Iyaebe:
The man is all wrong here,when did paid vacation=sex?was it in their agreement? You can agree to go on a vacation with someone and still not have sex and the man has no right to be angry or forceful about it,it's like asking her to trade her body for the vacation expenses and that is cheap and also an insult.

Ishilove:
Check well. The mzungu feeling funky may be one 5ft 1 midget with a complex larger than his size 38 shoes.

MJBOLT:

the man is the foolish person here.
The man spent money on flight tickets and hotel reservations just to have sex he got played by a smart woman,he should hide his face in shame.


A fool and his money are soon parted

TenQ:

I detest fornication and adultery.
BUT
The girl is a very stupid one to think she can follow a man travel alone to a hotel and not expect to be laid. Stupidity of the highest order!

Kriss216:
But, some girls are foolish and wicked.


A guy took you for vacation outside the country, all expenses paid by him, not even a business trip... Are you not suppose to force the sex on him even when he's down and not in for any knacks?

Someone like me, she will not sleep in that same room with me.
"Suffer not the witch to sleep"

Damian10:
The girl is highly unintelligent, how come she didn't see through the chaps spendings. Like WTF was she thinking the dude was doing all that for, father Christmas ahbi. bimbo girl wanted to remain a virtues woman yet couldn't turn down a carnal proposal heads on.

Kriss216:
But, some girls are foolish and wicked.


A guy took you for vacation outside the country, all expenses paid by him, not even a business trip... Are you not suppose to force the sex on him even when he's down and not in for any knacks?

Someone like me, she will not sleep in that same room with me.
"Suffer not the witch to sleep"

placeofallure:
Truly, she's stupid. Why go with him if you are not into him?

Good riddance to bad rubbish! I don't support nonsense.

studentofTruth:
Forget what they say, women don't believe they should be treated well. It's engraved in their subconscious mind.

Ninisun:





Have you thought about the man having a protruded stomach, smelly unshaved armpit and mouth odour...what about white hairs down there I don't know why men always use money as an exchange of s#x... doesn't make sense.

Kobojunkiee:
She was smart actually! When you spend money on a woman never assume it gives you access to her body.. . Here's hoping you will learn from this story so you can't make this mistake in the coming year or anywhere down the road.

Kriss216:
But, some girls are foolish and wicked.


A guy took you for vacation outside the country, all expenses paid by him, not even a business trip. "Are you not suppose to force the sex on him even when he's down and not in for any knacks? "

Someone like me, she will not sleep in that same room with me.
"Suffer not the witch to sleep"

Kobojunkiee:
Wrong! The man is instead the fool here thinking spending on a woman buys him access to sex.

If sex was indeed his intention from the start, there are other more direct ways for him to have gotten that. His post only showcased his foolishness.

TenQ:
1. If the woman was raped, who is the looser?
2. How do you think she can justify following a stranger on a one week vacation to another country?
3. Does the lady think the man is Angel Gabriel or impotent?

4. She was lucky to be sent back home in one piece!
It could be worse, suppose ritual killers shift their base to Dubai, all he needs is a fake international passport and fake phone number and she'll disappear forever!

Kobojunkiee:
Women do want to be treated well, not treated like prostitutes. Spending on a woman should be because you want to not because you want her legs go open to you...this by your spending in her.

studentofTruth:
So, guys should be stingy to the women they like even when they have the money to treat them well abi?

okoroemeka:
that is why I believe men will not totally understand how complex women are, something made her to switch off and I also believe that the man may have caused the switch off or it may be the complexity of women hormones,body and behavior at play,instead of chasing her away and abusing her ,the man could have used this opportunity to interact more with the girl to better understand what went wrong,for a girl that was lavished with such goodies to switch off at the point of sex is just pointing to a critical issue,what went wrong?how I wish I was in that room with that girl to better understand and learn what made her to behave is such manner

Kriss216:
But, some girls are foolish and wicked.


A guy took you for vacation outside the country, all expenses paid by him, not even a business trip... Are you not suppose to force the sex on him even when he's down and not in for any knacks?

Someone like me, she will not sleep in that same room with me.
"Suffer not the witch to sleep"

Ishilove:
Check well. The mzungu feeling funky may be one 5ft 1 midget with a complex larger than his size 38 shoes.

studentofTruth:
1. A man doesn't go to a woman to be praying partners. He likes the woman sexually and makes the move. If she responds negatively, the man moves on. But if she responds positively, the man believes she feels the same thing he feels for her and treats her as he would treat himself.

2. Unfortunately, that's not how women are wired. The see good treatment as underserving of them. They feel insecure when treated well.

3. So, the right way is to treat them they way they feel they deserve!

franklingud:
The guy is the typical fool here and not the girl.

The girl protected her dignity and saved herself the shame of sleeping with a BIG FOOL!

That mullah of a guy is the type that will kill cow for a girl but can never give shishi to his male friend that asked for help.

@OP and mullah you guys are very stupid.

Iyaebe:
The man is all wrong here,when did paid vacation=sex?was it in their agreement? You can agree to go on a vacation with someone and still not have sex and the man has no right to be angry or forceful about it,it's like asking her to trade her body for the vacation expenses and that is cheap and also an insult.

Rosement:
Respect is very important in a relationship, how can a guy give gift to a lady in exchange for sex, he was passing out an information to the lady but she did not get the hint, is it not prostitutes that get paid for sex? This is why we ladies have to observe any guy that approach us before accepting to date them. Don't be blinded by money, some guys are not psychologically okay.

Some ladies are accepting nonsense from their guys now but after marriage they will become feminists and start demanding the respect they can never earn. If you want your guy to respect you, this is the time to earn the respect. If you allow him to treat you bad now because of what you want from him, he will treat you worse in the future and by then, it will be too late for you to correct it. If you feel your guy does not respect you, it is better for you broke up with him before it is too late, if you don't, you will regret it later because you will end up not enjoying your relationship and his money will later become worthless to you, by then you will prefer your peace of mind.

Some guys don't need a real relationship, what they need is a lady that we play the role of a prostitute. As a lady, you have to think properly before you accept some type of gifts from guys, it is better to live in a hut and eat what you have while you are waiting for God to bless you than to allow somebody belittle you.

generalwo:
The question is... Are u guys dating? Before u left the country, did you tell her you will touch her or have sex with her? Many irresponsible people lurking around....... As far as una no plan am or agree on am before una commot for 9ja.....u have no right over her body simply because you paid for a trip for her...... Them no force you carry her go abroad...... Luck wen u get be say you no try to force yourself on her... Na to stab your intestine come out for make sense......money miss road.....

Rosement:
Respect is very important in a relationship, how can a guy give gift to a lady in exchange for sex, he was passing out an information to the lady but she did not get the hint, is it not prostitutes that get paid for sex? This is why we ladies have to observe any guy that approach us before accepting to date them. Don't be blinded by money, some guys are not psychologically okay.

Some ladies are accepting nonsense from their guys now but after marriage they will become feminists and start demanding the respect they can never earn. If you want your guy to respect you, this is the time to earn the respect. If you allow him to treat you bad now because of what you want from him, he will treat you worse in the future and by then, it will be too late for you to correct it. If you feel your guy does not respect you, it is better for you broke up with him before it is too late, if you don't, you will regret it later because you will end up not enjoying your relationship and his money will later become worthless to you, by then you will prefer your peace of mind.

Some guys don't need a real relationship, what they need is a lady that we play the role of a prostitute. As a lady, you have to think properly before you accept some type of gifts from guys, it is better to live in a hut and eat what you have while you are waiting for God to bless you than to allow somebody belittle you.