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kennygee:
Just google it. Coconut oil makes it possible for one to have fungal acne.

I agree. It's less oil the op needs now. Coconut oil can be introduced post treatment

Marbella003:
I took some of the advice from my previous thread and told my husband what happened. Here is the thread:

https://www.nairaland.com/5162191/cheated-husband-guy-work-dont

I was genuine shedding tears as I relayed my shameful experience to him. I apologized and begged for him to forgive me and I promised to never repeat such again. I thought he'd understand and forgive me. But I was wrong. My husband now wants a divorce. Actually, he has sent me and the kids out of his house. I have a daughter who is 4 and a son who is 2. My husband said he doesn't think he is the father. I assured him that he is and that he should get a DNA test to confirm. But he refused.

I rented a 2 bedroom flat somewhere close to my office. This is where I currently stay. Since leaving my husband's house I have only received a phone call from him where he stated the date that he and I were going to visit my parents who are currently in my village. He told me that if I wasn't going to come, he'd go alone and tell them what happened and why he decided to divorce me.

I feel like my life is over. I can't face my parents and tell them what I've done. It's very shameful. I can't even face my friends and relations. I feel like I'm drowning a pool of shame and despair. I can't imagine being a single mother at this age. I love my husband and I enjoyed our marriage. I can't imagine it all being over.

I called my colleague and told him everything. He said that I shouldn't hold him responsible for anything since our rendezvous was based on mutual consent. He said he doesn't want to have anything to with me and we should keep our relationship at work very platonic so as not to raise eyebrows of those who might link him to what happened with me.

I'm utterly hopeless. I feel like taking my life. I almost took this action yesterday but I pitied my children. But with every passing day I feel like suicide is the only way to end my pain. I wish I had listened to those people who advised me to keep what I did a secret. I wanted to, but every time I was with my husband I felt I was constantly betraying him by hiding the truth from him. I just want to die. I can't bare this pain anymore.

Three persons have volunteered to mediate and try to combine resources and good will to reconcile you with your husband. Do you mind sending me a Pm so we can get your WhatsApp contact?.

Marbella003:
I took some of the advice from my previous thread and told my husband what happened. Here is the thread:

https://www.nairaland.com/5162191/cheated-husband-guy-work-dont

I was genuine shedding tears as I relayed my shameful experience to him. I apologized and begged for him to forgive me and I promised to never repeat such again. I thought he'd understand and forgive me. But I was wrong. My husband now wants a divorce. Actually, he has sent me and the kids out of his house. I have a daughter who is 4 and a son who is 2. My husband said he doesn't think he is the father. I assured him that he is and that he should get a DNA test to confirm. But he refused.

I rented a 2 bedroom flat somewhere close to my office. This is where I currently stay. Since leaving my husband's house I have only received a phone call from him where he stated the date that he and I were going to visit my parents who are currently in my village. He told me that if I wasn't going to come, he'd go alone and tell them what happened and why he decided to divorce me.

I feel like my life is over. I can't face my parents and tell them what I've done. It's very shameful. I can't even face my friends and relations. I feel like I'm drowning a pool of shame and despair. I can't imagine being a single mother at this age. I love my husband and I enjoyed our marriage. I can't imagine it all being over.

I called my colleague and told him everything. He said that I shouldn't hold him responsible for anything since our rendezvous was based on mutual consent. He said he doesn't want to have anything to with me and we should keep our relationship at work very platonic so as not to raise eyebrows of those who might link him to what happened with me.

I'm utterly hopeless. I feel like taking my life. I almost took this action yesterday but I pitied my children. But with every passing day I feel like suicide is the only way to end my pain. I wish I had listened to those people who advised me to keep what I did a secret. I wanted to, but every time I was with my husband I felt I was constantly betraying him by hiding the truth from him. I just want to die. I can't bare this pain anymore.

Three persons have volunteered to mediate and try to combine resources and good will to reconcile you with your husband. Do you mind sending me a Pm so we can get your WhatsApp contact?

stalyf:
Thank you so much for your suggestion. I appreciate. But who would be editing for me?

Please hire me to provide free editing, para phrasing and editing of your works. We should push our brilliant minds forward. We can also discuss getting established as a brand aka blog with time..

RiyadhGoddess:
Please keep me posted

Okay madam

Your location please. How much does it cost to do this?

RiyadhGoddess:
How can I help too?

If the story isn't a fake, if its real we three can form a WhatsApp group and team up on steps to take to reconcile both. There's life left in this situation. It's too. Minor to end a marriage however big it is in the eyes of people.

OK..

OK.

Khaleell001:
This is why I don't like office interaction especially when it involves two opposite sex.
No matter the faith you have it will whittle down in no time.
We can't pretend that these things do not happen.

People should try to be less interactive with the opposite sex lest they fall into that which will destroy

I hope you come out if this better and stronger.

I agree 100%

powerkey:
Be Strong.

it's better the way you confessed to him.

Yes, it's also better you pay the price of your sin now.

You are free now in the sense that you have confessed and therefore the burden is now on him.

However, you need to make efforts to reconcile. use your pastor (not the type that will take advantage of your situation).

Use your brother, any good family member will do.


And finally, Separate yourself from that useless guy/man in your office that took advantage of you.

Hate him with all the strength in you....


I will follow up on you and I assure you that your husband will return.

Can we both follow it up together to reconcile both parties? How can I be of assistance.

EVILFOREST:
JESUS !!!!!
Rather than Going to a Medical Doctor..!!
Most People keep blaming BUHARI..
It’s obvious BUHARI is very sound upstairs.
I deeply apologize for my odd remarks towards him.
NIGERIA is really in TROUBLE....if despite the level of education you have, u still think like this..!!

I still think how? Is it too hard to. Imagine a medical expert could be on the forum oh evil forest

Sierusvirus:
I pity any lady or woman that lacks home training and respect for men to try this on me. She will regret her life.

The way men have accepted being a slave to women this days is heartbreaking, man shouldn’t beat a woman but it’s right for a woman to beat a man.

It’s obvious women don’t have single respect for men again but they want to earn respect from men.

I pity a stupid girl that will try such nonsense with me.

I give respect to those who accord same to me or deserves it too but fire to fire for those who sees it as their right to attack a man and feel it’s the right thing.

We'll said my brother. The only men ladies want to respect now are their bosses or pastors only

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
That comment is simply reality. What's my business with d video?

As usual, if it was the reverse you go type plenty grammar with that your oily cheeks. Please this thread isn't for reality but for the video. Go away awkaetiti

Abby255:
Please who can recommend a very good skin cream for me, my heads and chest are really rough but other parts are clean. Have used a lot of expensive creams and they're really not working

Start the treatment from within.

Go to a phamarcist tell them you need antibiotics they'll explain the doagse and how to use it rightly. Make sure you use the full pack of antibiotic as prescribed.

While you treat it internally then apply exfoliating cream for the external parts.

Gnld body creme will do you alot of good. For soap an exfoliating bar soap will help. Soaps like dove soap 300naira or okin soap 70 naira with two tines bathing daily will help.


Fun bact A or benzyl benzoate to clear the surface bacteria and the ones deep in the epidern will help.

Also buy methylated powder and apply after bathing on days you don't use the antibacterial

Always wash your bed sheets weekly sun dry your bed so the microbes in your bed dies from the heat of the sun.


Many skin rashes are caused from dirty bed linens. So ensure you do all these and you'll be fine


Cc generationz Mizwisdom

stalyf:
Thank you sir. Please share the criticism. It's one major way to check myself

Please start considering editorial so few ordinary sentences can be refined to bring it some notch higher. We want our geniuses to be purely genius. So I'm in support for refinement of some sentences using higher tenses.


I. E PDP and Atiku claimed the election was not done right could be better put this way. The opposition claimed the electoral process wasnt conducted in the right spirit.

Wonderful. I love lecturers that leave room to be debated.

Mraphel:
1. We voted clueless Shagari against formidable Awolowo southern candidate twice.

2. We voted an unknown politician against MKO Abiola.

3. We voted GEJ for his rebellious act against Yorubas which brought about Tinubu merging with the north.

4. We claimed Tinubu and Yoruba are coward but we insisted Atiefku must contest

We chose corrupt Obasanjo a Northern candidate from a northern party than Olu Falae a southerner

2023 is not yet here but is for Tambuwal, ATIKULOOTER or Kwankwaso another Fulani Muslim we complain about.


Who are the greater cowards now? Is we from the south east . I'm Igbo by the way.

We're very irrelevant in Nigeria politics that made us mad

Please educate me what we're the acts of Gej against the Yoruba?

Ultimatezlant:
Okechukwu as usual yet they would tell you they don't give a damn about Nigeria politics.


How I wish they had brain to decipher that the justice is only a chairman of the panel and have just one judgement alongside are fellow justices on the panel.

At the end of the day a case that is solid need not to be panicked about cos you can easily get 3 in 5 justices

It doesn't mean. If the case were reversed they too won't accept it. Panelist or chief judge

OEPHIUS:
A pattern is obviously playing out in Nigeria and that is conflict of interest, which has put the integrity of government institutions to question. We have seen it with the Independent National Electoral Commission (INEC) and now, the presidential elections petition tribunal.

In the build up to the 2019 general elections, there were a lot of questions on whether a National Commissioner of INEC, Amina Zakari, should be involve in the conduct of the election. Many had doubted her impartiality given her blood tie to President Muhammadu Buhari, who was on the ballot for re-election, strengthening call for her to recuse herself from the process.

But neither Zakari or her employer heeded those calls, putting the credibility of the election on trial. Questions of credibility thrown at the electoral umpire by opposition parties and concerned Nigerians have made it difficult for the outcome of the results to be generally accepted.

Similar question abound now that the outcome of the election is being subjected to litigation. It is no other but the raging controversy on the composition of the Presidential Election Petition Tribunal, which has the President of the Court of Appeal, Justice Zainab Bulkachuwa as the chairman of the five-man panel.

Justice Bulkachuwa had arose expectations on the panel to serve fairness when she declared in the inaugural sitting of tribunal that "the Court of Appeal will work in accordance and within the dictates of the constitution, the law and international best practices, to dispense justice to all, without fear or favour, affection or ill will”.

But in another breadth, she observed that "Elections are held every in Nigeria every four years into elective position. No matter how well the election is conducted, there are bound to be complaint(s)."

Predictably, the observation of Justice Bulkachuwa pitched her against the main opposition Peoples Democratic Party (PDP), who questioned her impartiality and asked her to recuse herself from the panel. In a letter to justify its call, the national Chairman of the PDP, Uche Secondus, rallied the fear of PDP to get justice from the Bulkachuwa led panel considering that "your dear husband, Hon. Adamu Mohammed Bulkachuwa, contested for February 23, 2019 election for the position of a Senatorial role in Bauchi North Senatorial district and won same on the platform of the All Progressives Congress (APC)."

That was a valid observation that put trust on trial and integrity of the panel under public scrutiny. It's a general expectation that judges must be an umpire– a neutral and impartial arbiter who favours no political party, litigant or policy. But when this sort principle is abandoned– for instance, a judge observing that "no matter how well an election is conducted" before a trial starts– is obviously improper.

It send a wrong signal that justice may not be within reach and that is dangerous. Even before taking a look at the merit or otherwise of the petition filed against the election outcome, Justice Bulkachuwa tone in her address seemed like a first step toward compromise.

PDP and its presidential candidate, Atiku Abubakar were convinced that the election was not conducted well and that the return made by INEC was unjustified, hence, their petition before the court. That was the right thing to do. That is the most acceptable route in a democracy but the faith in that approach can only be sustained if the arbiter does not presume the intent of petitions.

Judges are like every other human and as such, have ties and affinity. From their immediate family to mutual friends– ex-school mates or social acquaintance, there will always be interest. In some instances, it could be surreptitious political interest, financial exchange and even mutual investment interests that could constitute bias for a judge.

These are realities that can't be entirely discarded. However, when such relationships do create a perception of bias, a judge is duty-bound to take their hands of such case. That has been the call for Justice Bulkachuwa to recuse herself from the panel that would determine the petition that arise from the last presidential election.

From the details available, Justice Bulkachuwa marriage to an APC chieftain, who is now a senator-elect on the platform of the APC, is enough ground for compromise. This is deepened by the fact that the learned justice faith makes her submissive to her husband and this may decisively weigh on her opinion and decision on the dispute.

This fear was captured in PDP’s letter to Justice Bulkachuwa on the need for her to excuse herself from the panel by noting that "it would be impossible for your lordship to convince any reasonable man that your dear husband never discussed this petition, which he is patiently interested in its outcome with you, throughout the trial." That is the doubt agitating the minds of many interested Nigerians and unfortunately, Justice Bulkachuwa cannot entirely clear that mistrust.

Compounding the mistrust, is the revelation that Aliyu Haidar Abubakar, a biological son of Justice Bulkachuwa campaigned for President Buhari in the election that is being contested before the panel she head. PDP had made the disclosure in a motion to push for Justice Bulkachuwa withdrawal from the panel, pointing out that her (Bulkachuwa) biological son, Aliyu Haidar Abubakar is a card-carrying member of the 3rd respondent (APC) and he contested the governorship primary election of the 3rd respondent in Gombe State." The party went on provide Facebook page and pictures to support it claims.

Without doubt, available details are not assuring of an impartial arbiter. And if the maxim of he who comes to equity must come with clean hands, Justice Bulkachuwa should step down from the panel without any further delay. The petition before the panel is a delicate one as it will preface the future of Nigeria and a legal precedence for years to come. It would therefore be a grave injury to our democracy and setback to many who considers judiciary as the last hope of the hopeless due to conflict of interest.

Oke Umurhohwo is a Political Analyst and Strategist. He tweets via @OkeStalyf and can be reached via oke.umu@gmail.com

https://thepunditng.com/presidential-elections-petition-tribunal-like-zakari-like-bulkachuwa-by-oke-umurhohwo/

Yet another masterpiece Mr. Oke. I have one soft criticism to make though if you'll entertain it. But first allow me solidly welcome you into the hallmark of transcended men who speak for truth and integrity. As you continue to tred the path of impartialty speaking the truth, may you continue to shine..