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harsysky:
I'll answer that. For a soft man and a die-hard woman, Wisdom, which is the principal thing for both the " soft man and strong man" must come into play. How?

Man is Man. We are the stronger vessel because of our MENTAL STRENGTH and not physical strength. A soft man should be after the root of the whole problem because I believe he knows his wife too well before he married her. Finding the root cause and settling it from there is far better than hitting.

No man knew his woman before he married her.

rosieluv:
once she loses dah respect,she cn prepare er mind to leave d relationship.

Do you think she would push him to the extent that the only option for him was to hit her if she was still interested in continuing with the relationship?

rosieluv:
ur point ere is dat a man only hits a woman he doesnt respect,where did u get dah belief frm?

Read my previous post again.

halfricanadian:
Awwww no one is Good but God we only trying to b good

Trying to be good is good so you're good

harsysky:
I could attribute that to anger, my friend. Have you beaten a kid who is now used to it, they will think they've earned what ever wrong they are doing since all you will do is hit them. So, if your wife is a die-hard, you will definitely kill her, right?

Let me ask you.



What happens when this die-hard woman marries a soft man?

Let's start from there

halfricanadian:
im trying to b good

lols.

You're good and to be honest, I respect you alot but I can't agree with you on this.

rosieluv:
dere r ways u cn correct a woman,buh d moment u hit a lady,she wil lose respect for u.

And what happens when she lose respect for him?

Will she also bottle the air he breathes and throw it into river?

Will a man even have the heart to hit a woman that "respects" him?

It rarely happens

halfricanadian:
Pushed to d wall and hitting a lady cos of dat is so wrong

Why should she push him to the wall in the first place?

Why is it that the only time you ladies take domestic violence is when a lady is hit?

How about telling women to respect their husbands, to control their tongues, to stop denying them sex etc.

Those are the things that stem up to physical abuse so the sensible thing to do is to tackle them first.

No man will let you kill him slowly and not react and hit you mercilessly because you're a woman.

If primary school taught me anything, it is to not cause trouble for anyone that is stronger than me because he would hit me.

Men are flesh and blood just like the rest of you. They have breaking point and there's no telling what they can do once they reach it so it is better not to push them to that level.

halfricanadian:
That ur frnd wouldnt allow any guy hit his sister or daughter even if such daughter or sister is so devilish

How can you say? I once beat a lady thoroughly for slapping her Mom and spitting on her face and her elder bro who was staying at Abj called me the next day to thank me.

halfricanadian:
Men dat dont see women as fellow human bt see dem as pple dey are superior to are d ones dat hit women

Those men that fight each other everyday see men as what?

You're so wrong here. There are two types of people that hit women.

Men are that are natural women bashers or men who have some mental problem and Men who are tired of taking shits from women.

The later are just paying those women their dues

halfricanadian:
God never approved u hitting a woman

He never approved disrespecting your husband, treating him like shits, insulting him, hitting him etc.

He commanded women to submit totally, something that Today's women see as slavery.

halfricanadian:
even wen eve pushed adam to d world greatest sin adam never hit hersef

You can do better dear.

I know you can, and I trust you.

harsysky:

You dey laugh? I personally don't sub to the idea that a real man doesn't hit a woman no matter what.

No! A real man hits a woman when need be.

That's all.

Y'know, I was talking with a sister one day when this talk came up and I told her to goan and ask real women how to treat a man and then come back to tell me if a man in his senses will hit such woman.

You're a bitch but you want your man to treat you like a queen because you have breast? No way.

Work for it. Earn it.

A woman have to love a man first to know him, a man has to know a woman first to love her.

You see the different?

If a woman insults me all night long, I will shut her mouth with the back of palm and she dare not complain because we are even.

She lost hold of her tongue and I lost control of my hand.

End of discussion.

Nobody should hit anybody or insult anybody.

The rule is simple.

Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.

No preferential treatment because you have vagina.

We are human with blood not gods so don't give us more than we can take.

Often time we hear women say "Trust me, I finished him with my mouth".

You see? They know how powerful their tongue is and how to use it to be-little a man but when the finished man raises hand they scream woman beater.

Excuse me!

I know her Nairaland moniker and she's a #team marriage is not for everybody.

Young guys 4ming men since 1313. Goan marry a jezebel let me see your strength



a strong man is he who fights for the oppressed, defends the defenceless and resets the defaulter to the appropriate setting when need be.

It is obvious that the part of breast women value is the nipple. The rest is just flesh

Cal down bro. We have few things in common and I don't feel bad like you do. I used to do hard starting too. I used to stamp feet on the ground like someone that is kick-starting a motorcycle just to say a word. But the story has changed today because I taught my self to speak slowly.

The only time I do hard starting now is when I am very angry so chill. Stammering isn't a crime. It isn't your fault, it isn't nobody's fault so accept it and practice how to manage it.

I am an introvert too, that's why I am always here when I am not doing any work, so chill. You're not alone.

As for telling people secrets, I keep all my shits to myself.

Trustdee:
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Stil if u believe the more you give the more God will bless you, please make it #500.
Your reward is from above.

You think say Nairaland nah bus?

What's the biggy?

You need brain upgrade

halfricanadian:
So true i agree with u

A guy that knows his value wouldn't give ladies reason to fight over him.

Estharfabian:
Guys really Ask this?


Seriously??

I, on behalf of all the guys on nland disown the op and his past and future articles.

You 4 kuku ma right your own bible nah

During Yaradua's tenure bah?

Sun don melt this one brain.

Vegasailin:
1. I was raped ; that was how I lost my virginity

By her uncle.

Vegasailin:
2. My Ex had sex with me once

And you're my second.

Vegasailin:
3. I don't like sex,I'm just doing this because I love you

But she will scream faster, harder until you faint

Vegasailin:
4. I'm in a relationship (if you are broke Ni**a)

It may be true

Vegasailin:
5. My boyfriend is outside the country

Her money bag you mean?
She simply doesn't like you

Vegasailin:
6. I love you not because of your money

But there will be no us without the money

Vegasailin:
. Oya Add your own

I love you too.


If a lady says "I love you" after you give her money, please don't say I love you too cause she's talking to the money, not you.

Who ask em? Who she epp?

Emperessnaughty:
Tools wedding..

Wedding gown bleh
Makeup bleh
Hair bleh
Venue bleh
Crown Abi wats dat on her head bleh
The only thing yummy der is her husband

You're a potential edible catering

State of origin or where u dey stay?

Stop drinking your pastor's anointing oil when he's not looking.

PRYCE:
To sum it all up, Buhari's a Colossal failure!

That his yesterday was bad doesn't mean that his tomorrow can't get better.


I don't like him but I wish he succeeds.

omenka:
..and what would you tell someone who doesn't believe in one

Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.



That's all.

I have been pushed and bent buh I no fall because I gallant

revenge001:
Wasn't easy....... nobody will understand how I felt that day. But thank God is over now

Thanks for being there for her.


Emotional support is worth more than a bag of gold for people who value it