₦airaland Forum

ibotic:
Stupid ...perverted...ill mannered....arrogant....western leaders....
On top of all the things wey we dey face for Nigeria
Poor health infrastructure....power cuts....herdsmen....insecurity....collapsing educational sector...
Oyinbos best suggestion at this point is that....
We should let men sleep with other men and women with other women

what about fornication and adultery

Ecstasy154:
It can never work, because same sex marriage is against our religious and cultural believes. In fact, it is against God's commandment that said we should be fruitful and multiplied.

but we should agree to fornication and adultery

sane sex marriage, fornication, adultery are all in the same category they are the same sin

TheUpsetGirl:
Ladies are never broke. We are not defined by our pockets, Understand that. Guys need to stop being disheartened about women having standards for guys. Work hard and be the best version of yourself or don’t say anything at all young man. Being financially poor is not attractive to anybody, even if that woman “loves” you. She will leave you/ cheat on you for somebody who can provide more for her. Simple as ABC. Accept it.

stupid write up from a stupid girl this is why guys use girls for rituals because the only thing they care about is money and rich guy

did she advised him in a polite way women and their lies

The Christian life is not hard life your life the right way and don't get so much obsessed about the things of this world

Accepting Jesus Christ means accepting him as the creator and the Lord and saviour but born again means working according to his commandment

or is it not the same bible the pastor will preach from

No bible living church in Germany

Guess the policeaman wasn't OK before the incident

he should have done that in his country coward

manuel4real:
3times ...who counted it?

God is wonderful

buhari counted it

awoyam1:
Personally I feel tithing is a very complex issue.

I feel the main ideology behind the blessing of tithing is all about sacrificial giving to a good cause.

Since the beginning of time, one law of God that touches all mankind is the law of giving.

God gave us life, gave his only begotten son for our salvation. God could have decided to save mankind without giving, he is God he can do anything but yet God gave all he had. Why? It is intertwined in spirituality that giving brings blessings.

Until a seed dies first it cannot bring forth fruit and life. The giving must be a form of sacrifice. God could have saved humanity with no stress, why did Jesus have to die such a terrible death, I feel because that gift for salvation must come at a price.

Going back to tithing. If I give my neighbour a part of my money if he/she is needy and that giving comes with a price, then I would benefit from the gift of that sacrifice, I may not need to tithe. Bill gates, Muslims, Dangote, Atheist etc all do that. There is psychological term for it called Altruism- giving to make you feel good. But actually I believe the feeling of good is a return of blessing but psychologists minimized the tangible return effect of the giving by focusing only on the emotional return giving causes.

I know a Muslim he was building a mosque in his town. He was very slow to complete it because he feels once he stops, the blessing may stop.

But as a Christian do I have to start looking for my needy neighbour every time. What if no one comes to me for help. What then do I do.

This I where I feel giving every month to a church comes in. I don’t then have to worry about looking for a needy neighbour. I would rather give to a bible believing church fully knowing I’m giving for a good purpose. The percentage of what you give is just the value or price of what it costs you. 10% of anyone earnings is a big sacrifice. I actually believe if you give more that 10% you get more blessings.

A lot of North Americans give for good cause by giving to their church. People just feel it’s safer to give where their heart is and whom they trust. People choose the church only because of trust. In my church here in North America, the account is published, they receive more than the church budgets for every year. It was a surprise to me.

The idea of looking for a needy neighbour is very tricky. They are lots of scammers out there. How do I really know who is needy. I would rather give to my church first and then give to someone else afterwards who I feel is needy.

God owns the church. If I trust my church and give to it, I’m directing giving to God. Complex issue though. But if I give to my neighbour, I may feel I’m helping the needy but I may be wrong about how needy that person is. It’s a gamble.

Finally, one thing I know about humans is that if an habit isn’t beneficial people wouldn't do it. Simple. Let’s ask why do people keep giving to the church. Humans beings are not naturally stupid. Humans have changed their behaviour and evolved over the years if they see no need for such a behaviour. But giving to the church as remained for many centuries. Why exactly. The Catholic Church is the richest institution in the entire world. They have their own city. (Vatican City). Why? Years of people giving to it. Why do they keep giving to the church, because they see a return in blessings. Charity giving to non profit organization worldwide keeps dropping Year after year. This whole idea Pastors force people to tithe does not fully justify why humans give to their church. If it’s wasn’t beneficial to them, how would a Pastor force them. Pastors don’t have access to peoples accounts. I’m talking worldwide here.

Very importantly Africans really are not a giving race. We are very self centred, reason our continent is the way it is. We rarely sacrifice for ourselves. If the pastors never preached about tithing, many would not give and may not have benefited from the blessings of giving.

Also the way the media and people outside the church paints this issue of tithing is like they assume most church goers tithe. When I was in Europe the Pastor told me it was very few people that was maintaining the account of the church. He said most people are in church are there to receive not to give financially. He even mentioned they would come asking in boldness because they assume all the others where giving. They would count the church population and multiply by 10% and assume the finances most be great. They would then ask for their share. It’s less 10% of the church population that tithe faithfully.

I never used to tithe consistently until 2012. I am a very practical ‘somebody’. I told Wife I’m going to experiment if I indeed I receive blessings like it is in the bible. To the glory of God my income has increased every year incrementally since then. I am even afraid to stop now. No Pastor forced or preached to me. My pastor in Europe never preached it. It was a total miracle to me. I repeat every year my income has increased. Even that same year 2012 I took time off to work part time and I earned more than 2011. I earned almost double of the income of 2011 in 2012 . My employer told me they made a mistake in my salary grade and returned a big cheque to me that year.

That doesn’t stop me from giving for other causes still. Last week gave a girl that I work with $50, she had a baby. I was very tight on cash that day but just gave her. Within same period a client left exactly $50 for me. I’m not saying it works like a charm or juju method. But I knew it was because I sacrificed that money. My body was dead to itself when I dropped that $50. I needed that money for something that day but forfeited it. I actually returned the $50 back to the client that left it. My work place policy states you can’t receive money from customers. But it was a lesson for me.

It’s not every time I give that I expect a return.I have done sacrificial giving with no expecta tions at all but when I see my children in good health and doing well, I get a good feeling and I know I don’t need a tangible return of blessing. I feel that altruistic feeling psychologists described. God himself felt very good afterwards after he gave Jesus for my salvation.

Finally I repeat, tithing is a complex issue. Everyman to himself. God is the one that sees our hearts.

Is anyone threatening your life to stop paying tithes

emeijeh:
I will rephrase Redoil's question.....


Are you sure they are true Christians? When massive alcoholic consumption and fornication is their middle name?

if they are not true Christians do the so called true Christians don't also engage themselves in immoral acts?

Because 95% of present day miracles are fake And also 1 Corinthians 13:8

we don't know the actual time that we shall leave this earth we just have to be righteous at all times

you don't need someone to tell you that investment is better

autojosh:
The Sbarro 4×4+2 concept is perhaps the ugliest car currently on exhibition at the ongoing Geneva Motor Show.


In a car show full of gorgeous, futuristic, ultra-connected, autonomous and electrified vehicles, the Sbarro 4×4+2 concept does not appeal much in the looks department.


This bizarrely shaped concept car is a six wheeler built for off-road racing.

On the Sbarro 4×4+2, there are cutouts in the metal in the shape of those massive wheels, no windows except for the windshield, a ginormous bonnet and taillights that look like they belong on some classic from the mid-50s.


Inside, there are racing seats, a racing steering wheel and third seat propped up in the back.


The car is powered by a 5.0-liter engine, putting down 550 PS with the help of a 6-speed automatic. In case they’re off about that displacement figure, this could very well be the 4.8-liter V8 unit in the first-gen Cayenne Turbo S, which indeed had 550 PS as well as a 6-speed auto.


Let’s all wave hello to another contender for “Ugliest Car in Geneva”.

https://autojosh.com/see-ugliest-car-geneva-motor-show/

you call this car ugly? ??!

Xisnin:
What are you doing on nairaland, holy man?

I didn't include nairaland in my comment pagan man

it should also be banned in Nigeria it encourages immoral acts

labake1:
For the very first time
This is a sign for something new.
Happy Birthday ma


I dedicate this FTC to all those who believe female should be given a chance to rule the world.
The future is female


And all the ANTI-FEMALES quoting me

what chance women are far worst than men in terms of corruption

the only thing a broke girl can offer is sex and that is where their brains are located

fighting in the name of religion And in both religion it is preached to love your neighbor as yourself

Proudlyngwa:
Rubbish write up.
We have very few Christian's in Nigeria, what we have are mostly Church goers.

Nigerian Church goers are outright hypocrites, who only want to be told ,what they want to hear.
With their favorite verse, thou shall not judge , to allow them wallow in sin.

As for Muslims, the are mostly fanatics, with the non fanatics being criminally silent.


I gave up on organisers religion, a long time ago, to practise spirituality (John 4.24) with my holy Bible as my instructor.

In Nigeria,what you guys practice is superstition, not religion.

Good write up. true talk

one thing for such is that Christians discriminate, they are divided, the present day church is just about money not salvation and 95 percentage of the members who claim to be Christians are just church goers

chibok part 2.

herdsmen killings is the promise he has fulfilled

photo of the bird

women don't love they are only interested in guys money

who is she deceiving

corruption is already in our blood both the youth and the old

Valentine is unscriptural pagan doctrine celebration of lust not love No Christian should be indulge in such practice