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 Romance › Is It Enough Reason For Her To Leave?? by kuyola(op): 8:26pm On Jun 02, 2015 |
my gf $ I had a little rancour over calling her while she was sick. I called her once but in d night cos her fone is faulty she had to use sm1 else fone to call in d night. subsequent days after dat I cudnt reach her till d third day wen she now called herself. she got angry n started to blame me for not been caring, said so many tins wich were not as it was, dis got me angry I made a statement wich I shdnt av made- I told her ' I nid a break' meaning she shd give me a break, cos she nags very well. the next day she did call me n said dat I wud av dat break 4eva, I tried to explain wat I meant by dat statement buh she told me we aren't coming back togeda. there is NP amount of plea dat I've not done buh she had made her decision, meanwhile all ds happened TRU d fone cos she travelled to her hometown. I still couldn't bliv she is gone out of my life. I LOVE HER VERY MUCH AM SURE SHE DOES FEEL DSAME.. she called me very often even though we're not together. she sent me this last 4 days" its been a yl since u left my life it has not been easy n am missing u so much" do I still av some faith of reunion wit her?? pls advise nairalanders. |
| Romance › Re: She Is A Virgin But She Wants My Virginity by kuyola(op): 9:05pm On Jan 01, 2015 |
IamLEGEND1:bros na fight  |
| Romance › Re: She Is A Virgin But She Wants My Virginity by kuyola(op): 9:04pm On Jan 01, 2015 |
Maamin:may I know how old u are |
| Romance › Re: She Is A Virgin But She Wants My Virginity by kuyola(op): 8:59pm On Jan 01, 2015 |
harrysterol:PST 23 |
| Romance › She Is A Virgin But She Wants My Virginity by kuyola(op): 5:47pm On Dec 31, 2014 |
In a relationship, its often guys dat introduces sex but in my case my gf was d initiator. I respect a lady up to d point of knowing when she wants sex n wen she dos nt. I initially told her she shd b patient.... buh ds had caused misunderstanding overtime. I decided to make her happy though I was nt in d mood at dat time. date was fixed n wen it was d-day she had to bring up an excuse dt she might nt come on time which at d end of d day she did nt come, i gav her a 2nd chance n ds time I was ready for her I jst had to take my time b4 setting out. she called if I am almost near, but I told her d truth dt am jez setting out....she got angry n said I shouldn't worry abt it..in a nutshell it wasn't possible d second time. Then I began to tink...perhaps it was nt time yet for me to engage in sex rather than forcing it to hapn. she still desperately want a part of me buh no matter d try it will still end up nt hapnin. I love my gf very much n she loves me too, I do nt want her to cheat. pls nairalanders, ur good advise is highly needed. 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: My Lady Longs To Be With Me But I Don't Have Much Time To Spend With Her by kuyola(op): 1:55pm On Oct 21, 2014 |
KMTee:yea, probably if she gets her own job she'll be occupied, working on it.  |
| Romance › Re: I Had A Blood Covenant by kuyola(m): 3:55pm On Oct 20, 2014 |
blood covenant is old fashioned and as a matter of fact ...you'll only have the consequences on ur head... Nowadays people see cheating as a normal thing |
| Romance › Re: I Failed Her Test Of Trust! Pls Advise.. by kuyola(op): 3:19pm On Oct 20, 2014 |
valdes00:beg ur pardon, no insults! |
| Romance › Re: I Failed Her Test Of Trust! Pls Advise.. by kuyola(op): 3:17pm On Oct 20, 2014 |
guys....please does dis really mean that she might be cheating on me?? she called me today and said she was quite disappointed at me, she couldn't believe it. 2 Likes |
| Romance › I Failed Her Test Of Trust! Pls Advise.. by kuyola(op): 2:23pm On Oct 20, 2014 |
She called me on fone that she needs some cash. she has travelled to her home town for an occasion, i guess she urgently needed some bar, it met me unawares as i just emptied my a/c in order to process my sch tins...I explained to her to be patient till the following thursday but she got agitated and she said she no longer needs the money...later on i received a text form her line...a man promised to give me 10k but on 2 conditions[/i]. I told her to tell me who the man is and why he wants to give her money, she didnt ans me at all, she told me, is it my business??..later another text enterd reading...[i]" we'll meet tomorrow at the hotel, thanks the items you bought for me looks nice on me", This time my head sparked and i spoke angrily with her and told her that she owns her life and she decides to do what she pleases her with it, why did i say this?? i know her for one thing, whatever she says she would do, she always does it! I guess i only over-reacted and fell for the trick to the extent that i was asking her why those text continually dropped on my box and she said it was a mistake. later she sent me a text before bed time and told me i was all a drill but i failed her,that she would never sell her body to any man in order to get money.... now she is angry with me that i do not trust her. Pls how do i make her understand that i still love and trust her.[/i][i] |
| Romance › My Lady Longs To Be With Me But I Don't Have Much Time To Spend With Her by kuyola(op): 4:56pm On Oct 16, 2014 |
I have not had much time to talk, chat and spend time with my girl and its really affecting our love as she is been disturbed by other guys of which she tells me sometimes about. I really do not want to lose her, am just very busy, the only time i have chance to call her is either early in the morning and late at night but this is not enough. I also visit her some weekends, we do not live close, thats anoda factor. Please advise me....How can i make this work for us cos i do not want her to end up cheating on me. |
| Romance › Re: Help. My Boyfriend Has "Mouth Odour" And He Always Wants Me To Kiss Him• by kuyola(m): 4:41pm On Oct 16, 2014 |
the main thing is that even after you might have told him,and he does sth about it, will u still av the confidence to do dat after the thought of what u experienced the first time ? |
| Romance › Re: We Quarrel Cos I Don't Call Her 3 Times A Day by kuyola(op): 1:19pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
100Cents: You should just tell us that you are phu.cking an underaged girl.She isnt underaged....she much more matured |
| Romance › We Quarrel Cos I Don't Call Her 3 Times A Day by kuyola(op): 4:32pm On Sep 25, 2014 |
mhen! i dont know how else to call this, i am in love with a lady who happens to be young school leaver and seeking admission. She is always unhappy when i do not call her sometimes when i am very busy. Normally i call her like twice a day, morning and evening but recently she just asked me to call her every morning, afternoon , evening and even before going to bed at night just for her to be at peace cos we dont get to see dat much, and she worries alot. i know her for that? After all these i apologize to her buh she gets pissed for a long time. We come back again.......and then.....again.......come back again. She should also call me in the same way that i call her.....isn't it? Must i do all the calling? Pls advise.  |
| Romance › Re: Should A Lady Propose Marriage? by kuyola(op): 5:06pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
i usually say that 'only God knows tomorrow' and she'll just get angry |
| Romance › Re: Should A Lady Propose Marriage? by kuyola(op): 1:38pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
yeah |
| Romance › Should A Lady Propose Marriage? by kuyola(op): 1:31pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
My lady is 18, and i am 6 years older than her, we love each other very much just like Romeo and Juliet. We had a discussion last night, she asked me if i love her very much. I told her that i do love her....buh of cos i do. She asked me to promise her that i am going to marry her, hmm...that was a question that i am supposed to ask her right? I was silent for a while, i didn't give her a reply. Then after some minute, i told her that I'll think about it. she then told me that i wasn't willing to have her as my wife...she cried for a moment, my heart could not bear to see her crying She is asthmatic and scared that she might lose me to another person as 'no one has ever loved and cared for her the way i do'...she says sometimes. I asked her sometime ago that if i left her that would she go on with life and love someone else....guess what she told me,,she said i would only find out the next day that she drank poison. I was afraid that she might hurt herself because of me....hmm, I'm really confused now that i feel like am only doing her a favor being with her. I'd love to have her as my future wife but I reserve the right to propose marriage as a man. I do not want to feel like i am doing her a favor by taking her as my wife despite she is asthmatic as though i don't even consider that. She ask me questions like...'What if something happened to her after after we got married, what of the stress of treatment Buh she asked me to promise her of marrying her, so i am damn confused... |
| Romance › Re: Love Songs That Created Impact in Your Relationship by kuyola(m): 4:19pm On Sep 08, 2014 |
unbreakable- by west life[b][/b] |
| Romance › Re: As A Guy,can You Cope With A Lady Who Is Asthmatic?? by kuyola(op): 10:39am On Sep 05, 2014 |
@slap1....no she is not. |
| Romance › As A Guy,can You Cope With A Lady Who Is Asthmatic?? by kuyola(op): 4:59pm On Sep 04, 2014*. Modified: 12:44pm On Sep 05, 2014 |
Dayo is one of my very good friend. He has a girlfriend whom he has been dating for a year now, they love each other so much that i wonder sometimes if they would be able to survive without being togeda..Recently, dayo just discovered that she was an asthmatic patient after which she complained of chest pain recently. They have been togeda for a while now and they have agreed already that they would not leave each other no matter what, that was before he got to know. Dayo wants four kids and she says two kids but dayo disagrees that he wants four kids and nothing more[/i][i].She explained her ordeal to him that she once had an operation when she was small cos of Asthma. They aren't married yet but engaged already...any attempt to leave her alone could lead to something else as he had once tried it and it lead to a very big emotional stress, or even fall ill.[b][/b] The Question is... Can he cope with her especially when she is about to give birth? OR Is there any complications that might surface later on....especially during love making periods. Please your urgent advice is required....thanks! |
| Romance › Re: Slim Guy And A Chubby Lady...whats Your Opinion? by kuyola(op): 12:37pm On Aug 25, 2014 |
@thatchick i am not short, i am tall but slim compared to her size. @benzzyno...I don't av her permission to post her pic... |
| Romance › Re: Slim Guy And A Chubby Lady...whats Your Opinion? by kuyola(op): 4:25pm On Aug 22, 2014 |
@tymax... Think you have a point.....maybe i'll advise her to do some routines in order for me to be able to carry her too |
| Romance › Re: Slim Guy And A Chubby Lady...whats Your Opinion? by kuyola(op): 4:21pm On Aug 22, 2014 |
@Benzzyno What is pinshures pls? |
| Romance › Slim Guy And A Chubby Lady...whats Your Opinion? by kuyola(op): 3:21pm On Aug 22, 2014 |
I have a pretty girlfriend, she is wonderful as there are so many things in her life that i love. She's chubby, when i mean chubby, not a shapeless one but she's moderately fat and i like her like that...but people keep saying sort of things like...She is not your size, though i am 5 years older than her......She looks like your aunty....You are not contented...., you went ahead to pick what is more for you,, some would even say maybe its because of her natural endowment that i am dating her...All these they mentioned baffled me alot dat i started wondering... Pls must a slim guy date a slim girl? afterall na matter of choice. Abeg wetin una go advise me concerning this? |
| Romance › Re: Jealousy- For Men Is It Really Normal And Common by kuyola(op): 4:46pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
[quote author=xp17][color=#000099]XP17, metcheeew for you too. |
| Romance › Jealousy- For Men Is It Really Normal And Common by kuyola(op): 3:20pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
Recently, i was just coming back from work place and i bumped into my girlfriend walking side-by-side with a guy, just a few yards from her house  ... Then in my mind i kept wondering what was happening, so i decided to call her at that point in time. Her phone rang and she picked...."hello my dear", then i asked where are you now, she answered- i am walking down my street. Then i asked, are you alone? she said no that why did i ask, i told her never mind....later in the night i called her and asked who she was with and she said it was her nephew....lols |
| Dating And Meet-up Zone › **relationship Without Sex** by kuyola(op): 11:58am On Jul 28, 2014 |
Being in a relationship is fun, but sexuality has it own role to play, can a relationship survive without sex. |
| Romance › How Do Define This? by kuyola(op): 7:57pm On Jul 25, 2014 |
1. Love at first sight? does it really exist. 2. When u meet someone on d social media, does it lead to true love. 3. You av been friends for so long, nw it turned out u av feelings 4 her, and u tell her buh she doesnt see u as her lover but as a friend. D questn is which 1 can turn out to be true love? |
| Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Wants Me To Be The Man To Disvirgin Her Or Someone Else Does It by kuyola(op): 11:27pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
@NELDRIZZY, hmm...i tink am learning sometin from dat. |
| Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Wants Me To Be The Man To Disvirgin Her Or Someone Else Does It by kuyola(op): 11:24pm On Jul 20, 2014 |
Neldrizzy: Excatly wat myy X gf ask me to do... i rejected it, after so much persuasion from her, she got tired.. After about 2 months leta she now told mee that she wanted 2 use the virgin blood as an oath so that i wunt go after other girls..as i hear am naso i open mouth, unknowingly she wanted 2 imprisoned mee... i jst tank God for myy life, @ OP run from virgin girls, they are evil, they will destroy ur life, i believe you know wat is at stack wen you disvirgin a girl.. #blood convenat flows.. If she get backluck, evil spirit, sickness, or cause you sef go inherit am..... #be wise Neldrizzy: Excatly wat myy X gf ask me to do... i rejected it, after so much persuasion from her, she got tired.. After about 2 months leta she now told mee that she wanted 2 use the virgin blood as an oath so that i wunt go after other girls..as i hear am naso i open mouth, unknowingly she wanted 2 imprisoned mee... i jst tank God for myy life, @ OP run from virgin girls, they are evil, they will destroy ur life, i believe you know wat is at stack wen you disvirgin a girl.. #blood convenat flows.. If she get backluck, evil spirit, sickness, or cause you sef go inherit am..... #be wise Neldrizzy: Excatly wat myy X gf ask me to do... i rejected it, after so much persuasion from her, she got tired.. After about 2 months leta she now told mee that she wanted 2 use the virgin blood as an oath so that i wunt go after other girls..as i hear am naso i open mouth, unknowingly she wanted 2 imprisoned mee... i jst tank God for myy life, @ OP run from virgin girls, they are evil, they will destroy ur life, i believe you know wat is at stack wen you disvirgin a girl.. #blood convenat flows.. If she get backluck, evil spirit, sickness, or cause you sef go inherit am..... #be wise |
| Romance › Re: Mom Wants Me To Marry An Averagely Sized Lady But Not A Fat One by kuyola(op): 10:05pm On Jul 19, 2014 |
DrObum: Your mum loves you! |
| Jokes Etc › Re: Stupid Questions by kuyola(m): 4:31pm On Jul 18, 2014 |
Is your daddy a boy? |
