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ginaolo:
You don’t understand
I love her very much

I just don’t know if we are compatible socially. That is the only fault with her. But I didn’t know if this fault will be so huge to the extent that it will affect our marriage . She has social anxiety to the extreme. Very extreme.

Guy it's not a fault abeg it's who she is. Aswr you dey vex me like this

Bros you again

Hope you don't call her akward to her face tho, that's disrespectful.

It's like you too like Waka?

You sef sit at home more often, why does she have to be the one to adjust because you like attending events. Plus she may actually make more effort if she sees you willingly make the sacrifice.

But if you can't then abeg free the babe she's still young at 24, na her type I dey find like this cos I'm sure she's very rich intellectually and has a lot to bring to the table.

Greenback:
It's obvious you are in Monrovia Liberia...

Monaco

username1111:
I've been seeing different threads about women looking for husbands and I created a new account to share this

when my mum was alive she told me she wishes for me to be married latest by 25 but she died when I was 16 and rounding off with secondary school.
Now the issue is I'm 36 and single. Not the I intended for this to happen but I find out that all my exes leave me for the most mundane of all reasons, some never even bothered to give reasons
examples include:
1. I prefer a little more flesh after dating for over 3 months (I'm not skinny lo I'm size
2. 'My mum adds more palm oil to the soup than you' and I replied 'you have a heart condition it's best to cut down on oil' than he said I disrespected his mum
3. There's this student that asked me out and when I got to know he was a student, I told him to focus on his education and graduate first but if he needs assistance he should come to me. Guess what he laughed in my face saying ill die lonely that he wants to manage me I'm making Shakira
4. One's mother just took a long look at me and said I look pretentious.
5. One said I don't socialise well with his friends, etc
It got to a point I was afraid of going into relationships customer I know it will end in tears
One day I went to Bodija market to get a few things and I gave a better some change and she told me I'm married to spirits and that's why my relationships don't last.
Long and short of the matter is for 4 years I've been enriching people who promise to separate us. I've made peace with it and living my life plus I have 7 children from my 4 brothers.
Now there's this guy that has been calling my phone but I'm afraid to meet him customer without solutions I know it will still end in tears

Guys let's be a little nice to the female folk and stop calling them hoes, evening newspapers, etc without knowing their stories. You never know your trolling could be the reason someone commits suicide or is killed in a road accident while being absent minded. the funny thing is you will not know that you have blood on your hands and won't ask your maker for forgiveness

The spirit angle.... do you have sex in your dreams?

Netanya:
awww, she reduced in weight and became more fair

Omo this ya lips

I no fit forget that 2002 strike.

Blue3k:
Its odd how paranoid, delusional and ignorant you guys are about the topic. Nobody betreyed Nigeria because they didnt break any agreements. Ghana said they want to implement single currency without currency peg. The Former CFA countries always opperated outside of Nigeria influence.

As stated before only Togo met convergence criteria for currency after 2 decades. The rest are just yapping. You guys just shoe horn France into conversation so you dont have to talk about your nations inaction. Why not lead the charge by meeting criteria and have togo join instead of wailing? The rest will join later if they please.

The former CFA countries did three things.
- repatriate foreign reserves from France
- kicked France from monetary board
- changed name of their currency to ECO

Ghana requested:
-Every member member state meet convergence criteria first
- establish central bank
- adopt flexible exchange rate

Are you certain about the bolded? I believe France is still running things behind the scenes. Plus they're pegging the currency on the Euro, so I heard anyway

That's a very impressive resolution. Keep it up

funmisticqueen:
marriage is not about control. Money is what gives control. Stop misquoting me from your place of pain.

Also stop this 'poor me' 'boohoo' victim mentality, it is irritating and pathetic. You are the one emasculating yourself, by allowing yourself to be emasculated.

Most likely money was all you had to offer in the marriage and now that you have lost that, you are just like an appendix in your marriage. Existing without function, but capable of causing hell because no one cares about it anymore.

It is not about bringing more money but showing that you are a leader, and being her support. Give her a reason to trust you by showing initiative. Do you think women like to be bread winners? She is picking up your slack.Of course She will be pissed at you subconsciously.

Be proactive, anticipate needs in the marriage that you can provide and meet them without being told or nagged. Convince her that you are still necessary in your marriage. Get your head out of your asshole and be man.


This is the most candid advice you will get from me or on your thread

This girl no get sense. As your face wowor reach na so your thoughts ugly.

Ugu-LEEEE biatch!!

FromZeroToHero:
Took it this morning before going to work

Omo this your daughter na your carbon copy. Happy New year bros

Stalwert:
Will do

https://blogs.mediapart.fr/jecmaus/blog/300114/franceafrique-14-african-countries-forced-france-pay-colonial-tax-benefits-slavery-and-colonization

https://www.google.com/amp/s/qz.com/africa/1763066/how-the-france-backed-african-cfa-franc-works/amp/

Check these out

CSTR2:
Don't join the ECO.
France is too small to be a colonial entity to Nigeria in this stage of our nationhood.

Even India and Brazil have outpaced the United Kingdom and Portugal and that should be our ambitions.

Nigeria should provide alternatives to France in West Africa. This is what we should be doing right now.
Provide a viable economic and military alternative to other West African nations.

At this stage of our nationhood, if France should threaten a West African country, they should be able to count on Nigeria to provide a military deterrence.

Unfortunately, years of bad,inept and shallow leadership has ensured that is not the case.

France is prancing about arrogantly in West Africa because Nigeria has left a vacuum and failed in her natural responsibilities.

They don't bother about France anymore in North Africa.

They don't mess with Algeria anymore not with Egypt Morocco and co there to contend with. Unfortunately opposite is the case in west Africa that's why their whole focus is on us.

EzeIgbo1:
Exactly. Nigerian youths shout with zero content in their dumb skulls.

They want Nigeria to jump on it because White France said so?

Before the Euro came the British pound was the strongest currency in that region so based on this they rejected the euro. How did that affect UK? It never affected her. They still remain stronger that the euro per strength of currency

Nigeria has the economy of west Africa in her pocket and this is our strength. None of the west African countries can rise above Nigeria even with the adoption of the eco.

Their economy would remain the same, their exports same, their GDP same. The chief beneficiary to this eco move would be France because they are the puppet masters and would continue leeching off west Africa through this new method of colonialism

10 litres of palmy for you honourable sir

Bros, track the manchi just like Joey Tribbiani and perform the wedding rites yourself if you have to. No sis of mine is giving birth to no bastard.
Hopefully the guy's parents may be wealthy enough to aide the young couple till they find their feet.

pocohantas:
I don't support sexual harrassment of any form, but you don't follow a guy to his house and spend the night if you are not planning to have sex. What were you expecting you both to do all night? Bible study?

You say he was so nice to you? Probably buying you isi ewu and Heineken- you were gulping it down. You didn't know you will pay back?

Watch how you sleep in guys houses and chop their money. There is no free lunch, even in free town.

Sorry about your experience.

This babe na confam craze

hammerU:
AFRICA BELONGS TO FRANCE.


SOUTH AMERICA BELONGS TO SPANISH.


USA BELONGS TO BRITAIN.



WE ALL ACCEPT FRANCE, AT LEAST THEY ARE BETTER THAN THE ISLAMIST THAT WANT TO KILL US ALL.


NOTHING CAN MAKE ME TURN AGAINST FRANCE.


THEY ARE ALWAYS THEIR WEN WE NEED THEM THE MOST.


VIVE LA FRANCE.

Then who does North America belong to? What of Australia or even Antarctica?

Lucid1:
The writer of this article is delusional and should not be listened to.

What's the meaning of this : "...Nigeria is essentially kept out of the currency because the country will not accept the conditionalities established by France."

I refused to highlight more because I'd have highlighted the entire article.

I pray the writer received sense

Oga highlight more or counter the points there is time we are here to learn

Vortex369:
Nigeria can not adopt ECO as long as France mints and controls the Treasury.

If the Federal Government is Smart, they will allow us to collaborate with China and mint prototypical exacts of the ECO Currency and get into these Francophone slave colonies and exchange them with Euro and bring back Euro to build our country. We need to flood their system with excessive ECO until they get hyper-inflation and increase taxes to mop up excess liquidity while we enjoy.

This is what Iran and China does to countries who think they are smart.

You're computergeek aren't you?

fkj950ax:
Exactly what Fela's peers who happened to be your parents age mates said then.

But you sef reason am, the only thing they have in common is the Igbó they smoke.
I have nothing against Naira Marley but you should know Fela as an activist was doing something, he was fighting tyranny for his people.
What is Naira Marley doing apart from his insta stories where he condenms efcc and Sars and shouting marlians mafo up and down abegi

fkj950ax:
This is exactly what was said about Fela by your parents and his peers, but today, he's the most impactful artist that ever came out of Africa.

Naira Marley has a right to conduct his affairs and anyone above 18 years old also is responsible for their choice to be a Marlian. Stop blaming parents or Naira Marley for decisions of other adults

Bro pls don't compare Fela and Naira Marley ever again

tsdarkside:
why are you soo pissed....??
am just tellin you what i think....

Negro fuçk what you think too

tsdarkside:
you know that is a muslim state and you go their dressed like....
common sense should have told you this is completly wrong....

Fuçk you which one be Muslim state again...you mean the terrorized state full of displaced and homeless apprehensive people? I repeat, fúck you again!