₦airaland Forum

duwdu:
Mr. Buhari observed that Nigeria, which had earned reputation in the fight against criminal activities and defence of territories abroad, found out that it could no longer defend a few local government areas occupied by insurgents.
“I seek your understanding,” Mr. Buhari appealed.

That part always baffles me too Mr. President. We seek understanding please

Nothing beats abstinence. All these drugs will have hidden long-run consequences that may end up coming back to hunt one when one is supposed to relax and enjoy old age.

JimiCoker:
Having taken the pains to read this journal, I can confidently say I am aghast at how terrified some guys are of interacting with women. Its appalling to think some guys actually have to be coached on how to hold a conversation with a lady. Maybe its because most guys only see girls as sex symbols and thus interact with women with the sole motive of bedding them. Just strike up a conversation with a girl and if you like her, request for her phone No. It really is that simple. Worst she can say is no. If you're mature, you don't need anyone to tell you how to compose yourself when conversing with a lady, if you're not, wait till you are. And please get rid of this mindset that the sky will fall on your head if you don't make sexual advances on every female you meet on the road.
It grieves me each time I see these intricate zen-like techniques that train men how to say "hello" to girls. Its like you guys think girls are these terrifying, dimwitted monsters that have to be approached gingerly. Who says a lady can't maintain a conversation if you flounder?

Well said bro! But you must also understand that not all men are the same, as our faces are different, so are our confidence level and self-esteem! Many factors contributes to robbing a man of his self-esteem. Criticism from those he expects praises from, background, upbringing, environment and many things. I once lived with a low self-esteem but gradually I overcame. There are many guys out there who are yet to get there, I guess they need all the help they can get

AishyWemsy:
dear ode, majority carry the vote

Its very easy to state your point without name calling. What warrants the insult is what am still yet to fathom! Only kids and people with low self-esteem do what you just did. SMH

Thunder fire Obama left nyash

Omotola is so hot she can flame a tree

Woe betide Kogi state if they let this stupendous spender clench the reins of power in the state come 2019 or beyond.

Oya over to TEAM BACHELORS in the house, this pampers abi na hampers is enough to kill this Christmas. Another advantage of being single; you get to spend less in seasons like this

As I was going through my “ashana’s” bag some days ago and I saw three packets of POSTINOR 2 in it , I was very curious to actually know if this drug had very severe side effects to a lady so i consulted my real girlfriend “google. com” some hours later.

Postinor 2 is a medication to prevent pregnancy if you shine the sperm into the ovary, whether intentional or not. It can prevent pregnancy 95% in the first 24 hours after intercourse, it is used as a form of emergency contraception (more commonly known as a morning after pill). Postinor-2 is formulated to function in a manner similar to the female hormone progesterone allowing for prevention of pregnancy if taken within a reasonable period of time. Generally, it is recommended that Postinor-2 be taken no later than three days after having unprotected se x.
EFFECTS OF POSTINOR 2

1. When taken in the middle of the menstrual cycle, the preparation may inhibit ovulation.

2. The pill can cause changes in the menstrual cycle in the lady. Your next period could start earlier or later than expected and flow can be
lighter or heavier than normal.

3. It can cause nauseating feeling which occurs in approximately 25% of users vomiting

4. It can also bring about bleeding disturbances in some cases, 2-3 days following tablet ingestion
Sometimes it can cause breast tenderness, headache, dizziness, fatigue.

5. In the majority of cases the next period starts as expected or somewhat earlier, if the period is more than 7 days late it is recommended to
perform a pregnancy test.

6. In case of prolonged or heavy bleeding, gynaecological examinations is advised.

7. If the user has a reported case of asthma, heart failure, hypertension, migraine, epilepsy, renal impairment, diabetes mellitus, hyperlipidaemia,
depression, and / or stroke, the preparation may be used exclusively in the above mentioned emergency cases. it is not appropriate for
regular use.

The manufacturer of the emergency contraceptive offers the efficiency of the pill when it is taken as directed. Logically, the longer the interval between unprotected sex and taking the pill, the decrease in how effective it will be. It is estimated that Postinor-2 will prevent 85% of expected pregnancies. 95% of expected pregnancies will be prevented if taken within the first 24 hours.

So I employ every guy to always walk around with postinor2 because you never know when you will have a match because you don’t want to receive that “We need to Talk” text after 7 weeks.

Last Bullet: Prevention is better than cure, and if you no fit hold body, abeg use condom.

Read more at: http://www.naijaonpoint.com/features/must-read-ladies-see-the-shocking-effect-of-postinor-2-drug-for-prevention-of-pregnancy.html#ixzz3tpQQ5tjc

Atom57:
Residents said the gunmen who wore masks and operated for about one hour without any resistance from security agencies, drove into the community at about 9.30pm in two cars and shot sporadically at residents of Odofin, Kano, Jebba, Osolake and Bello Streets.

When Vanguard visited the community on Tuesday, a team of policemen from the Denton Police station and the Rapid Response Squad were seen patrolling the community.

According to a police source, the team of policemen stormed the Ebute Onipomo area, a slum community, close to where the shooting took place and arrested four persons in connection with the shooting.

Our security agents will always be no where to be found when the action is going down, but after all is said and done, you see them coming out to flex their muscles on innocent citizens. I feel sorry for the innocent ones arrested. RIP to the departed.

I wouldn't have had any problem with this move, but the fact that it is always what the lower class use to console themselves that the government seem to be after, before it was banning importation of I-pass-my-neighbor-Gen without banning all gens entirely, why didn't he ban prostitution entirely in the state and make it a crime punishable by law in his state so we'll know it affects everyone, down to they (the high class) that patronize prostitution the most.

Favparis:
ONLY ONE LEFT Sir.........

I'll whatsapp you MA

What a cute baby! God abeg us all with lovely looking angels like this

There are somethings we need to make the mistake ourselves to learn from, its only unfortunate this dullard will not live to learn from his should that tanker explode and catapult him to the world beyond.

Guys make all sort of mistakes that lead to failure with women, dating and relationships. Could one of the following mistakes be the reason why you haven’t been succeeding with women lately? As you read through each of the common reasons why men fail with women, you’ll see that most of them are completely FIXABLE or avoidable. How many of these mistakes have you made with women?

10. Showing too much interest too soon

The best way to show interest in a woman is to allow your interest to rise and fall depending on how she treats you, what she’s like as a person and on any other criteria you decide that you like or don’t like in a woman. Many guys make the mistake of showing 100% attraction and interest in a woman right away. It is fine to be 100% attracted to her, but it is not fine to be 100% interested in her unless she really earns it.
Showing 100% interest in a woman will usually make her feel as though she doesn’t need to do anything else to impress you or maintain your interest. In many cases, the woman will assume that you might be desperate or that she is out of your league. So, make sure that you only allow your interest to rise if she behaves in the ways you like. In other words, be a bit of a challenge… If she is being mean and bitchy towards you, or not contributing much to a conversation, you should pull back your interest in her. Believe me, she will respect you so much more for doing that and in most cases, she will then try to impress you to get your approval.

9. Being too nice

When asked what she is looking for a in a guy, most women will say something like, “Well, he has to be nice…has to listen and actually care about me.” Many guys misinterpret that as being the keys to success with women and assume that the nicer they are to girls, the more that girls will like them. Yet, that’s just not how it works. When a woman says “I just want a nice guy,” she isn’t referring to a nervous, extra polite nice guy who feels like he needs to pay for everything, buy her gifts all the time, do everything that she wants to do, always give in to her demands and try really hard to impress her. Instead, she is referring to a nice guy who: Is confident around her, other women, alpha males and people in general; Flirts with her and creates a sexual vibe; Makes her feel girly in response to his masculinity; Uses humor in an attractive way; Is respected by other men.

There’s nothing wrong with being nice to a woman, but it’s not what makes her feel sexually attracted to you. The approach that I teach here at The Modern Man is about being a good guy, but also being sexually attractive to women. A lot of guys fail with women because they assume that being nice to a woman will make her “like” him and want to be with him. However, liking you as a person is completely different to feeling sexual attraction for you.

8. Not creating sexual tension

Creating sexual tension between you and a woman is a MUST. Being a woman’s friend is NOT the step before having sex with her. You have to use flirting to create sexual tension and then release that sexual tension via kissing and sex. Many guys feel as though creating sexual tension will be seen as “too forward” or “sleazy.” Over the years, guys have said to me, “The girl I like isn’t like other girls. She’s nice. She’s conservative” and all that sort of stuff. What a guy like that doesn’t realize is that women choose their boyfriends based on sexual desire, regardless of how conservative they behave. Just like he masturbates at home every week, women also masturbate almost as often.

7. Not approaching attractive women

If you only talk to women that you’re not attracted to or can’t hook up with (e.g. women who have a boyfriend or husband, coworkers, etc), then you’re not going to get what you want with women anytime soon. For example: Have you ever been in a bar and noticed a beautiful woman that you’d love to meet? Even though she might have been your perfect woman, you didn’t approach her. You just looked at her and daydreamed about what it would be like to be with her. Why don’t you approach women that you find attractive? It may be that you: Think that women don’t want to be approached; Are unsure what to say when you approach; Are worried that you will run out of things to say and the conversation will get awkward; Don’t how to get a woman interested in you when you approach; Are afraid of being rejected.

If any of the above apply to you, then you can either keep going through life living on the sidelines or you can learn how to get in on the action. The fact is that women are open to being approached in social environments. Women know that it’s the man’s role to approach and they hope to be approached by a confident guy who will be able to lead them through a sexual courtship and into a relationship.

6. Ignoring opportunities to meet single women

There are millions of beautiful, single women who would love to be in a relationship with you right now. It really is true. Millions of single women wish they could find a guy just like you right now. If that is the case, why haven’t you met each other yet? I’m not sure how you currently try to meet women, but most guys who fail with women tend to rely on: Maybe getting lucky one day. How long have you been waiting so far?; Chance encounters (e.g. you happen to get introduced through friends and then hit it off). When was the last time that happened?

Would you be confident enough to handle being introduced to a beautiful woman or would you feel intimidated by her, get nervous and ruin the opportunity? As you may have experienced, using only a couple of ways to find a girlfriend often leads to being single and alone for long periods of time.

5. Giving up too easily

At the first sign of a woman losing interest, most guys give up thinking that they’ve blown it and quickly leave the interaction. When it comes to approaching women, one of the most important things you will ever learn is to STAY IN THERE. I’ve seen guys (who had previously never approached women in their life) hook up with beautiful women on their second night of practice. One of the main reasons for their success was simply staying in there and not giving up. The guys who are the most successful with women STAY IN THERE and keep the conversation going, keep flirting and keep moving things forward all the way to a phone number, kiss or sex. Staying in there demonstrates one of the most attractive traits that women look for in a guy: Confidence.

Of course, if a woman is telling you to “Go away!” then it’s probably not going to be a good idea to stay in there. However, if it’s just a case of the conversation stalling and getting a bit quiet at times, make sure you stay in there. In most cases, the woman will not know what to say to keep the conversation going and will hope that you have the confidence to stay in there and keep building a connection with her.

4. Lacking confidence

The #1 thing that women are attracted to in men is confidence. However, most men have a hard time feeling confident around the women they like. If you tend to doubt yourself around women that you find attractive, you simply need to change the way you think. For example: A friend once worked as a personal trainer in a gym. A lot of the customers were beautiful women; many of which he wanted to date. So, he decided to conduct an experiment. Instead of thinking like he always had, “Does this woman like me?” or “Would I have a chance with her?” he changed his thinking to, “She wants me” and assumed that he was correct. Not only did he feel an immediate boost in his own confidence, but he also noticed an immediate change in how women spoke to him. Suddenly, women were smiling and giggling when they talked to him. Why? The women sensed his confidence by noticing his body language, the way his spoke and how he looked at them. He then began to have sexual relationships with a number of women at the gym over the following months. Pretty remarkable for such a small change in mindset

3. Thinking that it is impossible to get better results with women

Many guys go through life thinking that if they haven’t been able to succeed with women so far, they are doomed for life. They develop all sorts of insecurities and come up with excuses about their looks, height, money, job, etc as being the reason for their lack of success with women.
Little do those men know that being successful with women requires a certain skill set. Just like you can learn to drive a car or play a guitar, you can also learn the skill set required for success with women. There is a skill set involved in approaching women, talking to women, escalating to kissing and sex, relationships and love. These are all things that a guy can learn and master. Yet, instead of seeking a solution, men distract themselves with work, study, sport, TV, porn and wasting time online. The longer these men ignore their problems with women, the longer they have to put up with being single, lonely and frustrated. If you’ve read this far, then you’re obviously aren't different to most guys. You know that it’s possible to improve your skills with women. Yet, will you actually get started? Are you going to keep dulling your sexual desire each week by jerking off to porn, or are you going to grow up and be a man who gets laid and gets a girlfriend in real life?

2. Fearing rejection

If meeting and dating women was as simple as saying “Hi” and then living happily ever after, we’d all be living in a completely different world right now. In the real world, no guy is compatible with every woman he meets. The guys who are the most successful with women don’t see incompatibility as “rejection” like other guys do. If they meet a woman and it doesn’t work out, they see it as NORMAL and NATURAL. In fact, the guys who are most successful with women see it as normal to meet 10 women and only properly “click” with three or four of them. They also understand that is completely normal to then only choose one or two of those women to begin dating and having sex.

1. Living in the past

It doesn’t matter if you have failed with women in the past. It also doesn’t matter if you’ve loved 100 women, only to be told the “I just want to be friends” line each time. All of that can change. EVERY GUY who has learned techniques for success with women has failed with women (in some form or another) in the past. What separates them from all the other guys who continue to fail with women is that they have discovered the techniques for success with women and they now USE THEM.

Source: http://www.themodernman.com/10_reasons_men_fail_with_women.html

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AishyWemsy:
Girl if u r caught cheating, and he says he forgive u after ur plea and I don't deserve u stuffs, just know his forgiveness is not real, even if he was sincere at that point, d whole show will always haunt him and u will receive cold treatment each time. Am yet to meet d man that can sincerely and really forgive that. Be real and faithful. Though it is sad to say, men get away with it, they get forgiven. Is just so unfair

Sounds like words from experience, but you are not entirely right my dear in trying to generalize it, not all men fit into the bolded 'box' you just carved out

That LIFE is a B*tch, she only treats you well when you are hard on her and that she only respects you when you are wadded with enough bread to sue even the devil

stupidity:
Galz can jealous ehn.

I remember one day when I dey watch mojography with my bae, my penls stand erect, na xo my babe vex, say why my penls go stand for another girl wey I nor know

LMFAO ..... Bros, your solution simple, just obtain camera make una make una own mojography! chikena

Favparis:

Talk about your signature, has it been taken?

Jealousy is good, because you cant get jealous over what you don't care about!

Still Single & Searching

5 years experience At 27? That is at 22 she must have graduated and served, that is if we neglet the fact that immediate admission into higher institution, or immediate employment after graduation is not a guarantee in this part of the world. That 'mid-sized' company managers' head dey touch somewhere.

What do we believe now. God help our dear Mother Naija

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Sonye:
Hi Amax I am glad i have finally seen you. Hope i'll meet you. My number is 018984717.
Holla

Sonye Dear, why did you have to delay till the next day, we could have been birthday mates? but glad to find you, you're still my birthday mate! Hope we become friends