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Fulani, a very backward set of people whom you should never allow near the management of any shop talkless of a startup .

The only thing they know is inset this figure, increase that amount ...
Backward reverse thinking set of individuals

See the leaders the dirty poor youth are fighting themselves, killing themselves and dying over...

Very stupid dirty things cled Nigerian youth... These men don't send you from your lip to your phone screen .....

Muguz

Hahahahahahaha

Don't waste your time, better go and register on LinkedIn

Job from Nairaland indeed..

Pauldollars:
If you were making ordinary doughnuts, buns and others to sell or had a small business of your own like a photocopy business centre, phone repairs or other kinds of business, you wouldn't be making this complaints about any boss that didn't pay you salary.

Try and establish something and leave all these small small private schools and firms that pay chicken change you can make in a day from your own business.

Don't stop there na, tell him if he were a gate man or roasting small corn on the road side he won't be having these complaints.

Mugu

Una go just carry used laptops dey calls stupid price... Your papa fit pay 400k for this rubbish ?

Second hand laptop na him you dey price like this ?

Come on Carey this rubbish out of here

Max is 200k

begoniaa:
You said, "men are men, women are women." How does what you've written above explain that line?

So, even according to your explanation, a single mother usually get the kids because the law can prove beyond doubt, in most cases that she is capable, and yet you came up with this thread to disparage them?

Single mothers are shamed and blamed for raising irresponsible kids in the society, because of a solo feminine factor in their lives, yet you kick against men (a 'balancing' masculine factor) approaching them? If all men should avoid single moms, how would their kids have both the equal love of a mother and father figure? Because, realistically, some women and their baby daddies can never get along.

They will not kill themselves for you. You cannot heap insults on their heads for solo-parenting and at the same try to put a condition on their dating lives or tell men to avoid them so they wouldn't "share" in their troubles.

So all children of a single father ultimately end up with HIS FEMALE RELATIVES, yeah? And does that not seem irresponsible to you? Because that's what Latty is asking. Y'all always have a piece of advice or some caging notion for single mothers to fit into ... yet you say kids need both parents' hands on deck to thrive. So a man that dumps his kid for his mum or sister, depriving him of a male bond is what??

For every single mother, there is a single father pit there, but why you don't see them is because they kids are almost certainly with the mother. So whom of those two should get praised for putting in more work? You are blaming her for deciding to be a primary care giver for a child she and the man make, but the man simply gets a slap on the wrist because he is not saddled and therefore problem free abi?

How about single fathers who are actually raising their kids alone? Should women avoid them too? Does your theories apply to them too? Because whatever will make a baby daddy to be coming in-between a woman and her new lover, will make a baby mama to be coming in-between a man and his new lover...

So, why do you not speak to single fathers? If there is no cordial relationship between a guy and his baby mama, then you don't think a self-respecting should allow her go on living her romantic and full life alone, and ONLY simply focusing on caring for his kids??

I mean, I mean, if co-parenting will always tie a baby mama to her baby daddy, it is EQUALLY true on the man's side. If I dated a single father, the mother of his kids will always be there. So either you advocate for:

- Sngle parents remaining single for life
- Single parents getting back together
- Single parents dating other single parents, or
- Single parents being free to date whomever they want as long as they are compatible...

Take the spotlight away solely from single moms and stop making dictating posts on how they should live their own lives for themselves.

You clearly didn't understand my comment but it's okay

Latty88:
This is not concrete enough. Please shed more light on it

Most women involved in a separation will always end up with the kids because 99.9% of them will insist this and the law generally awards custody to the woman world wide except in rare cases where it is proved she is incapable of mothering the kids either by virtue of an illness or physical or mental handicap.

The father ends up with the kids in most cases by default through the death of a spouse mostly. The man may give the kids to his parents , remarry or allow them live with relatives whom are married and have their own kids.

You hadly see single fathers anywhere.

Latty88:
What about single fathers? Nothing is usually said about them just single mothers.

Men are men , women are women

Jazzman01:
They ain't cool except maybe those that lost their partner due to death. Apart from that, about 80% of the rest are hot-headed and uncontrollable, reason why thier previous partner(s) couldn't cope.

I agree with this totally

Alexreports and rubbish Pageants

begoniaa:
Shey this is where your high-paying clients are?

Jobless e-goat.

Dirty pig

Sammy101111:
Dating a single mother is a dangerous game .
They are very clever

It's not something any normal man should do, except he is an old widower, he is a divorcee or a terminally ill

Bahamas95:
Honestly I don't have problem with single mums as long as she possess the qualities I need in a woman. The problem I have with OP's post is the age factor. He was rubbishing younger women and hyping the "legendary retirees". Why would he advice men to settle down with them because they are his spec, that's nonsense!....We all got right to make our choice.

In terms of reasoning I place all women on same level, they have a similar way of reasoning......At times even a 16yr old boy would reason better than a 30yr old woman.

I would rather go for a younger woman that has sense than settle down with someone that has toured the whole world. A leopard never changes it's spots, she will still show you shege when the opportunity arise.

You are very stupid

LeoDeKing:
He is one of the ipob tools codenamed unknown gunmen.

The illiterate thought it is Monday already, which is a day set aside by ipob pigs for unleashing mayhem on anyone they have disagreement with.

As it stands now, ipob pigs are waiting for circular from Finland as regards Monday and Tuesday sit at home.

The animal should be castrated and sacrificed to the goddess criminality.

This one is sounding like an ozwor...
Bros we all hate and condemn ipob but you are starting to sound deranged and abnormal. I hope you don't talk to yourself o

This one is sound like someone loosing it

donleo92:
but I think some of them are cool. just that they have this dominary attitude that get me scared

Gentlemen, read this NONSENSE. This is an example of a low output man. The settlers , they have no ambitions or standards. This sort will cheat on their wife with the maid, the maids sister the orange seller and end up never achieving much in life

But if you know you are

Impotent so can't get a woman pregnant
A failure in life
Desperate for a woman to feed you and lead you in life
A weak man suffering from very low self-esteem

If you call into any of the above categories then please feel free to marry a single mum

[quote author=harmargedon post=114195897][/quote]Animal

Dating a single mum is like setting out on a journey of confusion.

Remember whatever she tells you, irrespective of how much she claims the father is out of her life that child is an external bond between them. only a foolish man will deceive himself. I have met single mums of 2 or 3 kids and they all claim to want love and the father of he children is a scum bag and out of her life forever ? Really ? Are you joking ? Use tuface for an example. He is married to another woman but still sleeps with his children's mothers .


Her heart is killed already for those kids , you are always going to be second in her life.. her kids will always come before you . Always don't deceive yourself

You have to be the biggest idiot on earth to spend invest or handle the expenses of another man's kids.. that is worse that throwing your money into the lagoon. You are just building another man's legacy. He is and will always be their biological father. Don't let Hollywood and Nollywood decieve you. One day they will wake up and decide they want to build a better relationship with their real father . If you like have spent all your money sending them to the best private universities in Nigeria or to school abroad. They day they see that their papa wey be vulcanizer who hasn't spent on kobo on them, the way they will cry and hug him na that day you will realize you just helped another man bulld his legacy .

The day you try to discipline them that's the day she will remind you they are not your children and it true. If you flog them and she doesn't like it she will tell you "Please don't beat my children for me again"

harmargedon:
you know you're still a loose child, running around with your dippers still stuck to your ass. I am the grand ripper, my hooks are still fresh. Watch your mouth boy, you ain't gonna look cute without them.

Are you mad? Are you on drugs ? Dirty smelling thing.

Better move along you junkie...

Useless animal

I just want to remind those beta male / semi woman men out there that the worst decision you can make is to marry or date a single mum!!!

DO NOT EVER DO IT!!!

Yes you can sleep with them but do not date or marry.
To do that is the same as deciding you want to become a drug addict when the world is full of numerous , I mean millions of articles , videos , audios and sermons warning men not to do this...

Just go on any media site and type " why you should not date a single mum" you would se ehundeeds of examples like below


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ygzYK2eMOYE


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=meZRWrDxH50


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DvI5OG-s-6o


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I3ZmAJ2HN7c


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RwXXRmkRWZU

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kq6tIOrtR20

I mean even women are there warning you not to date single mums, and some stupid ignorant naive goats will come online and type rubbish telling you how dating a single mum is good.

Such people are there to destroy you. Run from them. Even pastors the likes of Adeboye , Oyedepo etc have warned men not to marry single women. And you would wake up to think you know more than 90% of the whole world ?

harmargedon:
your pastor told you that, he's really nothing to write home about, but wait!!! You'll marry a white woman or a rich lady that is a single mom right. Your really the king of the shit hole, so are your pastors and death coaches.

You are stupid and useless to think a single mum is an option to marry at all. Even abroad men are adviced not to marry them

Only a fool a useless low self-esteem having failure of a man married a single mum

What an idiot you are

Bahamas95:
OP abeg shift!

My girlfriend is not even close to that age you mentioned yet she acts like a matured woman. Age is not maturity...... Because it didn't work for you doesn't mean it won't work for others.

Those "evening newspapers" most times don't truly love you, they settle down with you outa desperation and not love.

Perfect answer. And the idiot said we should marry single mums!! Imagine this bastard. When even pastors , life coaches , relationship experest warn all men never to settle down with a single mum this animal who is a probably an iliterate is here typing rubbish

Badboibipo:
This thread is not for you gen z people abeg go and dance mofejoko on TikTok my boy.

U are a big fool honestly

Badboibipo:
If you’re in your 30s as a man please avoid anyone below the age I just described. They are still in their “I am the wicked, I am the nicki Minaj bad bitch” phase in life. They have zero brain most times and they only want to wear big polo and dance “mofejoko” on TikTok while collecting daily, weekly salary from you for giving you the privilege of dating the “queeen nicki Barbie”.

If you are bored of just empty sexxxx and want anything genuine and real, search for older women [b]if they even have a kid out of wedlock even better. Those ones are very mature, understanding and down to earth most times. [/b]They have finished their “nicki Minaj bad bitch Barbie” phase and are genuinely humbled with their age and are ready if they see you’re hardworking and serious.

Those young ones are just starting life and have no real experience yet, they are extremely dramatic and attention seeking while having the mentality that the world revolves around their arse and boobs and they feel entitled to every mans attention and adoration.

If you’re young as a woman don’t even bother to like me please , because I will not only see you as a toddler I will even buy you cracker biscuits and Fanta to make you go play in the rain as the baby that you are.

Mature women don’t hide their feelings or play too much games, they go straight to the point.

I stopped reading when I got to the bolded because I now know you are a big fool.

No sane normal employed or financially disciplined man will marry or date a single mom.. you can fūck them yes but that where it should end...

Only a useless impotent stupid fool who needs a woman to feed or lead him married a single mum

Idiot like you

Seyiemath:
You never see anything

Seems this is one of the criminal tormenting that state

Nice... I like this man . Anambra peeps are lucky.

Magnoliaa:
You obviously aren't a Yoruba, I see. If you were, you would have known it was an exclamation.

Haven't I told you times without number, KingOfTheDamned, to always be a diligent student? How many times will I tell you? When you can't even get the most basic things about me nor know the right things to call the mods for, how can you run me off this forum?

Anyway, a few reminders you should hear:

- You will go mad with frustration as I won't reply your mails; not in this life or another.
- You hair will turn grey before you can troll me into deactivating.
- I will relish reporting your accounts, over and over again, the legion of them.

Hold this one for now...

Are you sick? What is wrong with this malignant depressed suicidal ugly shapeless orangutan?
Why are you mentioning me in that stupid exchange?

Listen you inbred cretin next time before you mention my name be sure of whatever nonsense you are typing.

Stupid idiot

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Straight boy get something doing with yaself..you are still young and it's never too late to make ya m*mma proud aiit..

Shhhh be silent

FERNANDEZISBACK:
0900000Yeah you won't..now keep mute and get something doing with your life..
You are becoming mindless by the day..ever since you made that threat you went cold..do you even have a life outside nairaland?

Your mate are busy doing better things with their life..don't waste yours trolling people on a faceless forum..

Gay man , you type so many words . Be calm

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Pls keep mute tho..you sound like a kid..if you ain't gonna help then shut it..you have nothing sensible to say why not just keep shut..

This is how you bully others then come back to threaten them...he sought for help here hoping to get people's opinion..if you ain't contributing then go back to your stalking..what a rude boy you are..

This gay man... Will you not shut up ? I know u are angry I won't ejaculate in your anus, but sorry I don't swing that way

Astro999:
Please can 20million naira enter an upgraded uba account in one payment?

What kind of ?... Bros are you okay ? Don't you have an account officer ? Don't you know you bank customer care number?