If a Relationship to you is a HOTEL where you're only interested in SEX than Something More Meaningful and Positive, then please Respect yourself by walking away from that Innocent heart, because you're totally wasting his/ her Time..

And if a Relationship to you is a BANK where you're only
interested in withdrawing (Demanding) MONEY from it, then kindly leave that person cause you will wreck that Person down and ofcourse, leave Him/Her for another.. If you need Money, Work for it! Dont ask for it unless its for something Reasonable like "Support on either your Living,
Schooling, Or Family issue.. And you're being Sincere too..

And if you want Sex, let it be from a Mutual Mood. Followed by Respect and Understanding of your BODIES. Not being a Selfish lust.. the problem with most of us is, we just want what we want from a Person And Not what we will give in,, favouring Both.

If you dont have any positive thing to Deposit in a
Relationship, better go insearch for your kind, so we'd know
you're both decieving/playing yourselves.. For a Heart is not a
place for Games..


Love is a beautiful thing.

Many a times, we tend to be over protective and there by over
doing most security tactics that ends up playing a bitter foul
against us.

There is virtually no relationship that jealousy and stumbling
blocks won't exist. But our free will and mutual determination to say NO to this pressures makes the maturity traits in our lives more pronounced.

It is not a bad thing to protect your relationship or fight against intruders but the bad thing there, is fighting Foolishly that later hurts both you the fighter, your bf/fiance' the gold, and the other lady the fightee (if there is any word like that ) and in most cases you end up losing them both.

Ofcourse you may say yes you are doing it for your good. But
remember Bible says everything should be done in moderation. Picking up fights always just because of your lover is not the best and can never be because it conotes you been a weakling and one not matured enough to understand basic relationship ethics...

REMEMBER YOU WEREN'T THE FIRST HE SAID "I LOVE YOU" TO,
AND PROBABLY AREN'T THE ONLY ONE HE TELLS CURRENTLY...

Get wisdom but above all seek understanding

bigkesh:
Juan Cuadrado has been Fined for not following the FA on twitter

Add just kidding at the end of ya statement.....
#WTF

1 – The way to a man’s heart is no longer his stomach but the
quality of your brain

2 – If your man must be Tall, Dark and Handsome then be ready to be the 2nd best because what you desire, others’ seek too.

3 – If you allow your parents’ pressure push you into marriage, you may end up a single-mom.

4 – A man that slaps you before marriage will build a boxing ring after marriage. Guess who his opponent will be– YOU!

5 – If you are yet to know any member of his family after 6–12
months of courting him, then, is either he wants you as his baby-mama or a back-up plan.

6 – If what attracted him to you are your bosoms and the sexy
legs you flaunted, the contents of your brain had better keep him, else, there are too many well-rounded and bigger bosoms waiting to snatch him away.

7 – If he doesn't discuss future plans with you in the picture, he just want a fling.

8 – Even when you trust each other, a little jealousy reminds him that you care.

9 – Men love a listener; No matter how much you want your
opinion to push through, listen to his details and don’t counter it.

10 – When you are already living with him before marriage, he
won’t propose quickly.

11 – Don’t waste your years waiting for an unserious man to
propose just because his parents loves you, you’re going to be married and living with the man, not his parents.

12 – When you seek his advice, you make him feel more of a man than he is.

13 – Your encouragement or concern about his career or job works faster than listening to a motivational tape.

14 - take note of this, An engagement ring isn't an assurance for marriage, it could possibly make you his regular sex- mate.

15 – Don’t endure domestic abuse in a marriage because of your kids and what people will say. If you die as a result, the man, people and the kids will bid you dust-to-dust, he will marry another woman and she will be your kid's mother and might maltreat them.

Love is a beautiful thing!

Chelsea are weighing up a move for Malaga's 18-year-old
forward Fabrice Olinga. Samuel Eto'o also recommended the
Cameroon striker to Sampdoria.

Onila

As From next week girls will not allow us hear word again on
Nairaland, Facebook, Whatsapp, BBM and others, That's when You'll start seeing lame and attention seeking status;

"Countdown to valentine day, can't wait to chill with my boo"

"Who will be my val"

"Boo promised me a new phone on vals day"

"On my way to lag to meet my boo for valentine day"

"Yaaaaaay!!! Boo said I will be spending the 9te at his place on
vals day"

"I love my boo so much, I fit die untop him matter"

Mcheeeeeeew!!!! And so? How that one take concern us? But a
serious look at them, You'll notice they no get any boo! They are so lonely. They don't wanna be left out. They go come use
status dey cover up dey use style find maga.

God go help una that postinor wey una dey put hope on go fail una! Na belle e go end last last! Awon ode oshi! Valentine ko valentime ni

No matter how hard you try, there's always gonna be a particular EX whom your feelings for can never die...

That EX whose voice you'll forever recognise even amidst millions of people.

That EX whose memories will never ever fade irrepesctive of how long you've both gone your seperate ways.

That EX who at the mere mention of his/her name your heart beats faster.

That EX whose thought flashes in your mind once in a blue moon and you can't help but smile silly.

Honestly there will always be that EX whose thoughts will be
evergreen in your heart come rain come shine.


Love is indeed a beautiful thing

I would just say Juan Cuadrado to Chelsea is a DONE DEAL. #CFC

omotech:
Is it on Amos 5 or Astra 2f?.

It's on Astra 2f/Multitv

HizMissy:

u guys shud chill...
im quite sure i'll be disappointed after meeting/dating you and will still have to fall back on Mr decent.

Like seriously? Onila pls where are you?

omotech:
TRUST TV! I didn't get, pls what is d tp & sr?

scan 11594 V 30000 to get trust tv and others

HizMissy:
I'm good with a decent guy...
Mr amazing doesn't exist.

Haba? Are you saying KINGGENESIS is a living_dead?

I presume we all know what bride price is. We Africans don't joke with it for whatsoever reason. If a woman must fully be addressed as a man's wife then her bride price must be paid. Even now that we have adopted the western ways of marriage "court wedding" and the likes, a girl's bride price must still be paid..its just an unavoidable prerequisite for marriage. Though I heard some parts in Imo state Nigeria don't pay bride price.. according to a source, they have this age long belief that paying a girl's bride price is like selling their daughter so they skip that part of marriage rites. I really don't know how true this is o.

But my main aim for this update is to point to the fact that recently some girls are now so quick to jump into a man's house who has not even paid a dime on their 'head' all in the name of love. Like seriously you kidding me? I wonder why girls don't use their heads most times. They make it seem as if they are so desperate for marriage though some are desperate sha considering their age and so but that's not enough reason to pack your belongings into a man's house just because he said "I love you and want to marry you" what if he's only saying that to get in between your thighs? And probably dumps you, who will you blame?

The smart guy deceives you with an engagement ring and the next thing you are at his house washing his clothes, cleaning his house and cooking for him. Girls why? And he pulls another trick by visiting your uncle for an imformal introduction, body begin sweet you then you start bathing with him naked for your mind you don become married woman! Ehen? sometimes I dey wonder if some girls dey menstruate their sense too cause the way they behave
eh. Odikwa very stupid.

You have only succeeded in digging your own grave. Very soon he will shock you by bringing his real wife into the house. Then I would have saved up enough money to buy handkerchief which can last you during your crying times. Girls open your eyes men are wicked ooo. Once you portray yourself as being cheap he will only take advantage of you and move ahead. Let him do the right thing if he truly loves you. Let him follow due process, he should meet your parents and family and pay your bride price. Then your parent will bless your marriage which is very important too. Don't
be too forward. I know most girls on my list are between age
15__23 and think this update is not for them, just know one day you too will come of age and ready for marriage.

#BE_WISE

Overtime, I've Heard So Many Complains From Ladies ... Saying, What Most Guys Want Is Sex, And After The Sex... Phewww... They Are Gone Like The Wind, Or They Start Misbehaving. And They Say This Without Thinking About The Part They Played In Making That True To An Extent. So I Decided To Come Up With This Article To Open Our Eyes To Something Majority Of Us Fail To Notice.

I Very Much Believe From Careful Study And Observation Of Various Relationships That The Ladies Are Oftentimes The Reason Why Some Guys Bail Out After Sex. I Can Already Feel The Face Of Some Ladies Turning Into A Frown... Yes Its True! Therefore, Before You Start Attacking Me, Let Me Paint The Picture Clear.

Like It Has Always Been Said, The Way Men Reason Out Relationship Issues Is Quite Different From How Women Reason It.

Women Are Quite Territorial And Sexually Reserved In Nature, And Privacy Means A Lot To Them. What Is Normal To Men, Can Be Abnormal To Women. So The Moment Sex Gets Involved In A Relationship, Everything Changes For The Lady, But In The Eyes Of The Guy, NOTHING CHANGED. Cause For Him Everything Goes Back To Normal, But For The Lady, It Has All Gone Beyond Normal. Because To Her She Has Given Up Her Dignity And Broken Down Her Pride For You... So She Expects More Than What It Used To Be From You. This Is The Point Where The Lady Starts Noticing The Little Things The Guy Does That Is Quite Unusual... Maybe He Calls Her 3times A Day Before, But After Sex Is Involved, He Now Calls Once, Or Doesn't Call At All. He Usually Sends Her A Text First Thing Every Morning And The Last Thing At Night... But Now No Such Thing. Just Then The Lady Feels Sex Was What The Guy Wanted All Along, And Now He Has Gotten What He Wanted And His True Character Has Emerged.

WHAT HAPPENS TO THE GUY AFTER SEX IS INVOLVED?

What Happened Oftentimes To The Guy Is What Is Called "Regroup" After Sexual Intimacy. A Time When The Guy Sits And Tries To Relief And Ponder On The New Experience Of What You Both Shared (SEX). Now For A Guy Whose Intentions From The Onset Was To Get The Sex And Go, He Is Thinking "Do I Stay To Love And Keep This Lady Or Just Go? Afterall, I've Gotten What I Want. While The Guy Who Truly Loves The Lady Is Thinking "Okay... Now That Sex Is Involved Its A Proof That I Finally Have Her To Myself. So I Think I Should Slow Down And Get Back To NORMAL MODE." And What Is The "Normal Mode?" Its A Mode Where All The Consistently Trying To Please The Lady By Calling Her 10times A Day, Texting Everytime He Gets The Opportunity And All Other Overly Exaggerated Show Of Love Is Brought To What He Thinks It Should Be. Maybe If He Was Calling 3times A Day Before, He Now Reduces It To Just Once A Day, Or As He Pleases.

Now What Would Make The Two Kind Of Guys Analysed Above Stay Or Go Depends On The Ladies Involved. And That I Would Talk About In The Latter Part Of This Article. Which Is Where Most Ladies Get It Wrong After Sex, And Then End Up Thinking Sex Was What The Guy Wanted All Along.

WHAT HAPPENS TO THE LADY AFTER SEX?

Like I Stated Earlier, Ladies Are Territorial And Sexually Reserved In Nature, So The Moment They Give In To Sex With A Guy They Are In A Relationship With, They Expect Things To Step Up Just Immediately. They Start Wanting The Guy To Take Full Responsibility For Whatever Happens In The Relationship, And Start Reading Meaning To Everything The Guy Does That Isn't Pleasing To Them.

WHAT MAKES THE GUYS WANT TO RUN AWAY

The Point Is That After Sex Is Involved, The Wall Of Pretence Is Broken Down And The Real Characteristics Of Both Party Now Begins To Emerge. Now Most Ladies Start Becoming Insecured, Clingy, Needy, Desperate, Inquisitive, Anxious, Judgmental, Dictating, Authoritative, Naggy And More. Now Most Ladies Start Exhibiting One Or Two And Even More Of These Characteristics, And That Sort Of Starts Giving The Guy Involved A Wrong Vibe About Her.

After Sex Is Involved, Most Guys Wants To Slow Things Down, And Then Get The Lady To See Things For What They Really Are, Then Adjust For Both Party To Start Building And Gathering Momentum For The Next Phase Of The Relationship.

Another Problem That Sends Most Guys Running Away Most Times After Sex Is Involved, Is When Sex Is Involved Too Early. So When A Lady Starts Displaying Any Of The Characteristics Mentioned Earlier, The Guy Quickly Reaches For The Exit Door Without Thinking Twice. Because There Was No Strong Bond And Commitment Before The Sex.

But If There Was A Strong Bond And Commitment, Even When The Lady Starts Displaying Those Characteristics, He Certainly Would Be Able To Understand And Get The Lady To Understand Him Too, And Everything Works Out Fine Eventually.

Besides, I See A Whole Lot Of Teenage Relationships Lately... So The Statistics Of The Guys They Are Involved With Running Away After Sex Is Very High. Because Most Of These Teenagers Are Yet To Master And Put Their Emotions In Check.

Therefore, A Guys Commitment To A Lady After Sex, Often Lies In The Ability Of The Lady To Handle Her Obsessive Behaviours After Sex Is Involved.

WHAT SHOULD BE DONE TO KEEP THE GUYS FROM RUNNING AWAY

After Sex Is Involved, It Is Expected Of You As A Lady To Be Non-Critical, Radiate Feminine Energy That Is Being Laid Back, Comforting, Alluring, Confidence, Joy, Happiness, Self-Control.

As A Lady After Sex Is Involved, You Need To Calm Down And Be Incharge Of Your Emotions. Don't Expect The Guy To Be All Over You Inlove, Or Expecting Him To Act The Way He Did When He Was Still Chasing After You. Show Him Love, Don't Leave Every Relationship Responsibilities To Him Alone To Shoulder Because He Has Started Having Sex With You... Don't Set Your Expectation Too High.

NOTE: I Very Much Understand That There Are Guys Who Just Want Sex, And When They Get It, They Are Gone. But What I'm Basically Addressing Is Why Guys Who Truly Would Have Been Committed To A Relationship After Sex Run Away Rather Than Stay And Take It To The Next Level.

Besides I've Seen Guys Who Intend To Just Have Sex And Go, Who End Up Staying After Sex Is Involved, And Are Today Happily Married To The Same Ladies They Wanted To Play Games With. It All Boils To How Well The Ladies Involved Took Charge Of Their Emotions, And How Well They Were Able To Adapt And Take Care Of Their Responsibilities.

Remember, That You Gave Into Sex With Him Doesn't Yet Make Him Your Husband, So Don't Start Challenging Him On Certain Things Like A Wife Will! Else You'll Be A Victim Of A Runaway Boyfriend After Sex Is Involved.

twerkjack:
U MUST BE HIGH ON CASAVA WATER. FAT GIRLS INTIMIDATE WHO? WHERE? HOW? HAHA. U SHOULD BE ASHAMED OF UR SENSELESS SELF OR MAYBE JUST READ THIS SILLY POST ALOUD AND LISTEN TO YASELF. DO U KNOW WHERE U ARE ND D YEAR UR LIVING IN? OZUMBO
BTW POST A PICTURE OF URSELF IM SURE WE'L ALL HV SOMETHIN TO LAUGH AT THEN

I don't have time for people like you.

rubey:


Must you boys look? Perverts!!

Please don't take it personal

Hahahaha was just strolling with my friends this morning when we saw this very skinny girl wearing BUMshorts, if u see the girl legs eh e be like wire wey warri boys dey take tap light from d next street, hahahah and my friends started laffin so loud the girl knew they were laffin at her but she dare not look back, she quietly kept moving cus if she turn back she bleep up cus datt one go only worsen the matter.

Girls sha. Because Matilda wore it and it made sense on her
doesn't mean u Funmi will wear it and it will also fit u. Grace wore it & she gat guys tripping and u Victoria think u can also achieve same, they will only end up laffin at you and u will be
embarrassed.

Bumshorts, leggings, jeggings and tube gowns are wears strictly meant for the ENDOWED. If you are very skinny and you try wearing any of those you will only end up looking like people used for HIV/AIDS advert in Somalia. There are so many other clothes you could rock and still look
gorgeous and adorable. Don't allow all this orobo people
intimidate you.

justi4jesu:





From experience right

Not really.

Another man stealing a man's woman sometimes have
nothing to do with the man but everything to do with the
woman.

ceo4eva:

Lol....complete ur statement nah

Complete ke? You no like me be that o..... Anyway, I comment my reserve

If there's one thing I hate in girls, that definitely will be "NOT
SMELLING GOOD", popularly called body odour! I can't just stand it. What really does it take to smell good? Absolutely nothing.

Was in a bus some hours ago, I sat close to one very fine girl. I mean fine girl. The type olamide will say "she carry front she carry back she too package" but the kind of odour that was oozing from this young woman's body was enough to drive away mosquitoes in ajegunle for 5weeks, I really don't knw how to describe the way she was smelling cause she was smelling like palmoil, robb, aboniki, cassava water and mess put together! Ahhhh the most annoying part was the mumu girl was still pinging with her blackberry bold5, chewing gum and feeling important.

Smh and na fine girls get body and mouth odour pass, instead
make una dey baff well at least twice a day na war. Na only to dey paint face una sabi. Some go still wear 1 pant 2days, tel me why una nah go get body odour?

U go dey fast for mountain dey find husband not knowing say na your natural perfume dey spoil show for u. Nawa o, perfume don cheap sef, some perf sells for 200naira buy and use, evn if na mallam perf all na perf, d buttom line is it will help u smell good to some extent.


I'm just saying all dis cus I like to suck "*****" die # shy heheheh and me nuh go like suck "*****" wey don carry virus lmao. Make una change abeg

@Olenyi and others, which paint can I use for my already rusted 60 cm dish?

weitin?

That woman mouth go good for......................

I don't know how to say this but I will try my possible best to
make It crystal clear. This issue has given me serious concern for a while now and I just have to spill it so that the 'Guilty as
charged' can make some changes and lives of some innocent
guys can be saved.

Ehmmmm its about the way some girls sit and open their legs
anyhow. Asin some girls don't know how to sit at all.
If you see the way some sit eh, fear fear, they will open their leg as if they are in a bid to receive fresh air into their vagina! Some will not even wear pant or any undies and still they won't sit properly. Some that even manage to wear pants sef, if you see the middle of the pant smh e don turn from white to it was white.

Nawa oooo smh4una

I know why I'm discussing this issue, its not because these girls open their legs,NO! But because the thing has destroyed so many destinies of young men out there, relationships and marriages. Which man in his right senses will have a free view of a woman's underground world and not lust after her? After dem go shout "I was raped", Body nobi firewood na, And the funny thing is some girls do it intentionally to confuse innocent men. They are everywhere school o, church, mosque, offices, hospitals, factories, banks (na dia even worse pass) especially those marketers girls those girls are agent of darkness! Chai men are really helpless.


If you know you a girl and deep down in your heart you know you don't sit properly, deliberately or not, I take God beg u, pls
discipline yourself, when you are in public try and sit with your
legs tightly CLOSED to avoid stories that touch.

If nobody talk me I go talk! I'm making this update particularly to the girls, why would you have to keep a guy on hold upto 3months before u finally accept to date him? Eh? Is it fair?

How will a guy have to wait that long? Ok a guy asked u out and from all indications u like the guy too but u refused to say ''YES'' why? Some girls say they don't wanna feel CHEAP by giving him a YES answer so swiftly,,, some say they wanna take their time to study the guy, we be mathematics? Lemme just tell u, a guy that will break ur heart will definitely do it if you like go to the mountain and fast for 40day and 40nites what will be will be .. Some guys are very patient! Just like me even if am to wait for 6months i will, bt i must get what i want under ur skirt in 1week and pheew off i go!


So u see dear girls its nt how long but how well, all u need do is pray for the right guy instead of forming Hard to get! It wont help.

Please on behalf of the guys kindly look into this matter.. We look forward to seeing positive changes.

# DropsPen