There's just the way he does it in his songs that it gets catchy and never goes old, the emotions, the feelings put in singing for Christ ..the low and high pitch.

I tell you, put the big 3 together and I tell you frank Edward gets a shot.. he's a legend and he's songs keeps you going when you are on that phase of life.

We the citizens need to stand up against this stomach infrastructure polithiefans

Lol never knew Nigerians got basket ball league

Walklifeman:
Your true self is what you do when there's no one to force you. If you are not attending now that there is no one to force you, that's on you.

Does a kid of 11 to 12 has his true self yet? If so while is there a term known as guidians, parents.

Yes it was my decision then and I was a kid if only they had pushed me more it would have meant a lot for me today.

Walklifeman:
Why not just go back now instead of blaming your parents? All they did was give you a choice. If you are not attending church services now, it means you would have stopped eventually regardless of what actions your parents take. Or do you expect they would force to go to church every time all through your lifetime ?

it wasn't certain I would have stopped eventually. Just maybe I would have held on, and still holding on till now. Sometimes all we need is a little bit more push and push... choice is not just enough

paxonel:
Being focused has nothing to do whether you are religious person or not.

Being focused is the way you were trained

I am telling you being religious plays a huge role. I was once there and I have been out.. and still out.
There's this direction you get.this focus..tat can't be explained. You think people just like going to church or mosque for no reasons. Some of them could care less about heaven..but that direction is just something that can't be bought

SpencerForbes:
When you get your kid, whip him or better still injure him. What’s thinking has to do with your decision not to worship God

Internet has made everything easy. Or you still live in the Stone Age
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Your response reeks of immaturity. Even the scripture says train up a child the way he should go and when he's old he will not depart from it. I am referring to myself and not you. I have lived this life up to the stage that I am today, calculating mistakes and faults.

SpencerForbes:
If they had forced you, you’ll still be whom you want to be or even worse. You never had the intention so just stay at home🤧😤

If they had flogged you, you’ll still create a thread on how your parents bullied you into religion.

Because you stopped going to church, you became less happy😂 Go search for your passion.
You can leave church but not leave God😁
I still go to virtual services and even study the word.
Being focused has nothing to do with church.

If you feel like going, go. But don’t blame it on your parent or the cause of your unhappiness.

Talking about being whipped🤧😤
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I wouldn't expect everyone to get what I meant. Only for the deep thinkers.
Either you like it or not, our decisions make our future

Those of us who are not a church goer, not Muslim, hate anything juju but we are just there. I can't help but to think what we are.

It's not like I don't believe in the spiritual or God, as a matter of fact I used to be one of the active children pastors in my time during children programs now look at me. I am just there, suddenly decided to stop following my parents to church at around age 12 and I blame them hugely for this. Because they on the other hand just let me be, they talked few Sundays morning and that's just it.

I wasn't forced more or whipped. If only they had really forced me maybe the direction my life is today would have been entirely different. I would have been an upcoming daddy G.0 by now living all righteous.

I don't feel that urge to go back now but one thing I realised was during that time I was living more happier and always joyful on Sunday, the feeling, atmosphere is different.
And there's this direction and focus you get when your a religious person than just being there like some of us are today.
Not knowing where we fall on

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