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MrCork:
.is she lightskin?

nop she is purple skin

candygebsslim:
So Guy u want to send ur wife packing bcoz of these flimsy reasons.

See how you are allowing your pride dance skelewu in your home, before you know it divorce and then who was wrong or right won't matter anymore.

The truth.

As long as you dated ur wife for long, once you marry her, you guys become mates almost immediately. As she knows she has every right to know whatever u do or want to do or would do, bcoz she has been there for you in your days of one boxers for 3 days till now.

My advice:

-Swallow your pride, make your self a loving husband.
-Forget about getting into an argument to drive home your point, try later when the atmosphere is calm.
- her not been sincere in money issues, i know it has to do with her money, which you take from her, you feel bad when you find out, she didn't tell u the whole truth of how much she has. Women are naturally like that. Try and forget about her money, never ever take her money or request for money again from her. She is a good wife, she will see how things are and would assist in the way she can from her own will.
- for the she dares you, my dear is ur pride that is making u see it that way. She is ur age mate Now, so this won't stop, know when your communication is getting to the red zone and sign off to continue later.

Then the winning strategy
I know you guys do practically everything together, from chores to gossip. Do them but limit it
- make her to be aware of her duties as a wife and help out once in a very long long while, u will see how excitedly appreciative she will be.
- get her gifts once in a while, take her for movies and ice cream
- never ever ever initiate sex. Bros don't beg her, she will marvel and begin to gum body u
-lastly don't give her all ur free time. I know she knows when u are free. Hang out with friends, join associations to keep you out on dinner meetings.
- then provide for your house no matter what it takes, don't ask her for help.

With these after 5 weeks ur nagging wife will become humbled and obedient.

gracias

Mynd44:
I hope you know that what you just postes is false and in violation of rule 8 right?

He deserves 5 years ban. Till after 2023

Una Don start o! Always raising false alarm when there is non.

greatcrown:
Your marriage is not about to break.

It's the usual pain of teething period.

You are getting to know your wife for whom she really is.
Don't join issue with her; be calm make your point known.

Don't try to enforce anything so far it has no health implication on either of you.

With time, your marriage will come to equilibrium and you will be happy for it.

Concentrate on being romantic and make her happy.

May God continue to bless your home.

tnx

emmysoftyou:
i never dated my wife for seven years But she's so beautiful and very understanding, she was there when I lost my job and she is still there praying for a better days. Sir your case is not different, just sit her down and discuss how you feel about her. If she argues Alot, take your time to listen to her ideas and give her a trial whenever she's suggesting any befitting ideas. Just allow her.
Sir if she's not sincere when it comes to money, re u saying you do give her money to buy food stuff at the market and she said the money is not enough or how do you mean?
Cos there's was a time, I will give my wife money, she always tell me not to asked her for change and whenever we argued about it, I Would told her that the change is for buying pure water or soap.
Sometimes I let go anything that led to misunderstanding because I had already spend more than three to four months to understood her character then I discovered she's such a lovely person, we prayed together, she drag me to fellowship or else we quarrel.
Sir if your wife dare you that you can't take such action, don't listen to her, we the men knows you can take such action but if you listen to her mouth you will just injured her, do you know what I do, I will leave the house for her and later she will come and say sorry.

Today we're living like boyfriend and girlfriend, people do asked if she's really my wife. My brother you're lucky to be married, just try to understand her. I have dated other girls four years to six years I didn't marry them cos I want to marry someone I can tolerate hence my prayers to almighty God and today, me and my love re living peacefully, I must not date for several years to pick a wife but understanding really matter.
If you want to see my yellow beautiful wife. We're on facebook. Just dm me.

I will also advised you and your wife to be praying together, I thank God for my wife, she's everything to me I swear.
Bro it's well with you.

awww so sweet ...NYC one

1stNumeroUno:
I kind feel you bro, please be calm with her. Discuss how pained you are and what you want/expected from the marriage. Please, tackle this on time before you start having kids. Because a heated environment is not ideal for raising children o.

tanx bro

rikithor:
A very good advice from DonPiko,
when married take responsibility for two,and future kids

i will add mine ,yes take responsibility for you both,compel her in any way most appropriate to your biddings on ALL areas of your expectation

bk home ,am managimg n still managing an 8 yts woman problem ,problem noticed before first born ,n its still lingering who is about 7yrs now ,am still taking every ones responsibility but occassionaly will compel her to do my biddings,if she refuses ,
wt occassional milder threats ,jubst to pass home my message

Thanks for the advice.

1stNumeroUno:
Dear Op, I assume you're trying to impose yourself on her. Maybe you're the I'm-the-head-of-this-house type of man.
She might have tolerated you all these 7years just to get into life. Now she's in.

Suggestions:
1. Always be calm and connect with her when discussing.
2. Let her decision prevail on flimsy matter. E.g. Clothes to wear to a party, how much to spend on small stuffs.
3. Lead her, don't rule her.

Finally, don't attempt divorce. It's not reasonable, these are just some lil foxes that you can easily get rid off.

Wishing you the best in your marriage.

Thanks I allow her to take some decisions but I think the opportunity i gave her is getting into her head.

blesskewe:
Sorry for asking but













Did you guys date??

we dated for about 7years

Please advice before i sent her packing.
Reasons are-
1. She argues alot.
2. She is not very sincere when it comes to money issue.
,3. She dares me atimes that I can't take some actions against her.

Please advice on what I should do.

Nice one. But messi is the best

brb

hmmmm. Divide this nation into pieces

Rubbish!! They should stop rescuing them since they don't want to learn.

May aljanna Firdausi be her final abode. Ameen

We need more industries not schools.

omotuntun:
Honestly, each time I see things like this Nigeria has a big problem far before grassroot even.

The difference between the west and Nigeria is plan.

Nigeria has no blue print, no plan nothing.

A government that can use 4 years to restructure Nigeria plan is the main government.

All my stay here, I have not seen a single fake product in shop. If I want something inferior, I go straight to Arabians and Chinese shop

mumu read before u make any comment. It happened in Ghana

lolxxx crazy ;Dlolxxx crazy

Chelsea and man city match na when

Getting married soon and most of them don't want to let go.

EASY39:
What is efcc concern in bunkering

mumu economic crime

benny4wax:
Na Scam.

ok tanx

benny4wax:
I got this message today:

DPS Consult invites you for an interview and an opportunity to work with us on 29/12/17 by 9am @AQ15 Daura Rd Opp Yabi Plaza Magajin Gari Kaduna. Ref Code UK/84.

Does anyone know if this is legit? I need urgent replies, Thanks.

how fa d interview??

Hypocrites!!!! if it were Muslims. you will c all sort of comments. Useless religion

I saw my tribe on the poster. These ipobs are mad!