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armyofone:
That's Nigeria school teachers for you.

Good idea for home econs but bad way of going about it.
Op, Please make 22 for all the students and staff.

Why make for staff? Dem no fit go make it for their own self? Why must they eat from what is the students?

Teachers wey suppose to dey give students, na to take from students dem they do instead.

Miracood2:
I want to carry out a practical on home economics with my students on preparation of snacks

I plan on making 11 egg rolls, and 25 moderately sized buns.
The students are 11 and the egg rolls are for some staffs.
Will the quantity be enough?
And how much will it cost?
I need your replies.

The egg rolls are for the Staff and not the students? Why?

You just now remind me of ways wey be our Nigerian school system. Why you go make students bake snacks only to give it to staff?

Na the staff pay for ingredients? In that case, how much students go get for their labor?

If students dey pay for their own ingredients, why not let them decide who they will give the product of their labor to?

bigcasava1:
ok, but was she thinking that they were going on a business trip? Maybe the man didn't define the purpose of their trip

The onus is never on the woman to figure out what the man wants. Women don't have mind reading abilities abeg!

That man should have made his intentions known from the beginning. Since his intention was to spend in order to get sex in return, he should have made this known from even before he bought the ticket. Better yet, he could have more easily paid a hooked to go on the trip with him..

My guess is he was trying to score a tale to tell his friends of how he bagged that particular lady, this by buying her over with his money, but that failed, explaining why he took the tale to social media ,not realizing it was his own foolishness he was now broadcasting for the whole world to read of.

Uyi168:
the best way is by not celebrating the birthday at all.

Abi o!

Order in or maybe barbecue something delicious to eat all day, keep your phone off, put a do-not-disturb sign on your door, have a lazy day in where you binge watch those shows/movies you have always loved from years past.

Sleekmilan01:
The dude claims he's worth $20m and currently in his 30's,so yeah he can spend his cash anyhow he wants

Ofcourse he can spend his money anyhow he wants but thinking he can buy sex with any woman with it is his folly.

studentofTruth:
You're missing the whole point, but I will break it down for you:

A guy going to a woman is because he feels sexually attracted to her. Whether he spend or not, he still wants to have a sexual union with the woman.

If woman likes him sexually, she accepts his moves and will be willing to sleep with him. It would be wrong for a woman to play along if she doesn't feel sexually attracted to him.

Next, if the man is well to do, he can decide to treat the woman the way he treats himself because whether he treats her well or not, he expects sex with the woman because she has shown that she feels the same thing about him too.

It would be insecurity on the aspect of the woman to deny him sex because he treats her well. If she was never sexually attracted to him all the while, why play along that she feels what he feels.

You, again, are generalizing and I told you the world does not work according to the delusions you have stored up in your head.

generalwo:
The question is... Are u guys dating? Before u left the country, did you tell her you will touch her or have sex with her? Many irresponsible people lurking around....... As far as una no plan am or agree on am before una commot for 9ja.....u have no right over her body simply because you paid for a trip for her...... Them no force you carry her go abroad...... Luck wen u get be say you no try to force yourself on her... Na to stab your intestine come out for make sense......money miss road.....

Na real money miss road!

Gospel2Day:
1. Did the demons in the Gadarene demoniac have a conversation with Jesus or not? Did they not beg Jesus not to send them out of the area, and did Jesus oblige them or not?

2. Learn not to make uninformed statements on things you're ignorant about. I wonder the kind of Christian you are that you don't know anything about Deliverance Ministry.
May God bless and help you. But don't shut your mind to what you don't know. It is a way of remaining ignorant for life.
3. People from around the world, who used to be in the occult repented and got delivered and began to live correct holy life, and then they recounted their experiences while in the kingdom of darkness and the only thing you can do is to dismiss their testimonies?
Being so close-minded like that won't take you anywhere.
Shalom.

1. You Re still not making any sense to me.

2. What uninformed statement have I made so far on this? Can you at least point it out so I see where you are? :-

I recall you didn't answer a single one of the question I asked you in my previous response to you either. Please try to so I can understand where exactly you are and what it is you are going on about.

studentofTruth:
1. A man doesn't go to a woman to be praying partners. He likes the woman sexually and makes the move. If she responds negatively, the man moves on. But if she responds positively, the man believes she feels the same thing he feels for her and treats her as he would treat himself.

2. Unfortunately, that's not how women are wired. The see good treatment as underserving of them. They feel insecure when treated well.

3. So, the right way is to treat them they way they feel they deserve!

1. You can't generalize where men are concerned, neither should you do so where women are concerned.

2. I am afraid the reason you think this way of women is likely due to level of maturity. Women are not objects for you to figure out or to box as you please. When you finally learn this in life, you will understand how foolish you have really been up until that point in your existence.

3. Like I said, here's hoping wisdom about relationships will happen to you someday soon.

studentofTruth:
So, guys should be stingy to the women they like even when they have the money to treat them well abi?

There are people who are genuinely generous and they are known and respected for that. A man thinking his generosity should be rewarded, in this case, with a woman opening her legs up to him simply becude he spent money on her is another breed entirely.

If you don't what to spend on a woman, don't. If you do spend and do so to pay for sex with her, let her understand that upfront or instead go pay for a prostitute.

TenQ:
1. If the woman was raped, who is the looser?
2. How do you think she can justify following a stranger on a one week vacation to another country?
3. Does the lady think the man is Angel Gabriel or impotent?

4. She was lucky to be sent back home in one piece!
It could be worse, suppose ritual killers shift their base to Dubai, all he needs is a fake international passport and fake phone number and she'll disappear forever!

1. She was thankfully not raped, meaning her gamble sort of paid off. Had she been, the the man would have lost even more in this case since they were both in a foreign country together.

2. Justify to whom? She is an adult!

3. What has angel Gabriel to do with any of this?

4. Luck has nothing to do with this. Life is itself a gamble so abeg talk better.

studentofTruth:
Forget what they say, women don't believe they should be treated well. It's engraved in their subconscious mind.

Women do want to be treated well, not treated like prostitutes. Spending on a woman should be because you want to not because you want her legs go open to you...this by your spending in her.

placeofallure:
Truly, she's stupid. Why go with him if you are not into him?

Good riddance to bad rubbish! I don't support nonsense.

I believe she is the opposite of stupid. Not submitting simply because money has been spent is a smart move on her part.

If the man wanted a prostitute instead, he should have payed for that from the get go.

At least she got a trip and gifts out of this man. Here's hoping he learns from this foolishness.

Damian10:
The girl is highly unintelligent, how come she didn't see through the chaps spendings. Like WTF was she thinking the dude was doing all that for, father Christmas ahbi. bimbo girl wanted to remain a virtues woman yet couldn't turn down a carnal proposal heads on.

She was smart actually! When you spend money on a woman never assume it gives you access to her body.. . Here's hoping you will learn from this story so you can't make this mistake in the coming year or anywhere down the road.

TenQ:
I detest fornication and adultery.
BUT
The girl is a very stupid one to think she can follow a man travel alone to a hotel and not expect to be laid. Stupidity of the highest order!

Wrong! The man is instead the fool here thinking spending on a woman buys him access to sex.

If sex was indeed his intention from the start, there are other more direct ways for him to have gotten that. His post only showcased his foolishness.

Ishilove:
Check well. The mzungu feeling funky may be one 5ft 1 midget with a complex larger than his size 38 shoes.

ROFLMAO

drnoel:
Nothing like that. He felt he had the money and wanted to spend. Who are U to question how he spends his own money? U have too much time. Go and make Ur own money

He felt he had the money and wanted to spend, so why is he complaining that the woman he spent the money on did not give him sex?

bigcasava1:
mumu girl, she thought she going there to see Jesus. She doesn't want to contaminate herself. Let her come back and stay with us here! Mumu girl!

I am afraid the man is instead the mumu in his story.

VanessaKokomama:
Sure Toxic people at times can mess with your mental health

There is nothing wrong with your friend.. if she is the only intelligent conversation she can have, then she has a right and freedom to engage and enjoy the company that is herself.

Life is too short and too hard to be worried about what other people think abeg!

MJBOLT:

the man is the foolish person here.
The man spent money on flight tickets and hotel reservations just to have sex he got played by a smart woman,he should hide his face in shame.


A fool and his money are soon parted

I was wondering what an eejit the man really is for even posting this.

VanessaKokomama:
Well according to her she said people always says Unprintable words to her so that normally get to her... I think what she meant was people say bad things against her, so she allowed those negative words get into her.

So, the cause of the drain is indeed from the fact that she is surrounded by emotional vampires who fill her head with negative words and ideas likely born of ignorance?

If that is the case, she needs to work on her self-esteem and self confidence. If she is dealing with depression, especially from being different, she needs to get necessary help or even read up on ideas on how to put all the toxic people and their toxic comments on full ignore.

Mindlog:
I do not want to state anything here, reason I posted that the OP should encourage the friend to go see a professional for assessment.

Oh really?

younggcfr:
He went back, told them and the assassin's forced their way through the sitting room, entered the sitting room, and they saw me and my wife with legs crossed, sorry I thought they saw us, alas they were looking for us, they couldn't see us; yet we were seated confidently, legs crossed, but we were seeing them (the assassins), clearly. �

Story, story? STORY!

xynerise:
You have ended up increasing the BP of Nigerians

ROFLMAO

Charmingrascal:
Is she not suppose to cover the seat with the blood of Jesus.

Pagan ritual to what end? Jesus Christ no give you permission to cover anything in His blood.. it is pagans/voodoo ritualists who do such things.

VanessaKokomama:
Hmmmmmm natural to me I don't think it natural sir, it draining her even people they avoid her... But me as a good understanding friend I stood by her

Does your friend tell you that it is compulsive behavior on her part?

Or is she drained because she has emotional vampires around her, some of whom may call themselves her friends, telling her that she is not normal for talking and smiling to herself?

Tell her to come online on nairaland and talk to other people about this so-called problem or hers so she can maybe get a different perspective to help her either cope or find a resolution.

VanessaKokomama:
I think it does matter... People would avoid you , if somebody finds your trouble and you retailate they will say , he done start again

I think you care too much what people think or will say. I have been living this way most all of my life and people don't avoid me as you assume.

Maybe small-minded individuals avoide me, and thank God for that because I have an aversion for small-minded folks. It's like I am allergic on some level to them. The moment I realize their present, it's like the wind gets knocked right out of me and I am scampering to get as far the help away from them as I can.

People will say what they will say. It is up to you to decide whether to give meaning to what is said or not. The choice is yours. As long as you are not a selfish inconsiderate jerk about it, there is nothing wrong with living life with you, yourself and yours as your best buddy!

Mindlog:
When you go through DSM-5 (Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders) which is the guide for diagnosis, the symptoms are clearly there.

Sure, the DSM-5. So what particular illnesses in the DSM-5 do the "symptoms" listed by the OP belong to?

Mindlog:
Inappropriate smiles, talks to self, that meets the criteria for the diagnosis of the onset of......encourage her to see a psychologist and an assessment will be done.

I am afraid you are incorrect!

None of what the OP stated ring as symptoms of any mental illness. Just because I can laugh/smile, have conversations with my own self does not mean it is a result of mental illness. I am happier than most is all, my happiness still intact even when I am alone is what that means..

VanessaKokomama:
hmmmm intelligent you say ? , Some will see you as been Mad naaa

Does it really matter the opinion of the some though?,

I am my own best friend - I talk things out with my own self and so help myself to peace and tranquility, a life of reduced stressed that way.

Goodmarlian:
My younger brother is just too forgetful for my liking and worst of all his mind is not always stable he is easily carried away ,he may do somethings the right way today,but tomorrow he will do the total opposite of the same thing and it's very annoying,you can send him on an errand to go get pepper and he will come back with maggi,he can be smart when doing things today but will do the same thing in a dull and clumsy way tomorrow,he is just mentally unstable and i think it is dangerous to even himself is this a medical or spiritual condition.

It is called mental illness, not spiritual problem.

Your brother is old enough to realize if there is indeed something mentally not right with him so why not ask him directly why it is that one moment he is fine the next he is off?

It may just be that your brother is mentally sluggish, intentionally, or he could be experiencing memory/focus related issues, but the boy has to reveal what is going on in his own mind for you or anyone to really know it.

It you are that concerned about him, talk to him and observe him for a while longer making sure to keep your personal delusions far away from him. And or Make an appointment for him to see a mental health counselor to find out if there is anything to be concerned about and go from there.

triple996:
Christianity is a big joke .
Can you imagine, the same religion that criticize Islam for marring multiple wives is also doing so. Religion of jokers

Christianity has never been against the polygamy or polyandry.