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PHOTSEE:
Take no 4 for example CONDITIONING ,means making one behave a certain way without being conscious of what their doing. it becomes a reflex action. eg
Bee jay (bj )
Name calling: ZADDY QUEEN.
The name zaddy' queen is what you called her while looking or grazing her eyes with passion. she only be used when and if only she gives you bj. repeat these over and over again,til it stalk to her brain. zaddy's queen ,oh yah zaddy's queen!!!
NOTE: don't use that name zaddy's queen except she is giving you head or you want her to give you head.
let that name zaddy queen be associated to give of bj. so when you mention zaddy's queen she think of give you bj.

OKAY agree to disagree

PHOTSEE:
Kingzaddy that was a power technique, you did there:
1) suckin dick makes her bitch but you make her your bj queen.
2) looks normal to both of without degradin her
3) makes you a sexy man to be with and carry out her fantasy
4) conditioning her to the act of bj in other be the queen
5) it is affirmation that she is one of the best and she has power over you by pleasing you and fun

i agree with only your number two and three

Rafoski

To your second question, in short term sexual relationship, money can do that since its short term and nothing serious.


friends with benefit? well, you will have to start by mixing friendship with sexual talks, act like a boyfriend and a friend, mix it up. the way you touch and hold her.

but you will need to build a close friendship with her and make her feel comfortable relaxin in your arms despite being friends, this is the point where you tease her with naughty and funny boyfriend lines, for example if a regular guy is talking to her you walk up to them and tease "so you are the guy that wants to steal my babe abi", keep her in the friendzone, when you walk on the road put your hand over her shoulder, hold her hand, snick up from behind and kiss her cheek.

Rafoski

i would like to know why you hate my moniker.



to your question on getting her to visit, well, some guys get cunning with askin a girl to come and help them cook one thing or the other, i know a couple of girls who know that cliche and wouldnt fall for it.

but here is something a woman cant resist and that is VALUE.

when building attraction with a woman establish value along side... girls ask me when will i take them to my house.

if you get her attracted she would request coming but if that doesnt happen then you can use a hang out line "you know, i have this tradition of having a light home feast every third friday with me, myself and i, i have refused to allow any lady join despite their requesting but luckily for you, i want you to join me this friday"

solobrain:
ok, how about if you were the guy and you told her to wait (which you would normally do) but then she got angry and left, what will you do?

i am quick to remind ladies not to be disrespectful around me or to me. my girl wouldnt try such, in this case if she walks out on me then she just stopped existing to me.


she would just find herself tryin hard all over again to stay relevant

I Wonder how you sat down replyin all these shitt.


your reply would have seriously been anticipated if you had ignored her for 24hours and by then you would have thought of a reasonable reply not this

Solobrain

if a girl is attracted to a guy her use of words will show it.

for her to say "lets go" and he followed quickly shows that she was the king in that relationship and such relationship wont last.


if he was in charge of the relationship she would wait for him to finish showing you what he was showing you

solobrain:
when you said "focus on being a solutionist" do you mean finding solutions or focus on solving the problem of others or ur own problems?

both...


you can start with solving yours or better still use the solution you created for others to solve yours.

Questions?

as a man the first thing you keep in mind is that you are not advancing your lifestyle because of women, you are not chasing success because of a woman.


many guys are lazy thinkers, for your life to be beyond the regular then you must start learning how to solve problems around you (online and offline)


if a woman comes into your life and meets all the excitement when she leaves she knows that she is the bigger loser.


let me make this simpler, if you key into the thinking force of being a solutionist you will never run out of how to make your life exciting everyday and every lady who comes in will find it hard to take a walk because you are everything beyond her expectation.

value is very important, i will continue to stress this as long as you want to become an alpha.


bad guys offer only sex, nothing more


like some of girls will always say "with king zaddy there is always something exciting and interesting"


i smile when guys say girls offer nothing but sex, what do you offer her? money? just money? so what then do you do about things that money cannot solve. how do you intend to solve her non money problems

more interestingly, she gives you sex, you give her money, is this a relationship or redefined prostitution? she gets money to buy hair, fix nails, shoe and clothes then the whole process repeats itself.


jeez! there is more to life than living a cycle bro.



you might ask me what else is there to do?

please keep value in front of your mind, being valueable is a crazy essence, talking from experience.

you can also put them in a tight spot whereby the kind of value you offer they cannot easily find somebody who can offer such value.


when one becomes very valueable people (guys and girls) will learn to talk like you, act like you, stand like you, dress like you, cling to you, listen to you and learn

solobrain:
lol and she understood what you were saying oo.

yea, thats why she laughed

darasiiimiii:
So how then does a man influence a woman

the stronger her attraction for you, the more influence you can have

khiaa chill


the point is not all of them are like that but a high percentage are.

its like what nigerian guys say about nigerian girls "nigerian girls are whores, nigerian girls have nothing to offer only sex, nigerian girls love money"


the question is are all nigerian girls like this?


the answer is no.


what a lady turns out to be is what men have carved in their heads.


same with black americans

Lol

looking for a virgin pretty african american woman is like looking for pin in a forest.

i have black american friends who wouldnt consider marrying their black women because all i am reading here is all they complain about.



you can get an african american woman to do a blowj0b on camera without dropping a sweat.


its a fvcked up community, that is why i said in my thread that what you teach a lady is what she swallows and is what sticks.



the problem is not the women, the problem is the men. they are living what they have been made to believe they are... BITCHES

GraGra247:
How mad are you? I can also list a 100 things he did wrong and a 100 things Buhari did better than him.

But since I'm not as idle as you I leave you to believe what you want.

do not argue with people when you got no points, you'd look stupid

You must have read or heard of the five love languages by gary chapman.

the five love languages: words of affirmation, acts of service, recieving gifts, quality time and physical touch.


leave the five love languages for marriage not dating and even in marriage you should never over do things.


i think i came across a topic on the front page about a woman who was complaining about her husband doing all the chores in the house, she described he was turning a maid in his own house, this is over application of "acts of service"


when you get married, know the five love languages and which one works for you or your partner then manage it rightly.

darasiiimiii:
Then what does it mean, if i might ask?

very sarcastic way of saying you are really good at a Mouth Gig.


a sarcastic compliment

darasiiimiii:
I was going through the thread all over again and i notice where you mentioned that men are responsible for a woman's mentality, meaning whatever you make them believe is what they will believe

true bro but not every man can influence women strongly

darasiiimiii:
This just a guess, but were you in anyway trying to reassure her that she is the only one.

Lol... No

QUESTION AND ANSWER SECTION

here is something i did some time, it is quite naughty


while getting a toe curling blowj0b from my girl, she did a beautiful mouth movement

"damn it girl" i then sat up and held her face, looked into her eyes and said in a low tone



"repeat after me... I AM NOT A BITCH" she laughed out then repeated it

"I AM ZADDY's QUEEN" i said and she said it, i repeated it again and she said it with me, i kissed her fore head and she then continued


now my question to you guys, do you know the mean of what i said up there? and why i said it?

A Portion in my coming book will address the power of loyalty, the powerful part of a woman and vulnerable part of a man that women are blinded from seeing.

Prinnce1:
need an Admin to reset it ..have done it myself and its not working

read through all i have posted

Apart from 4 18 19... the rest is history

In my book i will drop relationship problems of people and solutions i will give, those problems might be similar with yours or other people out there.


i will teach you how to last longer in sex and how to enlarge the penis.


just wait for it, it will come

Believe me gentlemen, before i knew it i was holding longer conversations with girls and we chatted like we have known for long.

the point is to start with "good morning"


when you finally win this stage and you are satisfied with your confidence level then keep this at the back of your mind

when you walk up to a girl, you have four objectives


break her wall

rapport

intrigue her

take her number and vanish


read through my thread again and you will see how to achieve all four

14 DAYS OF GLORY

i call it 14 days of glory because at the end of it all i was the winner

this is my developed technique for building confidence and use of words around girls, i did this year ago so as to boost my confidence

for 14 days i greeted every beautiful female i came across on the road with a smile


"hello good morning"

"hey whats up"

"hi happy new month"

"excuse me, help me look if my shorts is stained"

"hey whats up, what is the time"

"hey i love your shoes"

"hey whats up? i love your hair, what is this style called"

"i love your top, whats this design called"

"hello excuse me, i am looking for james crescent"

"have mercy on that phone na"

"honestly i love your phone pouch where did you get it?"


you can see the words kept advancing, this depends on you. while you do this practise looking in their eyes too and dont look scared, try and control your nerves.

you can do this for longer days if you choose but dont do it with the intention to date, you will discover it gets easier.

What I Am About To Tell You Is A Very Simple Technique, after The Lockdown Try It

is that not the same test kit sent throughout africa?


what if nigeria has same problem?


how about we start testing fruits too? it may sound silly but it will expose things i believe

tomorrow i will talk about 14 days of glory. it is the best way of gaining confidence; it worked for me when i started and it will work for you

darasiiimiii:
Is it going to be an instagram account of some sorts.

Yes