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A mother woke up in the night to find her 14-year-old son raping her, a court heard. Initially she thought it was a dream, but after realizing the "enormity of the situation" she began screaming.

Her teenage son, who is on medication for ADHD, had been having behavioural problems in recent weeks, Preston Crown Court was told.

For some years he had been in the habit of climbing into bed with his mother, but the boy - from Blackpool and now aged 15 - denied a charge of rape.

Francis McEntee, prosecuting, told the court: "The allegation in this case is that the defendant raped his mother while she was asleep. The factual basis of this case is that he was in his mother's bed.

"The issue is not any assertion of consent, or belief of consent. It is the prosecution's assertion there was penetration and the defendant's denial of that allegation".

The prosecution said the woman had been asleep before waking and realising the "enormity of the situation, that her son was in the process of having sex with her".

He added: "The defendant's account is that his bed was uncomfortable, there was damage to the bottom sheet, so he had gone in and lain in bed with his mother.

"You will hear his acknowledgement that his mother was naked, bar the brief underwear and you will hear his admission that she lay on her side and he was lying with his arm around her.

"The prosecution would invite you to say he was hoping to seek to try and provide an innocent explanation for his presence in the bed.

"Whether driven by drink or some other issue, perhaps because he had had drink, he climbed into bed with his mother".

In her police interview - which was taped and played in court, the woman said she was "trembling from the inside" after the alleged attack.

The teenager, who cannot be identified, left the courtroom while the interview was played.


Judge Pamela Badley explained to the jury he did not want to be present during the interview and that she had given him permission to leave.

Speaking of what happened, the woman told police: "I just know when I opened my eyes he was there. I don't even know what I said. He scuttled out of the room and didn't say anything.

"I just sat there holding my covers, screaming and thinking 'what the hell's just gone on?'

"All sorts was going through my head. Is he just sleepwalking?

"Does he know what he is doing? Is he aware? Now I am actually thinking what state is he in? Does he know what he has done?"

The mother told investigators that her son had had issues for a long time.

She described her last 18 months with him as being an "absolute nightmare".

She told police: "He's really aggressive towards me, throws things and hits me with things like slippers and cushions. Only two days ago I got cut. This is me trying out [sic] ground him and instil some punishment for the way he has been.

"I am concerned for my son, more concerned about what would happen to him." The trial continues.

Source:
http://kolawolesamuel..com/2015/05/mum-woke-up-screaming-in-middle-of.html?m=1

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Rocktation:
I did not see a link. Why?
Or do men have periods these days?

Kindly find the link: http://kolawolesamuel..com/2015/05/dont-panic-7-reasons-your-period-might.html?m=1

For the last week or so, I’ve been somewhat convinced that I’m pregnant. For the most part, this belief was paranoid, but also not entirely outside the realm of possibility. I had a proper French affair when I was in Paris a few weeks ago and at one point there was a broken condom situation, though we realized it was broken and replaced it with a fresh one prior to, ahem, any fluids reaching their apex, so to speak.
But I know how babies are made and I’m a total hypochondriac, so when my period failed to arrive on the day it was supposed to, and the day after, and the day after that, and I started feeling gassier than usual, well, I began to panic. I started to type “gas sign of” into Google and the search engine, seemingly reading my mind, autofilled the rest with “early pregnancy.”


 Oh god, I thought. It was all but confirmed.
“Everyone, I think I might be carrying the French waiter’s baby,” I announced dramatically to my coworkers.
“I really doubt that,” said Ami, “But why don’t you take a pregnancy test to be sure.”
As practical as that idea sounded, I wasn’t quite ready for confirmation of the status of my uterus just yet — mostly because I didn’t quite know how I felt about possibly being pregnant — so I decided to research all the possible reasons for why my normally prompt period might be late and I (and you, if you’re in a similar situation) shouldn’t be panicking. Here are the seven most likely reasons your period might be late besides pregnancy … and if you make it to the end, you’ll find out whether or not my panicking was all for naught.

1. A Change In Your Regular Routine: Did you start a new job? Change your wakeup time? Go on vacation? It can take your body a little time to adjust to a change in your regular routine and that can impact your regular cycle, especially if the change started at the time you would normally ovulate, causing a delay or even a skipped cycle.
Likelihood That This Is Impacting My Period: Moderate. I mean, I did just spend a week doing nothing but eating cheese and drinking wine in France. Usually my routine consists of working and then eating cheese and drinking wine, so…

2. Stress: Your emotions, particularly stress, can have a major impact on the regularity of your menstrual cycle. And if you’re stressing about why your period is late, that could actually delay its arrival even more. Mother Nature is a cruel mistress!
Likelihood That This Is Impacting My Period: High. Looking back over the last few months, I’ve been stressed a lot — about my dad’s death and dealing with his estate, about work, etcetera — and I might just be seeing the effects of that on my cyclenow.

3. Illness: Being sick at the time you normally would ovulate can delay ovulation — and if you ovulate late, you’ll get your period late. So if your period hasn’t arrived on schedule, think back a few weeks — were you under the weather?
Likelihood That This Is Impacting My Period: Minor. I haven’t been sick recently, unless you count being hungover.

4. Pill Poppin’: Taking a new medication or changing the dosage on an existing medication can affect all aspects of your body’s well-being, including your menstrual cycle — that’s why your doctor, including your gynecologist, always wants to know each and every medication that you’re on.
Likelihood That This Is Impacting My Period: Minor. I’m on a couple of medications, but have been for while and haven’t changed my dosages at all.

5. Weight Issues: A major change in your weight — either by gaining a lot or losing a lot of weight — can throw your ovulation cycle off. People who are underweight or extremely overweight sometimes don’t have a period at all — which is not very healthy. Overall, an incredibly wonky or nonexistent period is a sign of possible health issues.
Likelihood That This Is Impacting My Period: Minor. Well, I’ve gradually gained maybe 7-10 pounds over the last year, but I don’t consider that a “major” change in my weight — my weight has generally fluctuated by the same 5-10 lbs for years.

6. Exercising Excessively: Have you been hitting Soul Cycle every day after work? Training for a marathon? If you’ve taken up a new and intense exercise routine, your period might be thrown off. In fact, people who engage in extreme physical activity sometimes see their periods delayed.

Likelihood That This Is Impacting My Period: Minor. Um, I’ve been to yoga, like, four times in the last four months. I took my first Soul Cycle class ever last night and it was awesome but rough. The most exercise I generally get is from manically cleaning my apartment or walking my dog. Fitness fiend, I am not.

7. Miscalculation: The average menstrual cycle is 28 days, but many, many women have shorter or longer cycles and don’t chart them correctly — so it may be that your period is not actually late. Additionally, the majority of women have cycles that are irregular and don’t necessarily realize it. If your period is early even by a few days one month, it may arrive late the following month.
Likelihood That This Is Impacting My Period: Major. As I obsessively looked back through my calendar and tried to remember when I had my last few periods, I realized that the first day of each period was either a Monday, Tuesday or Wednesday. I had always thought of myself as having a regular ol’ 28 cycle. but clearly I don’t; clearly my cycle is slightly irregular and so what I consider “late” may not actually be late.
These are a few of the more basic, every day reasons that an otherwise healthy woman, who is not pregnant, might have a late period. There are of course other, more serious reasons — a thyroid condition, Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome, or an eating disorder for example. If you’ve taken a negative pregnancy test and your period is more than a couple weeks late, you should see your gynecologist just to make sure everything is a-okay.

As for me? I took a pregnancy test on Saturday morning, the most nerve-racking experience ever because I had to drink, like, a gallon of water before I felt like I had to pee enough. After three minutes, I got my answer — Not Pregnant. No baby Fracois or Amelie for me. A tiny, tiny part of me felt a little sad — I’m planning on having a baby in the next three years — but I mostly felt relieved, because I am really committed to having a child on my own terms, at the right time.
Oh, and sure enough, Sunday morning, I got my period.


http://kolawolesamuel..com/2015/05/dont-panic-7-reasons-your-period-might.html?m=1

Hmmmmmm incase

Kilonshe boboyi? Well law of cama...... make una help me complete am




Change has come




Sai Baba

Many likes pls

Someone should pls summaries this book for me.

Shoro niyen Change has come.....

Shoro niyen??....I love change.........

and what will happen if him stop? lobish, yeye

all this people that are in a hurry to be the first dia ris god ooo

So what? Next topic pls.

Nigerian Breaking News
Authentic final results of kano State 2015 Presidential election as follows =
1)Albasu L. G= AA 10, PDP 3,047, APC = 34,572
2)Bagwai L. G =AA 12, PDP 8,159, Apc =28,755
3)kunchi L. G =AA 3, PDP 2, 921, Apc - 24,542
4)Tsanyawa L. G =A A 5, PDP - 4, 049, Apc - 32,262
5)Gaya L. G =AA 2, PDP 1,838, APC - 38,085
6)Tofa L. G =AA 2, PDP 5,622, APC - 27,184
7)Rano L. G =AA 4, PDP 5,259, APC - 28,678
Gezawa L. G=AA 16, PDP 3,988, APC-38,976
9) G/mallam L. G =AA 6, PDP 5,604, Apc - 27,818
10) Kura L. G, =AA 7,PDP 7,975, APC 38,680.
11) Gabasawa L.G =AA6, PDP-3,840, Apc- 31,499
12) Wudil L. G=AA, 6, PDP-3,539, APC - 39,503.
13) Bunkure L G=AA 4, PDP 7,039, Apc - 28,599.
14) Makoda L. G, =AA 10, PDP 4225,Apc 25,284.
15) Kibiya L. G =AA- 0, PDP 4,997, APC - 23,451.
16) kumbotso L. G, =AA 26, PDP- 2632, Apc- 71,795.
17) D/tofaL.G =AA- 5, PDP 3510, Apc - 44,117.
18) Ajingi L. G=A A- 3, PDP, 1,712, Apc-32,155.
19) Madobi L. G=AA 1, PDP 7,718, Apc - 31,733.
20) Kabo L. G =AA- 6, PDP, 3,957, Apc - 39,293.
21)Tarauni L. G =AA-10, PDP-2,928, Apc - 70,887
22)Dambatta L. G=AA-18, PDP - 4,145, Apc - 38,357
23) Garko L. G =AA - 5, PDP - 1,841, Apc - 33,857.
24) Minjibir L. G =AA-0, PDP-3,912, Apc - 34,082.
25) Ungogo L. G =AA - 9,
PDP - 3,912, Apc - 75,481.
26),Rogo L. G, =AA - 1
PDP 5,786, Apc - 31,113.
27) Gwale L.G =AA-8, PDP 3,528, APC - 65,660
28) Bichi L. G=AA - 23, PDP - 6,410, Apc - 45,754.
29) Kiru L.G =AA - 4, PDP - 7,907, Apc 47,267
30) Sumaila L.G =AA-05
PDP 2,565, Apc- 49,257
[7:13AM, 3/30/2015] China Hamza: 31) Sumaila L.G =AA-5 PDP - 2,565, Apc 49,257
32) Karaye L.G =AA - 2, PDP 7,084, Apc - 29,393.
33) Gwarzo L.G =AA -6, PDP - 3,657, Apc - 40,897.
34)Fagge L.G =AA - 23, PDP 7,789, Apc - 50,687.
35)Bebeji L.G =AA 4, PDP 5,364, Apc- 29,550.
36)Takai L.G =AA 2, PDP 9,783, Apc - 41,307.
37) Dala L.G, =AA 13., PDP - 4,814, Apc 102,406.
38)Nassarawa L.G =AA 9, PDP - 4,945, Apc -125,553
39)R/gado L.G =AA -0 PDP 7,259,Apc-26,499
40)D,/kudu =AA - 17, PDP - 4,237, Apc - 47,242.
41) Warawa L.G =AA -7 PDP - 2,937, Apc 25,347.
42) Doguwa L.G =AA 4, PDP - 4,533, Apc 29,109.
43)T/wada L.G =AA-12, PDP 6,072,Apc - 49,417.
44) K/Municipal L.G =AA- 53, PDP - 7,027, APC - 101,481.
Kano has decides, Apc has land slide victory, with 90.2%.

tiwaz:
APC Governorship aspirant in Kogi state, AbdulAziz Omeiza Aliyu (pictured above) and his younger brother, Salmanu Adeiza Aliyu lost their lives in a fatal road accident that happened at Jere town along Kaduna – Abuja federal highway yesterday March 14th.

A family spokesman, Abubakar Aliyu said the 36 year old politician was returning from Abuja to Kogi with his younger brother when the chattered vehicle they were riding in got involved in the accident. All occupants in the car died.

According to the family spokesman

“Omeiza spoke with his father around 1.30pm Saturday few minutes into the ill fated journey and barely half an hour, we received the shocking and sad news of his demise from a samaritans from the scene of the accident. From the report we received none of passengers on the ill fated Sharon car survived and they have been given mass burial at location at Jere town”.

Speaking on his children's death, Alhaji Momohjimoh Aliyu said he has taken the incident as an act of God ” I have accepted it as an act of God. They are from God and they have returned to Him at appointed time and on our part we have accepted it as an act of God” he said.

www.pijangonews.com/2015/03/sad-apc-governorship-candidate-in-kogi.html

This is the picture of both of them, so sad I lost my childhood friend a brother from another mother, the two nicest people I have ever meet in my life, you will both continue to remain in my heart. May Allah grant you rahmah ameen. The younger brother just got married last year and the elder brother has four beautiful angels. pls remember them both in your prayers my condolence goes to GTbank staff cos the younger brother works with Gtbank jigawa branch.

This is totaly uncall for, i think parent of the children should teach dem gud home training cos religion is not what u joke with, what the girls did was so bad and i think this should serve as a worning to all. Gbam

jambogini: At my age now i regret i havent got a degree in university hence i am trying to find a means to study mechanical engineering in germany, and i have a china visa bout to go and find a business to do.
What is your advice to me, i really love education, i can take care of my tuition fees. although the head of the family, i take care of my siblings and parents. i have my waec. any advice please

Im just passing by, sorry man

Any idea pls. Somebody assist na.

Hello pals, i am actually thinking on how i can fool someone on the first of April this year as a revenge of what a friend did to me last year, pls anyone with an idea?

Hehehehehehehe, i no fit laf how comes Osasuna com take useless barca like dis na, were is the senceless mercy? Lol

The crazy thing i will do is off my phone, after all my name is not valentine. Lol

Virgin ko virgin ni, we know does wey be virgin, den no dey talk at all, kuku carry mic go marken na say u be virgin mshewwwww.

Final scores 2-0 mali wins i am happy

Honestly, i dont know why the people who are surpose to protect our lives atr the once taking it, Mr. President is this how u promised to rule us? This man is not going to die in vain.

Pls note that it is not the car that was stolen, its the plate number NSR 224 AA kano (both front and bank)

Good day all, please i need your urgent help, my car's new Nigerian plate number NSR 224 AA kano was stolen at my house Hadejia road off Kawaji in kano state on 19/01/2012, please any body with vital information should contact me on 08061617106 and pls help broadcast. However, i have reported to the police and report obtained.

Its so sad to hear this story but i want to believe it is true, well may his soul rest in peace.


Lagosians watched in awe and consternation yesterday evening at the Leventis bus stop in Marina, Lagos, when a ministerial nominee, Mr. Al-Mustaim Alade Abaniwonda, aged 56, dived into the lagoon under mysterious circumstances about 3pm.
He eventually drowned in the lagoon. Abaniwonda was the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) senatorial candidate for Lagos East in the April 9, 2011 National Assembly election. According to Abaniwonda’s driver, simply identified as Wasiu, the senatorial candidate, who lost to the incumbent Senator Tunde Ashafa of the Action Congress of Nigeria (ACN) and whose name was among the list of 10 nominees sent to President Goodluck Jonathan for consideration as minister from Lagos State, was coming from a bank on Lagos Island when he told the driver that he was pressed and would need to use the toilet. Wasiu added that all his entreaties and persuasions that his boss should wait until they get to his office, at the CSS Bookshop building in Broad Street, fell on deaf ears.
Wasiu said: “He ate his food after we left the bank and he told me he was going to use a toilet down there. That was all until I heard people shouting. He was still struggling to get out when I got there but he later went down inside the water.” Wasiu was promptly arrested by police officers attached to the Marine Police Division at whose backyard the incident took place. He was not allowed to talk to people afterwards and when National Mirror attempted to talk to the DPO, he bluntly said he was not position to brief the press on the matter.
Eyewitness account has it that when the politician jumped into the river, he was still able to stand upright but he deliberately walked into a deeper portion of the lagoon. A toilet operator, who does not want his name in print said: “We didn’t know what happened in the vehicle before he came down. But when he got to us, he told us he wanted to use our toilet. We were still looking for the key and water when he walked towards the river.

“He took off his jacket, wristwatch, wallet and made for the lagoon side. We were even telling him that is not the toilet, he insisted on going towards other direction. We called him again and he answered in Yoruba saying: Ani mo fe se gaa, meaning, “I want to defecate”. All of a sudden we just saw him in the lagoon.

“I saw him dive into the water. We threw a floater and a tyre at him but he wouldn’t use them. Instead, he struggled to a deeper side of the river. “He was there still floating for about three minutes and luckily a flying boat was on sight. We waved at the boat to help rescue him at the point he was still floating but when the boat arrived, he swam and hid under the last pillar; when the people saw that they went there.” Another eyewitness account said Abaniwonda slipped and fell into the lagoon while going to the toilet. But she confirmed that he obviously frustrated all attempts at rescuing him. She, however, blamed the marine police for their inability to rescue the drowned senatorial candidate, saying they didn’t do anything special to help him.

Her words: “I am disappointed in the marine police. They had their flying boat and swimming jackets in the station, why can’t they jump into the water and pull the man out? At least that is their duty; instead, they were throwing tyres and floaters like ordinary people. Things like this could never have happened in civilised country.” Abaniwonda’s son, who rushed to the scene with some other siblings barely an hour after the incident, told National Mirror that there was nothing in his father’s mood or attitude to suggest he was not happy or was worried about anything. “My mother celebrated her birthday yesterday and he was there happy.

We celebrated together with other family members. If he is still in the water up till now, and you told me it happened about an hour ago, then he must have died because he is diabetic. There is a limit to which his lungs would be able to hold him under water.” Abaniwonda drove in a Toyota Camry car with registration number MU 555 AAA while his son and other siblings who came in two jeeps one of which has the Federal Government registration number FG 527 A52, could not stop crying but were not willing to talk to the press. The Police Public Relations Officer, Lagos State Command, Mr. Jinadu Samuel, who spoke to National Mirror on phone, said he was not aware of the incident but promised to contact the Marine Divisional Police Officer to get adequate brief on the incident.

The Epe-born politician, was a senatorial candidate for Lagos East under the Alliance for Democracy (AD) and the ACN before crossing over to the PDP in 2003 after he sought to contest the senatorial district’s ticket on ACN’s platform but was asked to step down for the eventual winner of the ticket, Hon. Olorunnibe Mamora, Abaniwonda holds a first degree from the University of Ife, (now Obafemi Awolowo University, Ile-Ife). He is the founder and managing partner of Alade Abaniwonda & Partners, an investment company, with offices at the CSS Bookshop building, Broad Street, Lagos,  The question on the lips of sympathisers was: “What could have made a supposed millionaire leave his family and wealth to commit suicide by jumping into lagoon?”

The answer to this question could only be answered by Abaniwionda himself. Meanwhile, as at the time of filing this report, all efforts to retrieve his corpse from the lagoon have not yielded any positive result as all the searchers have retired for the day, with the intention to continue today. Speaking on the development, the Lagos State PDP Secretary, Mr. Olatunji Shelle, told National Mirror that he was yet to confirm the authenticity of the story, adding that he doesn’t believe that Abaniwonda for any reason could jump into the lagoon.

He said that he was on his way to the police station where the complaint was lodge, adding that until he confirms the incident, he cannot make any comment. The state chairman of the PDP, Setonji Koshoedo in a telephone chat with National Mirror declined comment, saying: “I have no comment. The search is still on, but I cannot comment on that incident for now.”

i still wonder why people like to pretend in this part of the world, that makes me remember the words of Fela '' sufering and smiling'' he doesn't need anybody to advice him on this issue onless he is not part my his wifes family and he doen't love his wife.
what he need right now is a means of survival and move forward with his life. Anyway he may have his personal reason for not taking the job but i will advice him to take the Job as a trial and deside what to do later. LOL

i am really happy for you, and i wish u well in your new office.