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solobrain:
so how are we going to get the info.

dont worry i will drop stuff but you all can also drop questions too

Chatting with girls solely depends on you, if you dont know the right thing to say that beautiful girl will ignore you because many guys are saying same thing.

your first message must catch her eyes and most probably puzzle her or make her laugh, she would be prompted to reply and when she does you will have to capitalize on it and keep the flow.


some people are usually head blank when it comes to chatting, your best bet is her profile, check her profile picture, profile history, her latest posts, you will find some thing.

i will drop something tomorrow but there are some info i cannot drop here for the females to see else they could take it and power up

solobrain:
am thinking about the part u faked a call to your friend and told him you have seen charlie's angels(which is a movie), but its obvious they must have watched the movie to understand what you meant, how about if they have not watched what do you think they would have done when you mentioned it, just my thought tho.

apart from the fact that charlie's angels is a popular movie, the word angel is a compliment.

but using angels alone would be a cliche

ShiningStar001:
Good pm sir

She later came around as u said.

She told me sth wic am confused abt now.. She said her heart is strong now due to her past heartbreaks..
She even said fuc.k love.… lol

Wat do u think I can do sir?

read her message and ignore

or reply "ok"

or reply "*yawns*"


Anything that shows you dont care

what is the point of this story?


when you become good, these stuff will happen with so much easy and you would feel so comfortable and enjoy yourself.


i have gone past the league of toasting or wooing girls, my superior qualities do the talking and they draw closer

then i said "bro you wont believe what i just saw today"

"i just met charlie's angels... yes and i am standing right in front of them" they suddenly laughed out loud and i continued

"they are laughing, yes bro... three brown skin and one light skin" they were smiling at me

"which one do you want? i will collect her number for you" they looked at themselves in amazement and laughed

"the light skin? no that one is taken, i already took her choose another one" they laughed again one said "this guy is crazy" but i continued

"i said no bro, take another one or should i pick for you? okay i will give you the one in the middle she is browner than the others" they enjoyed what i played out and i collected the number of the browner one and the light skin, i chatted with all of them, got their names and asked them to smile for a picture and they did

i haven't called them till date, thinking about it now i might call the light skin tomorrow

let me share this, just before the lock down i was walking down a street around ikeja and just in front of a closed store sat four drop dead beauties; it had been a while i wooed girls, i have attained a state where they bring theirselves to me but then i decided to try out my old play boy skills so i stopped in front of them with a puzzled look on my face as i stared at them, they stopped talking and looked at me wondering what was going on in my head; these girls had gorgeous eyes, too fine, one had brown eyes

i moved a little closer and pulled out my phone, they looked puzzled, i then faked a call to a friend and they were paying attention to what i was doing

i want to share with you how i met four drop dead gorgeous friends and left with the number of two out of four.

Ballary


the moment a girl starts telling you guys are chasing her but she chose you, she is tryin to dominate.


for her to enjoy your money she has to be worth it, she has to prove herself


when she tells you "you are stingy" reply her "unapologitically i am girl, when the situation demands me to, you haven't impressed me of recent to want to wire your azza".


she has to earn it

KAGMEN11:
Please can you explain this line further "in difficult situations or chaos you still remain calm"...Even when you are challenged or beaten?
Also how do you learn the act of when to keep calm and when to talk at the proper time? @kingzaddy

do A google search on serenity.


meditation can help you alot

Ballary


You Said The Boys In The Hood Got Eyes For her, thats The Thing About Attention, too Much Of It Will Make Them Start Misbehaving. When Everyone Wants A Woman And They Keep Showing It, you Just Have To Pull Back from That Woman and Let Her See That You Dont Have Time


Demanding For Money and She Is Not Your Girlfriend?

I Would Like To Ask, what Exactly Do You Want With This Girl? Are You Both In A Relationship?

Just think, you can talk about the shoe or a current situation that ladies love, or a celebrity.

"immediately i saw your nose i almost called you cardi b"


ladies love cardi b and anything that will associate them with her

USE OF WORDS

this is where many have problem, many guys dont know what to say talkless of intriuging her. dont use those pick up lines, dont use "hello sexy" "hello angel", you are already a worshipper and you have failed

be like the devil who never gives the impression that you want her, never be desperate. start a conversation with something random, maybe choose her skirt.

lets say she is wearing the popular fur skirt every girl in nigeria has (you should know that skirt), you walk up to her while she is pressing phone or something; this was my experience sometime ago

"oh god... not again" she raised her face to look at me, i looked her in the eyes then looked at the skirt
"this skirt again?" she then smiled then i continued

"every time i see this skirt i remember how my girlfriend almost killed me if i didnt buy all the colours of this skirt" she then laughed and said she has five different colours then i said

"i heard the pant version is now in aba" she laughed out loud... just think bro

NF

please learn to disappoint girls who are waiting for you to make it in life so they can come into your life.

let them know that she is an ordinary bottle of coke and you have seen different types of coca cola designs that blew your mind.

SERENITY BUT OUT SPOKEN

ability to remain calm and untroubled, this is one of my favourite traits, this quality will earn you respect. in difficult situations or chaos you are still calm, when people say hurtful things you remain calm, when snitches reveal your secret you remain calm, when friend say you are terrible with women you remain calm, when people body shame you, you remain calm, it is not easy to achieve though.


silence will kill people faster than you saying a word to them

WALKING STEP

the way you walk on the road will show your confidence; problem usually occurs when a guy is going passed a group of pretty girls sitting by the corner of a street, many guys will take another road not minding how long just to avoid those girls.


what you must know is that eyes wont kill you except you allow it. it may be difficult but you should actually look in their direction, look at their faces and you would be shocked to see that most of them are not even looking at you, its just your brain messing with you, and even if they are, a good eye gaze will make them look away, or you can wink at them or raise a brow, that action will leave mark in their mind, a mark that will remember you and welcome you if you approach any tomorrow.

avoid lowering your face or touching your nose while walking, heads Up Boys! Heads Up!

SMILE AND EYE CONTACT

i remember a female friend of mine who was crazy about my smile.

smilin is like sun shine, it depicts happiness and makes you approachable; eye contact is a killer, you can also determine an original smile with the eyes.

when cute people smile geniunely the eyes smile too. dont stand there staring at her with widened eyes, even if your lips ain't smiling let your eyes smile, it would help her feel warm and comfortable.

when talking to a girl dont be so serious like its an examination, its not a do or die thing.


when staring at a girl you are talking to, try shrinking your eyes a little if you have large eyes, dont make it too obvious so, it should look natural and then know when to smile


a cute smile with a powerful eye melts even the finest girls.


your mirror is your training ground bro, you dont have a mirror? better go buy a big one

i personally believe that nigerians are about to see the worst of the country's economy

if this be true then this is the major reason why nigeria is safe.

ncdc's activities are very questionable

Npower:
I will share my testimony soon, hopefully.

we all would love to listen

Children Ages 9-0 love Attention so much but the moment they start Crossing that Age, they start wanting to be seen as grown ups and do not want you to be controlling, but that Stage, how you handle and train them is very Important because It Is The Stage where they get to see the world for what it is and Curiousity sets in and can affect their world positively or negatively, you will have to manage their world until they are 18, the way you manage their life will determine if you as a father will become their mentor (who they run to for advice) or not.

for women, they love attention to just as much as 0-9 years but the difference is that, children can never get enough, the more you give the more they love you but for women its the complete opposite

Ballary:
Lol,I need a more detailed explanation from King zaddy �

also i do not want you to get the impression that you shouldnt give a woman attention, attention means a lot to her.

give her too much of it and you lose attraction, give her too less of it and you fade away. just dont allow her manage the attention you give her, be the manager of the attention you give.

every thing that makes a man is cemented around "being in charge" but dont be controlling of her life because that will give off the wrong message (insecurity, jealousy).

with that strong manliness make sure she sees you as a man with a direction, somebody that knows what he is doing. because if you without a focus for your personal life, you will lose intelligent women after a while with you. the point is make your personal life a bigger priority

Ballary

i wouldnt really call it that (treat them like trash), the attention is the problem here. women will want all the attention in the world, give it to them and watch her walk away.

it is the emotional part of a woman that makes her conclude that she is being treated like trash when she isn't. she can put up a drama is trying to correct it but you just have to sit and get entertained instead of taking a roll in her script.


this can make a woman cry because she would only start seeing you as a man who careless about her; the way to achieve this is by giving a woman attention in measurements, its like giving food, if you give too much she would be overfed and waste the overflow but if she is underfed she would want more, it is that your ability to underfed her and chose when to or when not to give her the next meal that makes her stick to you. the day you start giving her a satisfying portion then you have began to build your fall.

Keketu:
he try to collect my wife

this is shamefully funny

bamtos14:
Bros, pls help me on how to woo or talk to ladies i meet randomly. like a girl meet on the street, work, bank etc

confidence! I Have Seen Less Attractive Guys Get Pretty Girls Number. Just Be Confident And Different, many Guys Use Random Techniques.


My smile Is Usually Very Attractive and Many Testified To Meltin for It. I Just Know How To Apply It, i Practised With My Mirror.


Confidence Bro!

bamtos14:
Bros, pls help me on how to woo or talk to ladies i meet randomly. like a girl meet on the street, work, bank etc

it depends on what she is doing at the moment...


bank: you walk up to the cute gtbank staff and you hand over the teller and while she is working "at least now i can tell my angry friends why there is always a slow customer service in this branch; there is a cute girl behind the counter" i used this some time ago


on the street: you see that cute girl standing by the corner, looking or pressing phone, i used this too on a gorgeous girl pressing her phone "excuse me, i am looking for a particular street" she then asked "whats the name of the street?" then i said "its nameless, they said there is usually a pretty girl in red pressing her phone mercilessly in front of a closed shop" she suddenly smiled brightly, she didnt expect it "i would like to know this street by her name"...


just think of some thing interestin

beauty must come with something else

.the truth is most of us were there. rememberin the days of love letters

i will be addressing one of the female powers (manipulation) but first i will need to tell you about something known as the sisterhood, some thing the bible knows little or nothing about

been busy but will get back to you soon

NwaforIgbo:
Yeah she did. I just screenshoted it.
That's what I've been doing sir, she has been trying to get me into a conversation, but I usually keep it brief.
Like this one ��

in this screenshot it you didnt execute it perfectly, you should have stopped after saying "ok thanks" every other message should be left unread for some days before you finally read and ignore

but all the same, you will get way better just learn to control your emotions and understand the female's part