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Celebrities / Re: Cobhams Asuquo Ties The Knot by kingvictor(m): 4:16pm On Dec 06, 2010
congrats,i am happy for him
Celebrities / Re: Winners Of 2010 Nigerian Music Video Awards by kingvictor(m): 4:14pm On Dec 06, 2010
congrats to all the winner
Celebrities / Re: Omoni Oboli Vs Omotola Jalade Who Is Hotter by kingvictor(m): 4:14pm On Dec 06, 2010
omoni oboli is my pick any day

omoni is natural beautiful
Romance / Re: My Boss Hates Me For Dating Her Niece. by kingvictor(m): 4:05pm On Dec 06, 2010
sit her down and talk to her to know why she is against the relationship
Nairaland / General / Re: Celebrating Olubusayo Awomolo ( Bawomolo) by kingvictor(m): 3:59pm On Dec 06, 2010
a very intelligent young man had gone


may his soul rest in peace
Romance / Re: Can I Marry My Auty's Husband Niece by kingvictor(m): 4:55pm On Nov 20, 2010
Sports / Re: I Need 3 Years To Rebuild Eagles -siasia by kingvictor(m): 3:00pm On Nov 20, 2010
3 years that sound like 3 months to me


let the n.f.f gives him 7 years
Sports / Re: Finidi George Joins Real Betis Technical Crew by kingvictor(m): 2:54pm On Nov 20, 2010
make una let jay jay enjoy himself
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Chelsea Name Michael Emenalo As Wilkins' Successor As Assistant Coach by kingvictor(m): 2:47pm On Nov 20, 2010
it is good news


it will not have happened if it was machester united
Romance / Re: What Strengthens A Long Distance Relationship by kingvictor(m): 3:05pm On Nov 15, 2010
Donmeca:

The bold statements are true. As soon as d need is filled, u may have no passion in the r/ship anymore. . .be it one meter or one million km r/ship

All d people dat said TRUST failed to include BLIND. BLIND TRUST is more apt but u can trust a cheat just because he/she lies perfectly, telling u what u always want to hear. That doesn't in any way help d r/ship cos u're living your life for your partner while he/she is living for another person. . .in a nutshell, u're a very big MUGU. But u trusted and communicated with him/her. What a pity!

To me, a relationship needs principle on both sides. . .d ability to stand firm in the midst of temptations. The ability to manage your spiritual konji very well cos as soon as u give another man/woman a chance in your life, your faraway partner or your r/ship surfers big time. if u have a good r/ship with your principles and conscience, u'll hardly err. To that i will add communications. . .always reaffirm how dearly u love the person.




you said what i am thinking
Romance / Secrets To Great Relationship by kingvictor(m): 3:00pm On Nov 15, 2010
Have you ever seen a couple that's been together a long time, but still looks hopelessly in love? Do you wish you could ensure your own relationship lasts that long and remains loving?



If you want to be in your golden years and still hold hands, cuddle and get along, there are some things you need to know. The 5 secrets of great relationships can be put to work in your life and they can help you become happier, healthier and stronger as a couple.

So, how do some couples manage to stand the test of time and still smile, flirt and generate a feeling of love the whole world can notice? Here are some of the best-kept secrets of couples who really have it together:
* Communication - Solid, two-way communication is perhaps the most important of the 5 secrets of great relationships. If you're not comfortable enough in your relationship to approach topics with openness, you have a problem.
Both parties in a relationship need to feel comfortable saying what's on their minds without fear. Disagreements are perfectly okay here, but sound communication skills to work through them with a positive outcome are vital.
* Honesty - This is essential for good communication and it's even more important in a good relationship. Being honest about feelings, wants, needs and desires is simply a must for longevity without regret or resentment. Both parties should feel comfortable saying what's in their hearts.
* Common interests - Making room for common interests and some couple time is an important part of fostering love that lasts and longevity of a relationship. This is among the most important of the 5 secrets of a great relationship because time together helps forge bonds that last.
Busy couples can still make some time by carving out "date nights," taking up hobbies together or just taking out time at the end of a day to talk, cuddle or watch the sun set. It doesn't matter what is done as long as it's together as a couple without distractions.
* Self-development - As important as couple time happens to be, so is development of self-interests. Strong couples tend to have strong partners. This means the individuals in a relationship have taken the time apart to develop into the people they truly want to be.
Couples that have loving, trusting and solid relationships don't have to be together every second of the day to remain connected. Foster self-fulfillment and each half of the team can blossom. The end result is a stronger couple if self-development is carefully balanced with time together.
* The bed time rule - There really is something to that old saying about never going to bed angry. Couples that understand the 5 secrets of great relationships know how important it is to get disagreements out in the open and resolved as quickly as possible.
While fighting is never an enjoyable moment, "fair fighting" can help relationships grow and couples grow stronger. To fight fair, stick to the topic, keep anger in check, state feelings clearly and listen to your partner's input. Work together to resolve the issue.
As you work on incorporating the 5 secrets of great relationships into your life, remember that all couples have their ups and downs. Sometimes things go swimmingly, but there are other stretches when you really have to work hard at being good together.

If you want to be one of those "old couples" who still holds hands and enjoys gazing into each other's eyes, every bit of effort will be worth it. The 5 secrets of great relationships can help you along the way.



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Romance / Re: What Strengthens A Long Distance Relationship by kingvictor(m): 2:56pm On Nov 15, 2010
it doesnot work,whether communciation,trust sex or whatever it does not work
Celebrities / Re: I Never Planned To Be Polygamous - Tuface Idibia by kingvictor(m): 4:44pm On Oct 29, 2010
that my man
Romance / Re: Which Will U Be by kingvictor(m): 10:24am On Oct 26, 2010
Omolola1:

Patriotic Nigerian cool

thanks you dear
Romance / Re: Where In Nigeria Do We Have Faithful Lady Or Wife To Be by kingvictor(m): 11:04am On Oct 15, 2010
lepa001:

Go to Ilaje (Water side)

are u saying ladies for llaje are that faithful?
Romance / Re: Please Help Me by kingvictor(m): 10:59am On Oct 15, 2010
bad boy
Romance / Re: The Dilemma Of Nigerians by kingvictor(m): 10:47am On Oct 15, 2010
Clayton:


Something I see in the USA all the time among Nigerians. Would you marry her to get Green card and papers so that you can survive in the USA? undecided

i will love to marry the first one ,not for the card cos i love them big man
Romance / Re: Which Will U Be by kingvictor(m): 10:35am On Oct 15, 2010
i d like to be a nigerian again
Romance / Re: Is It A Sin? by kingvictor(m): 10:34am On Oct 15, 2010
la_bush:

So long as she is legally/religiously/traditionally(depending on which of these institutions gave approval to d marriage in d first instance)divorced in d proper sense of it.Personally however, i will advice him to find out what actually broke his intended's former marriage and take other issues into perspective such as his would be step children.

good advice man
Romance / Re: Guys, Would You Carry A Babe That Isn't Your Girlfriend On Your Lap? by kingvictor(m): 10:26am On Oct 15, 2010
he is banging her dear
Romance / Re: Should I leave her? by kingvictor(m): 10:14am On Oct 15, 2010
if she loves u she will call u no matter what,ever if she had no money she can borrow to call u if she want to hear you voice and know how you are faring,in this case this girl is fooling you man
Romance / Re: Do You Supprort Pregancy Before Marrige? by kingvictor(m): 10:03am On Oct 15, 2010
it is wrong,if you love her ,u willnot ask her to get pregnant first

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