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ekensi01:
Damn the dude, we aren't children

she is a virgin

Na God go help this country. Tomorrow u will say the government is not doing the ryt tin

ekensi01:
How did you know she wasn't excited after sex?

she is even aware of her problem

dollyjoy:
I think you both should seek professional help.

gracias

ekensi01:


Brother you really went so far to even know her period.

Why are you having sex before marriage.



Brother am judging you. Come and beat me

no sex..we are getting married by December

my fiancé is not sexual responsive. she don't experience any sexual excitement. Even after pre-intimacy she tells you she doesn't feel anything.

Note: She is physically excited but she doesn't feel anything.
She experience her menstrual period every 2 months.

I saw these post on nairaland.

https://www.nairaland.com/4153846/brother-wants-end-marriage-because.

and i can relate to it.

She told me that she always pray that God should not bless me that much. that she don't want me to be extremely rich so that other women will not flock around me. That let's just be comfortable, just the way we are now.
What's wrong with women?

AmeerahFKI:
nope, wait for pick up sms. Mine is on the 8th this month.

u can collect it before on 8th

lukedan75:
can i collect my device without sms? i choose tecno batch a

yes u can

Blakjewelry:
then she can control it by working on herself

OK tanx

makydebbie:
Only a moderator can help with that. Or you'll repost there and give details and how it's affecting your relationship. Who knows? It'll make fp and you'll get enough views and solutions. Goodluck.

OK let me call lalasticlala

Blakjewelry:
na you or your babe. Because details means it is hereditary or its something that started recently

she has been like these since birth. I don't want to believe is hereditary related

makydebbie:
Goggle and the health section are your friends.

OK let me move it to health section

Blakjewelry:
Wow I think I am the solution. On a serious note you did not give any details

details how

my fiancé is suffering from this disorder. Please what's the solution?

I'm new here. how do I post

Danielmoore:
you feel like so am going to be fvcking only one pussy
o Lord am scared

OK let me go and fvck my ex for the last time

marriage is more than sex

kimbraa:
I guess your wedding day is approaching, and you're nervous, just know it's normal.

tnx

how do they feel? is it scary? happy or fear of the unknown

StarBukola:
no way u can match up with novel characters,they r too perfect to b real, so either u tell to wake up from her dreams or u keep trying to make it up to her for the rest of your life

lolzz i appreciate your sincerity

sirusX:
Find out the kinda thing she appreciates, and try to do a little every now & then. It desnt have to be all sha, but a little show of effort goes a long way

tanx alot

iLegendd:
Do you know the name of Romance Novel she read? I'd love to know and if I do, I may help you out beyond 50 Shades.

lolzz twale sir!. I know you are a legend when it comes to issues like this.

chiraqDemon:
If u r that busy then just break up with her. Relationship/being romantic is not about staying back from work or pushing important stuff away to stay with ur partner. It's about creating time from ur busy schedule to show them that u care. It doesn't have to be daily but u can be spontaneous. Surprise her. Bro, a man should never be too busy to be romantic. It's not a movie or white ppl thing.

That's my fiancee. Tanx anyway

StarBukola:
may God help u then

Amen.
but can you help me with what she is referring to.. Hope is not sex

chiraqDemon:
Those things nor be fiction. Na well written romance based on love-making(note not casual sex). Real life love making and what u find in romance novels are usually similar except a few things can be exaggerated. Guy go n be romantic to ur babe

lolzz. I no get that time... I'm a very busy person

StarBukola:
transform yourself to a drop dead gawjus
U must b tall
Perfect jaw
Perfect nose
Kissable lips
Sexy eyes
Albs
Packs
Broad shoulder
Must no when she need to b touched
Perfect in bed
Etc.... The list r endless

you got it all wrong. She is not referring to physical appearance... Rather the emotional and psychological syd

jhudit:
How old is she?

why do you ask?

iRepNaija1:
Here's a situation where your girlfriend told to point blank that you're not romantic enough. If you care enough for her, why can't you come to a compromise with her? You say you can't replicate the things that take place in her novels so why don't you look up romantic gestures on the internet?

If both men and women stopped taking a 'what about me' mentality in a relationship and thought about how can I go above and beyond for my partner, both men and women would be much happier.

gracias

StarBukola:
Ehen since u have told her point blank, what help do u need again

how to handle the situation better

She complained that I'm not romantic and all that..i asked her why?? And she made reference to novels she read. I told her point blank.. That's just a movie and fictional stories

I don't know why. After the quit notice given. Reactions and counter reactions