₦airaland Forum

ogelekpomgam:
Some are experiencing this even in their marriage.Some ladies might hide this tendencies until they are married.Well,you are lucky you saw yours in time.
The rate of divorce is getting so high.
Many ladies are really non chalant with basic duties.Many of our mothers in the past were working class,but yet they dont play with some of these basic duties.
Things are really falling apart.

Ladies don turn workers just as in the ant world

You do cleaner work for just 1 year you Don taya, what of those ladies that have been enduring same situation with some guys for donkey years, even extending to family members as house help. Bro calm down just maybe your standard too high

sterlingD:
My brother drop her,discharge her end it and move on with your life.

If only God had dropped you despite all your imperfections

She simply found her safe space, she has shown you all her bad side just do your best to groom her, teach her, guide her, don't leave her if you love her

When they die we are all going into the same ground..

Byèeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee Doris. Your market will sell o. The world is waiting for you

What was the loan used for

And Wike is busy building houses for the judges

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Later now if they use her do ritual

Yaga

Is this news

how did this make front page?

How will this news reduce price of gari

Please where can I watch the match on dstv

This comment should be in the front page of every newspaper

ibechris:
Batists don enter one chance finally.

I knew Baba Tinubu with all due respect to him, can never deliver on this mandate.

He was never a performer in Lagos,as I witnessed it first hand.

For those who would come to shout yen yen yen...among the two former governors that preceeded him,it was obvious he failed during his time and he used propaganda that cannot work on a national scale to deceive the people.

Well,I was a secondary student then and i can tell for sure that he was a monumental failure.

Additionally,for the records,OBJ never seized the allocation of Lagos while he was the governor,rather Obj stopped the allocation of local govt in the state just like he did in Katsina,Ebonyi,Nasarawa and Niger states at the same time.

So,it is only idiots who don't verify facts from fictions that allows his propaganda to take over their senses.

In summary, Tinubu is becoming a national embarrassment. As taxing and over-taxing the people will back fire ultimately. In taxation class at the University,we were told that taxes are levied on the people on their ability to pay and not on their inability to pay and this i know for sure and Before I go,tell Yesom Wike that,he should be careful,what I see around him is very bleak. His political future is not rosy at all. He should learn from Amaechi.

Good night all.

make him sha know wetin him dey sign, before he sign war with Russia

For years Nigeria even with all these resources have been in darkness just because of greedy and bad leaders

Na soso flower Nigeria dey export, what of the crude oil! Who dey buy am?

oya sope oti lo

Always Red

Kobojunkie:
1. Your culture did indeed encourage women to remain virgins until marriage but it never barred the nonvirgins from getting married. So do not get carried away.

2. That isn't entirely true though.

3. I am afraid I don't know who that is.

Ekweremadu is a Nigerian politician being accused of organ harvesting current in foreign country

You can imagine what he and his family members are going through even with when money or providing isn't the problem

You can google him up

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Kobojunkie:
1. Your culture and traditions tell women that all they have to do is bring their bodies and minds prepared to serve their husbands in marriage so what are you rambling about a woman bringing sex to the table when the patriarchial culture created to benefit the men in marriage insists it should be so?

2. Who made whom for life support? The culture insists that the man bears sole financial responsibility in the marriage in order that he may sit as god over the woman in marriage. So when the man is not able to keep up his end of the agreement, he essentially breaches the marriage contract itself. Why resort to putting blame on women when the problem, as you explained was created by the man?

You keep talking about culture and traditions

By tradition a woman should remain a virgin till marriage

Op are you still a virgin?

Women who can takecare of their needs doesn't look out for rich men who will do what they already can do for themselves!
They lookout for outstanding men who will make them happy for the rest of their lives..

Op pray hard that life should not hit you

See Ekweremadu with all his money see what he's going through

I know a young lady that sells ebooks on amazon with her writing skills and makes money from it..

Op don't waste your time complaining about men not able to meet your insatiable needs please do something with your writing skills

Have a wonderful day

Kobojunkie:
1. It more than answers the question because the divorce rate/marriage abandonment rate among even the poor is high for that very reason.

2. Do you that life is better when you breed like rats all while stuck in poverty instead?

Ok i get the idea!

Get a man who is rich legit or not, then if anything goes wrong divorce and move to the next..

Only people without vision are scared of poverty

I'm sorry if s&x is the only thing a woman brings to the table, s&x is something you can anywhere even without a woman

Women cheat in marriage just because their husband is having financial setback, someone that was supposed to be life support

This is why young boys keep using them for rituals just so they could meet up needs of girls like op..

God help us

noonejustme:
Guys, from an Evolutionary and scientific standpoint, this lady is right.

But EriMma, these men responding to you are simply justifying feminism.

Now this... You sound like someone who upholds the traditional ways... Who wants a traditional man.
A traditional man is someone who will provide for you most ( if not all) of your needs, protect you from the elements and danger, while in return you give him your youth, femininity, fertility, respect, and most important of all, LOYALTY.

Another thing you need to give is your virginity to him( kind of goes together with Loyalty). Where that is not possible, AT least come into the union with a body count of not more than 3.

The thing is... Do you qualify as a traditional woman ?


This is why I always say that the bible ehn, na over complete dey worry am. The same bible that talk about a man being an infidel who cannot provide for his family is the one who said that a woman who is not married as a virgin( and the husband gets to find out and reports this) should be stoned to death

She will not reply this....

Kobojunkie:
1. Look around you to see what typically ends up happening when the sole bread winner of the home is no longer able to provide for the family he took on as his burden to get the most likely answer to your question.

2. Theory? What she expressed is what is culture and tradition in much of Nigeria today and the reason why the vast majority of your brothers and sons embrace hypogamy as their lot in life, a life sentence in poverty for the majority of them.

This does not answer my question.. what a pity

Sadly op concluded she can take care of her needs currently and it's better she stays on her own without a man, which is good for now..

Have you thought of how your old age will be like?
You may end up lonely or sad!!

Op

What if you get a man that can take care of your needs and later something goes south and he can't provide anymore... are you then going to abandon him and look for the next available man that can carter for your insatiable needs?

If you answer this question correctly then I'll accept your theory...

Please move to front page

Yes, I had to cut off totally from this particular friend of more than 5 years and we were very close.

he tried sleeping with my gf and said so many negatives things about me because we share a room, he asked my gf to be sleeping with him when i go to work and they should pretend nothing happened when I'm back

so I left the place that same day and I will never have anything to do with him again.