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MASTERCHIEF0847:
Yes, disabling the card should work. It's XGO that has been taking your money.

correctyourself:
Quickly go and collect another card so that they can disabled this current one that is debiting you. Then contact the loan company and share your experience with them to refund your money

MASTERCHIEF0847:
XGO Finance is a loan lending platform based in Lagos. Did you ever borrow from them in the past?

MASTERCHIEF0847:
Can you post a screenshot of the debit? The POS details should be there.

MASTERCHIEF0847:
Can you post a screenshot of the debit? The POS details should be there.

MASTERCHIEF0847:
Did you use your ATM card for loan registration?

Quinolone:
Shoot

Quinolone:
Oh sorry about the late reply, I was a little under the weather


Okay so concerning your question, you need to realize something. These techniques work even more on attractive girls.

- Lemme tell you something about attractive girls, they always have a couple of guys flocking around her, (any girl that doesn't have guys chasing after her to me isn't even worth gaming, she needs to be very attractive) and most of these guys don't even have the confidence to game her, also even if they did have the confidence, most don't use the proper techniques, and end up I'm the dreaded friend zone

But when a guy comes around, armed with confidence and the right techniques, she will have no choice but to fall for you, have you heard the phrase 'attraction isn't a choice'

- You need to also stop treating attractive girls like they are some sort of alien, they are just like everyone else, they eat, sleep, shite, burb, do everything you do, they are only just attractive


- Whether she has 5 or 6 boyfriends is immaterial, she can be stolen and will only answer to you when you get her addicted to you


quinolone

NNAMDIII:
You!! this useless thing, i now remember your father!! Afsb tested back to back to back, you left solace group November last year. Wassup bro

joegigs:
Lol she has a nice heart.and can take a decision and stand by it.her ego wouldn't let her say she is sorry but can show it

COOL10:
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Not a good sign bruv. You don't wanna wake up one morning to the sound of a sharp knife slicing your diick now,do you? Think twice.

Quinolone:
OK this is how i think it went, you met her, she was sad, you gave her enough attention, she started showing signs that she liked you, then you even increased the attention more(Which was a mistske). Then you told her that you loved her, damn no more mystery, no more drama, she's now bored, then you still called her everyday and saw her everyday, now she starts to take you for granted

Women don't know what's good for them, and in an ideal world, you are the ideal guy which they should truly fall in love with, but noo, they want pain and drama. Thats thats why we have to use strategy to keep them in control


Lemme tell you where you mistake was because I believe you started right but lost it midway

1- you didn't give her the gift of missing you talking to her everyday might have seemed like the right choice, but its infact counterintuitive,

The ideal way was to give her attention, then withdraw it, let her be on her toes, she doesn't know wat your true feelings are like because you just ignore her for 2whole days, and come back like nothing happened

a: She would begin to think about you, and its in this moment when you are absent that women fall in love

b. She would think she did something to upset you, thereby Even thinking more about you

Note: don't do this in the begining of the relationship when she doesn't like you because it wouldn't work, as she hasn't gotten addicted to your attention yet


2- We take for granted what is easily available think about how you take water for granted, because you know.you can get it at anytime, but we don't take 'cold stone' to granted even though water is far more important in our lives

She was sure that she could get your at any time, and she knew it

3- You told her you loved her big mistake if she doesn't love you already, and now even after all the things you've done for her, she still wants to cause you.pain


How to get back your respect -

1- totally stop calling her, yes you heard me, stop, you won't die, and don't be fooled, nothing would change of you continued to call her because right now, you at in a dead end, if she asked why you stopped, don't tell her its because you she told you, tell her you have a project going on right Now and its taking your time

2: Tell her that it's fine if she won't reciprocate your feelings and you are moving on, and actually move on, do not show any emotions of anger or resentment, just be sweet about it .forget about her for a few weeks, see other women, she will be shocked lmao, even try and apologize, do not, I repeat do not come back and give her that attention. Or she might just say 'okay' to see your reaction and its fine, just go

she will.most.likely contact you during your radio silence to see your reaction, keep it short, sweet and polite, if you.don't reply she will think you are angry and then know that she still has the power

3: come back afer a few week and practice indirect game, this time she is not sure where you stand and can't ever take you for granted again

The most important thing is to never show any resentment, anger or jealousy, it makes you loom weak, and if you at polite to a fault, she would be confused, like isn't this the guy that wants me? Why isn't he angry?

Quinolone

joegigs:
The girl i truly love takes me for granted,she is an independent lady,i help as i could.she is temperamental.sometimes she hugs other guys to make me jealous.note.we see each other everyday and i call her everynight.about last week we had a problem she said i shouldnt be calling her everynight again.i have lost my respect cos i tried as mush as possible to make her happy after her heartbreak last year.how do i regain my respect.

NNAMDIII:
You!! This your moniker is familiar. You're a Godfather bah? abi Mandela?

Ajagbe97:
...lol...I see Immaturity is a problem here.. takia

mastermaestro:
Sister Mary, freedom to read.

mastermaestro:
I commend your enlightening exposition. But I can't adopt these techniques. I think what I need now is how to ward off the choking passes that I am getting. They just think one is being mean for not accepting their advances. It's a nightmare!

The HOLY GHOST has been superbly helpful. I would long have gone the way of Samson.

Quinolone:
How to be very successfull in Gaming women - Alpha Mindset [i][/i]

Disclaimer - Most of what I teach are extremely powerful, i have been using them for years. They will have women chasing you that you will begin to avoid them, you will steal people's girlfriends, steal people's wives (although i suggest you avoid doing that, don't be a bas.tard lol)

However Some techniques can be extremely unethical and immoral as they play on women's psycohology

Use these powers at your own risk, i did not show you anything lol.


Understanding Women - Women are naturally manipulative, yes all women. As men we developed strength and agility, while women developed a good ability to control men. Because they are naturally weaker, they need to be able to control men so as to get what they want

What i will teach in this thread is how to beat them at their own game

Make no mistake, gaming women is strategy, don't follow your gut because it's often wrong, there are certain ways to win the game which i will show you


Mindset to have as a man

1: You should be in control of the relationship, in the beginning of the relationship, the woman has all the power, because she eventually decides to have se.x with you, but as time goes on, you aim in game is to have her have se.x with you through psychology

2: There a millions of women, no single woman is special: Throw a away the idea that you are in love with a woman because she's beautiful bla bla bla, my brother, you just want to have sex lol, there are many more beautiful women out there, even if you are in love, these strategies will make her think you are her soul mate lmao

3: Have an abundance mindest: Women can smell desperation from a mile away, they know you want to lash, and then they begin to raise their guards, how would you act if you had 9 women who you could have sex with right away, exactly, you wouldn't even care when one starts to misbehave, you would just laugh and pat her in the head. I don't mean going around bragging that you have plenty women, this just makes you look childish and its repulsive to women as well as men

4: learn how to display indifference: This ties greatly with what i just said above, the art of true indifference is the ability to walk away at any moment


What's the point of indirect game

Indirect game is a form of misdirection, creeping into a woman's mind that she doesn't realize it until its too late, for that you will be required to develop certain other skill in your life

such as conversational skills ( i will talk on that later if you want)
The ability to be extremely likable by people whether men or women,
The ability to deceive,
The ability to keep your emotions in check - smiling when you are angry, and vice-versa
The ability to be very patient

lol, don't worry, you will develop all this as time goes on and if you follow what i say

if you have any questions, i'm happy to help

Quinolone:
Attraction is not a choice, its very instinctual. And it doesn't have to do with looks or money contrary to popular belief, but it has to do with the way you act around women

Remember, this is indirect game which works on her subconscious and is more powerful

1: Mix interest with disinterest : Interest doesn't mean confessing your love to her, it means giving her attention, the kind of attention that is focused and intense, then suddenly taking it away. doesn't mean being rude or obnoxious, but taking away your attention

We all want what we can't have, and this particularly drives women nuts

This works especially on beautiful women who are used to guys fawning over her all the time, then suddenly, there comes this guy who she can't figure out

Remember its like a drug, give her intermittent shots, give her too much and she takes you for granted, wait too long between her doses and she finds another source

If you do this well, she will be in your inbox everyday begging you for attention, and this is when you strike

2: Don't be needy: in the beginning of the relationship, (by relationship I mean your encounter with her) its going to be all about her, everyone likes to talk about him/herself, its human nature, but resist the temptation to talk about yourself, unless she asks, talk about her, her hopes, her dreams, You'd be amazed at what people.will say about themselves if you just listened, in the beginning, unless she already likes you, she doesn't care about you, so don't bore her with things about yourself.


The more she divulges the more connected she'd feel to you, she rationalize that she won't tell you all this things to you if you weren't special lol, it's human psychology and it works on anyone


3: Never get angry : Getting Angry for any reason its not permitted in the beginning of the relationship, it reduces rapport, even if she's deliberately trying to annoy you,

Remember, women test men all the time with rude remarks about your looks or height or whatever, consciously or unconsciously to see if you are actually as confident as you seem

These techniques work all the time, forget all what these gurus tell you online trying to sell you bullshit about pickup and confidence bla bla, those things only work if she already likes you from the get go, and most women won't

Direct game ignites the chaser dynamic and you've also played your hand, she knows what you are up to from the get go, it's slower and doesn't work.most.of the time

ndirect game will make that your long time friend fall I'm love with you, it will make you steal people's girlfriends, hell, I'm not proud of it, but many girls have left their boyfriends for me, and I didnt even ask them to.. it will make any woman you meet fall for you if you incorporate it into your lifestyle

Feel free to ask if you have any questions, I'm.just a normal guy like you, but I studied and practiced these techniques for years now. Now I just want life to be better for more men, and to see these things that were once hidden in plain sight

Quinolone:
Sure, what would you like me to expantiate upon

benson4u:
Just tell me here what can 10k do for you with clear explanation. If your explanation is splendid enough I will send you the 10k. Please don't tell me you want to use it to solve family problems or pay debt. I need you to tell me what you will do with the 10k to generate something for you. Unlike trademoni 10k that you will have to pay back, mine is free. Remember to testify here if eventually given.

seunlayi:
Good news to the students on a day that is supposed to be declared a mourning day. Yes, inec wasted over 48hrs of our time