thanks everyone; you were all of immearsurable help.

i am 27 years and marrying the one i love (couple of months away) but i am so worried about disappointing him because i have made him wait for 3 years and i know i have nothing to offer with regards to expertise. What can i do as this will be my very 1st time with a man.
too many thoughts are going on in my head, a good advise will be most appreciated.

thank you all, you were of immersurable help.
you were right when u pointed out that my heart still yearns for demi in some sort of way but my head goes with niyi. the head should take precedence right?
thanks so much once more, think ill go with niyi, and i ll keep you posted.
N B
if you have the time, please say a word to the heavenly father abt me.thank you.

i need your advice,cos i am a whole lot confused.
thing is i had this boyfriend (demi), he is almost everything i want in my man,the tall, dark and handsome and to cap it all God fearing. the relationship went on steady, both of our families got involved and it was all so too good to be true. all of a sudden i started noticing he was drifting away, pointed this out to him, there wasnt any remarkable change, then i started to panic and finally he looked me in the eyes one night and told me he will rather have us be JUST FRIENDS.i was hurt and i couldnt allow myself realise how much so i started seeing this guy(niyi) i had known for 2years just 2 months after the break up.
niyi is good to me in more ways than i could say, although my heart is a bit rigid in opening up to him. niyi is not so much of a God fearing person but he is trying.
the problem now is demi wants a second chance, they both are proposing marriage and i am confused. i dont want to hurt niyi because he as been hurt severally and besides he as been too good to me. i dont even know the right thing to do anymore.

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i think finally somone got the question right and that would be muyiserra, although he just did a lousy job with it.
ill also like to know how we can have a good time table wriiten or not without having rice smiling in my face every other day in its single state or other forms or mix.

definately ogi. this is just like comparing pounded yam and poundo yam(yam flour). yea, ill give it to you taste differs but one just simply supersides the other "at least for me".

the protuding tommy might come due to so many factors, drinking, child birth, heriditory, bla bla bla.
i once read, that giving your tomach a little punch every now and then helps as it helps deflate the gas in it, i dont know if that can be medically proven but it works. try 20 slight punches every 3hours.

hey, if you stay within abuja, please try youghurt flavour by grand square, tastes are different but you wont regret it.

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i have since lost touch with my friend GBEMISOLA BAMGBOSE 'GBEMI' since our graduation (1999). efforts thus far to find her as been fruitless, please if you know her or how i can find her please reach me on 08055479286 or 07033828309. thank you.

your praise oh lord reaches to the heavens, your praise oh lord reaches to their heights,
your reighteousness is like a mighty mountain, upon the earth ill praise your name
i will exalt you oh lord, i will exalt you oh lord
ill praise your holy name
as heaven and earth sing to you
i will exalt you oh lord.

thank you dear ;lord Jesus for loving me inspite of me
for choosing me regardless of me
for wanting me despite my unworthy nature
for your grace, your love, your favour and mercy bestowed
i say thank you lord.

you did not post this as a Question you honestly needed an answer to. your mind is made up and you are just looking for pple that share your view or wld rub your back, im glad you are yet to get those.
whatever you decide to do with your knowledge, and mis interpretation of the bible is strictly up to you but ill warn you of one thing though BE CAREFUL. dont mislead a feeble mind that is reading what u ve to say. the bible says it will be better for a stone to be tried round your neck and be thrown in the middle of the ocean than for you to cause this little ones to sin.

i agree with you but existing does not neccessirily have to be a routine, there might be exciting changes in your day to day activities and you will simply still be existing. i know this because i have had a period of years that all i did was exist. when you find one thing being the core of your existance, if snacthed or taken away, its hard for you to bounce back on your feet in the land of the living.
so i am saying to ensure that we live and not just exist in this beautiful world of wonders and ampful opportunities to be who we want to be if we work at it, is to find the core of our existance in who will never fail us, who inspite of us and regardless of us as choosen to love us just like we are'agape love'.

was about to drop a line, but after going through your replies aisha2 as adequately addresses your issue. try and follow her advise

a lesson for us all especially the people with a bad temper. some mistakes cant be corrected just like we can take back our words. in the midst of a tantrum we could rely on Gods strenght knowing fully well that when we are weak thats when His strenght is made most evident.

may you find solace in the reassuring arms of the saviour. time as bruised your heels but be rest assured it will also heal the wound.take heart and do your possible best for those kids, its not all about financial assistance, a father figure and fatherly concern will go a long way for them. trust me i am wearing the shoes and the one i appreciate most over the years is the father figure not the money bank.

papa, even in here ill put on a candle for you. you ve been gone 11 years now but the pain so much seems it has come to stay.
your teachings discipline and the fear of God you encraved into my heart in my most tender years as made me who i am today, only that i cant get to see the smile on your face as i live my life to make all your dreams come true.
the hollow you left in me is too deep that nothing as been able to fill, not love, success or friendship.
if i could wish for any thing it will still be time with you, but since i cant have that, adieu papa, adieu daddy, adieu

hi dear, im glad you know what is right and you are willing to obey the Lord's commandment. It does not matter if you have had sex before or not what matters now is the state of your mind and what you are ready to let go of, remember no good thing comes without a sacrifice. ill advice you stop tempting yourself, think about YOU, what is it that easily turns you on and avoid it, you leave with enough quilt as it is dont add his. stop using the fact that you had sex before as an alliby for been weaker than he is.find out what works for you and with God by you, you will pull through. trust me His Grace is sufficient.